Pookie and rayray have the same lifespan as a 304. From 18 to 25 they live a fun, great life. They're in for a rough life after that with no education, no training, criminal record, child support w multiple kids and multipe baby mommas
"They're getting the women that you shouldn't want!" 20 years later I see all the girls they made baby mommas, still in the same place, and realize I should've been thanking them this whole time
Class is so important. Roms the only one who ever talks about it. In the upper class neighborhoods of my city, the women are very receptive to me versus the same looking women in the grungier neighborhoods who don't want to look at me. And women detect class like bloodhounds - it's in your walk, your posture, your clothes, your skin, your eyes.
This is true, the majority of P’s n RR’s are dealing women in their era. They don’t have no women are upscale with careers, driving Mercedes Lexus and Beamers. Hell most of P’s and RR’s women are getting food stamps and working at fast food jobs and I don’t mean any disrespect but this narrative that the internet cats pushing like they P’s and RR’s are getting top notch professional women is false no if’s and’s or but’s about it str8 🆙.
This internet and social media narrative of women wanting P’s & RR’s never made sense to me because it’s all based on a specific subculture within the black community. Women and men from the hood or lower socioeconomic backgrounds will be with each other the majority of the time and vice versa. Classism is never mentioned but it’s a major factor when men and women are looking for relationships or just attraction.
@@jessebradford7130 do you know where the name “pookie” came from? It’s Chris Rock’s character in New Jack City. Pookie was a strung out bum in the streets…with that being said, does it make me a Pookie just because I can pull a woman that’s in a relationship or married even though I was raised in one of the most affluent areas in Texas? A pookie is the opposite of someone that’s productive. A pookie doesn’t have a degree, not a homeowner, no income, etc. Women from higher socioeconomic backgrounds are not checking for P’s and RR’s
💯 facts Sir. I have nothing against pookie and ray ray. Some evolve and grow from it. People like what they like. I focus on what and who are for me. I dont focus on women who like who are opposite of me considering every woman don’t want me vice versa.
I noticed this the other day. Women at the higher end gym that I work at won’t even be seen In public with you unless you’re of some type of status. However, at one of our other locations in the inner city, pookies damn near run the gym. The caliber of women that they mess with are completely different than the ones at the higher end gym.
I have only seen this discourse online. Never knew this whole women want a thug or do not like squares until I came into this type of space. I have generally been cool with hood guys and professionals, but I have noticed that a lot of those hood guys subscribe to that gamesmen holler monster game that you described in your book. Complaints about thugs taking all the women only expose your current station in life to be honest.
That’s most of it. Some guys, like me, are empaths and growing up seeing the girls we like choose the worst possible guys had us confused. As an adult, I’m no longer confused and I understand the biology behind it all.
Facts Unc, 9 times out of 10, a woman want a man who is clean cut and productive. People talk ish about the provider males but deep down in there femanity, they want this man. They’re many reasons on why they do not choose them but most of the time it has to do with self esteem. Feeling as if they don’t have anything to bring to the table for these particular men. Stay clean cut, fresh, smelling good and in shape. Stay on your grind gentlemen and do you🤴🏾
I live by DeMatha now, but I went to Bishop O’Connell my freshman year. I remember Gonzaga, Paul VI, Good Counsel, but I ain’t know Carroll held it down like that!
24:05 This part right here Was just gonna add that about myself, although if I say so myself I’m generally clean cut a lot of the time as far as representation, despite a portion of my background but based on my side business which deals in mostly outdoor work I may be dressed down at times I see the differences in women who look my way and the ones that don’t compared to when I have on my more nicer professional clothes, sort of like what you mentioned. Fellas pay attention.
That class thing is even in churches..years back when I would go to church and holler at the lawyer types there I didn’t understand social class. I had a busted car pulling up to the church working at a warehouse.. the lawyer in the church barely wanted a conversation. Funny memories but I learned to be comfortable being me.
@@mrdanyo1223They do. They watch like hawks because it’s a threat to their pleasure. Pookie and Ray have nothing going for them, or at least the bare minimum. So any good guy pulling up to scene attracting women is a huge threat. Especially when his money is right and he’s successful. Especially when the women is bomb af but not interested in Pookie and Ray Ray. I love destroying their egos.
The best way is to have pookie confidence and game while having good guy smarts wisdom character discernment. Most guys gravitate to one End or the other based on how they was treated in high school. Men that get sex easier don’t work as hard in college career cause they getting their primal needs met. While the guy who don’t get a lot of play subconsciously knows he gotta get his $$ in order to get average to higher quality women. Not all there’s some men who can do both but most men are in one category or the other.
They get the women I don’t even like anyways I never focus on them those types of women they like drama, lies, etc. it’s not worth it yo I’ve been around them I wouldn’t want them anyways either way 💯
The fact that Rom has to explain this to some men is deeply strange and baffling to me. Pookies and rays rays don’t even show up on my radar. Not my competition or concern. Some fellas really are clueless 😂
The best thing to do is to have some of those bad boy traits like hair, style, body, etc. Women will always be attracted to that "rebel" thing from a physical standpoint. But then also not be a bum. Have something going on, have some class, integrity, intelligence and mindfulness. Have some passion like playing a musical instrument or some other artistic ventures. Read some books and spend a lot of time reflecting so that you form some deeper beliefs and thoughts about the world unique to yourself. Women love that shit. There's a very specific reason as to why the ancient civilizations, especially Greek would hire best teachers, best athletes, best warriors, best musicians, best scientists to pass their knowledge and work with the male heirs, even though the kid was basically already set for life since birth. They knew that once a man is a complete package (physical, spiritual, intellectual, creative, etc) and fully in tune with his masculine essence, there is a powerful field of energy just seeping out of him. Add the social status of a king to those qualities, and you ensured that your genetic legacy will remain here for centuries. It is still the same today. That is something that can't be faked or replicated. And women are wired to detect that by just looking into a man's eyes once. So yeah, in our world of men, a true alpha is much more than just the guy who's good looking/tall. And also, listen to Unc Rom, he knows his shit.
Main reason I don’t really care too much ab instagram & social media “game” I’m more of a in person typa dude because LMS is more of a social thing where the same women with 100k followers won’t reply cs u really invisible if you don’t gotta blue check or at least known from something but be the coolest peep in person
