Keep in mind folks that this girl is five years old, she's acting precisely like a five year old, only worse because her childhood is repressed due to her psychotic failure of a mother. So cut the kid some slack, at least she's the only one in that fucking room who is being herself.
Ikr! And she could have adhd, I have it and I acted like that when I was her age and I'm completely sane. Also, the kids I babysit act like that its adorable 💜
No, actually i disagree very strongly with your notion that this behaviour is typical for a 5 year old. Making faces, maybe. But being unable to answer a question articulately is NOT typical for a 5 year old. The kid is not only a complete space cadet, she has a parent who is raising her to be as much of a space cadet as possible.
Wow! When he said depression follows all that attention; did anyone not see his words as truth today? ☹️ For sure, it was alot of pressure for her. Rest in peace Kailia. ❤️
I don't see anything wrong or " psychotic" about the little girl. She's 5 how is she supposed to act when all she See's is herself in a camera all "dolled up" all of the 5 year old girls I know/knew would have been acting the same way.
+HeyJay ya but if that was my child im not sure if I would let her be in pageants because that does affect their attitude in some aspect. and that guy that just randomly grabbed her hand to make her focus, ooooo if hat was my child he would have been in the fucking ground by now.
+HeyJay Yeah it's obvious she's seeing herself in the monitor and playing with it. No different than a kid that age in a convenience stores, seeing themselves in the monitor.
@3:27 Interviewer: Kalia is learning to grow up with excessive attention and when that attention finally goes away, she won't know what to do. The depression follows that; there are a lot of disorders that can follow that because she gets so much attention now. Mother: She's always had attention. Interviewer: Yes, its too much. Mother: I don't think there's ever too much attention a child can have. I guess he was right all along, and it's unfortunate that the mother failed to realize that until it was too late. RIP.
We never learn, hundreds of incident like this sure never enough for humans to be aware. Its funny when your dead how people start to act mature and concern. I'm pointing it to all not just suicide matter.
It’s always the parents who say “nah, not my child” who will pay the highest cost. All parents need to realize this, don’t ever think that it will “never” be YOUR kid. This mother didn’t listen at all, I’m sure there were a million signs beforehand that went right over her head.
I mean, she's staring in front of her and making faces and waving... it makes sense, ya know? I mean, I don't agree on the pageants, but this little girl is not crazy, hahaha
She seems a lil self- obsessed to me. I did dance competitions alot as a kid and i dont remember being this obsessed - yes every1 is dif but i stil think that to much of a good thing is a bad thing as far as attention overload. I do agree tho that she isnt 'crazy'. Anyway peace and light to all! :-)
true, but that's just because of these competitions. I did ballet competitions as well, but that doesn't do that to you. But either way, the competitions are the reason for the way she acts in this video
There's probably a monitor in front of her with which she can see herself. She's just playing. My son is five and he can't sit still for one minute. At least this kid stayed put in her chair!
booboo googoo Of course being taught narcissism isn't "normal!" YOU brought up narcissism, I just made a connection between this kid and my own little boy. Also, (and this may be totally unrelated,) my son was JUST diagnosed with ADHD. I noticed some of the same "quirkiness" (for lack of a better word,) in this little girl that my son also portrays. Although most little kids can barely sit still without squirming,. at dinner, my son can't sit still for more than a bite at a time. I mean, he takes a bite and takes off, literally running in circles or trying to climb on the table. He also would (and still does) develop short lived facial tics that would get consistent and then die down and disappear. So many other factors were (and still are) a part of my son that were worrisome, to say the least, and, thankfully, after the diagnosis from our pediatrician, we are able to have access to the state and town's offered services that I'm still learning about but will absolutely use. All I can feel is relief at this point. Now, I'm not saying that the little girl in this clip is ADHD at all, but I AM saying that you aren't her parent. You do not know anything about her and for you to call her "RUDE" is absolutely callous of you as well as judgemental, ignorant and insensitive. You don't know her, or her family or how she's being brought up behind closed doors. You're supposedly an adult, yet to make such a direct comment the way you did was just ignorant. It was also RUDE.
Poor little child, she is so confused and has no clue about what she is upto!!! I feel so bad for her, she is being expected to sit, dress and behave like an adult!!! There is a reason why we have 5 different stages of life...baby, child, adolescence, adult and old age!!!
+Drake Drones It's interesting that she can't respond to the question, "What do you like to do?" She either doesn't know or can't say in front of her mother. I recall a child begging to quit the pageant shit and let her play baseball. The mother said something like, "You don't like baseball; you like being pretty! What little girl would want baseball instead of pageants?" That mother was telling her daughter what's acceptable to feel, and it certainly wasn't what the child felt. How can any mother deprive her daughter The other question she couldn't answer was about what makes her mother happy. She looked dumbfounded. Imagine any child you know being unable to make her/his mom happy, because s/he just didn't know what she did that mommy liked! This is some sick shit.
She seems to be going through her stage routine; look cute, look shocked, air kiss, wave. Poor kid doesn't know how to act, she's on autopilot in front of a camera.
Completely, it's as if the child is on a modeling shoot with a still camera not a videocamera. At either rate it's all "disturbia" and one of the WORST culture oddities and unhealthy aspects of the USA culture.
From a psychologist's point of view, it's actually so sad to see the reason she's behaving like that is that she's TERRIFIED of being on camera, and she doesn't really know what to do with her face. Also, she's completely disconnected from what's going on around her, so that probably means she DOESN'T LIKE what her mother makes her do. Most kids, when asked "what do you like?" will answer with something like "I like to play", "I like to be my sister", etc. They won't give you deep answers, but they won't say "I don't know". This kid doesn't truly know who she is, because her mother is obviously extremely dominant.
Or she's doing what every single one of us do in the mirror when we are alone because she probably can see herself on a screen and she's not really being included in the conversation so she's bored
Nephania Black xD Or she doesn't know. This kid wasn't really paying attention. Her focus was on the camera and the screen where she could see herself. All the adults would have been more concerned for her if she really was acting like that on her own. As a little kid I also loved making funny faces and seeing myself
I was gonna come down here and comment and you literally said exactly what I saw. It's really sad to see this little girls childhood being robbed from her controlling and Dominate mother. She's got this little girl inside of her who has never been free nor does she even have a clue that this isn't how little girls live. I feel very sad for her. I could tell the mother was getting very irritated with her behavior and the man interviewing was concerned for her. It really blows my mind how oblivious people are to this sad truth. It's not just cute. It's not psychotic. The mom isn't sweet. The interviewer is rude. They weren't politely disagreeing (they're on TV). The mother is totally in the wrong and doesn't even realize the harm she's causing her daughter in the long run. Her daughter is going to feel empty and without a voice or anything like that or worse. My mother never let me have a voice or do anything fun myself and I know how that left me. Luckily, I was able to get away when I was 14 so I had time to process and have some deeper insight about everything. And this isn't much different. Even more extreme. Just sad. People's awareness is blinded. Smh
Stop. Please just stop. If you've never even met the girl and deciding how her fate should be you are just like her mom. Why not let the kid do what makes her happy. If she says she likes doing it its fine! You don't even know her so how can you go on talking about her as if you had met?! Ya she probably was influenced to like what she does but arent most kids? Our parents take us to parks which influenece us to like it. My parents never did that so I've grown up not seeing all the fun in parks that other kids have. Does that make my parents bad? No. They just aren't doing what society thinks is parenting.
She's just a typical kid, completely distracted from adult conversation and having fun by herself while they talk. Asking a young kid such questions with structure, it's natural for someone so young to not have a structured answer. If she is being taught to see herself as someone older, it hasn't worked, and she is still acting her age. She's not psycho, she's cute, and acting the part.
I agree. I mean seriously, what kid doesn't engage in fantasy or what little girl doesn't like dress up and attention? People that are calling this kid a psycho are the psychos.
Kailia's personality shined bright as a star. She and her mother were both professional entertainers and they had class. May Kailia's memory be eternal. R.I.P. Kalia
No they were not. Unless you say that prostitutes are professional entertainers, these kids and parents are not entertainers. She got what a lot of these have coming, a heavy fck depression because of being extremely insecure
Thank you Jessika.All these people saying she's on something or she's mental or drunk.What the hell. SHE'S FIVE YEARS OLD PEOPLE.Leave her alone and let her be a kid.
That does not condone her behavior. Children need to learn from an early age to have good manners. It starts from YOU. My child would never behave like this.
+Jennifer L You are proving your ignorance on the subject. Newsflash: kids have different personalities just like adults *gasp*. Some are silly and some are more serious. It's called personal expression. How very rude you are to judge this child for her very age-appropriate behavior. She is sweet and endearing. If only adults could find time to be silly and laugh more often maybe our world wouldn't be the shithole it is at the moment. We need to Appreciate CHILDREN for what they are--a better version of us with unlimited potential. It is adults who condemn children because they don't fit into a prepackaged idea of who they "ought" to be, that need to change their behavior.
it’s not the moms fault that’s a horrible thing to say don’t you think the moms already in enough pain, I get what you mean pageants can put a lot of stress onto children but most of them it builds confidence & helps them with there career, Kailia was a teenager there could’ve been something else that caused this, blaming her mom for her death is just a horrible thing to say.
@@Mimi-dw6wwf u you have no idea what you are talking about IT IS THE MUMS FAULT SHE IS A CHILD CHILDREN DON'T UNDERSTAND CONSENT TO BEING FORCED TO BEHAVE AS A SLUT AND SHAMED AND GROOMED SHAME ON YOU YOU HORRIBLE MONSTER THAT GIRL DIED AND YOU ARE STILL DEFENDING A SHITTY THING LIKE THAT
It's them who putted her on stage and educated her like that, they created a narcissistic girl craving only for attention and weren't there for her when she felt lost and alone. What a sad life I hope she is in Peace 🕊️@@Mimi-dw6ww
no they give them quite literaly real drugs. Looks like a mix of moonflower and speed aka ritalin for me. Women used Moonflower ages ago to get this beautiful big eyes and a lot of hallucination
@@ryanciani3324 No it's not and a quick Google search could tell you that. You can even see her childhood pics and it's the same girl. This is Kailia Posey who passed away. People's surnames change sometimes.
I just learned of her passing due to suicide at 16 years old - May she Rest In Peace and I hope her family gets the emotional and psychological support that they need
That's genuinely disgusting that the parents would let that happen, and it's 100% the parents fault for doing this to their kid. Hope they know what they did and other parents who used their kids like they did.
+Errie Natto - I realized this instantly (anybody who knows anything about live TV would), but I don't see how it changes anything. No, she's not "psychotic", but she's certainly more caught up in her appearance than an average 5 year old (which I wouldn't call healthy).
+Matthew Mullen given that she was making the most ridiculous faces and gestures i dont think she was caught up in her appearance in terms of her clothes, makeup etc. I think she was taking advantage of the possible fact that she doesnt get to see herself like this or simply has never seen herself live on camera and, like a child, was captivated by it. I akin this more to a cat seeing themselves in a mirror and not knowing where this other cat came from.
Lesley Anne Lara news flash, you did this type of thing or possibly weirder when you were that age... she's no more than 6 yrs old, what do you expect her to be acting like?
It’s always the parents who think “nah, not my child” who will pay the highest cost. Don’t EVER think that it will never be “YOUR” kid. This lifestyle killed her, just as he said it would. This mother didn’t listen at all, it’s too late now. A beautiful girl gone way too soon, Rest In Peace baby girl, you had demons you never deserved.
when Mommy didnt fullfill all her childhood dreams ...... and now you force your daughter to do it! but none of the Mommys will ever admit it! its actually almost like child abuse!
Wow, its great to see a positive comment. It is disgusting how these adults are bullying a 5 year old girl. My ten year old girl has done one pageant because she asked to. She is very shy and it really did help her confidence. Anyway, just wanted to say Keely, you are better than all these dogs with no life who browbeat kids.
Couldn't agree more. All I saw there was a cute 5 year old whos excited cause she can see herself on a camera, just like any other 5 year old would be, not a psycho. People seem to be forgetting how young she is cause of the ridiculous amount of makeup her mother has put on her
Trust me, I know a 5 year old can sit down and answer 3 questions with seriousness. Did you see that? She needs discipline and you could hear the frustration in the moms voice when she wAnted her to answer the questions. She wasn't even listening.
It’s really heartbreaking that this actually did happen… she did get depressed.. she did hit rock bottom.. now she’s gone.. it’s really sad knowing he nailed it right on the coffin… 🤦🏽♀️🥺🙇🏽♀️
She does have allot of make up on here, however anyone in television has allot of make up on due to the lighting and how it washes out your face color. It's why those in live musicals where so much blue eye shadow, or what they high school dance team girls have to where this super dark blue eye shadow and red lipstick. i didn't like it but I understood why they required it of my daughter.
Izbizshow ! When I was young I actually let my brother use water paint on my face. Yes, it's fun, but makeup can cause acne. And water paint is none toxic, depending on what kind you buy.
At a studio while filming there are cameras everywhere, and similarly, ther are monitors everywhere. She found them, lol. Just like every kid that walks into a convenience store and sees their face on the screen, except she had three monitors and cameras to play with...I'm not gonna lie, I also play with the cameras at the convenience store...
I can imagine she watched this video at least more than once before she decided to go through with her decision. So many years of her life gone, almost like a distant memory for her because they all went into her pageant career. Her happiness and willness to live fizzled out. You’re a brat when you’re younger, but it isn’t your fault. Your parents didn’t try hard enough. She’s older and now everyone will always remember her as the bratty, crazy rude kid. She feels she doesn’t deserve anything. She doesn’t deserve to live. She listens to this man’s words, and realizes he’s right… No one truly thinks this about her. None of it is true! People in the comments from years and years ago were saying that she was just a kid. But depression makes it hard for you to believe that. It makes things so hard, no joy in anything. I can’t say anything I said about her for sure, but one can only imagine what another goes through. Rest in peace, angel, you’re not suffering anymore ☁️🕊️🌹 You deserved so much better….
+Shahd Issa Not really 'spoiled' in this case, the child actually looks like she thinks she's at a pageant, which is a bit upsetting, in my opinion. She can even be seen blowing kisses to the camera. The parents may spoil her, although, there isn't evidence for that in this video, just an assumption.
Ikr, I hate spoiled brats more, they could get a lot of stuff and yet they still want more and they don't give a crap for people living on the streets.
+taupe teriitanoa fuck the poor and the homeless..they look and smell disgusting and always ask me for cigarettes and money..obviously I don't smoke because I'm wealthy and I'm not giving them money for drugs and alcohol.
SuperJayXD when the presenter said parents like her live their dreams through their children she said she was magician assistant like that is the dream job lol
Wow who would have thought several years later after this show aired that This little girl would take her own life, I believe that the reporter was warning the mother.
+lia exlemus wtf is wrong with you.You are the nobody. Let me know how your 10th b-day turns out, since you seem to demonstrate that age group with your ridiculously out of context statement.
The amount of grammatical errors explains itself. Lol. I'm well aware of the video, thanks. I was referring to your cliff comment. Hello. Thanks for the laugh Nobody and the world to see it with me
Mia Mikolajczyk Your cousin is not a beauty pageant. They are taught to smile in front of cameras, do cute poses, so it is okay for her to be acting like this. She is in a different environment. She sees herself on screen, so she is just having fun with “experiments with poses and face expressions”. My little brother does the same when I let him take selfies on snapchat, so yeah.
She's toooo fricken adorable. I'm laughing my ass of here. Too cute. My nephew is the exact same way and we play sometimes like this. It's just kids. Kids shouldn't be grown ups
Ares Vice She's a 5 year old of course she has a short attention span, I was also like that as a child. Did you pay attention to adult convo at her age? No, so don't be so mean simply because she's a beauty pageant contestant.
SlashertheBasketballer Well she is five here and she is acting like a five year old. She'll grow up. I don't like the kiddy pageants or the adult ones either. But that's not my kid. And there are all sorts of activities where parents push their kids. Many dads push their boys into little league and no one talks about banning that.
I know kids who love pageants and have their college paid for through pageants. Kalia is still doing pageants and she loves them. This is no different than doing cheer, sports or anything else.
Shes not a normal relaxed child here either, she feels responsible for putting on a show to make those around her feel better, everything she does is a performance to the point where she cant listen to questions
Pinkie Pie, I like how she made faces, it shows she was acting like a normal little kid. But I do believe she is being forced for profit and forced to do a number of things. I'd like to see these pageant children when they're adults and see how there life went after this.
OH. MY. GOD. Would you people calm down? I do agree that her mom is taking it way overboard and that this kid is definitely going to have some psychological problems later in life, but right now? She's being a five-year-old. She's not retarded. Or dumb. Or psycho. SHE'S FIVE. Little kids do goofy things all the time, like running in circles or acting like a dog. This girl could see herself in the camera and was amusing herself by making silly faces. The videos from when I was a kid are all filled with me sticking my tongue out and making silly faces, but I can assure you I grew up fine. If this had been any other kid, everyone would be saying things like "OMG, she's soooo cute!"
When he asked "So Kalia, what do you like to do best, what makes you happy?" That would of been epic if she turned her head real slow and was like...MUURRRDEERRRRRR REDRUM! REDRUM! REDRUM! REDRUM!
I think there's something wrong here... she's a kid, she's been brainwashed by her mother into thinking that she is supposed to be that way and that she has to be happy. I mean what kid would say "I don't know" when someone asks them what they like to do. I feel bad for the kid.
Why? I dont like shows where kids have to be dressed up like this, but its not like you have seen something "wrong" like she have been hitting her child, or using her in a seksuelle way. Its funny, people say "Call child services" just by seeing this vid, but dont do a fuck when they see something truely wrong.
That kid creeps me out because those are not the mannerisms of a child who has been on stages for several years. There's something very wrong there, and I wouldn't be surprised to learn that she's been institutionalized at some point.
Wtf are you talking about? lol! I was like that as a kid. Most kids I know would have made funny faces at a camera. And I was used to being onstage so that wouldn't have made me shy. This is completely normal. Funny...but not unusual. Lol! You're a bit odd, no?
She's a CHILD. I think every single child who were put in that position, on tv and seeing themselves on a screen, would react in a similar way. Just a kid being a kid, not a damn thing wrong with that. Just because she does pageants doesn't mean that she behaves as if she's always at one.
I agree if she has been on stage for several years/ times then this can't be her first time in front of a camera so she should know better than to make silly faces. Something is wrong there there many kids out there who participate in movies & pageants these kids should know how to act in front of a camera when it's time to silly and when not to.
I think that she is just little 5 year old girl trying to be funny... (probably she has a big screen in front of her) so she can see herself on it and as every little kid on TV she thinks she's a star now and very important :D She is very funny
Hahahah my kids do this same thing same faces and movements and everything 🤣🤣🤣🤣 all the silliness i love it. When i ask them questions like hes doing and i cant get a focused answer i give up and we all end up laughing 🤣🤣
These mothers are stupid. I hate to see young children like this. I'm still young, but very mature, as you probably can tell. If I were to enter a pageant, which is something I have the option of doing, I would wear very appropriate attire and maybe a little lip gloss, that's it. I would indeed like to enter a pageant, and show the judges that beauty doesn't come from makeup and inappropriate clothing. I bet I'd win.
A modest statement for someone who might be a little older than me. People can do whatever they want, even is it's excessive or inappropriate. There will always be people who agree and disagree with what they do, because everyone is different. I disagree with this, however. She may have looked like a five-year-old at first but then she started on blowing kisses and posing like she would in a pageant. It's an arguable situation.
I have watched toddlers and tiaras before and the reason why they try to put as much makeup as they can trying not to look like a clown is because most of the girls like to be in glamour pageants more than natural pageants and some of the judges go for the team ( mother or father and daughter) that goes all out on the makeup and the dresses and the talent shows for what u describe as "toddler sluts" that's considered "beautiful" for contestants and judges all though I do agree with u and I do wish my parents would have put me in pageants for u I would probably recommend natural pageants
Michelle Jose "the reason why they try to put as much makeup as they can trying not to look like a clown is because most of the girls like to be in glamour pageants " I think it comes from the persuasion of either society and parents that little girls who are barely capable of decision making. And nobody called them "Toddler sluts", I in fact blame everyone but those girls. They're told to be pretty and nothing else from such a young age, and it isn't healthy. As shown in the video here, that little girl's mind has been tweaked to be the vision of 'perfection'. There are more reasons to ban child beauty pageants than there are to keep them. It influences people to be a lot less mature in the long run.
I have the same problem, there's this kid at my school that has a mother that let's him, watch pewdiepie, cussing in the house (and he does it at school too.) He's also a very spoiled kid. Like he gets to one, gets a samsung galaxy, gets a giant TV, and plays on screens whenever he wants too. He gets all the new devices too, just like PS4, XBOX 1, and many more. He isn't so humble about it too. He brags all about it. Heck, this is why I know this stuff. Also he's very rough, like he punches me when he gets the chance, and laughs every time he says something, unless he's under depression of course. As you can tell by this he seems really annoying, and he is. I'd exchange any kid at your school if I had the chance. He calls every kid at my school fat too. And he's skinny, but he isn't fit. He doesn't eat a lot, but he's not very athletic. I bet any fat kid at my school could beat him in a race, well some. And I absolutely love the comment I'm replying too, I ask myself that everyday. "Why do these kids have such bad parent, or why are they even behaving like this?" And remember, I'm only in 5th grade, by this kid, you can already see where these school days are going to become.
