Phillip and Brittany Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli 

I was even hoping to see a clip of the girls, the girl in red dress, i can't recall too,

Definitely agree

Totally agrees with this, they need to start inserting clips cuz honestly I've watched all the episodes and I can't remember half of them just by mentions

I agree because I have to search for the show to find some of these couples which is annoying

The way she asked him "phillip. why did u unfollow me, and then follow me back 🤣. why phillip! 🐐🥰 I love that she let us know that 😁

This!! She's doing a great job

@@misiedjanarmanda829 absolutely agree with yall

I agree ‼️👏🏽

no really 😭 i admire her professionalism!

Well said. She started uploading quicker and more consistently,(which is what viewers recommended) and thats all that needed to change.

I just ask myself that lol

Most of the time lol

Everytime😂

@@belle8338 😂😂😂😂

@@rza380. no fr😂🙆🏽🤭

She has a man already. 😂

I Agree🩷

How is she such a sweetheart, when she came on the show already in a relationship????🥴

@@paragonn22 She wasn't in a relationship, he started talking to another girl from the show (Brenda in the red dress) and Brenda was in a relationship.

Exactly. People make time for what they want to make time for

Exactly!!!!

They are if they're NOT interested! She should have taken the hint and GRACEFULLY moved on!

@@reginadavis7499exactly

Bro was just yapping all through

I was thinking the SAME thing.

You missed the part where she wasn't single when she came on the show

⁠@@dazzypeters6793he was referring to Brenda (Red Dress) not the women he matched with and snubbed for

Only because the communication and the click seemed better with the other one. therefor a show like this can turn into a ''love match or not.

He is strange.

I found it disrespectful that he spent more time talking about Brenda instead of really address the way he wants about his communication with Brittany. He said he doesn't like texting, but did he even express that to Brittany, this after he kept telling her he was too busy smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

😂I know right and cheesing hard. I am rooting for them. They are on a different level.

And this bro can't even spare 5 secs to send a text 😭

@@chameikabrooks1234 yess, they both just seem so healthy minded and motivated in finding love. I rooting for them as well and I hope Arlette gives us another update on them in a few months!

@@Nicolacaiii I hope for an update too.

Good one!!!!😂

lol

Exactly

Definitely. Can't just be straight up

Literally 😂

Exactly! I was hella confused. He kept talking about communication but wasn’t communicating.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hahaha 😂😂

Well said ms crystal

​@draughtsman16 Especially when he has time to go gym...

Philip did say he was having doubts. Why cloud your judgement with a distraction as you're trying to make a decision. Kudos to the way he handled it. Besides, they just met, and he was very transparent. ...this is how an emotionally mature person handles things.

@@desireetamara8482 i feel like it would've been emotionally mature if he would've communicated this without her having to reach out to him. They handled this follow up episode really well though.

From what I heard, he was planning to. The guy had just returned, and she just happened to reach out to him first. I learned this from my Dad... you ever notice how mature men are even keel and never seem to get upset or yell? It's because they're disciplined in and prioritize things in their daily life. The man just returned from a multi day trip. Going to the gym may not be a high priority for most, but it's like eating breakfast for some. A priority. A must. ...

You see the wagon, hard 2 forget!

He didn't really like her from the get-go. He's just explaining rubbish. If he liked her, we won't be hearing all this talk.

She called him. He left her his number. You gotta listen lol

@@ThurstMETV he could’ve ended the conversation after 10 minutes or so, since he’s so busy. A whole hour?

@@ThurstMETV exactly

Amen. That's The Word of God.

Everybody should be open minded in the extreme beginning stages of a possible courtship. They agreed to A. Date. That’s not the same as WE’RE DATING.

@@Asdfghjklsemicolonyes and remember that she said she’s had loads of new followers.. she may have gone on a few dates who knows.

She got a whole man 😂......we gonna pretend like we ain't hear that #accountability ladies

Selah

You not that busy

Right??? My question is why did it take an hour for him to figure out she was in a relationship? 💁🏾‍♀️

Exactly….. and why she called him if she was in a relationship?! If I’m not mistaken he gave his number to someone to give to her and she called

☝🏾 cuz any other time she will ask a question someone just ANSWERED! Like the contestants. Smh

😂😂

We will never know the whole story unless Arlette invites Brenda to tell her. He was messy!

Can’t do that though. That’s too much like right. 🤣😂

Phillip- an Over Analysing 🧐Nerd, who is scared of rejection . Go get your Becky bro, stop 🛑 the CAP

Over analyzing nerd is best case scenario. Maybe they’ll be able to get Brenda on tell her side. The character assassination he did was crazy. Even his “compliments “ to Brittany were actually shade at her. She’s not single, implying everything she said was just to portray a false image and then say there’s more but he doesn’t want to denigrate her. He had to realize people imaginations would go wild and whatever they came up with would be 10x worse.

He spoke to Brenda after he cut it off with Tiffany not during

He spoke to Brenda after he cut it off with Brittany

She got a man already.

I agree with that 100%. Also, in this case I think she dodged a bullet. He seems to complicate small things. Not that those things are small to him but he tends to think ahead to the point of "you're the only one thinking that".

@@AwayWeGo747he’s articulate and thoughtful … yall ain’t used to men with boundaries and are deep thinkers

How???? ​@@AwayWeGo747

@AwayWeGo747 of course you would demonize him.

I agree!! These catchups have reminded me not to judge so quickly. I think we should all go back to taking our time, and fully getting to know someone before writing them. Not being so quick to assume based on one interaction, or experiences from our past! Wow Arlette is helping heal the black community in an unexpected way.

I agree with that. He just wasn't that interested.

Spot on

🎯

That’s all folks 🫡✌🏾

Yep

ORRRR...He would've done exactly what he did in taking the time to analyze & confirm his feelings/thoughts. Do u people even know what the definition of gaslighting is? Anyhow...ur sitting here as a spectator judging his actions having not walked a mile in his shoes. It's not an easy feeling to go thru a new process like this invest time & energy, PUBLICALLY...make a decision then feel a tug that contrary to ur decision & act on that immediately. He was sitting in front of a relatively decent person. Nobody feels comfortable rejecting someone an hour after meeting & selecting them. ...knock it off. He appears to have put relatively heavy thought into his process & did what was necessary eventually.

@@Mr.Oct___ who brought up the conversation after flagging him down? Cut the crap bro. 🙄 A man this thoughtful and calculated isn’t suddenly dumb for an entire week. Cut the cameras!

Honesty earns respect. Men need to learn to speak their mind. Men are to protect woman. That for me could be in the form of rejection. You are protecting the woman from being confused and in her feelings. **The hurt will be temporary, but the respect will be longterm.

​​@@Mr.Oct___He said he knew she only wanted one child. His response for not wanting to pressure someone in that way was great. He should've cut things off from there because that's a deal breaker. Being on the show and matching is only the start of getting to know each other. I don't think any sensible person would be offended after meeting on the show and they end up not being compatible. It's all about being honest and cordial.

@@christopherdavis6918 @christopherdavis6918 I don't agree w/ the stonewalling/stalling. He could have been more considerate. However...as I said, it's easy to sit in judgement from the sideline & play Monday morning Qb. & I suspect he was doing some internal wrestling regarding what happened & what to do next...especially, if it means going back on ur word ANNNND having to disappoint a seemingly nice person. He didn't sleep w/ her & ghost her...stick her w/ any unpaid bills...Fill her head up w/ any pipe-dreams....None of what ur suggesting. He simply took his time to reconcile & confirm his thoughts & feelings....I take very little issue w/ those actions.

😂😂😂😂

Because he is hurt, he couldn't get Brenda. She isn't single, and his expectations were dashed

Even how she mitigates “negative” or shocking revelations she handles it like such a pro!!

Exactly when I used to date I stopped giving out my socials. Ppl just want to see who you follow and compare etc

You know the answer to that. 🎶Cue the music 🎶 they do anything for clout x2

This I can agree with…. They weren’t compatible and I don’t think any of the women really matched his energy …

I think she was hurt by the fact that he starting acting unfriendly without communicating that he was no longer interested. That was so damn immature!

Why would you ignore the fact that she had a bf at the time and is a sex worker? Lol y’all are allergic to accountability

Seriously!!

I agree. I think they should do a segment where they follow up with them on what they would have done differently and if they still would have chose the person they chose. That would be interesting

Lol very

Af!!!!!

😂😂😂😂

& asking her “Anything else??” SIR, say what you have to say..

lmaooooooooo I thought it was just me

I mean, the bar is in hell with this one, but relative to a lot of women - facts. She displayed maturity

He's low key a Jerk!

He was playing. She definitely seemed like she came for the right reasons

@@GT-mc2ujnah fr😂 most ladies in 2024 are not doing that tbh

That was her hypergamist nature. His SMV is higher than hers

20:27 time stamp 🫨

Easy to say from the sideline.

@@Mr.Oct___he literally mentioned he was speaking to Brenda. Literally from the horses mouth. Aint no “sideline”

Very unnecessary.

He was upfront you just wasn’t listening 😂

@@MsPinkyyy717it wasn’t at the SAME TIME lol he also mentioned that too

😂😂😂

You get it!

Exactly he full of it

Nah cuz some women be claiming men are overbearing if they reach out too much lol

She don't run nothing tho lol mad after two days gives Desperate vibes

@@EarthhasfallenTV😂

Oh plz…..if he did bring it up y’all(comments) would be criticizing him even more. I can already see it “ Why he thinking about her?” or “He’s so rude!!”. Can’t win sometimes💀

@@lobmob3235who hurt you? Lil boy

@@reneejordan2283 you tried it lol. Do better

That's YOUR experience. Rejections & acceptances don't happen like that routinely. There's nothing wrong w/ reconciling conflicting thought/feelings.

@@Mr.Oct___ If you are really interested in someone it's obvious. There is no question about it. And there's not all this red tape with plans etc. He basically proved my point. He's not interested in her.

@PrettiBelle That's false. There are degrees in levels of interest...like most other things in life.

@@Mr.Oct___ If you are truly interested in a woman she won't question it. It'll be obvious if you are actively pursuing her. And again, he wasn't interested that's why there was red tape and confusion

@PrettiBelle There was no confusion. He was interested enough to select her above everyone else on the panel.. He was decisive enough to spend time alone directly following the show. More variables & factors came into play over that 72 hr period. He considered them and made his choice. It's very simple. She wasn't the right fit.

The weekend being doing this the entire series lol.

Why is the girl on the show if she isn’t single? Don’t skip over that you simp

for real!!!! I dont understand that!

He should have came to the filming looking like this.

😂😂😂

🤣🤣🤣 I'm shocked too

She is now 😅😂

​@@123gollc9😂😂😂

Omg 😂😂😂😂😂

😆😆😆😆😆

@@darvennorris well, excuse you. It is kind of his and this shows business when a 3o4 comes to the show and pretends to be single when in fact she is not. Would you have the same energy if a guy did that? do think so, so keep pushing and mind your own business. 3o4s like her have no place in a dating show for Singles.....

@@darvennorris so many red flags from the dude most men in the comments think he did great. Smh lol P.S real men don’t kiss and tell. Buddy out here spilling the tea

I was just about to write that!

Yet he had an hour to speak to Brenda(red dress), who was in a relationship...

​@@luzluna6808 when he was talking about that it looked like Brittany was holding back tears, she was hurt she is not fooling me

She's so animated 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@themelanatedsistahwhat’s her zodiac sign?

"that all you gat" is crazy to me.😂😂😂

Sabertooth is crazy 😂 you gotta behave

Sabertooth lol

Dude is far from goofy and this was really and truly a case of projection …. She was the entire goofiest person on this show so far

She had that captain of the softball team for St. Lukes, didnt she?

Listen she didnt want to cap with yall 🤣

We all need to know 😂

Y’all wrong 😅😅😅

Haha doubt they’re together cause he was in my dm’s 😂😂

@@alisonbudhu2666 🤣

@@alisonbudhu2666Terence does it to himself smh I want bro to succeed but he go after every woman

He gotta be able to tell her he not interested. As men we shouldn't conduct ourselves in ways where there isn't clarity. It sounds good to say it now but he could've been said it

He's very much into himself. Not my type at all

She's solid

You can see she really wanted him on the show and she still do but I think she a little too country for him😂

Yes we know simpdogg

@@db3917really? She looks unbothered like she don’t really care.

@@anonymousanonymous4868 that’s just the mature way of taking rejection 😂 I do it all the time when I really wanted some fine shit

It’s that coach mentality lol.

I don't find him to be that good looking.

He has a great face & bone structure. Could see him doing print modeling if he shaved his head.

Same for a MAN

@@godsownson2469 absolutely!!!

Why not?! Don't want to be rejected? 😅

@@bonafide242 he’s clearly not interested so why chase?

Exactly cause they just not into you

In good way or bad way! 😂

This part. He really a man’s man!

He could have simply let her know hey this isn't gonna work for me instead of not communicating and leaving her wondering. Nothing about that says man.

He doesn't know what he wants or he would would be able to be clear with her about it. He got an idea but can tell it just sounds good

@@elleurfavoritestvegan1550 facts these people don’t even know what a real man is. Since when men play games

Yea you be getting played

Right! I’ve noticed that 😂

😂😂😂😂

Brittany looked hurt 😢

the ending got me looking like I just saw a ghost

U sound ridiculous. ..

You sound like a modern day feminist.

I am a man and I agree with you👍because he was not into her from day one

So it’s perfectly fine that she wasn’t even single? She gets a pass for that? Can’t stand yall

@@woodcrest4655did they say she had a bf or Brenda?

Not all the colors of humanity in the claps 😂❤️

mannn women do that 24/7...

He spoke about his own self, don't misconstrue

Only women like makeup

Frrr 😂

Lmao

I’m dead 😂

So weird bro lol