Thank you very much for sharing your story. I'm so sorry for your loss. I also felt like I knew something was wrong long before my husband and I learned of my son's fatal diagnosis. I thought I was just having extra anxiety (which I tried to brush off as normal) but now I definitely think it was my intuition- something was wrong. I had all normal tests and scans up until 20 weeks. The night before the anatomy scan I told my husband that I felt like they were going to tell us something is wrong with our baby. Sure enough, the anatomy scan is when we found out the awful news.
I am so sorry for your loss and that you had to experience this pain! I told my husband something similar a couple days before our anatomy scan. I told him I didn’t feel safe buying any nursery furniture unless the scan went ok. It is amazing that you had the same intuition during your pregnancy! I have been talking to many women on fb groups and reddit, so many women have experienced the same intuition/ anxiety. It blows my mind. We just seem to know, but nerves happen to every pregnant woman so we try to tell ourselves it’s nothing but it doesn’t go away.I think we all have such a close attachment and connection to the life growing inside of us, it’s indescribable. I hope the hearts of you and your husband are healing❤️ Sending you so much love ! Xoxo
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m sorry for your loss. Sending you hugs of comfort and strength. I understand you very well. We got through the same situation but I was on 24 weeks due to all tests it took so long to get the final diagnosis. We lost our son one month ago. I had a delivery. Now still waiting for DNA test done to know what really happened with him.
I’m so very sorry you also lost your son, and that you had to go through the same situation. That testing period is the absolute worst, and I feel like most of us become numb during that time. I hope you are doing ok, mentally and physically. I know a situation like this is a rollercoaster of emotions but be easy on yourself! If you have reddit, definitely join TFMR_support. It’s such a lifesaver, whether you need to vent or are looking for advice. The women on there are amazing. Sending you hugs of comfort and strength, right back!🩷🩵💛 xoxo
I’m so sorry for your loss. Me and my husband have been trying for another baby for over 7 years. We tried on are own for a long time. Then went to a fertility clinic and did 4 iui’s and none of them worked. So then we tried using my own eggs and did ivf that didn’t work. So for the past 2 years or less we have been using donor eggs and I have done a total of 8 transfers. Out of 8 only 2 of them took one took in September but then I miscarried at 6 weeks. Just did a transfer in January it worked i was pregnant but then again had an early miscarriage that I’m still going through now but almost over. My next transfer will be in April.
I am so sorry! 💔 TTC is such a battle in itself- physically and emotionally. The losses in between make it so much harder, but definitely never give up! ❤️I like to remind myself that there is a certain baby that is meant to be born, and the losses have to happen so I can get to that certain baby. I know it’s a weird way to push myself through, but it does seem to help me mentally. Just remember that your determination is there for a reason, and you will get your rainbow! 🌈 Keep me posted on how your April transfer goes! Sending big hugs❤️❤️❤️
