We've all noticed it- Prince Harry has become a different person since he met Meghan Markle in 2016. I wanted to highlight the changes in him since then. This is: Prince Harry Before & After Meghan.
Harry was bewitched. This women Megan 4+years older, she abuse her father sentimental love for her, 'his racial mixed little girl, spoiled rotten by her father and siblings. divorced her first husband by sending him the wedding ring by mail, she want to do all the talking cutting Harry off. 'His Royal family didn't see this coming? 'Prince Harry didn't have his mother to give him advice, she would have keep him away from her. They should have introduced him to a single beautiful, young women to Harry, like his brother William good characters wife. Harry is a very important young figure Prince, 'Every one in the world love and respect them...William and Harry and their families..
Judging by his constant look of abject misery I think he woke up a long time ago and realised he's backed himself into a corner and can't escape. After everything he's said and done and all the people he's insulted he can't just turn round, say "actually I've changed my mind" and expect people to forgive him. Well he could, but he won't because he'd have to admit what a colossal mistake he made.
After the love-bombing comes the devaluation, which incrementally demolishes his happiness and self -esteem ... she has successfully gotten him to believe he cannot function without her ... in his mind, he believes she is the Royal and he is a dunce !! If there were no children involved, I believe there would be a good chance it would have ended by now !! He will need lots of support from family and nation when this is over ... if he's of the right mind to accept help !!
@@cyflym11 No, he hasn't wakened yet. But he is in narcissistic devaluation and thus only receiving crumbs of her affection. He's very confused and trying even harder to please her. It will still take time for him to start to see what's going on. It may even take until she starts filing for the divorce.
Henry Windsor Markle has no personal convictions, and adopts those of stronger personalities.... Good thing the demoted Princeling had a cadre of bodyguards, in Afghanistan.... Can you imagine that cowardly turncoat, captured by the enemy....!?
Before Meghan, he was a genuinely happy and jolly person. After Meghan, he’s now bitter, tense, and distant. That’s what a narcissist does to a person.
We all miss Harry, his warmth, his joy, when i see the first part with the not and happiness and the second part, i get very very sad. The difference: the bring caught in adult life with forgetting how much joy and love he brought to the once around him. Painful to see the big change.
@@cindymoreau1399 she was asked in one of the vid clips , didn't you do a Google search on him ? She replied ( am quoting her words --"-no ,why should l cause i can ask in person what l need to know about him" 🤮 reason strongly dislike her so much. She fills people with vitriol and hate towards her
This is so heartbreaking. As a survivor of narcissistic abuse, I completely understand the stress, confusion, anxiety and sadness that you feel when you're caught up in the never-ending manipulation. I'm sure he's in love with her which is why he stays to deal with it. And since he's shut out his own family, he probably thinks he has no choice but to stay and try to make it work. Been there, done that. I really hope he can realize he needs to get out of it, and take his babies back to England - without her!
*I also am a survivor of narcissistic abuse from my daughter. I hope Harry* *has the strength to leave. She is so poisonous. So evil...She knew his* *vulnerability that he had toward his mother and she used it to control him.* *Get out Harry. Go back to England. Go to a health spa retreat and allow* *them to guide you into physical, mental and emotional wellness. Lay low* *and let the healing begin. Much love from Florida. Go home! and ask for* *forgiveness.*
She has a jezebel spirit in her, and is destroying him. I believe there's terrible abuse and manipulation going on there, and whatever other demons are in HER, are also effecting HIM. Just creepy.
That smile psychologically gives a strong insurance... We all know that everything in her is fake... A fortiory her smile...Which seems to say... Everything is OK...
She's an actress albeit a rubbish one, so she's always posing when she thks there's a camera around. Sometimes when she's talking Harry looks at her in a way that seems to say oh shut up, n stop talking, he appears agitated.
I'm not sure Harry even knows or See's this - It's hard when you live in a Narcissistic environment & your partner is always telling you how great you are now you've left your country, family, job, homes & friends... He can't see it as she's programmed him not to. Which is why he was shocked at the frosty reception at P Philip's funeral!
His greatest loss will be the respect he loss from prince Phillip. Phillip passed his most prize roll as captain general of the Royal Marines to Harry and he all but threw it away after less than 2yrs. No doubt Phillip was extremely disappointed and lost a lot of respect for Harry, whom he was very proud of when he served his country in Iraq. His now passed away and Harry didn’t take time out to spend it with him when he was still in the UK or flew back from Canada or the US to spend time with Phillip. He knew how important Phillips last few years would be as he was so unwell. Harry is a stupid brat.
I agree. But he won't see that for years. Hopefully by then Kate will forgive him. With brothers, it is always the woman who gets there first who gets to stake her claim on "the boys". It is hard to be a happy foursome after that, and someone always ends up losing out. Or the couples just separate. Square pegs, round holes... they never quite fit exactly...
One of my favorites moments of harry was him meeting Usain Bolt and taking off .... miss that harry. Nobody treated him or thought of him as the "spare." He was so beloved for who he was. Meghan turned him into the "spare" for her own gain. This video is heartbreaking
@@maxmaxs9608 Exactly. It's deeply upsetting. He's trying so hard to cling to his mother - even still. I hope he sees through Meghan fast and leaves her before he has completely made an international joke of himself. Doubt it.
It is so sad ... I heard as a bachelor he was terrified that someone would marry him just because of his position ... she pretended she didn't even know who he was !!
His eyes are dead. She’s killed his soul. He looks positively terrified around her, not knowing what faux pas she’ll do next, then having to deal with her behind closed doors. He’s a broken man. It’s obvious he realizes he made a terrible mistake marrying her. His face post MM looks like he’s just eaten a plate of bad clams.
And now she’s using their children as further leverage against him. He needs to get himself free ASAP. I’m sure his family would take him back with open arms, notwithstanding that he sat by and let her smear them
What really makes me sad is the fact that Kate and Harry lost their bond it was soo precious previously how they interacted and now they don't even look at eachother 🥺
Harry claims his brother and father are the ones who are trapped, yet they always seem so happy, especially when next to their wives, while Harry hovers uselessly and miserably next to his smirking wife.
@@ayishaosamatu3390 yes we paid 32 million pounds for their wedding, contributed to their living costs and showed support before and after the wedding until they started bad mouthing us and their families. How dare we.
Praying for a divine intervention for Harry and that he divorces this evil woman.. only once that's done can he truly return to his former beautiful self.. very sad ...
@@christinelawrence4315 He is drowning in self-pity and wallowing in past trauma, rewriting his family history at the same time. And when did this all start?
@@christinelawrence4315 Me too Miss Christine. Am seriously praying for his freedom. PH is not the brightest man - and he knows this....but he has many important talents. And I do not accept that what exists between him and Rachel Meghan Markle is a marriage. Whatever it is, a marriage, no.
Harry clearly adored Kate and wanted to find a woman like her. Harry thought Meghan would step up to the role of being Duchess but he ended up giving his life and family for her.
I think Meghan brain-munched the crap out of him with weird drugs to convince him that she was just like Kate and Diana. She totally played to his insecurities as a son and hopes as a man who would find a wife like Kate. That is super scary.
well he chose to...i recognize narcissism when I see it and im one to say how I feel right away and turn things right back around...he looks miserable but only he can fix that...
Always got the feeling he kinda had a crush on Catherine. But even if not, I agree he was looking for his version of Catherine. Unfortunately for him+the RF, he thought MM would be that person….
Those of us who have broken free of being held hostage by a malignant narcissist know how this changes us forever. It changes a person physically, emotionally, spiritually and destroys your health. I truly despise her, These abusers should be treated like murderers. I feel so sorry for Harry.
@@wj6886 She's someone who brutally murdered her ex boyfriend. A lot of people has pointed to her having narcissistic and manipulative traits, which is similar to what people think of Meghan. You can see a glimpse of that in this video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-WV-TB6LqxDQ.html
She assumed she would automatically become a Royal Icon by marrying Harry. Takes years of work, dedication and service to the people of the UK and the Commonwealth to get there love! She blew it!
@@DianeOwens6272 Rachel Meghan Markle Mountbatten Windsor is the most wonderful woman that she is amazing person and I love her alot she is amazing bye Melissa Matthews higgions bischoff
I mean, the hate she shows when she sees Kate😢 I always said Princess Diana was too much for the monarchy, but this women doesn’t deserve Harry or nothing from UK people and monarchy in general😢😢
I don't know why but this made me teary eyed. He was such a fun loving young man. If this was all an act he needs an Oscar for fooling us all. I feel like he has lost his way and is so deeply troubled by the turn of events in his life. Meghan has separated him from the only people who truly have his well being at heart. She ghosted her own family and now it is just the two of them basically against everyone else. I can see why William is so hurt and Charles as well.
This makes me want to cry. You can really see the difference with him. I really do hope he finds a way out in a positive sense. Narcissism is a real thing and can have permanent mental damage.
@@MsXtraordinary Very odd, just like someone who has some personality disorder, always showing the world she's so happy and smiling but inside her brain is twisted!!! No one smiles all the time like she does, it seems so fake!
Seeing this I just wanna take a moment to appreciate Kate for how beautifully she maintained the family all this time the relationship between the brothers was never disturbed and she merged into the Royal family with grace !!!!! Wonderful women 💖
William made sure Kate knew what her role would be, he gave her time to decide if this was the life she wanted with him, William understood being Royal is not just coming into a family, but hard work, dedication and most of all loyalty, and even though he loved Kate, he wanted her to make that decision for herself, and thankfully for William and for all of us, she became his wife. Kate has grown into her role with such grace. Sadly the total opposite happened with Harry, that woman set out to bag him and even though i do think Harry had issues, she has had detrimental influence on Harry, and as this video shows, he has lost that spark, he looks angry and sad all the time.
BRAVA!! Completely agree! Princess Catherine has a grace and kindness about her. When Harry saw her walking down the isle I didn't know who loved her more... Harry or William.
That’s why I always say it’s a red flag for me when I meet people who has issues with everyone…they are more likely the issue and not those around them.
Everytime Meghan lies Harry looks down,he seems so sad and lost,she has totally isolated him from his family and friends and now all he has is her he probably thinks if he leaves her he won't be able to go home to his family because of all the lies he has told,so he probably feels like he is trapped,I think that it is going to end very badly for Harry,he is just a shell of the person he used to be.
I'm an American living in England now and I really think if he divorced her everyone would welcome him back with open arms because they all blame Meghan for this debacle.
But I think she will take the kids. He will lose them both and runs the risk of serious mental health issues as a result. He looks so sad all the time. He is no longer Harry anymore. She has taken him away from his family but I guarantee if the $$ stops she will dump him.
Yup. He did that when she lied about them being married 3 days before their wedding. As she said that to Oprah, he just looked down and played with the chickens.
She's using Harry to elevate her career, she has no feeling's for him whatsoever, he's just a means to an end , I've never seen him so miserable she never let's him speak he's just an ornament for her.
Yes, that’s true, but I have a feeling, superficially, those people will support her, but, they will turn their backs on her, shun her, she’ll hear of all these parties that she wasn’t invited to, Archie will probably never be invited to birthday parties for classmates, so she’ll be living a useless life of watching it all from the outside. That’s what rich people do. I’ve heard about in murder cases and divorce cases among the filthy rich and famous. To the world, they look like they’re supporting you, but privately, it’s not that way at all. Never could figure out the deception, but that’s what happens, and the only parties she’ll be invited to, if she’s lucky are the people who come out and defend her with stuff Verruca wrote herself and paid them to put it out on their social media accounts.
@@ProudKansan08 - Celebs and rich people won’t wanna be around those they can’t trust, she is always leaking stories to the media. I feel for Archie, I think he’s gonna have a lonely childhood because his mum thinks he’s too famous to have a normal childhood.
It's called gaslighting. I had an American partner who did that to me. Telling me how lucky I was to have her, how no one else would want me, how my career had been a failure (30 years at Buckingham Palace, nearly 21 of them in The Queen's private office,) and just making life miserable. Much happier without her. A narcissistic bully.
Here’s what I think has happened. Who knows what kind of vindictive things were said to him about his father and his father’s family, by his mother and his mother’s family over the years, you only have to go back and listen to Charles Spencer’s eulogy to understand the poison that may have already been planted. But, as the boys grew they become incredibly close, his father, aunt and grandmother have been exceptionally kind, loving, understanding and supportive, then along came this witch, and used his mother and perhaps some of those childhood memories, to turn him against his whole family, make him believe that he is some kind of victim. She works for the devil that one.
I watched this the first time round and 10 months later it's even harder to watch. The change is so dramatic and yet I can't feel sorry for him. His brother and others tried telling him to slow down and he just wouldn't listen.
It's human nature to not listen to the sound advice from others about someone you love. He's fortunate they even expressed their feelings about her to him. Most people just watch a relationship begin, fall apart and end, then say they always wanted to say something to you about how he or she wasn't right for you. Happened to me. Would I have listened if forwarned - I'll never really know the answer. I have moved on and found a good man. Harry will eventually find a good woman and be happy.
It's all rather disturbing when you think about it. She's recreating his dead mother's story so that Harry can "save" her, and thereby save his mum like he couldn't do all those years ago. It's psychological manipulation.
@@dorothyedge2747 For his sake, I actually hope I'm not, but I can't ignore the obvious pattern the Sussex narrative has taken from the start. She even recreated Diana's Panorama interview with Oprah, casting herself in the same role as Diana. And, wouldn't you know it? During the interview, she made it a point to let him know that he saved her. It's extremely calculated, and a really mentally perverse thing to do to someone.
@@francesthorn24 And she wore a dress on Oprah similar to one worn by Wallis Simpson. I didn't realize that until I saw it on Body Language Guy's YT video "The BODY LANGUAGE slip that EXPOSED Meghan's lies: It's around 6.00 if you want to have a look.
It’s such a difficult situation for a family that needs their privacy to do their job. Because, Harry can’t see it as the victim in the midst of a relationship with a narcissistic spouse.
yep, Meghan found a rich vulnerable prince to manipulate. I wonder she will mail back the wedding rings to Harry like her last marriage. It will be a battle over the children one day.
@@ruthyvonne5240 thank god the kids actually belong to the queen, if they want to go on a plane they HAVE to ask the queen first and if she says NO they have to listen. ALL the royals have to do this.
@@thediamonddimanian6716 I thought all the royal children belonged to the Queen, and that's why Fergie was on her own, Andrew got them mainly. Not sure how that would pan out for these two though, with Lily born in the states!
One of the striking things Harry said was that he didn't know he was trapped untill Megan.... We all know he went through alot after his mom died and with drugs and women, but his constant was his relationship with William and Kate and now he is not talking to them, is in a foreign country, not talking to his father, bad mouthed his family, and seems unhappy.
The misery of living with a narcissist, alienated from everything that makes him who he was. He is quickly becoming a shell of a person. And hasn’t realized it yet.
Freudian slip maybe. I haven’t seen the interview, just snippets from other people’s blogs on here and I kind of laughed when he said he didn’t realize he was trapped until Verruca told him he was. Yup, she told him he was trapped now and better go along with everything she wants, since in no uncertain terms, she’s the boss, applesauce. He may not be “trapped” royally, but he’s trapped in other ways. Plus the fact that when you’re a liberal and or involved with one, they’re never happy any way. They’re always angry. Life makes them angry.
@@ProudKansan08 she had to get him away from the people who had her figured out, she had to get him away from his friends, family, heritage military, service, and country, there is nothing left of Harry, she doesn’t even call him by his name. He is alienated from everything he knows. So you are right he is trapped now. 😔 she is a narcissist and like you said she will never be happy and she will continue to blame him.
Well he is 36 years old and he made his bed. Why feel sorry for him? He could have not done that interview or if it was too late he could have said what his wife said was not the truth and let the chips fall where they may. But he chose to go right along with her so now he can lay with it. It is too bad he chose the wrong side.
This is one of the saddest videos I've seen regarding Harry. Do you think she sits around and laughs at what she has accomplished in breaking another humans spirit?
He hasn't genuinely smiled or laughed since early in their engagement. He's now a shell of a human being. If he's lucky she'll find another victim and dump him and the kids so they can live a quiet contry life in England out of the public eye.
Thank you all so much for the positive feedback! I am in no way excusing Harry’s behavior, but it is been a very sad transformation to witness. 😔 We can only hope he eventually sees the light. ♥️
He might. But by then, it will be too late. Verruca and he have burned WAY too many bridges and he’s proven untrustworthy. Apparently, he found that out when he wasn’t welcomed home with open arms, hugs and kisses.
This is so INCREDIBLY SAD!!❤️ He has aged 10 yrs since the wedding! No need for an explanation ! The pictures tell the True Story. I Pray that he finds the strength from within, to rid himself of his Narcissistic wife! It is the only way he will ever find PEACE. 🙏🙏🙏
After his comments on Oprah, you have to wonder who the real Harry is? The Harry who looks to be happy but doesn't know he is trapped?.....or the Harry who has been Saved and set free but looks as miserable as Sin? I don't think he's that good an Actor...he certainly can't remember what he says from one interview to the next. It's sad watching.....you can almost see the wheels coming of the train as it tries to keep a grip on the track ..
yes anger is so visible, probably angry against himself he got trapped and fooled by that fraud of an actress. Anger to avoid swallowing the deep sadness that has emerged from being cut and isolated from his homeland and people.
She is competing with William in a sick way! Sure Meghan was influencing too much in that! Saying something like: But you can do better! He is not better than you!
I was raised by one and then married one. They take your spirit away. What’s so crazy, is that they have no idea what they actually do to a person, because no matter what, it’s always only about them. It’s soul crashing at its finest
Catherine is a lovely person who treated him as a brother , and he referred to her as a sister . It is despicable the way he has let his wife trash Catherine
This is one of the most powerful videos on the internet. Extremely heart breaking to see one of the worlds most beloved princes become the victim of a con artist who is using him for her own personal gain. One can only hope Harry will figure her game out and run back to England. He will need therapy and the support of his family to be even half the man he was before Meghan.
Well, sadly, it was said, he told Obama he wanted his own Micheel Obamal, so this is what he got. His choice. He was warned but failed to heed and listen. We all have to learn our lessons the hard way.
She never looks more serene than when he's looking miserable. Some question whether their relationship is dominatrix/sub, and by the looks of the clip when they sit down to the Cirque performance and he miserably offers his hand, she curtly takes it with a satisfied smile as if he passed a test. Chilling!
I agree. He wanted what his brother had and he dived straight into it without giving it too much thought. And now he’s trapped with no way out. He knows if he loses her, he’ll have no one else. It’s a classic situation of an abusive and toxic relationship where one or both parties stay together when they know they shouldn’t because they’d rather endure it than be alone.
You are very right about that ….except he went for the wrong one….if he had waited another 10 years, to be wiser and smarter he may have found the right one….too young and inexperienced….her on the other hand, knew how to play him…. ;(
Bingo! That’s exactly what I think, and you have to feel a little bit of sadness for the guy who had to watch his brother in a hugely successful relationship with a beautiful and charming woman who was close with and was affectionate with her own family. My narc almost ruined my life.
That's what happened to me. I was dating an older guy for a year, and finally got tired of him crying all the time, I mean he would CRY, on most of our dates, because he was thinking of his ex wife, so I got fed up and dumped him. Went out with a friend of mine, met a guy who wouldn't take the hint, finally went out with him, and he seemed so funny and charming, and I was so desperate to have a man to call my own, I married him and he turned out to be a pathological, narcissist psychopath with a family who enabled him and defended him when you called him out on his ridiculous behavior. I didn't like what he was doing, so, I said, don't include me in your shenanigans, you're on your own, and after seven years of putting up with his selfishness and lunacy, I divorced him. Best thing I ever did in my life.
He had the hearts of his family and the British people, and he looked like a very happy, fun-loving, well-adjusted young man. What a shame he allowed this manipulating, self-serving grifter of a wife to suck the life out of him and alienate him from his family.
Ive been a victim of a narcissist. A real one, not the shallow term thrown around lately. This is what they do. I can confirm. They are soul destroyers.
You missed the picture of Charles and William picking Harry up from an airbase when he returned from Afghanistan, where William carried all his gear for him. Mind you, they were surrounded by aids and their many security, but it was William that carried his stuff. Just the kind of relationship they had. Always loved that photo.
I’d have loved to see that pic. Maybe we should do a compilation of photos of them three together before this toxic woman was in the picture and show the sugars that there wasn’t such abuse as he claims now there was.
Even his father talked about how difficult it was to have him over there, he said, every day and night he was worried about his child he loves Harry MM is horrible
He looks annoyed, bored and disconnected around his wife. They are very poorly matched and have absolutely nothing in common. In a way his body language and facial expressions are very similar to Diana's when around Charles at the end of their marriage. I can't imagine what in the world possessed him to marry her in the first place, the sense of awkwardness and unease was there between them from the beginning. It looks like he's doing this out of a sense of duty towards her, but I can't imagine why he would feel like he owes her anything. Maybe that's how she managed to nab him.
Hoping after surrogate gives birth that the next step in divorce and moving back home. England would embrace him without her, we all see her handprints over everything he’s done since being with her
The honeymoon period is well and truly over. I think he may regret marrying so fast. He does look miserable. He must miss his family. He was so happy and go lucky. Now hes a shell. Its so sad to watch. I feel he does love her however wishes it had turned out differently. I dont like her at all. Shes fake and a liar
@@justcallmehazbeen1stwife250 with respect, I don’t think the UK would welcome him back at all. The spite he’s spewed about every single member of his family will never be forgotten.
As a Brit Ive not had much, if any, sympathy for Harry, but having just watched this channel I'm nearly in tears. So sad to see a man so hung out to dry as he clearly is. I still can't forgive him for the book SPARE though.
This is the saddest video I've seen on Harry. Watching the life be sucked out of him... I pray that one day he will see he is in an abusive relationship and will escape!
he should watch this most of all. well, that might put him over the edge. I'm no doctor but it's such a loss to humanity for him to turn dark inside like her.
I feel so sorry for him. I wish he could see this video. This was me after being in a toxic relationship with a narc for 12 years. The problem is, you don't know they are narcs in the beginning because of all the love bombing, and then before you even realise, they have you caught up in all their bs and you end up depressed and under their control without even knowing it. They are very good at what they do. I hope he gets away from her sooner than later.
Yeah. I was with one for 7 years. He had to have the best of everything because his relatives spoiled him his whole entire life. Even his poor parents got him everything he wanted. I was second class to him - never mind working 40 hrs a week and going to school 40 hours a week. He sucked the life out of me. Conned me out of what little savings I had, promising to start a business in BOTH of our names, only to sneak off to the business bureau to entirely put the business in HIS NAME only so he could call the shots. Evil. To top it off, he didn't like my immediate family or his. He could not stand that I had my own friends. I had to hang around HIS friends only. He would give me the 3rd degree if I went out with my own FEMALE friends. What- he wanted me to hang out with his mostly guy friends who were always trying to hit on me behind his back? In the end he got what he wanted. Someone with a richer family than mine and they had kids and he got the house in the divorce and goes and buys a $150000 car to show off. It's their M.O.
He will not survive what is ahead of him unless he leaves soon he is not strong enough to survive either her leaving him or returning back home to have intense therapy hidden away from society his life what once was has gone forever hes very aware of that . I think he is frightened and knows what is ahead of him Hes in a no win situation unless he snaps out of the fkn juvenile behaviour and realises he has 1 last chance here run with it. I believe he knows that the shit will really hit the fan wen sadly we loose our beloved queen he thinks he gets it bad now he will not survive the backlash he will receive its pretty frightening. People are already angry so he needs to get his shit together asap because he dosnt have a clue what the fuck is heading right his way. He knows that he will face backlash he shit himself with a little alarm call when the queen spent a night in hospital. I can't stand the horrible bastard for his behaviour to our royal family and our country but it is not looking good for him. He knows it he must do hes definitely stupid thick as pig shit infact but can he be that thick to believe that he is and always will have protective bubble around him. NOPE he will need a whole new alias and life for him to survive what is coming to him and I don't think he will get that far like I said he's too weak and far too selfish in every way possible he will take the easy way out. markle is only hanging around for the next big payday from Henry but there is no chance that he will be receiving anything from granny without restrictions in place. She will probably get rid of him when she knows there is nothing. No money no Henry simple as that she probably has her next victim's in her sights ready to jump ship or yacht lol xx
Oh Harry you need to be strong and just come home, and get away from the she devil right now. I really worry for his mental health. William and Kate will stand by him if he comes back and apologises. I know that sounds easy it wont be, but the 1st step to regaining his start on his recovery. His mental health is severely affected by her, and will take years for him to recover, and he probably wont completely. But eventually he could meet someone else and have a simple life married with a family. Im not sure he will ever be a high profile royal again, but i think he has a role in the background somewhere, but a lot of rebuilding and trust needs to be re established within the royal family. Do it now Harry whilst the queen is alive! Or you will regret this lost time with her.
It’s good to watch these again a long time later. I’d forgotten this was in 2 parts. I was smiling during the first half & now I’m crying after the second. I’ve just read a piece on “gaslighting “ which was a stark reminder of what my own life once was. With a narcissist from 16yo - 32 yo, the violence didn’t start until 3 months after the marriage at 21. Then it was battered wife syndrome or gaslighting for the next 11 years. He’d threaten to have me committed if I tried to leave. He knew enough doctors that I believed him for a long time. I know he’s done a lot of hateful things but I can’t help but feel sorry for h.
Kristhel H .. 100% amen to that!!! Although psycho/narcissists are always charming and present to the world as the most wonderful person!! Once they've hooked you the mask is ripped off to expose their truly, ugly and dark soul... it's like being in the grips of Satan.. you need God's Almighty strength to break away from these demons!!! First hand experience.
This is very very true. 100%. Sometimes a person can break you in the very subtlist ways. People and teens should be educated to help people recognise the signs early, and to have the courage to leave that situation. Because the longer they stay, the harder it is to leave.
This is mind blowing. I honestly fear for Harry at this point. To see how radically he has changed is startling and it’s like watching a car crash in slow motion. I think we can all say that we miss the old Harry. I bet his family do too given the obvious love and affection he garnered. Very poignant, thank you.
The difference between the before his wife and after his wife is deeply shocking, you could sense it but this video it's so obvious what she has done to him. So very sad.
She needs to see how unhappy she's made him, you can see the regret on his face and the loss of identity in his eyes. She has her dopey grin on all the time, like I've won
She is a narcissist, she cannot do any wrong, she could never see that he is unhappy, in her world Harry is her prize trophy that proves to everyone how important she is. Harry is doomed.
She can’t “see how unhappy she made him.” Rachel is a narcissist. She used Harry to get the things she knows she deserves: fame, adulation and money. He’s an object to her and once he outlives his usefulness, she will get rid of him.
MM is a malignant narcissist. You are correct in the comment that she looks like she has "won". A narcissist must "win" at all costs. She would like nothing better than for Harry to suicide. He unfortunately looks like he is well on his way to that. I wish that he will get out in time, the man it in deep trouble. Now he is forever connected to her because of the children (her plan, of course.) And God help his children.
From all girls he dated... He looked the happier with Chelsey.... but i guess she was up front and honest and did not wanted to be in the spot light....
Chelsey will always be the Love of his life.. (she's still invited by RF to events) if only he waited, he would of been so happy in Africa with her.. 😢
I met Prince Harry in Afganistan in 2012, and like the first half of this video, he was lively, vibrant and such fun to talk to with that cheeky humour. Cannot believe the man we see today is that same person :-)
I am so afraid that Harry is going to have a real mental breakdown....she controls him in every aspect of his life.....he is really a lost soul and needs saving from that devil of a wife......God Save Our Queen....Canada
Your soul mate only wants the best for you. In most pictures of these 2, she is all smiles and he looks miserable. She sees the same pictures and videos we do.
#6 has free will. #6 is COMPLICIT. It would have taken one phone call. "Granny, I want to leave the succubus". In 10 hours and 45 minutes there would have been a dozen MI 5/6 agents at the door to 'help Harry, Merchie and Lie-Lie pack".
@@stephanienewhouse2056 So hard to live a narcissist they are manipulative and great actors when faking empathy they can be the so loving kind in one minute and evil the second which make pple confused and can smear and lie also she may know so much secrets i mean anyone has secrets but it would be bad for pple of high statues like the royals no one know what she can do...i believe that he can leave easily but i also believe that he knows that this will cost him a lot.
I'm so sorry to hear this. Thats terrible. If you don't mind me asking; do you see/feel similarities here with Harry as with your experience? It's so sad about Harry. Life is way to short hey! Cheers and thankyou. Please ignore my question if it's too painful.🙂🇦🇺
So did I. I was told how lucky I was to have her because no one else would want me, how my friends weren't really friends and what a failure my career had been (actually it wasn't. ) She didn't like my friends so we didn't see them and I was treated as a cash dispenser.
...and they mess with your head as well, until you don't know which way is up. He needs help to get out of that relationship. If he doesn't it will kill him decades before his time.
WOW! Just WOW! The contrast is mind blowing. I wasn't following Harry or the RF that much before she arrived on the scene, I can't believe that he went from that happy-go-lucky personality to this gloom and doom. Scary! I feel sorry for him, even if a lot of it, it's his creation too ( or co-creation).
This makes me so sad. I know what that shift feels like, when you are deep in the grasp of a relationship with a narcissist and it sucks all the joy out of your very being. Yes, Harry chose her as his wife...but I also think her outward beauty and initial charm took Harry, hook line and sinker. The devil doesn't visit you in their true form, the visit you with a nice smile and outwardly ...everything you've ever wanted. There is a palpable change in Harry after he was with Meghan. I noticed that in him, even before I really knew what Meghan was like. I think beyond wasting his years away, the saddest part of this story is Harry is losing the very last years he has left with his Beloved Grandmother, The Matriarch, Her Majesty. Once he looses those years with her, he will never get them back. And he's losing those years to appeal to his wife's wishes.
"A son asked his father the difference between complete and finish. The wise father said if you marry the right person your life is completed, but if you marry the wrong one your life's finished." I always remember this when I come across any news about Prince Harry. Poor soul!
The Queen should call him and let him know that he is loved and welcome home and anything that piece of work wants to throw at him can be tackled as a family, he needs a champion asap I'm seriously worried about what she is capable of.
@Mindthegap HJ OMG…the Queen and the whole Royal family have been doing that ever since he married Rachel! Have you not seen that? Most people believe HMQEII has waited far too long to take action against all the damage those two have caused. Every time Haz has been shown love and the way back, he has turned his back and spoken against the Royal family. He and Rachel have caused much damage,
@@whorlwinds.9750 yes I have seen that. Harry unfortunately shuns the outstretched hand at every turn and I vary in my opinion of him at every turn, but I worry about what that malignant narcissist is turning him into, he seems to have no control over his life and no voice. Harry is vunerable and that woman plays on that, the person we see is just the creation of that witch and the worry is with his depression and all of the mind games she deploys how much of that is messing with his mind. She is driving him to the breaking point.
This really is heartbreaking. He thought he was marrying a good woman. He never saw what was coming. I know because I married a man exactly like her. By the time I realized it, I was in deep and it took years to escape.
Their relationship was so sweet and after William married Kate, it felt as if he now has a sister of his own.. hope he heals and gets back his smile ❤️
@Galloping Goose then he talk about how his family cut him off financially and managed to bought a very big and expensive house - i literally dont understand. "security" they said 😩☝️
This video is probably one of the most disturbing I've seen. We're watching the decline in the emotional and mental well-being of a human being. It's like he died & was reincarnated into a deeply sad, depressed and angry person and when the change occurred is VERY obvious. Putting it into a video like this is almost like a premonition of an inevitable disastrous end for him. His mother would have been heartbroken, along with his father, grandmother and brother, to see him this way. We can only hope that this mess of an emotionally abusive relationship, that so many people are making so much money from, is just a stain in his past and not the end of him.
@@alindaalexander5198 it's hilarious that you call protestants "racist bigots" when your statement illustrates exactly what bigotry is. What laws in the UK are racist? I'll wait why you go find them.
@@alindaalexander5198 ……he worshipped his Mum……he would have listened to her, and in harmony with Wills and his grandfather, they would have won out. Your mouth needs washed out with Lye soap!!
@@alindaalexander5198 Harry's mum would have sussed that psycho out immediately and your a fool if you think he wouldn't listen to her. Princess Diana would have used every tool in her arsenal to get rid of her I assure you. Hurt a mothers child and nothing will stop her from annihilating that person, TRUTH!! I find it to be so funny that even faced with the media and celebs fact checking Harry's wifes claims and finding her to be the liar that she is her sugars are still standing staunchly behind her, which makes you lot to look foolish, and gullible to say the least, please continue to make us laugh 😁
Excellent video and great choice of images. Clearly shows why we Brits all loved Harry. The change really was immediate, as soon as she appeared on the scene the Harry we thought we knew completely disappeared. What we still do not know is whether she brought out the "real" Harry that was there underneath the smiles all along, or if she has completely and utterly destroyed him. I guess only time will tell
Great point! I believe he was genuinely happy and carefree before meeting his wife, but during the Oprah interview I realized he's always been spoiled and entitled. He just always had palace protection of his image.
I agree. I know Princess Diana’s death was tragic and sad, but it has defined Harry’s ENTIRE life. He is a mixed up angry man. I also believe he resented being “the spare” and not the heir. Even in this video you see him constantly trying to get one over on William.
She is always looking for the cameras and always has to be the person being interviewed. Harry stands or sits beside her like a prop. She is nothing without him so she has isolated her meal ticket from all those that love and support him. Making sure he has no way back. The man is a wreck, playing happy families because of his kids.
That is so sad - it really makes you cry. It's hard to believe a woman who supposedly loves him can break him and make him a shell of the person he was. I believe she is evil enough to take pride and pleasure in breaking him. The ending was so hard to watch.
