after seeing this video i have opened my eyes to see that are parents are more then some people that you live with i have realized that they love you and that you should put them in front of others. may Allah forgive me of when i have wronged them.
I feel sorry to my mom. I always do same thing to them. I always lost my control and talk bad to them when they cant give my needs. I thought i have learned my lessons before, but i did not. It always happen and ive made my mother cry for several times. I am so bad daughter. My mother really loves me and always give what they have. I love my mom so much. I dont know how to gain her forgiveness. Help me pls.
Download this video and watch it daily, if you feel you need more support then watch 2 to 3 times a day until you change completely from inside. Because these are the ayahs of Quran and the instructions and commands of Allah and we realize that he is superior to all the things and he is the God hence if listen to this video daily I hope we take some heed.
The reason you came here..is you feel sorry for your behavior... That’s enough prove that you’ll be able to be a good daughter..... May Allah bless you.
Just talk to her be honest say exactly what you wrote here And ask her to forgive you but you must become stronge and control your self .soon you feel you going to say anything which will upset your parents just leave the house or go to other room and don't come out for 10 minutes reflect with your self. You have to judge your self daily you must make progress. I pray for you Allah will help you to make great changes
Maybe when you feel anger, stay away from her. Go into your bedroom manage your anger properly. Ask protection from Allah, istighfar, wudhu, sit down, lie down. Reflect on situations, and try to think from her perspective too. We always focus one mistake that our parents’ve done, while forgeting the thousands of kindness they’ve done. It’s easier said than done but let’s do it together right 🥰 Pray for me too sis
I must admit this has always been a difficult topic for me. My parents, in a lot of ways, never treated me the way Allah swt is telling me to treat them. But I am going to take his commands because I know that in the end of the day Allah knows whats best for me. Its just that its definitely one of those things I'm struggling with...Inshaallah one step at a time...
@@themissoumi3484 Remember how when we were babies, we didn’t appreciate anything that they did for us (changing diapers, staying up all night when we were sick etc), our smile and happy face was enough for them. That’s how we’re supposed to think about them and Allah SWT will bless us
I have misbehaved with my parents so many times... it is unimaginable how bad i misbehaved.. I messed around with them without even realising ...yet every time I pray I always pray for them and then again when my parents be like yelling at me for some reason I misbehave with them .. I feel so sorry now and I hope I stop behaving like I use to before .. o lord pls forgive me..and bless my parents long life and give me time to humble my self to them and give them happiness once they did to me when I was little... may allah bless us all inshAllah
Thank you so much with this video. I was going through a lot. And I messed up my relationship with my family. But this video solved my problems in a glimpse. Alhumdulillah.
Masha Allah! I really need this right now with how my mother is behaving, and also my father, but my mother more. She is old and often really tests our patience, but it's only because she can't do all of the stuff that she used to do when she was younger and more physically capable of. It's not her fault at all, it's just time taking its toll on her body. I pray for Allah to show us patience and help us as well as her in becoming more humble and patient
An eye-opening video indeed. May Allah guide us all towards Jannah! And a big thumbs up for Nouman Ali Khan, you're doing an excellent job...May Allah keep you blessed :)
this video really moves me. thank you so much. Alhamdulillah. May Allah SWT bless all of the people who involved in the presence of this video on youtube. aamiinn. :)
Salam After watching this video, i realised how much a bad person , a bad daughter i am !!!! Always my friends and my parent's friends praise me for the way i am, but right now i have understand that i need to do lots of good things to be a nice person especially begining with respecting my parents! All those thing that you said were right! I do all these!! When they call me i feel angry (for no reason). I really don't understand sometimes why i am so much uncomfortable with my own parents and confortale (and good) with others ? Even being so rude and "disrespectful" with them .... they still love me a lots and try always to make me happy. I have some bitter past but still these are actually nothing in front of they love. I hope Allah will forgive me .... for today i promise to give my 100 % to be nice to my parents (speciallly to my mum who sacrified lots of things). (will Allah forgive me?). Ameen
assalamualaikum ,,, I know v should respect our parents come what may ,,, I love ma parents , buh the problem is that they are always rude to me , not only me buh to my siblings too , they always tell us that they want us to be on right path , n I understand that , buh their way of saying is not good at all , they always shout on us like do this ,do that ,n all ,,which makes us furious , and because of that v do not deal with them in proper way ,even I tried lot to b humble n soft buh it's,the who don't let me b so ,, now plz tell me any solution to come out from it , n how can I tolerate their shouts n how can I be humble to them , I really want to b a good child to ma parents
Allah is kind, He forgives all sins as long as you do not commit shirk and ask for true forgiveness. And always ask your parents to forgive you, tell them you are sorry and striving hard to be better!
@@cooking1st he will forgive shirk but only in this life, once you die you cannot ask for forgiveness for shirk or any other sin u committed in this dunya.. Your mates/sons/daughters can ask forgiveness on your behalf.. ASSALAMUALAIKUM
Uff Allah, islam gives so many rights to parents, we as Muslims should really really think twice before messing this relationship no matter what the circumstances
I keep arguing with my mom I am working on finding a way to change it. I feel I am going to go to jahanam over it I am weak on this I can’t bring up Islam or she insults me it’s hard but possible I love you allah
Salam bro, I used to do the same with my parents but Alhumdolilla not any more due to my children and they are disrespectful with me and realized how was I with my parents. So Alhumdolilla I have never disrespectful to them.. I saw one of the guy in our work place and he was lying to parents that he had no job and can't send money but he would spend on his wife and children's. One day I sit down with him and told him that the book ,that you write ,your kids will read it for you. Please be respectful to them and your kids will do it to you automatically. Wasalam
Try always listening to lectures. Read up and increase your knowledge. Ask Allah for patience. I gave my mum hell as a teenager but once I became a Muslim I told my parents to see how I treat them. Alhamdulillah they are proud of me now ma sha Allah.
We have just launched a video explaining the link between "ihsaan with parents", "Shirk" and "Haraam". Please feel free to watch the video using the link below, and let me know if you learnt something new: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-pXckFJzXzI8.html
Download this video and watch it daily, if you feel you need more support then watch 2 to 3 times a day until you change completely from inside. Because these are the ayahs of Quran and the instructions and commands of Allah and we realize that he is superior to all the things and he is the God hence if listen to this video daily I hope we take some heed.
Please make dua for me and every other brother like me, I am not a good son and I want to be better to my parents and I kno im a bad guy but i just wanna change insh'Allah cos i know thts not how my parents raised me.... I pray that i become better and insh'Allah every other brother aswell. i just feel so sad , i must turn to Allah
I have pressed dislike. eventhough i am a big supporter of brother nouman Ali khan. Eventhough the video hold truth. it is very one sided. it seems in many muslim cultures theer is extreme emphasis on obedience to parents. this reality cannot be ignored. i feel people confuse showing mercy and being kid tio your parents is very much confused with obedience to extreme interfering with (adult) childerens life. childeren should be mercyfull to the perents. and can never repay them. how ever this should not obey the door for abuse of unreasonable demands and interfering. There are so many stories of childerend well in their 30-ties, still feel obliged to obey their parents for none sense. or some times even to suffer from their fysical, verbal abuse. both sides of the story should be be presented.
@@c-baazb5668 Being a child is something and being adult is another. Once you grow up you balance your life and put parent at a place of respect meanwhile you deal with your life. Respecting your parents doesn't mean to let them decide for your life choices. Being good doesn't mean to be under their control all the time. Grow up
Alhamdulilah.I have never ever a single day disobeyed my parents and Thanks to Allah for all of these. by Allah I nver left home without their knowledge and never went to bed without their knowledge.Allah is my witness. yaa Allah grant all our parents Jannah
MashAllah !!! I really appreciate His teaching... it's always logical & easy to get. SubhanAllah. Moses spoke many times with Allah SWT, but the last time He spoke He asked Allah SWT to give Him some unique instruction. The Almighty said, "O... Moses if Your parents are pleased with You, I will be pleased at You too." 'Jazak Allahu Khair'n'
Assalamualiakum, I am a Muslim teen and so inspired by his lectures and bi idhnillah trying and striving to be a better one. I noticed on 4:57 Uzthadh Nouman said Fa Ammal ya tima fala Tanhar . I feel that he is referring to sourate ad-duha which says Fa ammal yatima fala Taqhar. If anyone could double confirm this it'd be great! Jazakallah khairan.
They give you unconditional love and expect nothing in return Even if they aren’t the best always They’re people too and I think we forget that our parents are people they don’t want to do things they still do it Now you do it too It’s a beautiful thing if you can step back from the day to day problems and routine and appreciate it
i just love this man,,, from every single angle of he speaks, acts , explaining, delivering , n so much more ... i wish to marry this kind type of man in shaa Allah ... may Allah rewards you with much more than u ever expected... love you brother ... =)
Subhan'Allah. I feel so bad and I feel like crying so much and I already am now. I was being so rude and mean to my parents, but that is so Haram in Islam. I will never do it again and In'Sha'Allah Allah SWT will forgive our parents and us. I will change forever now, Jazakhulakharan. In'Sha'Allah I will be a much better Muslim, and I will change In'Sha'Allah. I will never do this again. Ameen 🤲🕌🕋☪️
Love your mom because she has been a wonderful mother she has always loved you every day your mother cook for you if you love your mom she will love you too.
I can honestly just cry and cry....this is the saddest topic ever. The many times I have said bad things to my parents, the many times I didn't use good speech. Ya Rabi forgive me and let them live long enough so that I can give them their rights and treat them well. Ya Rab let me be near them until they die, so that I can show them mercy and love and please them and please You ya Rab. Allahuma Ameen.
Am not the type of people who r always angry i tent to keep it in check when it comes to my parents. Since am human there r times i slip and increase my voice to my mom but wallahi i feel guilty after doing it i go up to mom and ask her forgivness and apolagise. If i do something wrong to my mom this thoughts comes rushing to my head saying if ur mom dies today after the inccident how will the effect my life. So i make sure i kiss her goodnight and as her forgivness and then allah's forgivness
The most and always thinking of which rights I am are the rights of parents. I am always in fear about the default in it. May Allah may Allah give us more and more strength to fulfill these rights. Ameen.
To all those who are in guilt after wronging their parents...just undo it by praying for them , seek forguveness for them and give charity on their name.
Beautiful speech, May ALLAH all might bless you and your parents here and life after. I have just shown your video to my 15 year old son , who had an argument with his mother last night , after watching this video he felt sorry for his attitude and decided to apologize his mother. May ALLAH give you jaza and more capability and effectiveness in your speech so the kids get proper guidance from your videos Many thanks
I have to say this is one really hard task. My father is a person that naturally gets away from his family, he feels bored with family meetings.. and when he is with us so many times says hurtful things specially to my mom...as I grew up unfortunately I became so cold to him, I am not necessarily mean, I don't speak bad to him... but I am unable to be close to him...I am really sad that my dad always constatly hurts me... whenever he shouts at me I don't argue back ever, I just cry hided
Still you need to respect and humble to them even though they are not Muslims. You need to DUA for them, Allah show them right path. Keep on praying InshaAllah Allah with grant them with Imaan.
Jazakillah khayran khatira for uploading these videos. Shared this with my kid brother. Am studying overseas so he's all alone at home w my parents. Plays too much games! haha. Intend to watch one vid every week w him. Inshallah it'll benefit us both :)
Jajhakallah Khair brother. May Allah reward you with the best. That was a wonderful explanation. I've never thought of that Ayaat like this before. I now realize how arrogant and rude my behavior is when it comes to my parents, specially my mother. May Allah give me patience and help me behave more politely with my parents.
Salaam to Sheikh Nouman Saheb, for the speech. To the point and accurate, such that it should be an eye opener for those who want their Lord Allah Subhaana Wata Aala to be lenient and merciful on them, on The Day of Judgement, where everything a person or Jinn did, will be looked at by Allah Almighty in very fine details! I'd hate to be the ONE who mistreated or hurt his or her parents, as Allah's wrath will be upon those individuals who caused grief to their PARENT'S! Sheikh Mohammed Yasin of Bolton
I feel really bad when I realize how much I haven't listened to my parents....but I know I'm not the only one who agrees that other youth should watch this. Our generation of kids are getting worse and worse.. and it's evident in our lack of attention towards doing what our parents tell us to do, and how much things we ignore from them...
please sheik advice us how to be around abusive parents. how to protect our self and been emotionaly abused,we can't function properly with our own life nd family. there are lack of topic regarding abusive parents, we need ur help.😢
Intrepid Ca He talks about that in this video : ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-vaEMNx7a1bY.html Check it out. Hope it's not too late :)
Download this video and watch it daily, if you feel you need more support then watch 2 to 3 times a day until you change completely from inside. Because these are the ayahs of Quran and the instructions and commands of Allah and we realize that he is superior to all the things and he is the God hence if listen to this video daily I hope we take some heed.
Will someone ever be forgiven for majorly disrespecting their parents? What if one day that person wanted to change his life around and become the best Muslim?
GamerzDailyFix If you sincerly make tawbah and prove to them that you are sorry for everything and be the best you can be. Then there is a big chanse yes.
The one who feels repentance and regret and seeks Allah's forgiveness with pure heart Allah says I forgive him/her even if he or she commited adultery or stole. So always remember that Allah is so merciful to his creatures.
It's extremely hard for me to say sorry to my parent about the bad behavior i showed to them when i was a teenager. I cry almost every night thinking about what i would say to them in the morning and ask for forgiveness but i just don't have the courage to talk to them about this topic without crying. Even I'm crying right now. I know i was bad but i just can't go and show my emotions. Please let me know if I'm truely sorry , do i still need to ask them for forgiveness?
Zehra Abid i think changing your behavior for the good with them is the best apology they can have ! Apologies don’t have to be in words , actions speak louder! all the love for you and your family 🌹
Zahra Abid u know what? same situation with me I also can't say sorry or express my emotions bcoz these words like sorry or I love you are not in use in my home seriously! and I am really scared that what will happen with me in the day of judgment💔
My mom is always so harsh on me always makes me feel crazy , sometimes I just can't stop myself from yelling back at her and getting angry , I try my best to be good to her but she just doesn't let me
please do dua for my youngest sister and my brother to show respect and kindness to my mother. it pains me how rude and disrespectful they are to her. there’s nothing i can do because they get angry when i involve myself. Ya Allah (swt) you are all merciful, please hear my duas and help me with my worries and pain, and guide my siblings towards the straight path and to be respectful. Ameen.
I find it very difficult to be nice to my parents knowing they have emotionally abused me all my life and abuse has life lasting effects in every aspect of my life. They were very abusive especially my mother when i was young now they are old and helpless but my heart resents them. I find it difficult to let go of all the past abuse.
brother nouan jazak Allah realli very beautiful...nd ur tilawaaah ....jazak Allah once again...:) ALLAH HAMDULILAH im a MUSLIM...nd realli very proud to To be...nd want TO DIE AS A MUSLIMMMM YA RAAABBB....Ameeen
