I sometimes disobey my parents , speak to them in loud voice , keep on arguing with them , but deep inside I feel very very bad because I love my parents the most ... I am very short tempered & get angry very quickly .. I seek forgiveness from ALLAH for whatever I did wrong to my parents & I pray to the almighty Allah to give me sense not to disrespect my parents no matter how bad situation it is for me , I pray to Allah to keep me positive & give me the strength to conquer my anger in every situation ... Allah Ameeen
@@hafizbasha9752 recite audhobillah minnashaitanirajeem 3 times Drink water Move position Think about the punishments of Allah Think about the favours of your parents Think about favours of Allah taala Make it up to your parents Say sorry Do kind things for them Say sorry again and again
Ya Allah pls forgive me if I have hurt my parents in anyway. And make me a good person so I don't hurt my parents down the road as well. Ameen summa amen
I've been wanting to convert to Islam for a while now. I talked with my mother about this, and when I told her, she looked at me like I was sick. She despises muslims so much, but now she will have to accept her own son as a muslim. She told me that she would speak to the local priest, to my godparents, religion teacher etc. and I got scared. I lost hope. May Allah forgive me for being so weak. Now I've turned to him and my faith is stronger than ever before, yet it is still weak. I don't care what they are going to do to stop me. A lot, perhaps. But I trust Allah, and I'm not ashamed any more. They can bring the pope to my door, I don't care. Please pray for them brothers and sisters. May Allah SWT guide them to the straight path. Ameen.
@A M 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I mean like where do people like u come from!! I hv seen person like u commenting like this many a times I don't know what the issue is ......... and your jealousy makes me feel sad for you. Really sorry bro!!
The fact that you're still alive is proof enough that God has still given you a chance to correct yourself. If you had done it in the past, ask your parent's forgiveness, turn over a new leaf and be kind and gentle to them from now on. Once that happens, it will be like as if you've never done that sin. :)
My dear allah is so merciful that he would forgive anyone even if the sins is major. He is so merciful. But if someone do zina or shrik he would not forgive ❤️
The fact that we are still alive is proof enough that God has still given us a chance to correct ourselves. If we have done such a thing in the past, let us ask your parent's forgiveness, turn over a new leaf and be kind and gentle to them from now on. Once that happens, it will be like as if we have never done that sin Insha Allah. :)
I am really depressed, my dad is a l abusive and both my dad and mum always treat me like a dog in the streets and some times I cant control my anger and I explode, may allah help us control our anger and over come the habit or feeling in our selves that make us disobey them. Ameen.
I hope things got better for you. Chances are if your father is abusive then your mother will be severely depressed and lash out as she has little patience because she's tired and exhausted. May God have mercy in you and your parents
This video has inspired me to be a better person,we should learn to swallow our rage and bite our tongue when there is a quarrel with our parents instead of adding salt to the injury
let’s make a special dua for parents. Some of us take our parents for granted, thinking they will always be here to love and comfort us but one day they won’t be here. So treasure your time with them. Look after them like they looked after you. We could have been neglected when we were small but we were all loved and blessed. So let’s make a dua that Allah blesses all parents, past and present with Jannah. May Allah grant us the patience to deal patiently with them in their old age as they dealt patiently with us when we were small and young. May Allah always bless them and reward them for loving and protecting us. No-one is perfect. But we owe our parents A GREAT DEAL. May Allah grant them Jannah. Ameen.
may Almighty Allah swt forgive us our shortcoming raise us to a higher rank and Grant us jannah may he make it easy for us to obey our parents and respect them to the highest level Ameen
I sometimes disobey my parents because they shout at me for things I don’t know how to do them or doing it in a wrong and they say am stupid, you don’t have the right to talk and even when I get sick they sometimes say I won’t buy you the medicine and I will leave you to die 😢😭😪 but I still love them from my heart and I wish them a long happy life and Allah enters them to Heaven ❤️
Yea l can relate I love my mom so much I know she loves me but she doesn’t show it to me she says things that hurt me like I’m dumb and always will be that she wishes that l wasn’t born she says a lot things to me her words hurt she loves my brothers more then her daughters she does everything for them I can never be like my brothers I try all the time at the end she gets annoyed at me but she’s way better then my dad he’s a monster he did things that a dad should not do he makes my life miserable but I’m always thankful to them and even if they don’t like me I’m happy that they are my parents All I wish is for them to go to heaven
I’m also a victim wallahi tallahi I always disrespect my parents since from my childhood till date, may Allah forgive me, may Allah make my life easier for me ameen ya rabbi:
I had a massive argument with my mother today I screamed at her and said she was a liar. I tried to get us to resolve it afterwards but she has gone sleep now and I'm sure she has gone to sleep thinking badly of me and really disliking me. Insha'Allah we work it out and I don't do this again, I have a guilty nasty feeling in the pit of my stomach and I really want her to forgive me so Allah swt will forgive me. I hope our relationship will improve as well it feels so bad right now.
I try to be as patient and nice to my parents as possible but sometimes it's so hard especially when it comes to my mom bcz she mentally and physically abuses me and bests me up whenever she gets mad. Even when I try to explain her that her ways hurt me emotionally she never tries to understand and curses me even more. I wish parents would understand that being their children doesn't mean being their slave and sometimes they can be wrong as well.
I recently raised my voice at my father, He started hitting me so I raised my arms and started pushing him and he fell This wasn't the first time by the way he says he will never forgive me Is there anything I can do If father chooses to ignore and not forgive I'm currently 19 and I insult my parents behind their backs I want to change now after all this time This whole experience gave me thoughts What will be my punishment in this world and the next Would like to speak to someone about this if possible
3 years ago I'm just 11 years old I'm always disobeying them that 3 years my mother and father they can't control me I'm always talking back to them And now I'm 14 years old when I read Qur'an allah (SWT) change my life to be a good child To be good at my parents now my parents are happy that i chanfe now. When I'm praying allah anwser my prayers i was not expecting that may Allah guide me to Right direction And forgive to all i have done. Thank you allah you change My life My attitude 🤲♥️
non my families are Muslim I am convert to Islam, my brothers and sisters 6-7 years into islam they don't no they kill me if they knew. I do all in secret imagine praying, and Ramadan I have missed so much due to I couldn't may allah foregive me for this. I have fasted for so many hours and one day my dad came I had I dont no maybe 2 hours to break my fasting and he said his hungry so I ate with him. I was crying so much in kitchen. I am not saying this you feel bad for me please don't, its a most beautiful gift allah has given me and choice me as one of the muslima. but the whole point Is you all have family at least a mum and dad who can teach you about Islam and you can practise with no fear and here are some struggling. so don't take your deen religion for granted please my brothers and sisters. just think about what I said. don't feel bad for me but think of your selves how lucky all are.
selam i love you that you found the right path sister i pray for you. Don't forget that Allah loves every single one of us and that Allah only wants the best for us and enter His paradise. and that even when we get punished it is for our own good to change our life :)
Because i want to play with my friends and go out with them my mothers stop me she says no never i can go with them and i always after hearing these words i got rude and answered her back that why why why? Omg i am so bad Plz allah forgive me
The sad thing is parents go through worst examples than this today and parents too emotional and upset to even comprehend this because the guilt and shame associated with the emotional abuse is overbearing. These abusive sons daughters issues need to be addressed more openly ….
Ya Allah, please forgive me for every single time i have ever disrespected my parents in any way shape or form or will in the future, because i cannot guarantee that i wont do so again, even if unintentionally
I cry everyday over my children. Their father taught them many years ago to hate me based upon lies. I love them so much that I haven't made them choose between their father and me. I pray one day they know I love them so much that I leave them in Allah's hands. I forgive them for not calling me when I'm sick, not returning messages when I simply say I love you, I forgive them for forgetting their mother doesn't have a husband, only family that are not Muslim who hate me for raising my children Muslim, for teaching them how to pray, to fast, to speak Arabic when their father was not practicing Islam..I forgive them for judging me on factless lies...I forgive even their father.. Insha'Allah Allah has a plan for everything. Alhumdulilah
May Allah always make everything easier for you. I'm sure you're a strong mother. Insha'Allah, Keep praying for them that they will return to the truth and to you. 🌹
@The Huns JazakAllahKheir, Its getting better slowly, but I have faith that Allah makes everything happen for a reason. Even though I divorced their father years ago, one of the reason I became muslim was knowing that the prayers of a child can save their fathers soul....the good thing that happened after I divorced him, is their father did return to islam, that was my main reason for divorcing him because I was the only one practicing as a revert. Allah knows my scarifies and Inshallah its made me a better person instead of a bitter person. You have great insight, dont ever lose this. Even if you have autism, you can see situations that men 5 times your age will never know...May Allah keep up on the right path! JazakAllahKheir, I am honored to be your Aunt!
ALLAH FOGIVE ME I HAVE HURT MY PARENTS AND NOW I CAN SEE A PUNISHMENT COMING ALLAH PLEASE FOGIVE ME I FEEL BAD MAKE ME A GOOD PERSON AND KEEP ME AWAY FROM ALL BAD
Wallahi this made me cry soo much because sometimes I don’t listen to my parents and I disrespect them alooot and I feel really bad as soon as I say it. I have short temper and I’m realll trying to find ways to calm my temper so please make day for me. This video made me soo scared I feel sooo bad for what I did to my parents I hope they forgive me and allah (swt)
This is what i remember before the accident occurs for conflict between me and my parents. The different is that the parents was the one who become the test for me not opposite and luckly allah has prepared me and strengthen my iman through this video so that when it was taking a place (the argue) i fear allah and i did not talk back.
This made me cry even I was very good with my parent for while my life I loose my parent I miss them so much Allah yirhamhom Pls be good to your parent tell them I love you help them respect them when you loose them it’s really hurt😢😢😢😢😢
I just scold my parents because i was playing online game and doesnt finish it then my father came and say all like curse word to me,suddenly i open this video and feel sad inside my heart.O Allah forgive us help us oh Almighty
@I love Allah Allah is the most loving and Allah is most merciful,Allah loves you 7 times more than your ask forgiveness he will forgive as he forgives, and repented, do your best in being good with your father even if he treats u MESSRIBLE see your fault and don't loss confidence in yourself as well one day your father will realize inshallah.
We all make mistakes but me I am very similar to this and I always blame it on other people may Allah take everybody to jannah except me I don’t deserve it I love everybody writing in the comments and in this world ameen
Your repentance is accepted until one of two things happen, 1. When the sun rises from the West. 2. Right before the soul leaves your body(I mean, when you have seen the Angel of death). Try not to publicise your mistakes. Ask forgiveness to Allah whole heartedly. Ask forgiveness to your parents. Just ask for the forgiveness of Allah. Indeed, Allah is most merciful. He has the capacity to forgive. And when you read this comment, delete your actual comment and stop publicising it, because the more you publicise, the more witness you gather for your sins. And just ask for Allah's forgiveness before the two things happen.
My dad had a heart attack last month his gone so week I feel so sorry for him I can't stay but we are 5 sister and brother meaning two brother and two sister including me my younger brother lives with my dad and sister we all merried and have kids I am single with 3 kids I live 10 minutes away from him kids are grown up 17 16 14 problame is exam So I decided I spend time with him moring 11 till 4 so in life I don't have any regerts I have eplipsey my self for 17 years my fits are not in contorle I pray to Allah paak every mum dad get better Amin and kids bhavouire gets better Amin because my kids are very rude they don't respect and it's because since there dad left
I just had an argument with my parents and i raised my voice at them and now i feel really bad cause i love them so much and it was all my fault ya Allah please forgive me for ever hurting my parents in any way or shouting at them oh Allah please make me a better person so next time i will not do that Ameen!
Ive been wanting to be muslim and im gonna tell my mom overnight. I will edit this comment for a update. I will now stop disrespecting my oarents or even family and i'm not doing this so i dont be bad in the day of judgement may allah forgive me for my major sins, disrespecting my parents mashallah brother 🙏😓❤❤ Im new on being muslim i dont know what it means but i know it means an good thing for sure.
Well , if I talked back to my parents you’ll see me without a tongue. And whomever talk back to there mom or dad needs a classic whooping . I mean who talk back to their parents , yall need to stop lying and disobeying your parents you should be lucky you have parents . By the way I’m muslim
To anyone who is on bad terms or even good terms with their parents currently, go talk to them if you're far away from them,go call them , because Allahu a3lam how long they're going to be there for you or how long you are going to be around them. Ask Allah to forgive them and have mercy on them. Give them a hug and tell them you love them. To anyone's parents who have passed away , may Allah grant you firdous and grant your sons and daughters happiness and firdous as well.
SUBHAN'ALLAH ALHAMDULILLAH LA ILAHA ILALALLAH ALLAH HU AKBAR🌺 🌺ALLAHUMMA SALLI 'ALA SAYYIDINA MUHAMMADIN WA' ALA ALI SAYYIDINA MUHAMMADIN WA BAARIK WA SALLIM🌺
Alhamdulillah I am the most respect full to my parents Last day my mother came from outside full in swet cause its so hot in the uae so she asked that bring a glass of water . Both my little sister and brother ignored she asked again I broke my sallah and went to give her water
In my case, it is the opposite. My father uses abusive language on me. Every time, he tells me donkey, dog, buffalo, deaf because I don't understand his communications with me most of the time. It doesn't happen with others but only with my father. I feel extremely disappointed and completely depressed after hearing such things from him. I have made him understand that it hurts me, but he still does what is prohibited. I left this matter up to ALLAH because he is the best judge to give the judgment. ❤❤❤❤❤ His behaviour affected me so much that sometimes I don't feel confident about myself. I feel like I am worthless & unwanted daughter to my parents but no worries. Everything starts & ends with ALLAH ❤❤❤❤❤
What about emotional unsupportive parents, parents who don't care about their children? Sometimes we want to do the best but as kids we have a lot of pain, Allah knows best but it's hard not to be given equal love and care
Yes, it's very hard on children of emotionally unsupportive parents, but we can still continue being respectful to parents, we may respectfully disagree with them, if it's really geeting toxic we may even distance from them in the most respectful manner. we must treat our parents with utmost respect at all times.
i always misbehave with my parents i loose everything to anger and regret every word i said when i was under the influence of anger i try to stop but i cant. i pray TO MY MAALIK ALLAH SWT to let me control my anger
I had always had problems with ma mum right from childhood. She never gave me that kind of motherly love till I grew up, and she Seems not to appreciate all the assistance I ve been given her. She takes alcohol alot, she embarrasses me even when in public, I am almost 25 yrs and cannot chat ma friends on phone without her complaining, I cnt visits friends. She actually drove me out of her house as I speak now for no apparent reason. Am now with ma dad. Pls I need some advice.
No matter what love your mother. She carried you for months and went through pain. The Quran describes a mothers labour pain. Love your father. Be there. No matter what religion love your parents. Life is a test after all. Forgive my friend. Trust me once you forgive anything or anyone despite the pain or hurt they caused you, the second you forgive, you will feel a huge relief and a new beginning. Look after your mother. Speak nicely to her Insha Allah Allah will guide you and us all. Ameen and remember life is just a huge test. Life will give you heartache but Allah knows what you can bare and hack. This is a temporary world designed to break your heart and test you. So don't give up. Keep praying even when you are down, crying, hurt, upset, angry remember Allah pray for yourself and your parents your mother. Never give up believing in Allah and keep praying asking Allah for help. He is there. Keep asking. It will come on the right time. Insha Allah Ameen
Subject: Parents tears 😢 with children 1. Childrens in the past years had good feelings, good thinking, good habits good attitudes and were in the path of good character. 2. Childrens of today are totally different from the above except very few. Today's children totally disobey their parents, they even have no good attitudes or feelings or habits to practice. They simply live as they want. 3. Showing respect to their parents happened in the past, but it's not happening in today's world. Its almost a regretful matter to think of. Children of today are paining their parents and making them to fall into a mental illness. These things are widely happening in today's world. 4. Respecting the parents happened in the past. Respecting the parents doesn't happening now. Respecting the parents will never be happening in the future to come. 5. The word 'RESPECT' is getting erased little by little and this word will totally get vanished in the hereafter. By: Dawood ✍ Written on: 10.02.2022
Try not to publicise it. Ask forgiveness to Allah whole heartedly. Ask forgiveness to your parents. Just ask for the forgiveness of Allah. Indeed, Allah is merciful. He has the capacity to forgive. And when you read this comment, delete your actual comment and stop publicising it. And just ask for Allah's forgiveness.
U complain about your tiredness because of life to and cry to him indeed is the all hearing and Allah is the knower of the hearts, he won't criticize you nor make fun of you but listen's to even when Allah knows what you are about to talk u will indeed feel comfort. Don't make your parents cry.
Sometimes... I am ...very harsh to my ...parents... Astakfirullah.. I speak in a loud voice , hurt them... Inside me my heart breaks. I seek Allahs help inside . I feel too ... Shamefull to say .. Im Sorry... May Allah and my parents forgive me.....
same here unfortunately. I want to respect them properly. I dont want Allah to punish me for this . May Allah allow us both to respect and treat our parents well . Ameen
Allah commands a man in the Holy Quran....to be obedient to his parents..Allah knows best as to what is in a man's innerselves if he is righteous then he will find Allah oft forgiving most merciful
iv disrespectfully swore at my mum because i was tired of life and my mums not well and i regret what iv said it all catches up when you know youv got short time with mum
Ya Allah please please please please forgive me what I've done with my parents especially with my dad....Im trying not to disobey my parents especially my dad but it happened...... please forgive me
Please everyone stop saying what you did to your parents in the comments. Ask Allah for forgiveness,and your parents as well and not sending it in the comments. You are revealing what Allah has covered for you.
i😇 nw wear burqa (surah ahzaab ayat 59) and read quran every day bcoz i fear Allah bt my father n mother countinously comment very badly.. they say go to forest n do ur ibadah... plzzz say wat punishment they may get.. every1 is in run to punish a child 1st without listening the real truth😢😭
As a mother of 3 adults.the two oldest are so bad to me and my husband and my youngest is a beautiful caring soul. I can tell you that my oldest lofe has literally broken young and divorced his wife possessed coma she too disrespected her mother very badly. And now the second childs life falling apart. A lesson to you all. Allah is so angry with them.
I am Christian 16 years old and I have been very disrespectful to my mom when I was younger I used to cuss her try to hit her 😭😭😭😭😖 And now I feel so guilty I am so sorry mom I love you so much the gilt will always be with me 😭😭 Please god forgive 😭🥺❤️❤️ I am so sorry for what I did
i'm a new convert ,i'm still living with my parent but now i'm renting alone ,i want to be obedient to my mother ,my father passed away ,my mother left alone at home ,she's independent but i can't leave her alone ,i wanted to company her sometimes ,stay for a week or more but the problem is she doesn't know i'm a muslim now and i have to pray i only have two option : 1.whether i don't visit her at all bcos there is no way i can pray at her house bcos she would be mad seeing me praying and my decision to convert 2.I skipped praying(which is no way, i don't want to skipped my pray) i want to company her ,staying there for a few days ,but at the same time i couldn't because i cannot pray ,please help me how do i solve this problem
My sister is 9 and she is just so cruel with everyone she prays only to show my parents that’s she is better then me .She even once hit my mom in the arm while my dad was in Pakistan 🇵🇰 and she got my moms arm fractured my mom told my dad that she just felt .My mom still loves her more then me but my mom once told me that seeing my sister like this makes her cry. My poor Mother I will not let anything happen to my Mom ever again. Ice she punched me and I broke my teeth I cried soo much and I was going to tell my dad the truth but my mom said just tell him that you teeth broke that’s it !
