There is an article by the BBC titled, "Indian surrogate mothers talk of pain of giving up baby." This is a quote: "But it was hard, I could feel it moving around in my belly, and I became attached to it, and I couldn't see it. It had just disappeared." They had the most intimate connection. They were one. Separation is traumatic. That goes for women everywhere.
Nope ! Think of it as a Oven . Yours stopped working so you bring your ingredients to a friends house . Everything used is 100 % yours except the oven . So it’s 100 % your cake . She just let you do the cooking
