Paul CALLS OUT Made in Chelsea Miles on his behaviour | Celebs Go Dating 

Narcissism and control

yep, feeds his huge ego....he's pretty though so he could get away with acting like a fuckboy for years...he'd probably end up destroying his soul in the process

@@thehoneyeffect he’s a good looking fella so I feel like he thinks he can just chat waffle with girls and kind of just coast by with bland playful chat. I’m glad Paul clocked it

@@thehoneyeffect his father also enables him by belittling and brushing off accusations against Miles of being selfish, dishonest and a gameplayer, as funny or untrue.

I don’t think he received it or will ulter his ways though. He’s happy how he is clearly.

@@louisetaylorhales287 Very true. It will probably take a while for any of those words to hit home.

Finally.

@@louisetaylorhales287 well he gas made money acting like a f boy on tv for years.

100% Agree with you x

usually we can grow from our own mistakes and actions... but some people as rich as they are, can't afford it

@@mandapandajane that's a really good way of putting it

Defense not Defence, please do not be offended by my constructive criticism.

@@smithhoowe I'm English mate, it's the correct spelling 🤣.

He is super needy

😂😂😂😂 that was hilarious!

I think you’re spot on. I used to be the same with men I fancied and would just say “kiss me!” So we didn’t have to speak

Are u high?

That's so accurate!!! I know few guys like that

So true! I don't think he's naturally confident and has to project a different image.

No he's just a player

His reaction was no reaction

Yep.

Word

Amen!!!!++

100%

110%

People can have a couple of narcissistic traits and not full blown NPD. we have to be careful with that. Miles seems to me to have avoidant attachment. Many avoidant people, including myself, have a hard time getting into committed relationships due to childhood neglect and typically emotional abuse. Avoidant people stay single for very long--notice he's the only man on the show that hasn't had a committed relationship in the entirety of his time on the series. Also, avoidant people can enjoy short lived flings and casual romances because we have feelings of discomfort around sharing too much of our time with people. It makes sense that he was in a relationship with Maeva because it was long distance, AND she behaves anxiously attached, two relationship dynamics avoidants can get in a cycle of accepting. Of all the men from the history of MIC, I think Spencer Matthews had more traits of npd if we're gonna speculate, although I really don't like to do that. But people with NPD are codependent and need relationships in order to have a partner they can control, manipulate or feel better than. And Spencer was rarely single. He had a cycle of love bombing women, gaslighting them, blame-shifting, and discarding them on autopilot with a merry go round of new girls coming in just as another relationship ended. So he seems to fulfill that speculative diagnosis way more, but i still feel uncomfortable saying he has NPD because we don't spend enough quality time with these people to say that

@@amerikanka I remember Miles early seasons he was cute and somewhat unproblematic, and then he got popular online and had a physical body transformation to basically streamline all the compliments he got on his looks. I think having that much attention went to his head and he takes it as happiness. So much of his personality was built on his looks, It's hard to think what miles would be like if he wasn't good looking.

@@amerikanka can't disagree with your points.

The way he treated maeva yikes

Oh that's sad...

Most people anit but at surface level he seems a nice guy

Gaslighting is Miles standard operating procedure

I agree

and he still hasn't til this day (Nov 23/ Dec 23)

🤣🤣🤣

Go cry

💀

Rob Beckett :o)

Agree... 👏

Exactly! His name should be Veruca Nazaire instead of Miles

Albeit **

Probably his ex going off with his best friend...it was on mad ein chelsea 🤣 😮

Haha so true.

That's what they sign up for

Hahaha OMG I thought the same thing

Mad

Mad

Yeah he seems to be too into himself

I know right I love it 😍

What is he talking about? Didnt he hurt maeva 1st?

You mean a girl who will take his 🗑? There’s plenty out there but he won’t respect them & he will get bored. He needs to grow up & evolve then he will meet the girl he thinks he deserves otherwise he’ll be unfulfilled moving from girl to girl, & that’s not on the girl but him.

@@TulipaBigDipa he's for the streets

Oh but wait, she is coming... 🇦🇺

The kind of horoscopic essentialism without basis. If the lad is to improve, he ought to seek the kinds of constructive feedback borne out of the experiences Paul has had. Gazing into a crystal ball does not have a promising track record.

Where's the virtue signalling behaviour, he was called out on why he isn't being successful