As a women I will not feed or support any men. Is so sad that us women are so desperate for men’s love that we are doing anything to get attention from men. All the sister s out there the Key here is( LOVE YOUSELf). And your kids first.
Why rush into another relationship? Especially to a man who has no home, job, and has child support?!!! That was a major Red Flag from the start...Love yourself & True love will happen!!!
Divorce men or not, theyre mostly after your money and to use you as a doormat. Never ever trust these men unless their intentions is pure and they show you that they truly want a life with you. Sometime i think some of these poj nrauj are so desperate for any men that they start lose focus and see their worth. Its ok to be happy on your own..no man is worth the stress and tears.
Zaj no qhia tias txhob ua lub siab muag rau ib tug dab tuag tshiab dag txiav siv yus. As soon as you kicked him out, you should changed the lock right away. Ib niag txiv liam los thawj yus thiab tsis ua haujlwm tseem yuav dabtsi. Thank you for sharing your story. A lesson to learn!
Please keep in mind that when a Hmong woman becomes a divorcee, she will be disrespected by the Hmong community, even disrespected by another divorcee man. Hmong divorcee women need to not jump too fast into a relationship and must work on themselves first. Learn to put yourselves as first priority.
This lady's story frustrates me. How desperate and low she thought of herself that she would allowed this awful man to steal from her. Koj tsis yog hmoov phem os. Tsuas yog koj ntshaw luag thiab ruam xwb os. It's your own fault for taking a stray dog. I would never get involved with a stray dog man. He has to be financially responsible and emotionally stable before allowing him to live with me. You can change to better yourself but should never disrespect yourself to take someone like him in. And yet, you take him back over and over again.
There are so many good single man out there. Take your time to find one. Don’t rush. When men know you are desperate, they will take advantage of you. Be a good person yourself first and you’ll find a good person.
Zoo sab kawg kv g leeg txais yuav cov txivneej nrauj sab phem le ntawd ua dlaag ntxag ua poob ntsejmuag hab ua mob mob hlwb rua tubnkeeg g khaam nwg kheej kev noj kev haus xwb. Ua vaajtswv tsaug tau nov mej cov story qha tau zoo kawg nkaus le. Thov qhuas koj qha rua peb cov namtsev paab tau tug kheej hab os
Nej cov maum uas nraug ua poj nrauj es tsis muaj hmoo tau sib nraug sib tso nej yuav hloov nej tus kheej los ua ib tug niam tsev zoo hlub yus pab me nyuam ua ib tug niam tsev zoo coj li ib tug neeg muaj txiv nej thiaj khwv tau noj tau haus pub rau yus pab me nyuam tsis txhob tsab zag ntsi mus ua plees ua yi cia yus tej me nyuam txom nyem nawb mog
It’s not bad luck, you degraded your self esteem due to being a divorcee and forgot to love yourself in the process. No one will love you as much as you love yourself. The one who truly loves you will love the way you love yourself. Wishing you all the best and hopefully this is a good life lesson you taught yourself.
I heard too many stories like this one. You ladies out there are to easy. Please!!! don't be so dumb but very wise woman. Don't let men treat you so low. Remember this, men just want to use you that's all.
Tus sister 2 lub qhov muag qub ces yeej xaiv tib co neeg zoo li qub. Ntshaw txiv dhau lawm ces pab tsis tau. Yuav tib co txiv uas los thawj yus noj xwb ne. Self love and self respect goes a long way. Try loving yourself and your children before you love a man.
Tus mi sister koj lub siab zoo nyob ntiav dhau lawm xwb. Kuv hais koj tias koj lub siab zoo yuav tsum nyob tob me ntsis mog. Tsis hais koj los kuv leej twg los xij yeej xav thiab ntshaw lub siab zoo xwb, kuv los yeej ib yam li koj vim yus coj lub siab zoo ces dab ntxoog thiab yoov tshaj cum. Thiaj nqus Tau yus li ntshav NE mi sister aw . Txhob xaiv Tus zoo nraug ma xais Tus siab zoo xwb ma mog ua cas NWS hmoov yuav phem ua luaj li Koj ua Tau txaus hlub ua luaj na mi nkauj hmoob aw.❤❤❤❤hlub NWS Tus kheej os mog.😊😊
Its not bad luck, you doing it to yourself, you can let him go but you still want him too. Tsis sawm zoo. Koj twb paub tias nws niag nyob qab choj tsis kam ua ib txoj hauj lwm tsuas noj koj xwb los koj ntshaw2 nws ne.
There was a red flag in the beginning w the boyfriend who has no job and loads of child support and move in with you … you made poor decisions in the beginning so it’s a lesson for you to learn and be wiser in the future plus please don’t be too desperate for a loser!!
Tus viv ncaus koj ntseeg nws yooj yim zog lawm koj thiaj raug dag thiab raug nyiag. Just think to yourself that like the poj saub hais li lawm ces nyaj yog koj li karma tiam dhau los. Tab sis tsam no nws purposely los nyiag luag teej tug thiab tab mees dag no ces yeej tsis tau npam sai tab sis in the long run. Don't give up yet.
Poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj ib txwm tau lub koob tsiv ris thiab lub npe phem ev los twb vim yog lawv yeej yug xeeb txawm los li ntawv ces lawv thiaj tsis txawj yoog thiab hwm lawv cov partners.
Kuv tsi nkag siab tias cas peb pojniam pheej ntshaw txiv neej quav dev ntawd ua dabtsi na. Peb nyob nrog peb twj minyuas xwb zoo dua nawb mog. Lawv lub suab phem heev. Lawv tsi muaj chaw nyob es lawv lam ua zoo xwb os. Ntshe mi ntsi os
Vim yog nej tsi txawj hlub nej tus kheej xwb thiab ib sim neej nej tsi tau ib tus txiv hlub hlub nej es pheej ntshaw2 kev hlub los ntawd ib tus txiv neej es thiaj li yuam kev rau txoj kev uas koj dig muag tag li os...Vim koj ntshaw2 tuv txiv tshaj li kws koj ntshaw koj cov nyiaj ne poj hmoob ruam es ntshaw2 txiv aws..
Lawv aw,,, nco ntsoov tias yus yog ib tug poj nrauj muaj 5,6 tus me nyuam ces xuam coob cov txiv neej yeej tsis lam yuav vim lawv laj2 los nrog yus cov me nyuam sib dob li os!
Tus sister aw cas koj niag txiv koj twb tsis hlub koj koj tseem yuav thiab es koj hos tsis uv koj tus qub txiv na tus sister aw cas mloog nej hais mas zoo li nej ntshaw txiv heev li os ntshaw txiv npaum li koj cas koj tsis uv koj tus qub txiv na
Tus sister aw kuv twb yog ib tus nkauj nrab thiab kuv yeej tsis than tej niag txiv tsis muaj chaw nyob ntawv li os yus tus twb tsis zoo lawm ces tej niag yawg nrauj ntawv kuv yeej tsis tig ncaj li os yog kuv xum mu uv nws kuv xum uv tus qub txiv zoo dua yog yus twb ua tau siab loj npaum li ntawv yog koj ua rau koj tus qub txiv twb twb zoo lawm os
Pog awd, tsis yog txoj hmoo li os. Vim koj ruam qauj nkaus xwb. Ua neeg nyob yog tsis muaj hlwb ces kawg mag cov niag tub sab muab nyiag noj ti txha li koj xwb tiag. Txhob ruam ruam thiaj tsis mag mag cov txiv dev tub sab muab koj kaus hlwb maj.
Kuv twb ua yawg nrauj los tau 6 lub xyoo no. I don’t depend on no body. I respect myself enough that I have to take myself . I work 2 jobs and need no body in my life. In life, don’t depend on anyone. Love yourself before anyone.
Hahaha tos paub ces lig dhau vim lawv los ntxias yus qho quav npuj xwb thaum nrauj txiv tag, lawv muab yus siv txaus thaum paub ces lig vim lawv twb dhuav yus txaus
