Dating apps may be more "efficient" in pure numbers but approaching is much better in terms of conversion or quality I find. So really that efficiency doesn't truly matter at the end of the day
FACTS 💯 As crazy as this may be for most of you, I have never been on a dating app, ANY dating app, EVER, in my entire life. And hey, I admit, maybe that's detrimental to my own best interests. Bc I'd have to be dishonest or willingly ignorant to think that meeting from a dating app IS how everyone is meeting/dating/mating these days. I just have always done well with the only way I've ever done it. In person, in real life, real approaches, real meetups with real women in this f'd uo real world. Rizz has always come natural to me. It's why I have a successful career in Advertising and Marketing, which sales is a key factor. You don't get the close if you don't get the meeting to pitch. And you don't get the chance to pitch if you don't cold call (approach). Sales and dating, they both require be proficient using the same techniques. I mean, I'm no Benjamin Seda, Alex Costa, or Austin Dunham, but I do ok. Enough for me to never have a lack of options at any given time. And always be on the hunt to add more to my rotation roster. If for no other reason than to replace the ones who fall off. There's always gonna be an attrition rate, so you always have to be seeking new prospects/leads to be acquiring new ones. With work, that'd be new clients. In my personal life, it's new women. So I guess I just always felt like dating apps were for losers. They give me cringe vibes that reek of desperation just by being there. Like WHY WOULD I lower myself to HAVING to RESORT to that?! I AM a subscriber to this RU-vidr and others like I mentioned. And I can honestly say that 80% of what they say, Based Zeus Benji especially, is legit. I know from firsthand lived experiences, this dude knows his shit. Bc most of it is the exact same psychological techniques that I use. But I would nvr claim to know it ALL. The great ones know that they CAN ALWAYS learn more. Keep furthering education, continually training. Being reminded of the fundamentals, and there's THAT TWENTY PERCENT of game I DON'T know. And that's the content that's GOLD to me. I even bought one of his products, Instagame. Didn't buy Gentleman's Approach bc I don't know if I need to. But I KNEW that I needed to get put on game to anything to do with social media game. And I can tell you that it's worth it. Tremendous value in terms of what you get for the investment. I'm a Based Zeus OG. Tell me I'm lying lol, I got 2 Based Zeus t-shirts! Idk anybody else who actually copped Based Zeus MERCH lol But yeah, been rockin with Benji for a minute. APPLY what he's preaching, fam, bc I can co-sign that he's legit af
ikr. Not that it invalidates all of Ben's videos - but this guy has a very real and clear advantage that a lot of men don't have: height, fit build, tan & clear skin, full head of hair / good hairline.
@@drewg7441 Bro please fuck off You could make the argument that he's a little below the average facially He's a tall below average face guy Who has worked out and takes care of himself And has good social skills
I disagree when you said the first interaction was averaged, even with you on the Bicycle and asking her name twice she was very smooth with her chemistry and didn't make things rough. She also revealed personal information quickly I would argue its in your top 2 meets ups.
Here’s an idea for you: Would love to see you pick up a girl with a distraction like a friend recognizing you while you’re talking to the girl or having your phone go off mid conversation. Loving the series!
Hi benjamin i am from india do approaching like this will work in india becuase here we dont have very friendly environment like miami or USA for approaching women un public .? But i will give my best 😅
@5:00 you're on a pedestrian path so it's less dangerous to stop and talk to a random stranger than being actually on the road, especially if you drive that slow.
Bruh cut the bs. The way that she come up at 3:59 and stood next you, whithout you even starting to talk yet, is clearly has a relation with ur looks (height, fit build, tan & clear skin etc..) and NOT game
Just recently, I got out of a relationship, I have been pushing my comfort zone and making an effort to talk to beautiful girls whenever i can, even sometimes when i dont feel flirty at the time. Brings up the confidence getting used to talking to beautiful girls.