Pregnancy CHAT: 4 Weeks! 

This was so cute Fleur. Love the honesty & can't wait to watch more updates! xx

Congratulations on #MiniDeForce!! :) But I still have one question: How did you tell Mike and what was his reaction?:) xx

this just made me realise that i've seen you TWICE while you were pregnant (manchester lipstick launch and vidcon US) and i've just NOT KNOWN and thats crazy... so so unbelievably happy for you both❤

The last minute of this video was the most genuine and adorable reaction to being pregnant that I've ever seen. You and Mike are going to make great parents and we are so excited to be in this journey with you.

Anyone else tempted to re-watch recent videos to see how it was we missed the signs of pregnancy? I was completely dumbfounded !!!

Feeling like your period is gonna come and it doesn't come, that was the weirdest thing about being pregnant for me. It really feels like it is going to come out any minute and it doesn't! It's crazy... My 8 year old daughter was running around the house obviously very excited when I told her that you are pregnant. We met you during your book signing in Milton Keynes around this time last year, I think.

I wonder if you vlogged how you told your family...I really would loooove to see that....makes me so excited... All love for you two!!!!

i think i'm team girl simply due to the fact that a mini-fleur would be amazing and mike would literally melt around a little girl! can't wait to find out though

Congratulations Fleur and Mike 😘 I think you have summed up the emotions of early pregnancy very well , so glad you now past 12 weeks , so exciting 😊🎉

This is so exciting!!! I've been watching your videos for over 7 years and am so happy for you and Mike (to be honest I teared up during your announcement video)! Looking forward to all of the updates over the next few months ❤️❤️❤️

LOVE LOVE LOVE!! ❤❤❤ I gave birth 7 weeks ago yesterday! it's the best feeling in the world. I wish I had these vlogs to follow when I was pregnant 😔 I kept pestering the midwife cause there was so much stuff I didn't realise was normal! I felt the same too before I found out I was pregnant, I thought I was due my period and didn't test for a whole week 😂 after trying for 5 months, I got pretty used too getting my period and getting disappointed 😣 but now I have my little boy.. parenthood is the best thing ever, their little face makes up for the sleepless nights! 😂 so excited to follow the rest of the vlogs when I get time! I'm so happy for you!! ❤

I am so happy that you have your sister to turn to for support. How special!

it's hard when you're "not supposed" to be telling people when really that's when you need the most support!

Take care of yourself Fleur! And don't stress much for youtube! Have time to yourself and enjoy the journey! Love you! ❤️❤️❤️

You are too cute! 😊 It's going to be wonderful to watch these pregnancy vlogs back so you can see just how you were feeling. Enjoy your pregnancy, you and Mike are going to be awesome parents! 🤗

Wow your description of feeling alone and unable to celebrate because you think you can't let yourself be excited is so so so relatable! Thank you for putting this video out there. Pregnancy is just that - pregnantly waiting for this big event and being so unsure what you're aloud to say and do about it all. What I discovered throughout my pregnancies (and I've had both the extremes of what can happen good and bad) is that I let myself enjoy them however they ended up because then at least whatever happens I've enjoyed this special life moment.

I love this video. It's so raw and honest about not being able to talk about it, feeling lonely, and scared to feel happy. Please keep this up and know that we are all so excited for you.

Did your mum know that night of the dinner party?! I bet she did! Lol! Again, many congratulations - looking forward to the baby update vids!! 🍼

I'm so happy for you. I totally understand these mixed feelings. Enjoy this pregnancy! Don't stress about RU-vid! I love to watch everything that you like to share with us, but I totally understand if you keep things private. Love you ❤️

Do tell us if you're mum actually sussed something at the dinner party?

how did you tell Mike?

My biggest tip is to ignore most of the advice people give you and just do what feels right for you 😂

I really appreciate your honesty in this video. Eventough I am not pregnant and probably won't be for the next few years I am really looking forward for these updates :)

thrilled with the news you are pregnant Fleur, enjoy your pregnancy and rest when you need to. You are doing great and I really appreciate you sharing your story with us

Congratulations to the both of you. Everything your feeling is normal . I'm a mother of 3 and it's what I'm most proud of in my life. The book What to expect when you're expecting was a great help for my husband and I . What really freaked me out was my sense of smell !!!! I swear I could smell things I had never smelled in my life it was like my nose woke up and smelled the flowers for the first time . This time is precious for you and your husband .write it all down in a journal my children love to read theirs and each one was different. Have a great time being pregnant , embrace it all. A miracle is happening in you.

My first baby just turned 1 on the 9th of July. Not going to lie. This year has been hard. So many ups and downs and emotions everywhere but even though it's been hard it has been so rewarding your baby hits so many milestones in their first year and it's so exciting and the best feeling in the world. I absolutely love being a mom and I'm sure you will too. They change your life completely but they make it so much better! I'm so excited for you and can't wait to continue watching your pregnancy updates! Lots of love ❤️

I first watched this video before my husband was my husband, and before we started trying. Today I found out I'm pregnant and I'm the only one who knows as I want to tell him in person when he gets back from offshore in 3 weeks. I can't tell you how surreal it feels to be watching this video expecting my own baby!

I just found out I’m pregnant on New Years Eve, and I’m currently four weeks so I’m going back and rewatching your earlier pregnancy vlogs. I’m super nervous especially since this was completely unplanned but watching these is kind of putting my mind at ease, especially knowing you’re either currently close or have already delivered lol!

Congratulations! I totally understand the feeling alone thing and bing nervous to tell anyone just in case. I got pregnant on the fourth try and sadly had a miscarriage at 9 weeks. We then tried for almost two years with no luck so turned to IVF. Thankfully, we got pregnant on our first round and I'm now 15 weeks!! Not telling anyone and having a miscarriage was very had and then doing IVF and knowing I had been implanted with an embryo - the first few weeks were really hard as we knew there was an embryo inside me but didn't know if it would stick and I was like a nervous wreck until I got the positive and then nervous until I had a scan and heard the heartbeat, and then it was passing the 9 week mark when we had our first miscarriage. Then you're nervous until the harmony test comes back...sometimes it feels like the whole thing is just a series of milestones and nervousness. I look forward to watching all your updates as we're pretty much due the same time.

Wow just so so excited for you guys. I've been watching your videos for years so I feel like I've known you almost forever and just so genuinely happy for you and can wait to meet baby de force!

I'm SO EXCITED for you too, dear, young lady. I love all the feelings. You are SO honest and real! xoxoxo

You're so right, there is not much information out there for early pregnancy. I'm 10 weeks with my second baby right now and both times, I hated those first few nerve wracking weeks when you're not sure what's going on and if everything is okay! Keep going on the updates and enjoy the pregnancy!! xx

I took 5 pregnancy tests before I told my husband. I was so shocked even though we were trying :) It's such a surreal feeling. So happy for you guys!

Not pregnant, but will watch. My sister and I have been watching you since Mike had really long hair!! Congrats 💕

Congrats on your upcoming little bundle of joy!!! And as a parent of 2, I will just say go with the flow and enjoy every moment of it.... just make sure you have a balance lifestyle and don't be overly concern or restrictive about diet (preferably major healthy food groups) 🤗🤗 And once again congratsss 🤗🤗🤗

Your genuine truth and enthusiasm is so sweet. Best of luck. Enjoy the journey!

So very happy to see this wonderful journey for you and Mike! One thing I would suggest you get for babydeforce would be the grace rock n play (if it is available in the U.K.) that thing is so amazing for babies, I had one for 2 of my 3 children and they both slept so wonderfully at night. I'm convinced the way it's shaped is the reason they started sleeping thru the night at 6 weeks and at 9 weeks. Again, congratulations!

So happy for you 🌸🌸🌸

Seriously I have smiled all the way through this video. I'm so thrilled for you both.xxxxx

Thanks for sharing your update with us. I can well see you with a little girl and all the adorable frilly dresses!! So cute.

This video is amazing because THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT ITS LIKE when you first find out! Ahhhh so excited for you!

Awwwwww Fleur. This was so lovely to watch. You are such a sweetheart and I love how practical you are too. Being a Mum is the hardest but best job ever. X

Such a lovely video Fleur. My sister is 12 weeks with her first baby and she told me literally just after she found out. She was like you and just wanted to tell someone, and I felt so privileged that she wanted to share it with me straight away. Her and her husband are actually having a BBQ today and they are telling the whole family, I'm so excited. Great video! X

Omg this is so beautifull to watch can't believe it what an amazing surprise I'm so excited for you!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Fleur you look beautiful on this 😊 congratulations to you and Mike. Your going to be amazing parents!

Congratulations. I remember all those feelings so well. Enjoy every minute because it all goes so quickly. My daughter is seven this week. Rest as much as you can and anything with orange helped me get my energy back. I tried to be really healthy but I became completely obsessed with Fanta which I had never drunk before or since. All the best. It's the most exciting time for you. X

I felt so weird telling RU-vid I was pregnant too!!! Really happy for you and Mike. We kept it to ourselves until we were 12 weeks too. I did a pregnancy journal too and I love reading it back xx

I'm so glad you are considering how much to expose your child to RU-vid - he or she is entitled to their own provacy. I am very opposed to how some you tubers have shown everything about their children form the moment they were born, sacconiejoleycough. I am a trained midwife and have been privileged to share the joy of so many young families with their first child- I pray everything goes smoothly for you X X .

soo soo happy for you guys i can't wait for DeForce junior to come ❤❤

So happy for your both! Hoping it's mine and my husband's time very soon we've been waiting patiently for a little while! Would love to be able to share some of your journey! Xx

This is brilliant to do fleur! I'm 9 weeks and all the feelings you have. I have too. Loneliness was and still is the feeling that is so prominent. Started to tell people now and feel much better. Good luck with everything and thank you again for creating and sharing these videos xxxxxxxxx they will be such a great companion for mine and other people's journey xxxx

Could you make a video on how you told Mike, your sister and parents etc. I love hearing those stories 😁. Congratulations, so happy for you and Mike! x

Oh Fleur, I am so happy for you! I remember all those emotions so well, it's such a strange and exciting time. I wish I'd started weekly vlogs as early as you, you will love having these to look back on. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy, I love seeing people experience parenthood for the first time, it really is the most incredible time.

So excited for you, my due date is today! Pregnancy goes really fast, enjoy every moment

Hi Flure, ah sweetheart, I had tears of joy watching this video, I so wanted to hug you and say don't be scared. It's wonderful that you are going to do a weekly pregnancy vlog, it will be a lovely diary for you, and Mike and a great sharing video for ladies who are also expecting their baby around the same time as yourself. Im looking forward to watching your baby bump grow with your weekly chats. Big Hugz and lotsa love 💕🌸👶🏻💕🌸👶🏻💕🌸👶🏻💕🌸👶🏻💕🌸xxxxxxxx

Lovely vlog! I think it's good to hear more about the early part of pregnancy. It's normal to be scared but it's important to enjoy every moment of it and trying not to fixate on statistics etc that make women feel worried. Life is precious and a blessing. May you be equipped with all the love and support during this wonderful time.. thanks for sharing!! X

You are already glowing!!! So happy!

Sending so many positive vibes and lots of love! Congratulations on your new adventure! 😊

Aw I'm so excited for you guys! A little baby deforce!

You are just too too cute! I thought maybe this was going to be year of baby when you were saying you wanted to spend more time home with Mike and the puppies. So excited for y'all! Thanks for sharing :)

I love how excited you are, you and mike are going to make wonderful parents! 💓💓

I remember before my first scan (which here in Russia is at 12 weeks), I was sure I was like going crazy. Cause I took a few tests, which all came positive... but it felt so surreal, that I was sure that when I would walk for the scan, they would tell me "what are you doing here girl, you're not pregnant!". And when they said I was, it was like "OMG, it IS real!". And obviously, the first time I actually saw the baby on the screen during my second scan (the first one, they don't show you anything, here in Russia), I came out crying cause I couldn't handle the emotion of actually seeing the baby, right there!

CONGRATULATIONS!!! OMG I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU!

I've been waiting for this!!!!

So many congrats! I am trying for a baby now and it's taking a little while (I'm so worried about it!) and I think it's great your doing these early updates - hoping soon I'll find them very useful 🙂

Please do a GRWM with this makeup look. xxx

Hi Fleur - congratulations!!! So happy for you and Mike and the puppies - such a life-changing thrill with MiniDeForce coming!!! Some of my favourite channels on YT are family vlogs. They include before the baby arrives and then after - they are among the best types of YT channels I've seen - some of them are: J House Vlogs; 8 Miles from Home; The Nive Nulls. I'm sure there are many, many on YT but these just give an idea. I think it's an amazing way to document for your own baby's history and then to look back, wow. They grow so quickly and making a family vlog - FamilyDeForce - could be fantastic. Take it easy and thinking of you! All the best x

Congrats Fleur! I'm so happy for you and Mike! :)

congrats fleur I am 22 nearly 23 weeks I've had bad news about my baby but we have put the positives out of it there is still a possibility he is going to be fine so had a lot of scans and MRI but I am really happy I'm pregnant we also found out what it was it's a boy he is very healthy so all good but very excited can chat if you need anyone so happy for you xxxx

Congratulations, Fleur! RU-vidr Kendra Atkins is a great example about how to balance a youtube channel and videos that include your kids. She continues to post her regular beauty and lifestyle videos just like before kids. Then adds in some vlogs with them a few times a month. I think it's a nice balance and possibly something that might work for you and Mike!

The tiredness is like a whole other level, when I was pregnant with my daughter all I wanted to do was sleep, I could have slept standing up for all I cared

Amazing that you did this video! I haven't seen anything of early early on and it's so refreshing and sweet and you are just adorable

Yaaaay Congratulations guys with your beauty and Mike's looks your baby will be absolutely beautiful ❤🍼❤🍼❤🍼❤

Yay! So excited for these vids, you will both make great parents! 💞 My little girl is coming up for 10 months old now, it goes way too fast. I didn't find out I was pregnant until I was 24 weeks so my pregnancy was pretty quick! Lol! So so happy for you both! Can't wait for more videos! xx

I actually started crying. This is so amazing, Fleur❤️

congratulation! I gave birth to my second baby almost 4 months ago. Cherish every moment and sleep as much as possible . Get excited , I was the same way I had a miscarriage my first baby , so I was paranoid the entire second pregnancy . Looking back I wish I allowed myself to be excited

I can relate so much to this video, ur nervous to be excited!! Gona love these updates, I'm 11 weeks pregnant : )

This was so beautiful, happy and a little scary all at once!!! We've all gone through the emotional roller coaster of the shock and excitement of pregnancy:) This is a life changer- but of the absolute best kind xxxxxxxxx

Thank you for the video. I hope it all continues to go well for you!

You are shining like a star ⭐️ I'm so happy for you guys...and you are very lucky to be pregnant 🤰.... with my hubby we aren't so lucky, four years ago we started trying, but still nothing...right now, we are in the process of IVF... so fingers crossed 🤞🏼 😊

Congratulations again Fleur & Mike, watching this video I just smiled the whole time. I am super happy for you both, you are going to make amazing & wonderful parents. You look as beautiful as ever Fleur yet more radiant, sending lots & lots of love to you all xxxxxxxxx

Mums always knows! So cute how you told the story how your mum probably knows.

I loved this!! So helpful to hear how you are feeling, I am 5 weeks and having similar symptoms. Really put my mind at ease xxx

Omg congratulations! I feel like this is the year of pregnancy, I'm expecting my son in November and everywhere I look someone is pregnant, so exciting 😂

Wonderful news, many congratulations to you both xxx

I loved this update it was so genuine and so real. I feel so thankful that you are sharing your journey with us.

Your going to be the most amazing mother

I'm so happy for you and Mike! I was excited to see this video pop up and that you are going to be sharing your pregnancy journey! Yay! 😊😊😊

congratulations!! i'm so happy for you!

Such a great video, very raw and honest, congratulations to you and mike

Oh I AM SO EXCITED WITH YOU!!

Aww bless u you, you seem so happy 😊good luck with the rest of your pregnancy x

Congrats! I'm 15 weeks as well with my second child. Greetings from Germany!

I feel so happy for you and Mike!! Congratulations Fleur 💞

This video made me so happy! I was grinning so widely the whole time! I am so excited for you and Mike. Congratulations! :)

I'm so excited there are SO MANY RU-vid pregnancies to follow 😍 I can't decide which one I'm more excited about, yours, sprinkleofglitter's or channon rose's 😂😂😂 love you ❤️❤️❤️

SO EXCITED!!!!!

It is sad that miscarriage is such a taboo thing to discuss. It is such a private thing I know ...but I feel women would benefit from extra support while going through it.

Haha you are so funny 'crap! I'm really scared!' 😂 you will be fine. My advice is a chilled parent has a chilled baby so stay relaxed and enjoy the peace before baby arrives 😊 x

Soooo excited for you!!!i'm 10 weeks pregnant and would love to share the journey with you!!at the beginning i was like you excited but at the same time scared of what could happened!you really realise on the 1st echo i think...!when did you do the blood test?good luck for the first 3 months...they are not the best😅😽