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Professor Scott Galloway - Why Young Men Are In Decline, And What To Do 

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Talking points: porn, masculinity, male decline, radicalization
Listeners, this one has been a long time coming. I've been a big fan of Scott's work for a long time, and love his no-nonsense approach, particularly when it comes to what's going on with men and modern culture. Not only that, but Scott has the science to back it up, something I deeply appreciate. Men, share this with your friends. Ladies, share this with your men. This is important stuff.
Scott Galloway is a Professor of Marketing at NYU Stern School of Business, where he teaches Brand Strategy and Digital Marketing to second-year MBA students and is the author of the Digital IQ Index ®, a global ranking of prestige brands' digital competence. In 2012, Professor Galloway was named "One of the World's 50 Best Business School Professors" (Poets & Quants). Professor Galloway is also the founder of several firms, including:
-L2, a subscription business intelligence firm serving prestige brands;
-Red Envelope, an e-commerce firm (2007, $100mm revs.); and
-Prophet, a global brand strategy consultancy with 250+ professionals
Professor Galloway was elected to the World Economic Forum's "Global Leaders of Tomorrow," which recognizes 100 individuals under the age of 40 "whose accomplishments have had impact on a global level." Professor Galloway has served on the board of directors of Eddie Bauer (Nasdaq: EBHI), The New York Times Company (NYSE: NYT), Gateway Computer, and Berkeley's Haas School of Business. He received a BA from UCLA and an MBA from UC Berkeley.
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Комментарии : 629   
@ConAntonakos
@ConAntonakos Год назад
Lost my mom during university years. I had to grow up VERY fast. Through adversity, one will truly be tested as a human and will really witness growth.
@seanthundercock6770
@seanthundercock6770 Год назад
Cope
@ariafraidaki2237
@ariafraidaki2237 Год назад
wish you strength...κουράγιο...
@Metaphix
@Metaphix Год назад
I mean that really only goes so far. Enough adversity will destroy you. Children who were abused brutally as kids don't usually grow up and are lawyers and doctors because the adversity made them stronger, they more often become burnouts, criminals, and druggies. Maybe you need that hero back story to convince yourself that you deserve what you have, and those that don't have what you have are weaker and less mature. There is so much that goes into making who we are that is beyond control, not that we can do nothing.
@oceanpacific3841
@oceanpacific3841 Год назад
​@@seanthundercock6770 poor curry cel
@dawncondon6917
@dawncondon6917 Год назад
I have been saying this for 20 years. When my son started in school I could see the actual difference between the girls and boys and how the support to raise up strong girls was soooo prevalent. Scott you are right, the girls needed that support and they took that support and flew to the moon. The boys have been left behind to languish and become angry. Many small towns in third world countries are almost empty of women because the girls got and education, saw a bigger world and more opportunities and left. We can only help women if we help men. Humankind depends on each of us raising each other up
@mipiace2504
@mipiace2504 Год назад
Who would have thought that the female gender would abandon human kind?
@Fatima-kp8hi
@Fatima-kp8hi Год назад
@@mipiace2504 it not like men don’t deserve it. karma is a bitch huh
@yagovmolotov5127
@yagovmolotov5127 Год назад
@Fox Convey LMAO
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 Год назад
@FoxConveyhe’s talking about hypergamy
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 Год назад
@FoxConveybtw men created pretty much everything but I’m sure you already knew that
@thatguy9088
@thatguy9088 Год назад
Growing up I watched every major male figure in my life get absolutely destroyed by family and divorce courts. All of them, without exception, were left broken and shallow shells of themselves. During my time in the military, the cheating was so bad that there were briefings about it. 3 of my war buddies made the choice to end their journey by their own hand after returning home to a surprise baby that was not theirs, and the wives still received all their financial embellishments and were treated like the victms while their mothers were handed a folded flag. The truth of the matter is, men no longer matter in society. We are disposable. Replaceable. We loose more men to their own hands every minute than all of women to all kinds cancer combined, and not so much as a single news story or dollar of federal aid spent on it. If I don't matter to society, then why should it matter to me? I go to work, I pay my bills and my taxes, and I plan for retirement while perusing my own hobbies and interests. I will never marry and never have children, and care very little for the problems of others, because not once did anyone ever care about mine.
@Mncrr
@Mncrr Год назад
Horrific stories. My son talked about the infidelity he heard of while in the military.
@JB-kx9bx
@JB-kx9bx Год назад
600,000 Americans die of cancer every year in the US. If you assume half are women that's still significantly more than the number of male suicides. www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/leading-causes-of-death.htm
@drew8979
@drew8979 Год назад
Yep, while I was deployed overseas we had to disarm one of our guys and put him on suicide watch because he found out that his wife was having an affair with his 1st sergeant. The military was a great front row seat as to why I will probably never get married and why i'm definitely not having kids.
@mariopalencia3347
@mariopalencia3347 Год назад
You need to get over your self pity. Read the following and, hopefully, you move on and forward with your life: "Certainly the most destructive vice if you like, that a person can have. More than pride, which is supposedly the number one of the cardinal sins - is self pity. Self pity is the worst possible emotion anyone can have. And the most destructive. It is, to slightly paraphrase what Wilde said about hatred, and I think actually hatred's a subset of self pity and not the other way around - ' It destroys everything around it, except itself '. Self pity will destroy relationships, it'll destroy anything that's good, it will fulfill all the prophecies it makes and leave only itself. And it's so simple to imagine that one is hard done by, and that things are unfair, and that one is underappreciated, and that if only one had had a chance at this, only one had had a chance at that, things would have gone better, you would be happier if only this, that one is unlucky. All those things. And some of them may well even be true. But, to pity oneself as a result of them is to do oneself an enormous disservice"
@Tetzukai
@Tetzukai Год назад
@@mariopalencia3347 A subset? ​ ​Feeling sorry for yourself out of sorrow as if it’s your own fault and being so disgusted with society so much that you don’t want any involvement with it are two different things, whether someone cheated on you or worse yet your father isn’t your real father and your mother is a whore.
@luciusseneca2715
@luciusseneca2715 Год назад
Graduated from law school in 2009, just in time for the job market to implode. I landed a terrible job at a lousy debt collection mill of a firm for $15 an hour. In 2012 a regional firm stole our largest clients and the firm collapsed. In 2013 I was so broke I moved back home and got a construction job by lying to a temp agency - I told them I'd been disbarred for substance abuse, which isn't true, but prevented being written off as "overqualified," - and paid off my student loans with crazy-big overtime hours.
@intuitivefugitive8852
@intuitivefugitive8852 6 месяцев назад
Can you tell me how you did that without resorting to something crazy … like 👍🏾 I guess it could be a lot worse I could be in debt did you have to pay interest on that debt
@robertmaxa6631
@robertmaxa6631 Год назад
What is considered "failing economically"? Housing prices have far outpaced wages. In Canada, we need to pass the "stress test", to qualify for a mortgage. One can pay rent, that is the same as a mortgage payment, but can't qualify for a mortgage. This is messed up.
@davidaustrian9455
@davidaustrian9455 Год назад
Australia is the same. A housing crisis it is called here.
@millennialsecularandauthri3338
Boomers did this. We should vote to enact policies to increase senior citizen poverty.
@Douglas_Gillette
@Douglas_Gillette Год назад
Paying rent is temporary control of someone else’s stuff. Making a mortgage payment is incrementally paying back someone’s huge sum of money they let you borrow.
@toomuchinformation
@toomuchinformation Год назад
@@millennialsecularandauthri3338 And what would that do?
@millennialsecularandauthri3338
@@toomuchinformation revenge
@drop_messages6226
@drop_messages6226 Год назад
I grew up in the 1990s there was still this feeling of, there was a bright future out there for you, you just had to work for it. I worked my way through college, held down a job, avoided debt. Yet, I still live at home. My grandparents had less than a high school education, yet in that generation most blue collar men could afford a decent house on what would essentially be a blue collar or entry level job. My parents were able to buy a house on one income. That was still possible in their generation. I am a college educated nurse, no debt, yet I cannot afford to move out of my parents house. housing is not affordable for the most educated and hard working. Not only that, but there is no motivation. At the same time, why move out? Taxes are high, cost of living is high and like many men of my generation I could not afford a family even If I was married. oh well, the economic boom of the USA was great while it lasted. if it declines, it declines. I am too burnt out to care
@brennhannon609
@brennhannon609 Год назад
I hear ya man
@drop_messages6226
@drop_messages6226 Год назад
@@brennhannon609 I am middle aged and starting to worry about the next generation. Teenagers coming out of high school are growing up, pose 9/11, post 2008 recession, post forever wars in the middle east, post unaffordable homes. That means, they do not even get the benefit of living in an USA that offers them a fighting chance. Th buck will be passed to them and be told to deal with it.
@Karrthus
@Karrthus Год назад
Least you got a decent job. I worked my way through college as well, but due to lack of vocational opportunities, have ended up spending most of my professional life working at a soul-sucking retail job, the kind of place that careers go to die. Plus I'm 33 and single. But I do have my own rented apartment, so small mercies.
@drop_messages6226
@drop_messages6226 Год назад
@@Karrthus Nursing is a good career. I started as a CNA, then LPN then ADN, all at a community college. It was not a straight shot though. I did a year at community college a long time ago. I remember taking some humanities class and the professor loved to shame the idea of getting an education to make money (to the whole class). Between worthless classes, no direction and working a crappy job at 7-11, a year was all I could handle. I quit my job, lived out of my car. I did the car life thing for 3 years. I would work some job, in some town during the winter months, save money and spend the rest of the year traveling, living out of my car just bumming around. Eventually I ended up halfway across the country, working as a janitor at a hospital. I would sometimes talk to the staff, that turned me onto nursing. So, what did you study in college and what job would you want?
@Karrthus
@Karrthus Год назад
@@drop_messages6226 I did a Bachelor of Arts degree majoring in Literature & Writing. Graduated in 2011. Did the degree because when I left high school back in 2007, I didn't know what I wanted to do, but writing was always my forte, so I thought I'd do Arts as a failsafe. Graduated while working part time as a feature writer at a local newspaper. Got my first big break in journalism in 2013 where I moved up to north west Australia for a journalism cadetship at a newspaper there. This lasted 4 months, before my autistic inept social skills pissed some people in the community off, there were complaints filed, and I soon took a permanent leave of absence. Have been trying to break back into media ever since. What job would I want? Don't know. Something to do with writing. Something to do with cats (big cat lover). Something to do with exercise (I'm quite active). Something that doesn't involve being especially extroverted or especially good with people. I'm just going to admit that I'm not willing to make the kind of sacrifices you are. I am not living out of my car. I currently have no savings, and have almost maxed out my credit card. Have been living paycheck-to-paycheck for the last 6 years. Not through irresponsible purchases, just stuff kept going wrong with the car you expect me to live out of. Also paying for psychology sessions, all my mental health meds, rent. I am one major unexpected expense away from being wiped out. You need money to go study. I'm in no position to even think about considering going back to study. And study what? I don't want to do nursing. I don't know what I want to do. It's hard to think what you want to do when your situation is so dire.
@Henselt1
@Henselt1 Год назад
I'm Gen Z (22 years old), I can tell you a lot of young guys are just forgotten. It's too common to see guys nowadays just gaming it away, wasting their energy into porn, and into pointless things. And I don't blame them, that was exactly how I lived when I left school around 17. Most of these guys that live like this are generally pretty introverted. When I dropped out around age 17, my social life just vanished and didn't really have anyone around me. So for 3-4 years I only had internet friends from random communities on the web, and that is how I lived my life. I see guys basically live the same way more commonly nowadays, and I rarely see women live this way. When you live like that, its easy to fall into the pit and thinking it would change someday but it doesn't. When you lock yourself away, you miss out on a lot of experiences in life that could change you, but because you play video games all day, nothing can touch you and don't mature because there's no experiences to be had. I got lucky, and met a girl somehow even when I was a loser sitting home all day, got my heart absolutely crushed, but after that I just woke up and stopped playing video games, started being interested in building a career and being financially secure, I''m very physically fit too. That external event (break up) made me leave that lifestyle, and guys need some pain to transform, but when you're in your room all day, there's little room for those things to happen.
@AtheismF7W
@AtheismF7W Год назад
Thanks for sharing.
@Augustine-19
@Augustine-19 Год назад
I am also 22 and I feel like I relate to some of these things. This year of my life has been very eye opening on how isolated I was and the anger that I walked around with.
@HonkHonkler
@HonkHonkler Год назад
Why should I bother? This bald fuck literally called his OWN SON a fucking dope... WHY WOULD I DO ANYTHING ELSE!? Go out into a hostile world that belittles me and hates my existence... Or stay hold, smoke a bowl and kill some Necromorphs aboard the USG USG Ishimura as badass space engineer trying to save humanity from a comic horror? I'll take the latter lol.
@alanwilson2073
@alanwilson2073 Год назад
There is nothing in the universe that will change a man like having his heart broken. That's the wake up call, that's when you know that it gets real and that THIS is real and YOU need to get real too. I don't know what happened but most likely she met a guy who had HIS SHIT TOGETHER, more so than you anyway. All I can say to young men today is get fit, get strong, get big, get RID of the PS/XB, get and stack those Benjamin's 'cuz like it or not, they ALL want that home in Aspen.
@Henselt1
@Henselt1 Год назад
@@alanwilson2073 Haha I appreciate the comment. The heart break was a real wake up call, things permanently changed, I gained peace with myself, gymed, and currently just working on building a good career and other entrepreneurial things. As for the guy she went with, he was a whole nutcase, and they split up eventually. I hoped a break up would change him into a better person, but it didn't. Break ups depend on the mindset, some guys completely change into better people, others descend into depression. Thank God I had the former.
@scotts7907
@scotts7907 Год назад
I saw this topic in the news a few days ago, so I've fallen down the rabbit hole to learn how to talk to my 8th grade son and understand what's going on. To try and avoid him getting caught in that trap. I stress to him extra curricular activities after school. If not, he'll just get home and hop on his games. I played video games and still play, but I worry about him not being around other kids physically. And he needs that.
@Richard_Stroker
@Richard_Stroker Год назад
I wish the best of luck to your son :) Good habits like exercise and social connection are best cultivated at an early age.
@annechristie3843
@annechristie3843 Год назад
For my son it was music. Saved his life, always in a band, highly social. If you’re doing drugs at a high level can’t even be in a band! I hope he something he loves beside video games.
@joebriggs5781
@joebriggs5781 Год назад
You’re doing the right thing. If you let kids play video games or watch tv all day…many of them will. It’s not really even their fault, the human body is very adaptive and will start to adapt and normalize and desire a sedentary lifestyle if it’s consistent. The good part is it also works the other way where the more you socialize/exercise etc, the body and mind will start to crave it. It really does come down to parents to help kids in that direction if that’s not their natural inclination, which for some kids it just isn’t.
@Metaphix
@Metaphix Год назад
The fact that he has a father, and one that even considers these things, is a massive, massive head start.
@LucidFL
@LucidFL Год назад
Good on you. Please never make the mistake of letting your children sit inside gaming all day like my parents did to me.
@drumyogi9281
@drumyogi9281 Год назад
I became a drug addict at 13 years old and I had to take care of my mom in my 20's because of her addictions. She would take a lot of different kinds of drugs and would often sleep walk. She had a methadone problem after multiple attempts at rehab. I hated my life and I constantly thought about ending it but everyone thought I was happy because I had a sense of humor. At 35 I am average everything. Below average height, slightly above average income ect. I worked brutal labor for many years in complete isolation. People pretend like life isn't messy. Life is a mess and structure and regiment saved my life. I make sure to always make my bed, wash my dishes and keep my house clean and tidy. If I don't have a plan for the day I will drink and do drugs so I have to work on something because I don't have any friends and I live alone. I don't owe society anything. This dude is only concerned because his retirement fund is being effected. Women never cared about young men. Their voting habbits and social media posts show it. I am not going to sacrifice my life for people who are against me. I will avoid them and hide my money at all costs.
@HonkHonkler
@HonkHonkler Год назад
Nailed it lol.
@Tetzukai
@Tetzukai Год назад
And what about your father?
@Tetzukai
@Tetzukai Год назад
@@drumyogi9281 How the hell did a chad met a drug addict? Something’s going on.
@zeppelin0110
@zeppelin0110 Год назад
This describes the situation many men are in. Thanks for sharing.
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 Год назад
But I grew up in the early 90s and we weren’t praised or uplifted either - we just knew our role in society and went to work. I find it bizarre how much of a gender war there is now - when I was young I never heard of a guy vs girl issue - boys liked girls and girls liked boys. I mean damn I can’t believe it has come to this
@TaysonPlaysGuitar
@TaysonPlaysGuitar Год назад
So true when you said "the human mind can't wrap its head around losing somebody you love till it happens, and the feeling is indescribable." It's a sadness so strong you are physically sick. It's awful and you put it perfectly when you said it's the most unjust thing you'll ever experience. At least the great memories with that loved one remain.
@mikederucki
@mikederucki Год назад
Man here, I agree on what he’s saying except his apparent aversions to newborns and baby raising. Witnessing or helping with child birth is not “gross” and doesn’t require a night nurse on whom to pawn off duties - it’s how we all got here. I caught both of my babies as they emerged from my wife and I was the first person they saw in the world. Those first few seconds of life are something that can never again be replicated or redone. With two kids that time maybe totals to six seconds of my life before placing baby on my wife’s chest. The most emotionally valuable six seconds of my life.
@sfc5774
@sfc5774 Год назад
Beautifully stated. I too was bothered by his crude disregard for the birthing experience (I am a woman….if that matters). I have an adopted son (now 36 yo) and I was in awe when he was placed into my hands (he was 6 months old). What a miracle on so many levels. The whole experience is beyond description and one of the most amazing experiences of my life.
@whatsinaname7076
@whatsinaname7076 5 месяцев назад
emotionally damaged men don't need kids. also, night nurses allow for the next generation of women in law, medicine, journalism. I would rather support women achieving with whatever arrangement works than men who vote against healthcare.
@mikederucki
@mikederucki 5 месяцев назад
@@whatsinaname7076 Seems to me that picking a better man before having children would lead to better outcomes for women than trying to use a night nurse as a replacement for a lousy father figure. My wife has a Doctorate degree in medicine.
@Yaya-cl3tu
@Yaya-cl3tu Год назад
Good lord I love this guy. Great insight and the best dry humor on the planet. And yes, at 45, I can confirm that I'm pissed that a fragrance was not named after me, lol
@mrwilliamwonder
@mrwilliamwonder Год назад
I’m 62. When I was 21 my first real girlfriend played mind games, used me while cheating that I confirmed later. It destroyed me. I knew if it happened again, I wouldn’t survive it so I checked out, went underground and grew cannabis for 35 years in another country. Now I’m back, own 2 homes and can live on investments. I’m not a bad looking guy and workout and look about 45. I’ve really been retired since my 20’s. I listen to Bhad Bhabie “teen rapper”, have had high school girls say nice legs mister when I where shorts. Every woman I meet now over 30, wants to know my occupation and money situation, setting me up for another user situation. It’s just ridiculous and I’m too old for younger girls who aren’t as driven by income. I just can’t be used again and so don’t even try anymore. Took care of my 96 year old dad for the last 4 years and he died last December. A WW2 war hero with a Purple Heart and other medals. He was one of the last surviving Merrill’s Marauder's where he was permanently wounded at age 19 in a firefight where his commanding officer and 6 of his comrades were killed. America is finished, not the country I grew up in anymore. Now I’m moving to probably Eastern Europe and hook up with a women over there I think. I’m not supporting any American women with kids.
@Samsaraindo
@Samsaraindo Год назад
Good plan. I am 40 and am gonna move to mexico
@dkrz8050
@dkrz8050 11 месяцев назад
Hahaha you’re better of moving to Africa you think eustetn European women are just waiting for a 60 yo grandpa from America to swoon them if their feet . It’s not 1980 , everyone has money .
@Creashone
@Creashone 8 месяцев назад
Interesting. I was totally grifted - although I don't know what he actually got out of it. I was left pregnant with my second child, shamed and humiliated in every social circle. It messed up my career. It just destroyed me. I had a sick kid and I eventually got really sick too because I was spreading myself too thin. I had to rely on people who called me a parasite and a loser. My son's father recently grifted his own son when he was 10 years old, promising him gifts and shoes, having him pick them out and talking about sending them for months, never sending anything and then being mean when our son asked about the gifts that were supposedly in the mail. Heartbreaking for my little guy. Sometimes, people are bad. Not all of them though. I hear such kindhearted and real things from men all over the place. I understand how scary it can be to get dating and finding a relationship again. I simply cannot put myself or my kids in that position again right now because the fall out from my own disasters were so impactful I couldn't bear to repeat it. So I think I get it, to a degree. I wish you all the love in the world. Hope you find someone nice who understands the idea of being part of a team.
@coldfinger1
@coldfinger1 Год назад
I always enjoy interviews with Scott Galloway
@irreversablecontentment4651
Gallow is clueless and not qualified
@TaureanDreams
@TaureanDreams Год назад
I enjoy his interviews as well❤
@irreversablecontentment4651
@@TaureanDreams Galloway is a male bashing feminist and a polar opposite of Andrew Tate in a subtle way....
@montezuma6962
@montezuma6962 Год назад
He's terrible. Why would a channel named MANTALKS have this guy on? I feel bad for any male who takes anything he says to heart. He believes @33:08 that men should "get economic security so they can protect others". Why would a man give his money to someone else? @ 43:15 men need a female to keep them in check??? @43:25 bashing 2nd amendment rights. He's a man hater. Very difficult to paint it any other way.
@liverfailure1597
@liverfailure1597 7 месяцев назад
@@irreversablecontentment4651 He's not very based, that's for sure
@nikitaw1982
@nikitaw1982 Год назад
Sees how society treats boys and blames them. Good one mate
@p90perry66
@p90perry66 Год назад
This guy meets the criteria of a great podcast/interview, he’s wicked smart has life experience and can explain his views and opinions very well, but what I love about this guy is occasionally he’ll throw in younger generational slang , but not to sound younger. It’s a part of his vocabulary
@willnorthcote3790
@willnorthcote3790 Год назад
I heard Prof. Galloway at a summit in Sydney and he was by far the most interesting and well-read speaker of the day. His voice resonates with me in this video as well 🙏🏼
@cynthiasoto7098
@cynthiasoto7098 7 месяцев назад
I considered myself a feminist. This content is amazing for men. As a woman i learned so much. It’s great for men and women. Keep up the great work.
@rocket_smash1681
@rocket_smash1681 Год назад
I cried listening to this...for the first time in 35 years of my life, I got confirmation that I am not the only one out there. I am a 35 year old man that is a virgin, never kissed, never held a relationship (let alone talk to a girl). Never had a father in my life, mom was extremely vindictive and hateful towards my dad, no male role model growing up, and worse - my mom was extremely overprotective. This indirectly affected me more than I ever anticipated - I never learned to make friends, have friends in school or in college. I am now what Professor Scott Galloway described - a lonely, broken man who cannot do anything other than count the end days or take the gun that is sitting next to me. I am thinking the later...at my job, a colleague of mine was in the same situation as me (I luckily found someone just like me) and he killed himself a few months ago. I am the next one now - I am not going to allow myself to become a violent, woman hating, gun shooting maniac, I am offing himself before that happens, that's for sure. I am going to go ahead and join my only friend up there, soon.
@durhrhrhrur
@durhrhrhrur Год назад
Get rid of your gun and seek help.
@grzegorzlach7096
@grzegorzlach7096 Год назад
I have those thoughts too. In this situation I usually go fuck it patient either improves or dies. I work out that current situation isn't sustainable and I need to change it. I don't have a plan. If you keep yourself busy until you figure out what you want to do and why you want to do it, you'll be alright. Jordan petersons 12 rules for life helps. But you need to take those steps one at the time. And take your time. Ps I'm also 26 year old virgin forroner with basicly no social life.
@rocket_smash1681
@rocket_smash1681 Год назад
@@durhrhrhrur what do you mean "seek help"? What so-called 'help' is there? You mean try to get help within 10,000+ women's nights out, women's gyms, women's groups, LGBTQ groups, etc.? Yup, great places for young men out there to get help from...society is fucking stupid.
@EricVitoff
@EricVitoff Год назад
Take it easy man. Follow Scott's advice here - those big 3 steps. Get yourself into amazing shape and see how you feel. A better future awaits. There's plenty of wonderful life out there for you to live ❤️❤️
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 Год назад
Stop watching these depressing videos online that only echo depressing news - call your doctor and book an appointment and tell them What’s wrong.. medication can definitely help. Oh and start exercising if you aren’t already.. get offline more
@martypoll
@martypoll Год назад
People skills - So important! I was an engineering manager supporting a DNA production line (Human Genome Project in the early 2000’s). When I was recruiting for new staff the engineering department would try to push engineers/technicians that they said were their most technically proficient people. I always had to push back and explain to them the these people cannot be successful if they can’t listen and communicate patiently and respectfully with our production staff who were primarily young biologists. So not only do you have to put the work in to learn something but you also have to know how to deal productively with all kinds of people. You can start on both these things early in life.
@myfriendgoo2816
@myfriendgoo2816 Год назад
Every company says they want team players and yet the CEOs vote time and again for a party that promotes a 19th century wild-west version of rugged individualism simply because they don't want to pay higher taxes. Zero sympathy. They're reaping what they sowed.
@geton411
@geton411 Год назад
You mean kiss ass ?
@aouna9412
@aouna9412 10 месяцев назад
That sounds sus af menaces 😂😂
@tonydevos
@tonydevos Год назад
I LOVE Scott Galloway. No other way to put it.
@drumyogi9281
@drumyogi9281 Год назад
Why, this whole lecture was an out of touch older man who is attractive and successful lecturing young men why they should adopt progressivism. The reason why they are failing. He grew up under a patriarch conservative society and he is pushing progressivism? Gtfo.
@tonydevos
@tonydevos Год назад
@@drumyogi9281 why does that last question make any sense? have you grown up yet? if i grew up in iran under a theocracy, does that mean I have to push it for the rest of my life?
@irreversablecontentment4651
@irreversablecontentment4651 5 месяцев назад
Galloway is a coward who dont debate
@tonydevos
@tonydevos 5 месяцев назад
@@irreversablecontentment4651 youre lucky he won't debate the likes of you. Time is money that shouldn't be spent on people like you
@thewrongshoes
@thewrongshoes 7 месяцев назад
As a woman, I don't know why men think it's so bad that they haven't had sex in a year 🤷🏾‍♀️. Why do they think they all are entitled to always have sex?
@h8h215
@h8h215 7 месяцев назад
I say a similar thing to women about relationships, you are not owed one both things need to be worked for. The dynamic used to be relationship first s3x second. Now its the other way around which does seem to make it a worrying stat then men arent getting s3x in times where s3x is easy. I think what they are worried about it men have shown significant disinterest in pursuing women for something that is a natural drive in men, in order for men to push there natural drive to one side there must be something very wrong happening to make a man supress these urges.
@ambitiousbeauty1013
@ambitiousbeauty1013 5 месяцев назад
I don't understand it either. I've known attractive woman who went years without s3x by choice. They were happy and content also. I notice single women coming together and joining book clubs, travel clubs, yoga. We have communities of other women we converse with and bond with. It seems more women know how to be happy being single than compared to men.
@steelreserve9050
@steelreserve9050 3 месяца назад
From personal experience as a man it has allot to do with the other men around us allot of men suck like that and they peer pressure you into thinking that you should be getting some action all the time because some of them are and they make you feel like your missing out in result making those men who aren't so "lucky" like them selves to possibly start rudely approaching women trying to smash creating a bad cycle for everyone and so forth, really wish dudes would be more discrete about there sex life and not project it on to others as they should be doing as a grown adult
@timothykaczanowski2603
@timothykaczanowski2603 3 месяца назад
It’s a weird version of male competition. Even so called friends will throw jabs at you for not having a gf or getting laid. Guys are always competing for status through money, athleticism and girls. Also if a guy doesn’t get laid he thinks he’s undesirable by women where I feel like a girl could have it at any moment she just won’t lower her standards rightfully. Idk just my opinion as a 25 yr old guy
@tommygertcher2747
@tommygertcher2747 Месяц назад
It's not sex, it's relationships in general. If they're not having sex it's because they don't have a gf or wife
@treefell100
@treefell100 Год назад
This podcast should be played on repeat to all young men. 13 to 30.
@montezuma6962
@montezuma6962 Год назад
We have enough man haters in the country, why fill men's heads with the words of another one.
@Ben-bg2fy
@Ben-bg2fy Год назад
It would be interesting to see him debate a manosphere person. His arguments against them are basically just wow-just-wow instead of something substantive.
@HonkHonkler
@HonkHonkler Год назад
LOL TRUE
@gibememoni
@gibememoni Год назад
He would get crushed
@Studeb
@Studeb 11 месяцев назад
Great message, I wish I had started going to the gym when I was in my late teens, I started taking it seriously ten years later and it sure changed my confidence with women at the time.
@susanrosegale6646
@susanrosegale6646 Год назад
17:28 - "first time in history a 30 year old isn't doing as well as his or her parents were..." 17:43. "if your under the age of 30 your 24% less wealthy than you were 40 years ago, and people over the age of 70 are 72% more wealthy" ..."its economically more stressful for young people now.." YES, YES, YES - I agree. I am 60 and I know I have it better than this younger generation but I seem to be FOREVER trailing behind the next generation up. I work hard but I was also hit hard by the dot com, the great recession, health care bills, etc...and it feels like I am at the tail end of something great that happened...but nothing to complain about when I look to my son's generation, and watch my nieces and nephews struggle to make it. And now their kids....what the hell happened???
@myfriendgoo2816
@myfriendgoo2816 Год назад
Same age as you, similar experience, but the short answer is the middle class was destroyed and all the wealth went to the top. The biggest thing I hold against the older generation is not paying it forward of the college affordability as was done for them. The three Hs (housing, health care and higher education) have all gone up much faster than inflation for a long time and that has had very real consequences. Boomers just refuse to believe that inconvenient fact, but it's true. And if they can't grasp the math then they were poor students. A 1972 median house, adjusted up for inflation, would be $186K today. Sure, it comes with less conveniences and is smaller, but you don't think there would be takers if I offered that on a quarter-acre lot for $186K? Would have to be in Flint to not start a frenzy.
@darylallen2485
@darylallen2485 Год назад
34:10 - I think the nuance of this "its ok to X" is, the tolerance for such behavior is dependent on the status and attractiveness of the man doing the approaching. SNL did a great skit about this phenomenon with Tom Brady years ago (Sexual Harassment and You - Saturday Night Live). Tom was walking around the office in his underwear and they were swooned. Then the average guy went to the same woman's desk and she filed harassment. What a woman perceives as flirtation from one man is harassment if done by someone deemed less attractive. SNL's skit was hyperbole, but the phenomenon is real. That said, I've never heard a woman admit this nuance out loud.
@toomuchinformation
@toomuchinformation Год назад
But of course that's the case; I don't understand why this is raised as a criticism. YOU respond differently to a woman you're attracted to, than to one you're not, of course women will. What's the issue with this? If Scarlet Johansen walks around with a bikini, then that's cool. If old style Melissa McCarthy does it then it's gross. And yes guys are less likely to see it as a threat for different reasons.
@darylallen2485
@darylallen2485 Год назад
@@toomuchinformation why does it need to be interpreted as a criticism and not just stating facts?
@toomuchinformation
@toomuchinformation Год назад
@@darylallen2485 Because it IS critical.
@thevenomnthecure
@thevenomnthecure Год назад
Look we all love our parents. But I as a parent myself I would have failed if I am relying on my child to financially care for me in retirement. Emotional support? Yes. Financial or Caregiver? No. It's even dangerous to suggest that it's his fault or underachievement for not being able to financially support his mom at 26 (almost 20 years before his financial peak).
@myfriendgoo2816
@myfriendgoo2816 Год назад
Yer right but in the U.S. the knee-jerk reaction of half the population is to think an individual must be to blame. The host also didn't catch it or follow up.
@Creashone
@Creashone 8 месяцев назад
I work in long term care. Most people are cared for by family before they come to us. Most of the visitors - family. Most of the financial support above and beyond government subsidies - family. It is not strange to care for your parents financially, physically, and emotionally when they get old. It's the usual.
@thevenomnthecure
@thevenomnthecure 8 месяцев назад
@@Creashone the key the the diatribe is 26. Most don't have the financial funds to support a parent at that age. Usually when parents need that type of support the child is older with an established career.
@martypoll
@martypoll Год назад
I’m a Baby Boomer who never had kids and I’ve lived outside the United States for 6 years. My recent knowledge of America is received through the news, social media, and RU-vid and, while realizing that this is a filtered view of the US, what I am hearing just boggles my mind. America has become unrecognizable.
@toddjohnson271
@toddjohnson271 Год назад
By design...they must break that republic.
@myfriendgoo2816
@myfriendgoo2816 Год назад
The boomers just can't handle all the increasing diversity and sharing power. It looked like it would work out with early examples like Hawaii and California, but once you got to Texas, Arizona, Georgia, North Carolina and a few others on the verge of becoming plurality states, the ugliness shone through.
@Agoateeman
@Agoateeman Год назад
It's falling apart, especially for men. We truly lack good leaders and more importantly good role models who directly interact with boys and young men.
@joejohnson3814
@joejohnson3814 Год назад
Yah thanks to the boomers lol. Your literally the problem.
@thiccactus
@thiccactus Год назад
Yep, your fellow boomers ran the country into the ground, and we're finally starting to see it's effects.
@dk1828
@dk1828 10 месяцев назад
This was a really balanced conversation. Thank you 😊🙌
@myfriendgoo2816
@myfriendgoo2816 Год назад
The thing with his mom is an indictment of the U.S. health care system. He got basically a third-world-country experience after the hospital time. How many 26-year-olds have the financial resources to pay a nurse $55/hour, especially in this era of college debt? And yet we continue to expect all kinds of things from individuals and turn a blind eye toward a broken system. The whole point of having something MORE than a third-world country is that you're not supposed to get backed into those situations.
@timmartin8191
@timmartin8191 Год назад
When a man has a child with his wife, he becomes a secondary family member. It's all about the baby. Hard to handle, but if your wife is a dedicated mother, it will make so much difference for the kid in the end. Don't worry, she'll hand that kid off to you when he or she turns 14 😂. I'm 62 and the best years of my life were when my kids were at home.
@hudooguru2
@hudooguru2 Год назад
Scott is a super interesting and authentic guy. He reminds me of some of my better bosses over the years that were both inspiring and a little scary. Great interview NIce work.
@myfriendgoo2816
@myfriendgoo2816 Год назад
My theory on Scott is that he's got such a cornucopia of stuff to put out that audiences can pick and choose what they want to remember. I can easily see that working for a no-empathy libertarian, as well as a Bernie Bro. That's not how it's SUPPOSED to work, but people are really bad with their confirmation biases and not wanting to think.
@1008chaz
@1008chaz 9 месяцев назад
Its great to know that people like l, Scott understand the pressures on young men (particularly because you dont often hear that acknowledged by progressive people) but the salutions they provided are as empty as the ones provided by people like Jordan Peterson or Tate (clean your room & work out). I find the reason a lot of guys my age (mid 20s) give up and turn to video games and rugs is because we are surrounded by older men who have spend decades doing everything right (fit, smart, hard working) might lose the house when intrest rates hit, have retirement accounts that got wiped out in 2008, 2010, 2020 and are forced to work into their 70s.
@janiekcarney5482
@janiekcarney5482 Год назад
It’s good for women to hear this conversation.
@justinchapin9789
@justinchapin9789 Год назад
Ive been obsessively reading and listening about this subject. Theres a real lack of strong, progressive, male role models. Ill get the book.
@tahloz6688
@tahloz6688 11 месяцев назад
For all the men not having sex, there’s lots of women as well. And why do women need to be ‘guard rails’ for men? Why do we need to get you on a good path and stop doing things like smoking pot and not washing your clothes. Why do we have to teach men to adult when women are not taught how to do it? I’m a woman and no one taught me how to be domesticated and work and get my shit together. I had to do all that, and then fight my way up a work ladder with men as my bosses, in positions I didn’t think I could get to, because women simply weren’t there. Raise your own selves ffs … we do. I adore men. Love! And I’m super caring .. I just don’t want a man baby, I want a responsible husband who can do what a I can do, who can meet me half way. Maybe I can’t ask for that and I’ll never get it. But maybe I will. And the reason why we look at a man’s earning capacity is because if we want children, at some point we’re going to have to stop working and need some financial support during that time. So of course it matters to us. Some women want their husbands to buy them Gucci bags … most women I know just want a roof over their heads while they are at home for a time raising a nice little family. Scott, you are separating us so strongly. Women and men need to work better together. But no, women don’t need to keep men in check and teach them the way. Do it yourself!! We do!! There is a misconception that women are ‘taught the way’. As far as I know, my female friends and I were not taught how to look after ourselves. It was just expected of us that we be domesticated, so we taught ourselves how to do things like cook and run a load of washing. No one showed me how to do these things, they just expected them of me as a wife so I went and learned them thinking it was my role. If these things were expected of men, they could do it too. But you know … my dad goes to work all day and comes home at 9pm to a cooked meal and his washing done. And that happens because my mum was told that doing those things for him equates to being a good wife. But me … I want to share the cooking and cleaning with a husband until I’m at home with a child, and then when I go back to work I want them to help out again. Because women can do it all, but they shouldn’t have to! Oh and about pornography. I’ve been slapped around by men who watch too much porn and think that they can throw women around and that’s ok and that’s normal. Fuck no it’s not! Mothers and fathers need to teach their kids what good sex is without that crap.
@h8h215
@h8h215 11 месяцев назад
Nothing wrong with anything you have said, and i wish you good luck in finding the man you want, i just think alot of men dont see value in relationships anymore, im sure you have heard the phrase the juice isnt worth the squeeze, women standards are generally too high and the courts dont favor men, men are simple minded if they can get by and have there peace there good, not all men but alot of them. Mgtow group is growing at a rapid rate.
@carmeld45
@carmeld45 7 месяцев назад
@@h8h215 Good riddance, in nature the weak always retreat and the strong live on.
@h8h215
@h8h215 7 месяцев назад
@@carmeld45 i agree i have always said nature will take care of the problems today, the men and women with high standards cannot continue their ideologies because they will die out by nature, look into the population crisis thats happening worldwide.
@whatsinaname7076
@whatsinaname7076 5 месяцев назад
bravo. we are not solving the project that is a mindless man. men need to have some self-respect and solve the reason they're so in need themselves.
@BoostedPastime
@BoostedPastime Месяц назад
I love his work and thank you for having him on the show
@nikitaw1982
@nikitaw1982 Год назад
3 generations of feminist family court.
@direwolf6234
@direwolf6234 Год назад
and 80% of divorces initiated by women ... 'i'm not happy' ...
@blondequijote
@blondequijote Год назад
43:28 - They've destroyed the family, now they want to destroy the 2nd amendment
@irreversablecontentment4651
Galloway just blames the men....!
@direwolf6234
@direwolf6234 Год назад
@@blondequijote not destroy .. just modify it for modern times .. as it was written you could have a black powder musket not an AR ...
@blondequijote
@blondequijote Год назад
@@direwolf6234 Muskets were the assault weapon of their time. They still fit the definition because you can attach a bayonet and empty the magazine with a single trigger pull. People were allowed to own cannons back then and still are. Talk to reenactors if you don't want to read a book.
@CJK-bt4ll
@CJK-bt4ll Год назад
Would required military service help with the immaturity gap between the genders? I think it would. Guys have to be pushed and go through physical, mental and emotional obstacles to grow, much more than women. Let teens sign up at 16 (with parents' permission). They used to allow that and the boomers I spoke with said it was so great for them. Made men out of them.
@MrBratkenSolov
@MrBratkenSolov Месяц назад
2:14 - "shit, it's no longer about me" -- this is indeed a point of no return in your life when you realise that
@darkerisbetter8699
@darkerisbetter8699 Год назад
36:00 - The stories of young men starting a relationship while being "unrefined" demonstrates a complete generational divide. Y'all got your foot in the door, and then developed yourselves. Your sons (most likely) won't get the same lucky breaks - being a full package is a prerequisite.
@harvingwin5840
@harvingwin5840 Год назад
Gratitude is riches. Mom taught me. I left a marriage and job at the Director's Guild in LA and held her ice cold hands for 6 years. It destroyed my life at 40. After 27 years of hell, sustained by her words, I am the happiest person in the whole USA 43:33
@ronaldshiffman9171
@ronaldshiffman9171 3 месяца назад
Please allow me to present my theory (in short form). The beginning of the decline of men in our society happened when the affirmative action rules went into effect about 1972. That year, men represented about 57% of all college students. In 2022, men were about 40% of college students. From a purely statistical calculation, that extreme decline of male enrollment in universities in 50 years is impossible, which means societal policy to advantage women and minority groups over White men can be the only reasonable explanation for the situation we currently find ourselves. Few people understand that. Fewer still admit it, but fortunately, the supreme court rules that affirmative action policies are no longer the law of the land.
@pastorcharleshumphrey9418
@pastorcharleshumphrey9418 Месяц назад
Understand your point but somewhat disagree. Women overall have benefited much more by Title IX and equal rights type legislation more than minorities. I believe if you look at bit closer, the swing is not due to minorities, but largely due to women. Women have taken advantage and capitalized and the working class male has definitely been impacted. A good book that explains this is “Of Boys And Men” by Richard V. Reeves.
@ronaldshiffman9171
@ronaldshiffman9171 Месяц назад
@@pastorcharleshumphrey9418 I agree with you, but I don't think I said anything different than what you said. We are in a mess as a country and I don't see any EASY way out. It took us 50 years to get here and it could easily take 50 more years to right the ship.
@PureYang0
@PureYang0 Год назад
I loved the talk but halfway through as you began talking about needing to recreate the definition of masculinity I realized why our conclusions are so different. I work in tech where more and more people are able to get remote gigs, so perhaps I’m biased when I say what I’m about to say but I believe that just like how social media has globalized cultural communication, in the sense that 40 years ago it would be odd for an average American to have people he called friends all over the world unless they were in the military, today it’s completely normal due to the ability to instantly share ideas and communication all over the world due to internet and social media. These technologies aren’t just turning friendship into an international market, it’s also slowly turning relationships into an international market. So when you talk about traditional forms of masculinity which have power over their women almost as if it’s this archaic form of masculinity that we must change, for the betterment of society, you seem to forget that relationships are now part of a global market. Meaning even if I was born in one country that doesn’t wish for such archaic form of masculinity, now we can just leave that home country and move to a place where traditional men who lead their households from the front are still respected. Saying that you’ll move from your home country to another country to start a family seems far fetched the older you are, but the younger generations who are growing up in the huge global free market, have no second thoughts about the idea of uprooting… So what will the society look like when your strongest men just leave?
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 Год назад
I’m so against what many are saying when it comes to masculinity. Growing up we never talked about masculinity as me and other guys knew what we were supposed to do in life . Today society is sending very warped signals to men and it’s no wonder many of them are confused as to what to do
@fauxdauteur
@fauxdauteur Год назад
Any OG L2 fans here? Scott Galloway use to post a lot of content from that channel before he eventually sold it. That's how I found him, great guy.
@wpoitras
@wpoitras Год назад
o/ I discovered L2 from a RU-vid ad and have been listening to him ever since. I miss those short form market videos. He's replaced them with the Prof G podcast which I believe is more thoughtful and detailed, but harder to consume single topics. What i don't miss is the schtick where he starts yelling. I get he's channeling his boomer cringe (I'm nearly a boomer myself, so I get the impulse to be un-hip which can be funny if done right) but I always felt it was too over the top. I'm guessing he agrees because he's toned it down. Perhaps after too many eye rolls from Kara Swisher he got the hint.
@patriciaveech5393
@patriciaveech5393 Год назад
Excellent interview. I love the honesty and respect.
@TheDustLord
@TheDustLord Год назад
There is an appropriate time to blame women though. You can't deny that.
@afriend_ofthefamily3602
@afriend_ofthefamily3602 Год назад
When is the appropriate time
@PersistentPatriot
@PersistentPatriot Год назад
@@afriend_ofthefamily3602 all day every day whenever appropriate. with much power and independence comes much responsibility. women love claiming independence these days but still want a man to provide 100 percent for them.
@CBT5777
@CBT5777 Год назад
No reason to have kids anymore. Too many people, too expensive, and wouldn't want to burden a child with the cruelty of this existence. Life "is" suffering. Plus, I want to enjoy the little time I have with my hobbies and friends.
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 Год назад
“Wouldn’t want to burden a child with the cruelty of this existence” You live in 2023 and yet you are saying that sort of nonsense? Granted there are problems but do you not realize how lucky you are to be living in this era? There is much more to life than pleasure - your parents should have taught you this
@CBT5777
@CBT5777 Год назад
@@brianmeen2158 I'm not lucky. I am "thankful" that I have a life better than most on this planet. I'm 45 and I have felt more pain than you could possibly imagine. I cannot guarantee that my child will not have to suffer this pain, therefore it's a gamble I'm not willing to take. What's 2023 got to do with anything? Life is gonna get real hard for people in the future. The system is not sustainable. The population can't keep growing forever. Oil won't last forever that's for sure, and then what? Keep having more kids? For what?
@ParksRec
@ParksRec 10 месяцев назад
@@CBT5777I understand you bro. I am in a similar boat. Having kids doesn’t make sense for me either.
@ianpeterson8683
@ianpeterson8683 18 дней назад
@@brianmeen2158did you not listen to the pod?? Some guys are hurting. It’s crazy that this is the first exchange I saw in the comments. Let’s be more human and empathetic, cmon
@mipiace2504
@mipiace2504 7 месяцев назад
I enjoy listening to Scott. This is an important conversation. I wish he would have addressed our culture’s destruction of men through divorce, misandrist laws, and the family courts. Unfortunately, I cannot recommend to my sons to get married. This is a glaring omission.
@irreversablecontentment4651
@irreversablecontentment4651 5 месяцев назад
Galloway is a feminist who wouldnt do that...
@markhazbro4104
@markhazbro4104 4 месяца назад
Great listening opportunity. That was . Thanks
@MLouw_
@MLouw_ 11 месяцев назад
Great discussion with a lot of wisdom. Scott you are outspoken about the bad father Steve Jobs was, and then don’t seem to care that children watch porn. One of the worst things you can do as a current and future father is to watch porn or allow your kids to watch porn.
@williammorris3815
@williammorris3815 Год назад
There is an assumption men would react in a certain way to emboldened feminist women. When men’s reaction to the emboldened feminist women was different than the assumption, the historic male-woman relationship died. A career woman returning home to assume the man would take on homemaker was and is a mistake. MGTOW is as much of a viable reaction as is men switching roles to home maker. The intellectual who thought matriarchal and patriarchal traditional roles would reverse in an equal and opposite manner if the provider homemaker roles reversed was not well thought through indeed.
@matthewsteven5162
@matthewsteven5162 11 месяцев назад
Masculinity cannot be what we want it to be, it is not entirely socially constructed, it is partially socially moulded but it has its roots in biology
@ismaelhall3990
@ismaelhall3990 4 месяца назад
I raise my fist for all the men who are struggling right now!!! As long as you are breathing keep fighting.
@lynngraycom
@lynngraycom Год назад
The Dad of the internet. Thank you sir.
@stacyliddell5038
@stacyliddell5038 Год назад
My dad cut me off after I failed my second year of university. I hated him at the time, but it was the best thing for my resilience and grit. We have a very good relationship now and I am a better man than I would have been if my dad had given me hand outs.
@mempto
@mempto 2 месяца назад
Um ok
@stacyliddell5038
@stacyliddell5038 2 месяца назад
@@mempto um okay to you too.
@janiekcarney5482
@janiekcarney5482 Год назад
Men are wonderful. They’re funny. They’re playful. It’s a blessing to be around them. From a woman.
@MeTubeERG
@MeTubeERG 11 месяцев назад
The men in your life are lucky!
@Laseander
@Laseander Год назад
I see this channel is on the come-up so I want to leave a comment for algorithm help. I appreciated how you let Prof G talk without interruption, and your comments were thoughtful, not just fluff. Great job and keep up the content.
@jaylorettaarchinal3647
@jaylorettaarchinal3647 Год назад
I've watched this video twice with lots of thought. Wonderful insights by these two talented fellas. However, I glean the concept put forth is that an upbringing of poverty leads to high motivation and work ethic whereas wealth leads to the opposite. I do see the logic of this and I agree there's something to it but it's not that simple. As a kid my neighbors were Doctors and successful business owners. I use that as a standard or measuring stick. This motivates me. European and American Jewish people, on the average, do well economically generation after generation. Why hasn't there success and wealth demotived them ? See, it's not simple !!
@Ed-ig7fj
@Ed-ig7fj 9 месяцев назад
Great video. About money, I say: "Money isn't everything...till you don't have it. Then, it's everything." Stay strong, men. --Old Guy
@that_heretic
@that_heretic Год назад
The problem with Scott's point about rich kids failing to create, and immigrant kids doing the best is that's only true so long that the system isn't rigged to create an aristocracy. In the States we've created systems that reinforce and create an aristocratic class. We call it meritocracy.
@robdog114
@robdog114 Год назад
Aristocracy is the natural end state of all societies. Pareto principle 101
@davyroger3773
@davyroger3773 Год назад
A true aristocracy, is a meritocracy
@koshka02
@koshka02 Год назад
If this issue gets ignored, society is doomed. The next generation is fucked. COVID lockdowns certainly contributed to it as well.
@yagovmolotov5127
@yagovmolotov5127 Год назад
my entire life is a covid lockdown
@HashFace253
@HashFace253 Год назад
My wife and I stayed at my parents for almost a year a while ago. Was horrible! But not really (decent normal relationship) but it is odd now that society is like oh your 23 on your own raise the family. That's kind of 50's picturesque boomer shit. Like all of human history you were with the tribe clan or family basically forever. When you were 18 you were a net contributor but you weren't just severed. You could rely on and be relied on. I've never really helped my cousins with anything lol
@126theman
@126theman Год назад
I’d love to hear your thoughts, this talk of self-improvement before dating doesn’t make sense with Maslow hierarchy of needs.
@jeremyyenor5439
@jeremyyenor5439 Год назад
So true at 25 shit really does get real
@azmomconnection
@azmomconnection Год назад
I'm a boy mom. I tell him on an almost weekly basis, that I admire men and boys. He has to feel protected by society and speak up when he's hurt. And I tell him society has to change to treat boys and men kinder, and gentler and more fair. I believe life is a fun, wild ride and we're here to enjoy it. I'm raising a boy who I say: my number 1 goal is that you can be happy and healthy when you grow up. That's it!!!
@aquarius-woman5364
@aquarius-woman5364 Год назад
Where is his father?
@sweetpoptart9486
@sweetpoptart9486 Год назад
Men have een cuddle for centuries..
@aquarius-woman5364
@aquarius-woman5364 Год назад
@@sweetpoptart9486 Its the mothers babying them and once they become teenagers/ adults it becomes everyone's fault. I have sisters and brothers all my sisters and I went to college because we were poor and had no other choice than to get out of poverty through school. 1 out of 4 brothers refused to go to school because they felt it was to much work. They wanted fast money without the hard work. My sisters and I worked while going to school. It was hard and I wanted to give up many times but I stayed. Boys want quick fix.
@NegritaBrujita
@NegritaBrujita Год назад
It’s sounds like your raising an entitled, codependent man boy.
@direwolf6234
@direwolf6234 Год назад
@@aquarius-woman5364 tell that to the women that demand to be supported by men ..
@flakeyjay
@flakeyjay Год назад
Scott is a great interview.
@dand4323
@dand4323 7 месяцев назад
Shit’s about to hit the fan in this country
@joecoffee7750
@joecoffee7750 Год назад
Why won’t Scott address why men are still being discriminated against in college admissions? I like Scott, but I wish he would address this one issue and maybe he can’t because he is employed at NYU.
@jz372
@jz372 4 месяца назад
They are not being discriminated. Women have better grades so they get admitted. They study more. Simple.
@noahmccay6048
@noahmccay6048 9 месяцев назад
Ive been really frustrated lately because in the last year i have 1. Gone back to finish college. 2. Started going to the gym 4-5 days a week. 3. Making myself go to somewhere I can meet people at least once a week. 4. Started seeing a therapist on a weekly basis. 5. Bought a new wardrobe. 6. Found ways to make money while going to school full time Ive done all these things and feel just as alone and socially ostracized as before and i feel that hopelessness creeping back in. It's really frustrating
@abm672
@abm672 8 месяцев назад
Don't give up, it will pay off 💪
@aeiou0123
@aeiou0123 6 месяцев назад
Then you need to look into why you dont feel good. Are u just going to college just to go? Or you have some specific goals you need college for? Are you just going to the gym just to go? Or you have some specific health n mental targets? Life only feels good n makes sense if we r making choices based on measurable goals. Meanwhile also look into your diet, perhaps you are lacking some mental nutrition? Looking into eating raw ginger n cloves daily or take a ginger shot a day :). It really helps with mood n mental clarity
@greatgyatso5429
@greatgyatso5429 5 месяцев назад
I think if everybody is struggling, and nobody under 30 can afford a house, the answer is that the system needs fixing, not that everyone who wasn’t “grandfathered” into success before several natural and social calamities raised the difficulty level of life, needs to “level up” even further than their parents had to. “Grit” isn’t it. I cringe when I realize how far we are from groundbreaking discoveries that we may never reach, because we have let our parents convince us that life has to be a struggle to survive. You can’t cure cancer if you have to take a job that will pay your hundreds of thousands in student loan debt, instead of the research job that would pave the way for that, but you have to turn down for financial reasons.
@maxwoodbridge1264
@maxwoodbridge1264 Год назад
Don't conflate gun ownership with failing men. Me and all my gun enthusiast buddies are all highly successful, married, and mostly with kids
@Rinka277
@Rinka277 Год назад
such a great discussion. thank you both!
@colbalt95
@colbalt95 Год назад
6ft tall six-figure black man 6 pack in my 20s and has enough emotional intelligence to understand the importance and putting myself first. Because of the mass emotional manipulation and the punishment Family Court bring on good hard-working men I advise every dutiful man to get their passport and at least see what Eastern traditional women had to offer.
@toomuchinformation
@toomuchinformation Год назад
Have you?
@mackeejack6731
@mackeejack6731 Год назад
Dude you’re black. This is the easiest time in human history to be a black male. Women want simply because you’re black, as do companies, you’re jacked without any real effort. Tf do you have to complain about?
@yagovmolotov5127
@yagovmolotov5127 Год назад
why did you feel the need to start off with your height
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 Год назад
@@yagovmolotov5127ol and his race too .. cringe
@colbalt95
@colbalt95 Год назад
@yagov molotov Because the majority of dating is on apps and in America many women have a hard cut off at 6'. I do well all things considered in my 20s but the wife prospects is toast.
@colbalt95
@colbalt95 Год назад
Fellas, Time is a man's ally and a woman's adversary. If your military or gainfully employed I'd suggest you wait till your 40 to start a family. At that age a man is old enough to have his life together but young enough to where he can still easily attract 20s, 30s and 40s women. You'll know what you have to lose.
@AkwaIbomDoll
@AkwaIbomDoll Год назад
No 20s woman wants a man twice her age please BFFR 🤣🤣🤣
@sarahlo4661
@sarahlo4661 16 дней назад
Now as far as the guardrails go, no one tells me to put on a clean shirt. I don’t think it’s a woman’s job to tell a man basic things. That drive should come from within because the person cares about themselves.
@kevincurrie-knight3267
@kevincurrie-knight3267 Год назад
A bit of a counterpoint: I get what Galloway is saying and I've seen the same statistics, and am also worried about them. BUT if we go back to books like Hannah Rosin's End of Men (which was a statistically solid chronicling of all of these trends even seven+ years ago), she noticed something. Women were just more elastic and willing to be flexible than men. Women were willing to go into those careers traditionally handled by men, and men were not equally willing to go into traditionally female careers. Women were willing and able to take on household roles traditionally performed by men, while men's comfort levels extended only to releasing those roles and spending the rest of the time playing video games. So, in some sense, you do have to blame the men a bit here. We can say that men just didn't have role models for how to embody this less traditional version of manhood. Sure, but the women didn't have such female role models either when crossing into a more expansive femininity. Men who wait for someone else to show them how to do it are playing a losing game. Go out and see what needs to be done, what niches you can fulfill; then do those things.
@lez2884
@lez2884 Год назад
I agree, think women are better at doing it all. It will eventually take a toll on our health. Sadly most of the things mentioned in this video have been a problems in the black community for a really long time. Women have been out performing the males since the 90s at least. Don't think anything has been tilted towards women. Think things have been evened out. Still men make considerably more than woman; especially women of color.
@geoffstemen3652
@geoffstemen3652 Год назад
This take seems like it lacks a basic knowledge of what careers are male / female and why, as well as what the respective populations in professions actually are today.
@anonnymous7009
@anonnymous7009 Год назад
Why? I don't see any benefit in what you are suggesting. Doing the minimum, playing videogames, watching porn is not only the path of least resistance, it's the superior path in terms of happiness and mental wellbeing. I mean losing custody over your kids and being no fault divorce raped isn't really the future a guy dreams of.
@Alaninbroomfield
@Alaninbroomfield Год назад
Women refuse to do plumbing, electrical, and most mechanical jobs. They refuse to be homebuilders, sanitation workers, or many other vacations that, without such men filling the roles, modern industrial society would collapse.
@126theman
@126theman Год назад
Why would you be masculine if you don’t get the dominance benefits? There are so many problems with this approach for me, a young man.
@TaureanDreams
@TaureanDreams Год назад
What are dominance benefits?
@126theman
@126theman Год назад
@@TaureanDreams made this comment awhile ago so can’t remember exactly, but I think I meant the power over others which is here called toxically masculine. What I’m asking is, why would I dominate myself in service of masculinity if it doesn’t help me dominate others? Not that I want to dominate others a lot but I don’t want to dominate myself either. I’d have to rewatch the video to answer better.
@devman1238
@devman1238 Год назад
I was in a fraternity for years before graduating into tech in 2020. I started writing a book on men's mental health and gen z men because I saw it all. Drugs, violence, money problems, etc. Only 15% of my closer male friends have a girlfriend (I have basically always been in a relationship since 19) I hear them say concerning things and sound defeatist and try to call them out on their BS. I choose to live at home so I can save a ton of money but make over 100k. While I'm saving, it's crazy to me that I feel the rising COL and going out is so expensive. Rough times out there. Rough times out there.
@johnw6468
@johnw6468 9 месяцев назад
Did u finish book ? What will name of it be ?
@rafalrocks
@rafalrocks 6 месяцев назад
Life is sink or swim. Period. You're mostly prewired for the former or the latter. Genetics is a bitch
@DanielGoldMcduckRose
@DanielGoldMcduckRose Год назад
Ive gained alot insight from Scott from his books or talks.
@BennieWilll
@BennieWilll Год назад
Yes, your 20s and 30s are a grind, but some love the grind. I honestly hate the idea of growing older, slowing down, and settling down. I thrive on chaos and disorder.
@direwolf6234
@direwolf6234 Год назад
move to ukraine ....
@martypoll
@martypoll Год назад
It’s not so much about slowing down and settling down. It that by the time you’ve reached your 50’s you’ve had enough experiences that you can be more confident that you can handle what life throws at you. There is a certain happiness that comes with confidence. Also, chaos may seem exciting now but after 30 years it gets kinda old and it’s time to find something else to do.
@BennieWilll
@BennieWilll Год назад
@@martypoll I see what you are saying. You're talking about having less fear as you get older. The chaos comes from feelings of uncertainty, not knowing what is going to happen next. You're saying that by the time you grow older, you are confident in what you have worked for. It doesn't have to mean boring, but more secure.
@myfriendgoo2816
@myfriendgoo2816 Год назад
@@BennieWilll Or it could just mean that you know the worst-case on most things won't be the end of the world.
@BennieWilll
@BennieWilll Год назад
@@myfriendgoo2816 In my case right now in my life, the worst case scenarios would literally be the end of my world. Lol.
@redboy8883
@redboy8883 Год назад
Yes workout, get a job, join groups. Do it all with people.
@economicallyshort5184
@economicallyshort5184 5 месяцев назад
32:26 this also requires men to adopt a different vision of femininity - they can’t refuse to do “feminine” labeled tasks such as cooking, cleaning, child caretaking, etc. and refusing to do such tasks because it’s “feminine”. That’s a cop out either out of laziness, and/or men don’t want to be labeled as “feminine” for being an active participant in the household with their partner, which includes these sorts of tasks. Women get the raw end of marriage because beta/$50k< men are okay with their wife to be masculine/expect their wife to go work for another man because their job doesn’t cover all of the household bills, and also take care of children (including him), elder in-laws/parents, the house, etc. Men need to put their ego down on this regard, too. Women want an active participant in their marriages now, they aren’t reliant upon their partner for survival anymore. And both sexes need to put down the power play of asserting how much money they make individually as a bargaining chip in negotiating power in the relationship - no one cares that you are an adult and can pay your bills. And men, you need to pay for a roof over your head, car, etc if you were single, so stop using that as a power play on women and that it’s an obligation and you are sacrificing so much to maintain the roof and car you would’ve had regardless of whether you were in the marriage. No one put you under duress and told you to choose a wife and have children. Take accountability. If you want to remain single and not have the obligation of higher cost of living, then remain single. But don’t complain when you want to be married and have a family and blame your wife/family that you’re miserable because it costs $300k/yr to raise two kids. Don’t have children, don’t be married. It was never a “sacrifice” - it was your choice to bring children into the world.
@h8h215
@h8h215 5 месяцев назад
I agree with alot of this however there are a few things that need exploring further, men dont view working at home/cleaning/ looking after kids as feminine work that only the woman should do because its feminine, men do understand masculinity and femininity flows through us all, its all about where it counts that matters in terms of attractiveness, attitude being a great example, if im speaking to a women who has a masculine frame/attitude its a turn off for me, i dont have to understand it or make allowances i dont want deal with it and move on. Your ultimate point comes down to peferences in what men value in women, if i want to be with a stay at home woman i have a goal to reach which makes me focus on my career even more until i reach that threshold where i can cover all the bills or i dont reach it and i never have a family, this is a choice men can make if they want to and with the current trends this is what men are choosing to do. Its the paradox of choice feminism suggested to women that you can have it all, successful career + family and this doesnt seem to be correct information, look up tall girl problem by chris williamson, you speak about men and women being equal with work load and yet women still crave for traditional men and are hypergamous.
@dumfriesspearhead7398
@dumfriesspearhead7398 11 месяцев назад
At 5:00. This is something that is rarely acknowledged; that rich kids rarely increase the wealth they've been left with and often lose large chunks of it. All of the businesses under Lachlan Murdoch's watch have lost money; those which aren't have been profitable. Kerry Packer's son lost 500m off his father's 1bn business empire.
@bigworm3886
@bigworm3886 Год назад
Eehh this was an okay analysis of whats going on mostly based on anecdotes. A more macro perspective would’ve been helpful. For one most white collar jobs these days require skills which women are at par or in an advantage to men (i.e., collaboration). I dont think men are failing for the lack of trying but instead the idea of what a man is in 21st century will have to and is being re-written to consider what are more feminine traits like helping doing household chores, being more empathetic, etc.
@skylord281
@skylord281 5 месяцев назад
42:55 was a really weird cut. He was saying that Tate's videos were productive (not sure if i agree) but then immediately cuts to misogyny. Why?
@cryptohodler824
@cryptohodler824 Год назад
No, i will say this after carefully listening to discussion and then looking at numbers. Lets take a look at the problem and why i think Scott Galloway is scared of the mob of left and is spouting idiotic claims. If we take a look at demography decline where is it happening. At the west, mostly and only at the west. We need to ask why. What happened at the west that did not happen in undeveloped world. Emancipation and incorporating women in work force. It was a need , capitalism needed women in work force , and now we have men and women working equally, its good, yea its good, but not for birth rates and evidence shows it. What Scott is saying, we need to invent new masculinity, Scott it does not work like that. You can not reinvent nature. Men and women form family for improving their life and get more safe. Men has a wife at home that brings and tends to children, women has a protector and provider, that is why family formed when we formed non moving societies. Its in nature, man needs to protect and provide. What happened in western world. Women and Man work, and by forming family they actually lose money, and safety. How? Women lose security in their job, women are incentivized not to have children if they want career. Men open themselves up to divorce and courts losing 50% of all they worked for up to that point, and prospect of losing part of income forever. So western civilization does not incentivize successful men to have family nor women. It really only incentivizes sex , abortion and changing of partners. NO SCOTT YOU CAN NOT HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT. NOBODY CAN, WESTERN SOCIETY INCENTIVIZES BREAK OF FAMILY AND FALL OF BIRTH RATES. FAMILY IN WEST IS NOT INCREASING SAFETY FOR WOMEN OR FOR MEN, IT LOWERS IT, AND ITS BETTER NOT TO MARRY OR HAVE CHILDREN . AND WHEN YOU LOOK AT BIRTH RATES OF ALL WESTERN EMANCIPATED COUNTRIES BIRTH RATES ARE BELOW 1.7 FALLING DOWN, WELL UNDER REPLACEMENT LEVEL WHICH PUTS SOCIETY IN DANGER, PENSION FUNDS ETC , WHILE POOR WORLD IS HAVING IN SOME CASES BIRTH RATES WELL ABOVE 3.0 OR MORE, ITS CLEAR AS DAY. WE WILL NOT REINVENT MASCULINITY OR FAMILY , IT WILL DISAPPEAR IN WESTERN WORLD, AND YOU WILL IN 100 YEARS HAVE SOCIETY WHERE PEOPLE WILL LIKELY LIVE WELL IN TO 100s WITHOUT KIDS OR PARTNERS, WITH TECHNOLOGY AS THEIR ONLY COMPANION, HELPER AND FRIEND. ITS PATH WE HAVE TAKEN.
@brockroth
@brockroth 4 месяца назад
We also need a father in the first place. Not having a dad is disaterious as a guy growing up. Not having family time ultimately leads to not knowing how to start one. Just my 2 cents.
@josephshepard2962
@josephshepard2962 Год назад
Owning a firearm does NOT make you a bad citizen. Other than that, good interview.
@TheAnbyrley
@TheAnbyrley Год назад
Ephesians 2:10 -- at least this is motivating for me.
@direwolf6234
@direwolf6234 Год назад
where was galloway's dad ?? wiki says he was a sales executive .. did he die or abandon them ??
@LanceyKersti
@LanceyKersti Год назад
One is boarding school.
@SlomoUofR
@SlomoUofR Год назад
How does owning a gun make you a shitty citizen? The second amendment is unique among nations and legal gun owners are not the ones committing crimes.
@jackfaber7710
@jackfaber7710 9 месяцев назад
fear make u a shitty citizen. and fear is in every gun owner.
@lxdzii
@lxdzii Год назад
I didn't get Professor Scott Galloway's new upcoming book name...? there's something wrong with my audio
@LRF49
@LRF49 Год назад
I'm getting a vasectomy. I'm 39 and I failed at finding a woman to have a kid with. At this point in my life, I'm stable and happy. Why ruin a good thing by having kids?
@direwolf6234
@direwolf6234 Год назад
and then you reach the stage in life where you are neater cleaner and more financially secure than the women you see & date and say why bother as they add little to no value to your life ....
@travis3430
@travis3430 Год назад
These women ignored you or you had a terrible relationship with them in your 20's...& now they're struggling financially, with a kid or 2 in tow, along with a dog & you're supposed to man up & take her out for meals & make her feel special. No thanks.
@TYAC_TPE_SF-Bay
@TYAC_TPE_SF-Bay Год назад
Establish more trade schools with associate degrees. Practical + knowledge.
@drew8979
@drew8979 Год назад
I've been working since I was 13 and most of the jobs sucked but it's character building for sure and sets the tone for the rest of your life. Also, my time in the military really molded me and gave a lot of great life lessons that a lot of young men are lacking today. I find it unbelievable that most teenagers nowadays don't even have a job. This country is getting soft.
@deborahalissa
@deborahalissa 9 месяцев назад
Birth as "gross." Sad and immature. Women need to be treated as equals and we are superior in being able to give life.
@jackfaber7710
@jackfaber7710 9 месяцев назад
hole can never be equal. u are under me. i p0wn u.
@brianna3340
@brianna3340 5 месяцев назад
facts
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