Please stop my parents from fighting every day! [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.02.25] 

Ironically the daughter is much more mature than both parents combined.

It's funny, parents are supposed to protect children from harm, but the older sister is protecting the child from the parents.

If he doesn’t like her cooking then he should cook himself! She’s cooking you a meal even though she’s tired. Be grateful! Man.. if it were me I’d divorce him. I could not stand that. Bad for mine and children’s mental health.

once the lady opened up abt her job then I kind of understand her ... she gets emotionally drained then comes home to a grumpy man who doesn't help but complains... he already looks like a control freak and has temper... the daughter looks heart broken and the five yr old is cute but the dad needs to get his stuff together.. p.s. why are husbands so lazy after marriage its annoying

Okay so when the hosts were tasting the food they said it was perfectly seasoned but the husband said it was bland. I don’t think it’s the case of him preferring very salty food. If a person has been a heavy smoker for a long time they can kill their tastebuds. So to taste the same flavours they NEED higher amounts of it. I think his smoking has killed his tastebuds so he says its bland not because he prefers salty food, but because he can’t taste the normal amount of salt.

Hyowon: He cries so I take him to my room ???: What about you, Uju? (Chani) Chani : "The opposite. My little brother took me to his room" ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

The little bro looks so much younger than 5, I hope he doesn't lose his innocence.

I like how Yeongja explained things for the husband. I don't understand how he couldn't have known this himself but sometimes people need things broken down and explained simply.

"If you're both working to earn money, you should both raise the kids. Why only me? Why am I alone need to do all house chores?" - lee yongja deep words, every married women that is facing the same situation must be thinking the same thing

I can relate to this girl....my parents fighting almost everyday too and i think my personality has change so much since i can never open myself to them and i always keep it in my heart. And actually its really hurt my heart seen them fight....and all i want is just disappear from them

I hope I will never see a man like that. I literally cursed many times while watching this😤 the way he kept sighing, repeating 짜증637372847x and playing victim made my blood boiled🔥🔥🔥

So how she cooks is more important than the family's mental health and wellbeing? He's talking about how they've been married for a long time yet her cooking hasn't improved, but he hasn't improved as a person either even after all those years. His priorities are all messed up.

its so foolish to assume children dont know anything just cause they are young.. my parents fought everyday until they separated when i was 6.. i remember those fights more than anything.. it's still the most vivid thing in my memory.. truthfully, parents who fight in front of their children are terribly affecting their children without even realizing.. they lose alot of trust in people at a young age and that carries over to adulthood.. even worse if when they use you as a excuse to fight.. children will start blaming themselves, i know i did..i still do even though they tell me otherwise.. this problem just reminded me of my childhood..

Okay so because you are impatient and used to getting your way, your daughter cant make decisions and is becoming indecisive and unable to think for herself. Be better....ugh....the parents sound like children.

This is a typical product of a boy, growing up thinking that a wife will take care of everything in his life a.k.a "perfect wife" and becomes emotionally lazy. Luckily the husband of this subject is willing to change but what about the children who never had the courage to confront their parents like this girl? Or everything is too late to be saved and everyone in the family had to live with scars caused by the father-- someone who is supposed to protect and guide the family? Dear mothers around the world, please train your sons to HELP with the house chores (including cooking). Believe me, in the future, their wives and your grandchildren will be so thankful to you for raising your sons like that.

My logic is you have hands right? Use those hands to make yourself food. No one is going to cater to your needs 24/7. Learn how to take care of yourself. I know that it is nice to eat with your family. If you cannot take care of yourself how are you going to take care of others?

15:22 lmao I cried when her brother ran and hug her .😭❤️

It seems that he wasn't talking from heart in the end. He just want to keep his maid. The mom should divorce, this man is useless

That man would be begging her to come back if she ever left him....she does everything and he lounges around

Only now that I'm older I understand what Yeongja was doing when she was eating all that food. The dad always said mean things about the food she made saying that it wasn't tasty and refusing to eat it. She wasn't being glutinous or funny. Yeongja did what the mom wanted to see. Someone eating her food deliciously without leaving anything behind. Such a simple yet touching gesture

I love the look that the 5 year old had when he saw his big sister

The mcs try to save the situation as much as they can by saying things like “u didn’t mean it right” but in this kind of situation staying together as a couple will only aggravate and make the situation worst than ever...

Why can't he cook

My mom and dad got separated when I was about 3. The fights between my mom and step dad were huge. They had two children together. I remember my mom crying in the room while she locked my step dad out with us three inside. I had to grow up quickly. Not only did I have to comfort my brother's, I had to comfort my mother as well. It was those moments I wanted someone to comfort me. My dad knew this was going on, but I didn't want to move in with him. I didn't want to leave my brother's or my mother behind. Situations like these do get better, even if the progress is small. The fights are still happening, but they aren't as big or threatening as they used to be. My brothers, they cry everytime they see someone cry because they used to see my mother cry all the time. It's concerning how these types of things are common, and the ones that are the most affected are the innocent ones, the children. I'm sorry it's long 😅

My mom and dad fighting a lot through mine, my lil bro and sis childhood until they divorce I was 14 years old ,my lil bro 11 and sis 7

8:10 tbh aside from the show not having professionals appear, i DO like how they always remember to praise the kids when they mention that they get high scores or awards or whatever

when i was her age i PROBABLY wanted my parents to make amends but sometimes people can't change, so even if her parents did make amends, their urges wouldn't change for the last few years i wanted and STILL want my parents to get a divorce more than anything

Parents are children's world. When you are fighting each other, you are tearing their world's apart.

Hello Counselor: the show that makes you realize, “Huh, divorce isn’t as bad as I thought it was”.

T-ara was my girl group obsession in middle school, I can’t believe it’s been so long. It’s nice to see SF9 is doing good.

So relatable. And that was the reason why I'm afraid to get married.

When I see something like this I can't stop thinking about the future.😪

I really feel bad for this girl, me and my little sister are ten years apart too. My mom was in soo much pain and had problems with even going to the washroom during the last months of her pregnancy and after my sister was born, my dad was the one who took care of my mom and our house throughout that entire time. Having a peaceful home gives you a lot of relief after a stressful day, and we will always have faith in relationship and know that your family will be there for you no matter what. I hope this poor girl and her brother gets to experience that and not a violent and abusive family.

Yo that baby brother of hers was so cute when he ran to her my heart melted omg

The husband seems like he has no emotional investment for his family 🙄

The girl and her mother is so pretty !

He keeps complaining about her cooking as if he can't do anything about it. How about cooking your own damn meal for once, the father is childish af

My sister ex is like this. Play game all day, waited for her to come home and cook him a meal. Glad she dump him, he's a deadbeat.

I watched lot of stories in Hello Counselor and i got one thing that almost every suffer in marriage happened because of one of the person that related to the marriage relationship is still EGOISTICAL. Thinking all about them self but not for other people that related to the relationship. The husband just so ego, when the wife working that hard in the office and in the family tho, but he's not even helping. Thinking that he always right and be a victim over his wife cook that fine for the mcs. What the heck that ego attitude?! Dont get married if you still only think about yourself. Get the life lesson, people. Unless you wanna suffer in your marriage then.

he need to order take out if he doesn't like her cooking there are many ways to solve that situation. poor girl

1. The father blaming the mom and daughter for being indecisive when choosing something, yet insisting on his choice on eating something else when the daughter decisively wanted to eat bulgogi pizza 2. Saying that he's sleeping in and watching kdrama when he neglected to feed the toddler son, leaving him starving the whole day. Yet the father said that "i haven't even eaten, why could my son eat?" Like bruh he clearly, for some reason, just refused to make food for himself and his son 3. Saying that the father is addicted to PC room games as the reason of neglecting his wife who was in a hospital for a severe sickness This guy just doesn't have his family as his top priority and keeps making excuses for neglection wtf

During the whole episode, I was waiting for someone to offer the mother some tissue. She was wiping her tears with her hoodie sleeves so uncomfortably.

"if me, my young bro picking up me on the room" why i laugh with this part xv

She may as well be a single mother. All he does is eat, sleep and complain.

I feel like he has learnt helplessness. He's so used to his wofe nagging that he stopped caring and became helpless and became subject to complaining as well. Them the wife fell into depression for not understanding the husband's behaviour. They need to talk,, like really talk

I dont want to say it’s all the husband’s fault but uk the only think the wife needs is a simple “good job honey, you have it hard”

I grew up this way. I used to pray for my parents to divorce. They fought in public, ruined special events for me either before or after they occurred and just embarrassed us with it. I never invited my friends over because I was always afraid they'd start arguing. I hope mama leaves him so that her and her children have PEACE.

It's so funny that Chani was mini Yuchun from DBSK. He has grown up well and I'm glad he is doing well.

You gotta throw the whole man away

I cried cuz I can really relate to this. I grew up watching my dad abuse my mom, and it was 1 of the scariest things to watch. And because I was alone and had no one to talk to, I became closed off and would cry alone. In my opinion, they need to go to a marriage councillor, they both need serious help. I’m rooting for their kids :D

when the husband said after 16 years of marriage her cooking hasn’t improved. i laughed at Chani because he instantly put his anger towards tracing what’s on the pillow

I don't know if I should thank Yoonjung for making Rowoon do that 'dirty wave' or just die already 😩😂😂

This is so close to what I went through all my life growing up. My parents used to fight all the time and it could start over nothing and my father would throw things. The MCs were right when they said for kids growing up it’s like being afraid of a war. I was afraid of saying anything to them thinking they might yell at me. I’m almost 20 years old now and this episode just makes me wish I had a sibling. The younger brother is very fortunate to have a mature sister like her.

22:52 LMAO Yeongja is such a mood

This is like a mirror of my own family, how great

Things are always "flying" in my house, and here i am, watching this while eating my squids. I feel you girl 😂

His reading in the beginning was hilarious 🤣

At first I thought the parents were immature but after knowing what her mom had to face at her workplace. I kind of understand her. The biggest problem is the husband.

He is the cutest thing i have ever seen

Sometimes is better a good divorce than a bad marriage. Read their body language. They are always showing their back to each other.

Parents should’ve given a chance to the kids to think, to make choices, and hence the kids can be independent and be responsible of their own choices. If the parents decide everything without giving chances or let the kids decide for themselves, of course the kids can be indecisive, or not even dare to make any decisions and just “no, my choice / decision must be wrong, i must wait for my parents’ decision because they must be right.” Or “i can’t trust myself to make decisions because mine’s always wrong.” They kids will most likely have one or all these thoughts throughout their lives. And this is just one of the problems. Not to mention about the husband and wife’s communication problem, shared housework responsibilities, lack of child rearing, arguing in the right way (sometimes arguing is inevitable, but do it *outside* the house, not after dinner like the wife suggested because THE KIDS STILL CAN HEAR IT), how to appreciate each other including not shame the other while in the presence of other people, etc. *THEY NEED FAMILY THERAPY*

My father was exactly like this for 21 years while he was married with my mother. Once she started to rebel a bit he exploded and she decided to break off the relationship. After she divorced him she told me she has never felt happier.

상담일 하시는구나..어쩐지 목소리가 너무이쁘시더라

She loves and cares for her brother so much :(

her brother is so adorable

pregnancy last year?! I can't believe shes still intimate with that man.

This is really sad. I hope my future husband will not be like him. I'm glad my parents were never like this. They help each other in the kitchen sometimes and my dad sometimes washes the dishes for my mom. They talk out things with each other wether it's about work or other things. They rarely fought with each other. Sometimes I would hear them late at night in the kitchen arguing about stuff but it wasn't screaming or throwing stuff. Just raising their voices (this is while me and my brother were in our rooms "sleeping").

parents should understand that fighting in front of their kid will leave a permanent scar, the younger the age, the worsened. Most kid can understand things since age 3 and at that age is the time where your character start to built. I can still remember my parent fought badly almost everyday when I was a lil kid. Now I got startled and panic everytime someone raised their voice at me, my breath became irregular and my heart beat fast. People thought I'm weak and I guess they are right. I want to change but I can't. My parent rarely fought now, but the damage was done and unfortunately I'm the victim.

훌륭한 프로그램 입니다 방송인들 너무 훌륭해요

I'm happy to see you again hyomin :)

Is it just me or anyone else also thought that the husband really looked like JYP😂😂

Her little brother is so cuteeeeeeeeee omgggggggggggg

i understand how the kids feel bcs i have been in the daughter's place, she is at least a teenager but the son is only 5 years old it could affect him when he grows up

22:52 I love this part, she's so funny!

Divorce him girl you deserve better and deserve to be happy. Being alone doesn't mean you will be sad and miserable actually being with someone that just weighs you down is worse. Take your kids with you and restart your life.

Oh god I'm sooooooooo so so mad!! I can't believe this man! I'm so shocked so that I can't even talk.. Let me chill down first and take a breath

2:50 lol I’m American and I find this cleaner than anything I’ve seen here in LA like take a look at the music videos this is innocent compared to some of the things here

I know this has nothing to do with the concern but I just have to say. Hyeonsu is so cute💙 and handsome . He could be an idol/actor when he'll grew up.

온종일 일하고 와서 저녁 까지 해서 주는데 짜다 싱겁다 탓다… 어떤 누가 말을 좋게 합니까? 짜증나지, 아저씨!!! 쫌!!!

Parents fighting in front of the children is a big no no- 😑

Her lil brother so cute ♡ I mean ♡ Really cute ! ♡

My family is the same... they yell about the dumbest things. I used to get scared when I was little and hid in a closet 😂 I’ve gotten used to it now, I can relate to this girl so muchhh

*okay first of all, my ship looks so cute together*

I thought the father was JYP with glasses when they first showed him!!

Rowoon is soooooooooo cute !!!!😆😆😍😍😍😍❤️❤️

"her cooking didn't improve during marriage" that's why you nag? you married a girl you didn't hire a chef >>> such a selfish man

All those sky castle references gets me all the time 😂😂😂

this kind of stuff really affects kids, i have been through it myself. It affects their trust in other relationships as well

The kid is really cute 💮

The girl want their parents still together; but as a kid who grow with the same concern, I can say that she will wanna in the future 😔

Children are the mirror of their parents . They should both changed for their children's sake. I cant imagine how scary it is to witnessed incident especially for a child. The parent need to learn how to respect each other . They need to learn how to communicate with each other without shouting or criticizing each other . One must first listen in order to understand. Since they are husband and wife , they should also learn how to tolerate each other .Give and take . Dont ruined other people's life because of your own selfishness . The kids deserved to live in a peaceful happy environment. They are emotionally distressed because of the fear . Its so sad :'(

Omfg he gets on my nervesssssss

I have same problems with my parents too! My dad nags way too much where as mom is easily aggravated!

While Everyone's Complimenting The Mother's Cooking *Yeongja Over Here Is Having A Full Course Meal--*

I can relate

I wish international concerned can also represent there but there is not so sad😭😭😭

man, if you don't like your wife's cooking, then cook yourself! she does way more than her husband yet he expects her to cook perfect, delicious food. what is wrong with him?

I've never related to a concern so much in my life

This is look very stressful. But, my parents marriage worst than theirs. And they still together. And i am alone try to defence myself from their shits

it will be good if you let us add spanish subs while waiting for new season