Thanks for the video. I'm in my eighties. They used to call old guys who picked up younger girls "crib robbers". I'm a little confused. You asked for our opinions but then you said you don't care what we think. Anyway, when I was single, I didn't date women younger than 10 years. I act my age, I treat younger girls as daughters and help them in life. Women are not sex toys. When they see you treat them with respect, they appreciate it and value themselves more. They strive to be better and learn to avoid sex monsters. It's great to be a Father either by blood or by love alone.
You are doing it right. I think Kirk as a father himself needs to seriously ask this question- would I be okay with my daughter marrying a dude my age or having a son-in-law older than myself? If the answer is "no", then he shouldn't be subjecting other people's daughters to it either. If the answer is "yes", then it's time for the daughter to start asking herself- what kind of man is my father that he's okay with me being in relationships with men that have a very high likelihood of a power imbalance in the man's favor?
exactly,,,its a shame that old foreigners go to the PI just for sex, they try to justify it by saying the PI is great to live. Its just about sex, they are all just pervs
@MaxAmerica.Freedom Thank you for showing these girls respect and for helping them to learn to respect their bodies. It's sad to see young girls going out with men old enough to be their grandpa. We know that if they weren't desperately poor, they wouldn't go out with old nasty perverts, much less have sex with them. Men who take advantage of these young girls are despicable. Families who accept money from their daughters/sisters are no better than the old men who take advantage of them. Everyone benefits except for the girls. You deserve to be honored for your kindness. If your family knew what you're doing to help these girls, they would be rightfully proud of you. You are my hero.
Based on love... Are you joking? Put it this way: can you imagine yourself being 21 years young, marrying woman who is 58 year old? Because you love each other. Man, you are just looking for excuse or justification.
exactly,,,,the men that go to the Philippines are pedos and pervs,,,,Thats just the fact, look at those guys. I visited the Philippines many times because many of my friends in the USA are filipino and coworkers. I went there for surfing and biking the islands, i saw so many fat, bald, uneducated Americans there. Losers in their country, from which they could never find a woman. I talked with many of them when i was in cebu, all they talked about was how many girls they donked,,,,complete losers in life
@@dsrrellgriffith1161 "the men that go to the Philippines are pedos and pervs", " I went there for surfing and biking the islands", Sounds like a confession. You went to the Philippines and had no attraction to the women. Are you gay? If a guy is fat and balding and has a 25 yo girl, it speaks volumes what a woman REALLY want.
I liked and subscribed. I really liked this video and it will be interesting to se more of your content. May I be curious and ask why you picked that city as your destination, and what other cities you plan to visit?
@ 1:33 , “How can a young girl be attracted to an older guy?” asked Gweilo60? For the old Filipino men, the answer is it’s impossible. For the old Gringo it’s the Green Card and big deep pockets.
When I went there when I was 9 and 12. I was being hit on by 17-20 year old girls which creeped me the hell out at the time but I guess that was normal?... I probably almost got groomed. I went back at 20 yrs old and I'm being hit on by 26-40 year old women now😂😂 they touch you too hey, which I'm okay with. I'm not gonna scream out SA for a hand grab, but its so different out there. Edit: A lot of them are super nice. Haven't had one ask me about money or status. They're always very chill and kind.
Because you look at it through your narrow minded scope. It's a win win situation. She wants financial stability and doesn't so much care about physical attractiveness. He wants physical attention and doesn't care about what others think. These arrangements are usually very stable. I have friends who are married to them. They are very good women.
The thing is, it's an age difference but its mainly an economic difference. Its exploitation pure and simple. Why would a 20 yr old want to be with a 60 yr old? Would they look to be with a local 60 yr old? Of course not. Never. Because no rich older man from their country would date them. And they DO see age, just older= easy prey, more cash, more lonely, more desperate.
A lot of Filipinas are single moms from a very young age, 14+. The father's of their babies usually disappear before the babies born leaving the girls impoverished family with another mouth to feed and it's usually the end of her education chances also. Her prospects are usually nil after that because no Filipino guy will marry her and take care of someone else's kid so she ends up a single mum living at home with no life. The prospect of an older father figure to rescue her and her kid is wonderful for her and her family even if she's 19 and the man is 60+. He removed the burden on the family and lifts her out of poverty and gives her a life. Trying to pick up a younger girl in college with prospects in life is a totally different story here for an older guy. Most aren't interested in foreigners
@@cosmickiwi08 you are not much right my friend my wife was a student and we got well along and we married last december me is 47 she is now 21 Congrats to me🤣🤣
First time viewer although I watch a lot of videos from the Filipins. I found your honest opinions to be refreshing. Also, very happy to hear that the rats are reclusive.
Right, the age may not be the problem but the financial part is absolutely an attractive thing. If the old guy doesn't have any money, the young girl will surely leave him.
Excellent travel video podcast and I like what you saying . It's good to see older man giving his opinion about travelling in south east Asia. Brilliant video 🇵🇭🇹🇭🇭🇰🇻🇳🇲🇦
A friend of mine I backpacked through Thailand @ lao with married a beautiful Philippines lady. She's just wonderful @ they now have 11 year old daughter @ very happy. The rather large age gap was never a problem. I did similar with Thailand lady. I still get the "look" but don't let it bother me. 12 years of happy 😊. I call that a successful life.
Common. Most at least are not attracted to you. They're just looking for a different lifestyle. A guy your age should know that especially since you've been living outside the big cities in China for so long. Think about it. Why would a young woman be attracted to you? Nevertheless, live your life and enjoy yourself!
"Most at least are not attracted to you. They're just looking for a different lifestyle". This actually goes for all women. A guy YOUR age should know this by now. "Why would a young woman be attracted to you" is a question of ignorance. If you would talk to most Filipinas they will tell you it's how the man treats her that makes the difference. Not how he looks. Men are attracted by what they see (Long hair, pretty eyes, Breast size, legs, etc.) . Women are attracted by emotion. (Kindness, interest in her needs, thoughtfulness to her wishes).
Things cost about twice as much in Philippines than in China. That is what i have figured out. So if you can live in China, you can live very well except the female companion part, which costs quite a bit.
Sorry, either you must have money or provide the chance for her to move to your first world home country, otherwise there's no "luv" for you. Yes, age makes no difference but money does. That's the reality.
Been there twice coming out for a third time and I’ll be meeting up with a 32-year-old female. The previous one I met was 35. They both have bachelors degrees they both average around 25 to 30,000 pesos a month. They didn’t need anything from me. The sad truth is when they get in their 30s. They find it hard to find men of their own culture who will date them because people think they’re too old, I’ll be starting July 19 hoping to stay for six months this time. Got a bunch of shots for traveling. Learned a lot of the previous two times really I’m looking for a permanent future mate. Good luck to all you men and women.
You are killing it! The theme of a western man intrigued by an eastern woman is as old as the hills. And yet still enticing. The alure of living in a very low cost of living area surrounded by young beautiful woman who have no 'tude' and you have the financial means to support them properly, what's not to love? It is the closest thing to heaven the common western man will ever find in this life.
It's not about age. It's about respect. You should respect children, the elderly, adults and youth all the same. If you think as yourself as lowly and everyone else as high, then love everyone equally. Be kind to everyone. "We are the flowers of one garden, the leaves of one tree"
Kirk, in the long run, you might find more caring in a middle-aged Chinese lady. You could dance in the Nanning parks together. Young Filipinas are pretty, but you will grow old and they will leave. A bottle of Jack Daniels Whiskey has a longer shelf life.
Lol. My girl is 58, 13 years younger but is in FINE shape EXCELLENT in fact and has a beautiful personality ❤️ , warm, affectionate etc etc and no I'm not rich
@@M-rp3gq13 is not an insurmountable age gap. If you said 20 years age difference, that'd be a different story. I think a range of around 15 years is a decent cut off line, but anything beyond that starts to give off cradle robber vibes of "dude, you were already a grown-ass adult when your partner was just born".
Went to the comments expecting judgment, warnings, trolls, and general disapproval -- which is what you got in spades. Live your life, man. As you well know with Weifang, life is short and longevity is promised to no one.
A dose of reality, rather. If he is looking for pure fun and debauchery, it's aplenty, especially since he is a white Westerner and better if he has lots of money . If he is looking for more than that , he should understand reality and be cautious about the "friendliness". He should be clear about that. In general, I agree with you about him living his life as he wishes.
Your comment is appreciated. I am living for today and having a good time. There are always the nay sayers and trolls that try to take you down to their level. I simply scoff and smile when i read their comments. I live my life for me now. Before i did it for Weifang but she is no longer here to take care of. The next lady I meet might be someone that is special to me so I will keep looking. Never give up your dreams of a better future and always always think tomorrow can bring miracles.
@@Gweilo60 I'm 51 and my fiance is 29, we love each other very much, my family approves and I'd go as far as saying they love her as much as I do. Let nobody tell you what to do with your life, those that are judgemental and trolling you, have more than likely been in failed relationships and the big green eyed monster is prowling. Have you tried Red Horse yet? Nothing like a cold beer a beautiful lady to share a good feed of lechon and maybe a Halo Halo with 😂 enjoy yourself bud
My Thai wife of 13 years now was a 19 year old university intern when I met her working here in Thailand. I married her at 20 and I was 50. We couldn’t be happier and expecting our first child in July after years of doctors telling her she couldn’t conceive. At 64 would I date a 20 year old now if I were single though? No I would not. Would not have the energy for that ride! But if you do go for it. Why not? You’ll get to see the world anew through her young eyes like I did and still do!. And yes she will genuinely love you if you treat her well. Don’t let any of these fools tell you otherwise Just better be able to afford it. Still cheaper than any American woman though and you’ll be treated so much better. And you will be helping her family and you should if you’re taking her out of the workforce to be with you full time. Just the culture. Being able to provide is what defines you as a man here whether you are a native or foreigner. If that’s an issue seriously don’t date a young Filipina or Thai woman.
@@pmf822 Most Thai females don't like western males, those who do are mostly for the money or chance to live in a foreign country. Each year millions of western men visit Thailand but most Thai females don't take a look at western men on the streets, this is why western men have to find "working females" in bars.
@@Anonymous------ In Thailand there's a surplus of women though, because a significant portion of the men are also woMen. Maybe that's also a reason why they throw themselves at whyte foreigners. As a foreigner in the dating culture, you'll need to be careful whether you pick up a Thai woman or a Thai woMan, but maybe some of y'all dig the ladiques.
@ 15:25 , the Philippines has always been rich in natural and human resources; these qualities attracted greedy colonialists such as the Dutch, Spanish, Japanese, and Americans. Today, the Philippines is poor due to the exploitation of past colonialism and present government corruption that sells out the interest of the common Filipinos people.
Most of those who approach foreigners are the low flying birds or who are poor, we have a lot of that here, poverty I mean, not the types even the middle class here would have a relation with.
Most Filipinos live in poverty ,but they still elected the son of the megacorrupter BongBong yhat had made them suffer,kind of weird ,Gwelo if you love to have fun with Pilipino girls,go for it,but usually regret comes later
@@franklay5605 I guess they are both 😂, but most of all they don't have any chance to get out from this vicious circle of corruption and poverty. At the last elections Marcos promised at every debate that he would remain neutral between China and US and would continue with the fight to corruption and to drugs (as was started by ex-President Duterte). Of course, when he was elected he did the complete opposite. He's as corrupt as the Aquino's and his father and mother. Filipinos were lied to, and for their presidential alternatives had only other corrupted politicians (Lenny Robredo is Aquino's lapdog). The only hope would have been Sara Duterte, that was deceived to run for VP by Marcos. Is there no hope for Filipinos?
To answer the question, if you are looking for a night or two of fun then 18 and up. But, if you are seriously looking for a girlfriend or wife I would say at least 30 years old and up.
True but I have lived as an expat for over 20 years. I am a Philippine virgin and I am loving the experience. I see what I see and hope i tell the truth of my experiences
True but I have lived as an expat for over 20 years. I am a Philippine virgin and I am loving the experience. I see what I see and hope i tell the truth of my experiences
If I was to date a young girl let's say 21 and I'm 68 your Common sense should tell you this is a business transaction which may turn into love you never know but highly unlikely.
@@thelogician1934i dont have a washboard also not fat and for sure i am not a millionaire After a lit of ldr with filioina i started to travel there and meet them in person First of them i has meet in Dubai fir vacation Last two years i travel regularly to PH In 2023 i was 3 times in vacation in PH And finally after many shit i found the true Diamond We have age gap yes But not that to much Me is 47 my Wife is now 21 We got married last December
So I gotta comment. I've had this thought also. It's obvious that if you are in a foreign country that you had the money to travel there. The younger girls in their 20's will notice. But it's not advised you get tangled with them. They can really mess up your life and use you in very bad ways. It's not just the Philippines. That goes for women everywhere. I'm 60 and I don't think I would go lower than 30. Of course the problem with that is that most in that age range have a child or 2. Hard to accept raising children that don't carry your genes. Then if she wants a child with you, you will always favor that child over hers. It's just the way it is. As far as Tampo, best to know how to handle it. As far as supporting her family, know when to say no. Be wise enough to show them when it means no and why. Crossing culture lines is hard but it can produce some true love stories.
Would a 18-year-old Pina marry a 60-year-old poor Bangladesh man without money, a home and a job? Most unlikely, but most likely if the man is with money from a first world nation. Money = Love
Nice video. Just want to caution you though that giving money to panhandlers is illegal there. Just warning you and saving you from an unnecessary arrest.
They are all kind hearted and beautiful. I am not sure there is a difference except the Philippine girls like to dance and sing more and the Chinese girls are more serious.
Great video, "spot on at 12:00", Philipines & Thai women do not have the I''m better than you, arrogant complex, we have here with western women,they are down to earth approachable, considerate, I observed this in Thailand & hope to also visit Philipines, they are wonderful women.
Well, I guess it's because they speak english, nothing else I feel, It's hard to live in China if you don't speak english. I have a Chinese partner and we went back to China last year to see her family, she hadn't been back for years, I loved the place and they were all so kind to me but I can tell you, I also don't speak Chinese and if I did not have my partner there to guide me, I would have been screwed, so, I totally get why Kirk want's to be somewhere, so as he can understand, I would choose Thailand any day over the Phillipines and he may do that yet, once he has been there, but each to their own
40 pesos for a beggar is too much. Just give 1 peso is ok or dont give is ok too. Once u give 1 beggar, u will soon be surrounded with hundreds of beggars everyday , 24 hours a day waiting for u at hotel where u are staying
Definitely that is part of it as there are many very poor people throughout the Philippines. The young lady may be searching for a way out of poverty and a foreign man could be that ticket.
The basic requirement of hotel accommodation in this part of the world is (for me) responsive air-conditioning. All else is secondary. A clean comfortable bed is next (preferably with strong springs!). Beyond these considerations the rest doesn't natter all that much, but one should expect to fulfill these two basic conditions for no more than $20 US. As far as age difference is concerned, as long as the females are old enough, and cognizant enough, then It is a private relationship/understanding between the two and not really anyone else's business. Never been to Philippines but always liked San Miguel brews when in HK. Good luck to you
If u go to the city areas, it maybe different. In China as i travelled from the cities to the countryside, the sale girls' & waitress' attitudes getting better & better & they are good looking, too. What say u, G60?
My friend married Phillipino she is 25 years younger than Flintstone my friend Why they don’t care how old you are the older the better It a code of country to enrich the Philippines any way you can marry a foreigner love him like he never has had and get what he has when he dies His wife got executor of his fathers will 110 ounces of gold she took sent to the money home plus cash over $500,000 total He found out a few years later but says as long as she looks after so be it I didn’t know it was there the gold etc She bought a piece of land the size of 3 football fields Terraced gardens on the hills like china From a 2 room clapboard tin roof to a 2 story 3500Square feet Brick blocks running water lighting a rooftop patio She robbed him Be careful with them
Nothing is equal in the wild for men and women. However, it is relatively safe for women to travel in the Philippines. Beware of traveling in the jeepneys because people can rob you with knives; especially, at night. Night is always dangerous for a woman.
This guy is not creepy, he’s smart. I’ve been doing what he does for 20 years and I’m worth 23 million usd. Idaf that they want my money because they will get it anyway. I like to eat with them and look at them on the knob. My wife back in the states while I’m here in chile is very proud of me and actually calls me stud muffin.
Filipino people are very friendly. I have relatives from that part of the world and I love them. I'm not Filipino but I also think the Filipinas are beautiful. Liking young girls is not a crime (as long as you're not abusing them). But please do not bad mouth the women of mature years. If you bother to look around , you'll see nowadays, the older generation , which yourself is one, is generally living a happy and healthy lifestyle. Older women are not "old hags". In Canada and many parts of the world there are clubs for people 55 and over. Let me tell you what activities are offered from these clubs. Exercise, dancing , parties and trips to all parts of the world and many more things to do. These "old hags" are not looking for men like you. They want to live their lives with dignity. They love being single because they do not have to answer to anyone. Someone should make a documentary about this group of people. I use the word people here because there are older men as well. I'm sure there are a lot of people out there who 'll agree with me.
There are some comments in here that like to play the devils advocate like “You only live once or it’s your life so go for a Filipina” if the poor sod takes your advice are you going to be compensating $ him if they get scammed?? Obviously not in fact they’d sneer at you and say I didn’t force you on taking my bum steer advices. There’s always some dip 💩 in every group giving bum steer advices. Take heed don’t listen to them
It may probably moving away from China to the Philippines! I visited there twice in my life and five times to China! I don't like the hot and humid climate . Have a wonderful time there!
The last 2 days in Toronto Canada 🇨🇦 is hot 🔥 with humidity around 35 degrees thanks for sharing your video take care bye from milton Ontario Canada 🇨🇦
I run into they never seem to have change so I need it. The 1 cent coins I give away. At places like the bakery they were making change to give my 30 pesos back and said keep it. I know, I am single handedly ruining the Philippines
Sugar Daddy in denial 😆. That’s what makes you so sad, Kirk. A true Playa knows the game and plays it . Enjoy yourself but don’t fool yourself. Old guys with cash to spend go to countries like the Philippines and Thailand to meet beautiful young girls and have fun. Nothing new there.
Everyone has their opinion. I let all the comments stand as it shows the polarized view of what people from around the world think about the subjects I talk about in my videos.
I’m from the United Kingdom so how much is bucks in my Currency which is pounds. Just thought I would let you know not all of your audience is from the USA.
I talk Canadian cash but in pounds you can live here for about 1650 a month like a king. Life is short so the sooner you move the faster you will be happy.