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@Sajid Khan it's not the truth. Jealous Arabs invented the rule to control women. Men are allowed to marry Christians and Jew's but not women. Nobody with a brain can believe a God is that sadistic
I am in love with a catholic man and he truly believes in one God and that Mohammed sav was he's last messenger and he loves to learn about Islam , I don't force him to convert but I still don't know if I am wrong in allah's judgment because that's all I care about I am still a happy Muslim I will never change my believes alhamdulillah, may allah guide us all to the right path as he has planned for us inshallah 🌺🌸🌻🌹🌳
There is no difference whether she or he is western or eastern , the condition of marriage in Islam is that Believer in Tawheed- the complete monotheistic conception of reality, can't share bed or be life partner of Polytheism in any form whether Trinity or deification of any other person or thing besides Allah . If you truly believe in word of Allah then you should know that Allah forgives every sin except Polytheism شرك , if your child tomorrow worships a man or any other thing besides Allah just because of your marriage outside Islam then you will be responsible for his suffering in Akhirah but if you dont believe in Allah and his messenger, you are just muslim becoz of your parents and your priority is not submission to Allah, in reality you are not Muslim you are just labelling yourself as Muslim, then you can marry whoever you want nobody will Stop you but I will request you to not label yourself as Muslim because it can Misguide others also . Muslim is the one who completely surrenders before Allah التسليم المطلقۃ في امام الله سبحانه و تعالی Muslim men also Should not Marry non Muslim women if they really care for Akhirah of their Children
Sister , things might be roses and butterflies now , but trust and believe when things get hard it's Very important that two of you are on the same page when it comes to beliefs( how will he give you your rights or stand by you when he doesn't know Islam ). Be careful and fear Allah (SWT) please don't go down that road .
@@joeroot5897 First and foremost we are all the creation of one God. Therefore we must love one another, be kind, greet and respect others. No religion recommends one to marry one who practices another religion. And if you ask me people now a days are so agnostic they don't even want socialize with a "religious" person. Ever heard the phrase: "If you truly love them then you have to let them go."? This applies to situations like this.
Stuart MC Brother Adam,Abraham, Noah, Moses, Jesus, Muhammed peace be upon them carried same message There is 1 god love and fear him Satan wants everyone in hell So we have been divided by some corrupt media and foolish people with power Read and reach more
@@TheJawadrockI say this in love... my bible and your quran are not from the same God. I'm sure you're a nice guy, and a decent human being, but we do not worship the same God.
Stuart MC Brother its not the same because bible has been changed by many people google it but few verses are still the same Mathew 26:39 he fell with his face to the ground and prayed as Muslims pray Brother that’s your understanding if you think god is different But as per my understanding there 1 god (Allah) And we must return 1 day And if we are doers of good we will be guided
this channel is called Quran Speaks but I still have not heard speaker name Quranic verse prohibiting Muslim woman from marrying non-muslim man. it seems to always be answered according to traditional norms and customs,not Quran.
so what about when the verse that came after this where it mentions that muslim men are allowed to marry "people of the book" (Ahl ul kitab) . they are not mentioned as mushrikoon. they were given a separate title. neither men nor women are allowed to marry mushrikoon (idolators) . My point is that people of the book are not mushrikoon according to that ayah. Allah knows best.
Thats my point exactly to Arshad Khan above. The Quran does not prohibit Muslim women from marrying men who are people of the Book. The Quran is silent so why do traditional scholars say its not allowed or its prohibited that such a strong thing to say. Its safer to marry a Muslim and its makes life easy thats just my opinion.
In Allah's SWT point of view there are two types of disbelievers (Kafir) they are the Mushrik (Pagans) and People of the Books (Jews, Christians). The distinction is make very clearly in Surah 98 Al Bayinnah where the verses are structured in a way where the two groups are mentioned separately instead of lumping both groups together. By default a Muslim should not be involved in practices with disbelievers where the faith can be diminished and direct contradictions to Allah's will. However in Al-Maidah 5:5, Allah SWT has made two special exceptions involving with the People of the Book. 1) Marriage of Muslim men to their women 2) the food that is "Halal" for them becomes Halal for Muslims (with the usual exceptions such as alcohol). With such it become automatically implied that inter-marriage between Muslim women vice versa is not allowed. Had Allah SWT wanted to allow inter marriages with no gender restrictions the verse will have explicitly stated so. The other purpose of Verse 5:5 is to portray the status of the People of the Books V the Mushirk in the view of Islam.
@@princessana9013 we both are human and humanity is our religion. We are too happy together....and if god hate us both for having marriage outside our religion then let god tell us about that not you or his followers or a holy books full of hate....let him speak about it.😊❤
I wish I wasn't reminded of this comment. She broke up with me a month ago. We still love each other but she no longer wants to be with me. I messed it up. 😥 I miss her every single day.
@@lavish_1717 PLEASE READ IT SISTER. sister pray to ALLAH for your condition he will guide you. The thing actually is that we are forbidden marrying outside faith and if we fall in love with such a person than it would be a trial for us, we should take it as a trail, we will get punished by ALLAH if we materialize such kind of love. I'm very disappointed nowadays that why womens want to burn in hell fire just for 30-40 years of love. Those 30-40 years are also not sure to come there is a chance that u may get died the other day u marry a non muslim. Place your trust on ALLAH you will get a spouse beyond your expectations in shaa ALLAH if u don't get it in this life than u will get him in the life hereafter if you follow ALLAH's command. He will be so handsome that you will watch him with full zeal and zest so trust on ALLAH he will fix your problem. And avoid such a person. One more thing. Everyone here is saying that there is not any verse in quran which forbids a muslim women to marry a non muslim. I will say to such lads that they have to wear glasses while reading quran. It is clearly mentioned in quran that women cannot marry out of faith. Yes it allows men to marry the women of book(jews, christian). But there is one condition that the women should follow the true teachings of the respective prophet and should only consider ALLAH as her true god. But nowadays u can see that all of the women of book actually do shirk. Christian women consider jesus as their god too and jews as u know are waiting for antichrist. So men nowadays cannot also marry women out of faith. May ALLAH bless u sister. Plzz avoid such men and repent to ALLAH. Time is a very good cure In shaa ALLAH u will forget him.
2:46 he mentions that the child would be confused/pick up a careless attitude on who to follow if they see their parents practicing 2 different faiths, but only if the woman is muslim in this case. wouldn’t the same thing happen vice versa? (if the man is muslim,yet they are still permitted to go through with the interfaith marriage) a lot of people believe the reason why men are permitted interfaith marriage is because they’re able to control what religion is instilled and taught, which would be applicable in the era the quran was written. however, times have changed and marriages can/have become more equalised, so can’t really make the assumption that women have no say or control of what happens (this ends up being a personal issue between a couple)
the part about Muslim men being allowed to marry women of the book is debatable, many scholars say that both Muslim men and women aren't allowed to marry non muslims ,even Christians and Jews, but the when it comes to muslim women there's no debate about it.
It can work very well. My wife is Muslim (from Saudi originally) and I am a English atheist. I met her on my MBA class in UK and we were perfect for each other. Was difficult for both our families (my family as they feared Islam was a brainwashing and would affect our children and her family had quite an orthodox Islamic background and her sister even has a PhD in Islamic studies). It has worked out very well as despite her still been Muslim (me still atheist) our families and ourselves have learned a lot from each other. We now have 3 children and 2 at university and 1 for a well known Investment Bank in New York. Although our children have decided to be atheist they respect and celebrate Muslim holidays and enjoy their trips to see their Saudi side family. The world needs more love - faith is a personal decision that should come via education and not forced or expected of children. I would encourage none Muslim men to also consider marrying Muslim women as the relationships can work!
I'm a muslim my boyfriend is also an English non believer man. How did you both get married? Is it by Nikah or were you done an out of faith marriage ceremony? We decided to get married in the UK. I need some advice. Thank you.
I'm 28 and I have a muslim girlfriend (26) and we are deeply in love! I am not religious at all -but my family are open minded hindus. We're also from the UK. But she feels it is haram to marry me unless I convert - she genuinely feels God will punish her on judgement day. We've had discussions which have turned into arguments about this but for some reason she cannot see how interfaith marriages can work on a religious level. I deeply respect Islam and even read the qu'ran with her and we talk about islamic concepts in the religion. She cannot see that a marriage in deep love, where I actually help her grow as a human being and she helps me grow as a human being where there is mutual deep respect is enough. She is still learning the ins and outs of Islam herself and the rationale behind what the Qu'ran says on marriage outside the religion. But regardless, I deeply respect Islam and I think because of her cultural upbringing with her family - she genuinely is convinced she will be punished on judgement day for marrying a non believer. I really love her! It makes me so sad! Unless I convert she says she cannot marry me for her fear of being punished. I've told her 'do you really think a loving God who knows you are married to a moral respectful man who loves you beyond anything in his life and even encourages you to be a good muslim and learning more about Islam with you - would punish you for simply not identifying as muslim? But a man who is muslim yet who is sinful would mean you are not punished? -- Or that non - believers can also go to heaven -- so in the end its up to God who judges people on an individual basis' ----- yet after saying all of this, she still has this staunch idea in her head that she cannot marry a non muslim because it is haram and not classed as an actual marriage in the eyes of God and that she will be punished judged by God. What would you do? Any help or comments would be great. Hope you are keeping well :)
P.s. tbh I really just needed to let someone who's been in a similar situation to me - know about what I'm going through. It's eating me up inside and I feel abit alone in this situation - because I love her so much. Sorry for rambling! I just think what you have - with your children and your wife and how your families are so loving and now as you say your families learnt alot from each other - to me that sounds like heaven - I'm so happy for you and family . Any advice at all would be so welcomed :)
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All your Children are Atheist (Non Muslim), and this is the reason why Islam prohibits Interfaith (Filth) Marriages. I hope your wife is proud of herself, because of her selfishness her children and future generations will end up in hell fire. shame on your wife.
tom tom I’m currently with a Muslim man I’m not Muslim and out arguments started when we spoke about our children. I respect his faith but I don’t want my children to be Muslim because I have read some verses in the Quran which talk about non believers and some other stuff I disagreed with. My faith is also a way of life but has nothing in it about non believers and this has really upset me now. I love him and he loves me too, I’m stuck as well. All I know is I don’t want my children reading the Quran because of what it says in it.
This seemed a little closed minded. I’ve met many people while I was growing up in school who were Muslim with one Christian parent. But they identified as Muslim because that’s what they were brought up as. I think that for some reason he didn’t take into account that if people get married obviously they will respect one another and that goes along with their religions and values.
Where I come from, one Christian parent causes lots of problems. Because they end up celebrating eid and Xmas, going church and mosque etc... And when the parents split and the child ends up living with the mom, they become Muslim only by name and nothing else. They basically live a Christian lifestyle. This happen in most cases in my country
Doing some thing Outside the qur'aan and sunna sahiha of the prophet is kufur(non muslim) to be a muslim follow the qur'aan and the sunna of the prophet
Hi. Can you tell me if your mother learn your father religion for you? My future husband its muslim and for me it s very hard because I don t know what I will learn my child.
im an Atheist and i don't blame religion i blame the interpretation of religion laws made by the People, we are all one and only Love and happiness conquers all. Religion should about us loving each other without race, gender or faith.
I've seen a lot of cases where guys convert to Islam not for Allah but to marry the girl they love and after that they don't take Islam Seriously. I think it's better to let each person practice their own religion and let the kids decide what they want. Religion should not be a force it should be taught and then allow the person to choose.
Raihanna Khaleesi Just one basic flaw in your logic : Muslim women cant marry non muslim. Haram and halal are well defined. Either you follow islam or you reject it. Muslim Men are given special permission in this case.
This is the most lenient piece of Islamic advice I have come across with regards to this question. It’s clear that most of the people commenting on this video are here because they find themselves in such a predicament, with a surprising number of non-Muslims who are looking for a way to make it work with their prospective Muslim partners. Dr. Shabir Ally speaks a lot of sense here and with a compassionate attitude towards a sensitive issue. The main problem even from an Islamic perspective seems to be similar to how a non-religious person would view the issue too, which is that of how the family unit would work with bringing up the children inside the faith. I would like to hear Dr. Shabir Ally’s views on a Muslim agreeing to have their children raised in a bipartisan or secular way, although I admit that would be a bitter pill for a Islamic religious leader to swallow with regards to giving advice in the most conducive and constructive manner considering the feelings of the parties involved and while remaining true to the missionary objectives of Islam. One thing is for sure and that is that strict intolerance of interfaith marriage will lead to animosity towards the religion which also defeats the objectives of this missionary religion. A tough question that perhaps will never have a clear answer. It’s up to the parties involved how they will make sense of their feelings in the context of respective religious (or non-religious) beliefs.
I have a relationship with a muslim man, I love him so much and he wants to marry with me. Because I'm christian it s so hard. I don't want to convert not because I belive islam is bad. Our problems are with the future children. His parents accept me, but my father don t accept him. My heart is full of pain. I don t know what to do. My father refuse to speak with me because I chose him. I don t know what to do. To be happy it s the most important think. God is the same for everybody in my opinion.
Ella E The real love is something we first need to develop with the creator And it’s the same god ( Allah) Who sent Adam , Abraham, Moses, Jesus, Mohammed peace be upon them as messengers Try explaining to your dad And if your faith is strong in Allah and your partner nothing is hard May Allah guide you
Chandra Thara Everything in this world is temporary and one we have to return to the one who have created us In vedas its written the real form of god is 1 and about last messenger as Kalki avatar Research more to know better
@@mihaelageorgianasanduloiu5766 marry him and save both of your selves from sin. Make prayer (dua) that your father will soften his heart. Life is too short for these kind of issues
I deeply respect Dr. Shabir Ally and he has helped me greatly in getting a much better understanding of Islam. I feel that Dr. Shabir Ally's concern regarding a Muslim man/woman marrying a non-Muslim to be narrowed down to the risk that future children might not be securely brought up to be Muslims. This seems to me to go against the Quranic verse that says that there is no compulsion in religion because if you bring up your children to be Muslims, then their belief is not a choice that is made free from compulsion. Wouldn't it be incumbent of a Muslim parent to demonstrate through thought and action that Islam is beautiful and the true divine revelation and thereby inviting the children into Islam?
A Muslim woman can not marry a non Muslim man, he is just explaining one of the reasons why but the real reason why is because God (Allah) said they can’t.
I walked out of an interfaith relationship with a guy I love so much. Islam tells us to marry men within the religion due to the qualities they possess under the religion yet throwing a bit shame out there that not one single Muslim man I’ve met in the past including my father had such qualities. Sure, there would be quite a few good Muslim men out there who saves all this “good stuff” to lend to the type of woman they are attracted to or otherwise etc. it wasn’t religion that taught this man but he himself possessed them and I as a Muslim woman is so proud of him. He is a hardcore atheist and doesn’t believe the bits of Islam and I didn’t care so much because he is entitled to his own beliefs and if he knew who Allah really is I’m sure he’d understand Islam more realistically. I can’t believe how broken hearted I am to walk out because I fear being so happy and at the same time feeling guilty wasn’t my sort of thing but Allah knows better. Just letting you lots know that stop comparing Muslim men to Non Muslim men because it doesn’t make sense however. I’m going to put it out again, u don’t define people off their beliefs.. you define them through their qualities and mindsets :)
On my position now😢😢 he said every night his mom will cry and pray to God to give him a woman that will bring him into heaven😭😭 should I end this 4years relationship?? My tears rolling down my cheek right now!
What if the non muslim guy really loves you, but the problem is he couldn't want to convert in islam because of his parents 😢 ? Can anyone answer my question 😞
@@aileencruz3076 Then how come you are so sure that HE love you? ...when he can't take up a decision of his life on her own...If now he can't take stand for you....how you are so sure that he will stand with you tomorrow?....if his Parents are that strict today what guarantee is there that they will get fine with you in future?....All these questions are very important.....Think about it before taking any decision...
@@aileencruz3076 The answer of your question is Just listen to Allah and obey him because HE is our creator and knows us more better than us. In my opinion life is already hard why make it more hard for a PERSON who can't take a stand and decision on his own. IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU HE WILL MAKE DECISION FOR YOU AND CONVERT WHATSOEVER OTHERWISE HE JUST EMOTIONALLY USE YOU
@@naveed7808 He confess to me all of his family know me and my family too .. But i dont know why he confess to me but he cant take a stand to do his own to make a right decision. He only thinks of what will happen coz were just in different country .. He confess to me and i confess too .. Weve been known each other for a very longtime sad to say coz i dont know if the two of us are we going separated because of this situation.
JUst LoVe EaCh OtHEr DoNt LeT A ReLiGiOn SeParTe YoU. Bro that’s the dumbest thing I’ve heard. Do you have no tradition ? Do you have no moral grounds with your creator ? Sheesh.
@@staas1737 you lack understanding. If you look into the religion of Islam you wouldn’t be so ignorant. The idea is to worship one god and one god alone. The idea is to protect your children from going astray. If you truly believe everyone has a right than you will agree that you have to respect people who want to safe guard them selves. If you think I’m being hateful take it up with your lord. You have your religion and I have mine. You can’t just go around and change your self so everyone can be ok with you. You won’t ever be your self bc people will always have something to say no matter what. For the people who know me. They’d be disappointed in you not getting to know me and calling me hateful. I wish you success and an expanded set of wisdom n knowledge.
@@NorthLaurant well said! What if this man , is someone you know for a log time, a friend, and they respect you and either change religion or allow the children to be muslim?
@@juliasjingles people change every week. Just like songs can change your mood. The conscious effort to be consistent is near impossible when the beliefs differ. The influence of ones care giver is massive and when you sit there seeing them act different to you .. the option becomes easy to access even if it’s bad for you. It’s easier to separate water and oil by not trying to mix them. If a team has come together in agreement .. the team will work better ofc.
This is an interesting post. I am a christian man and i am engaged to a Muslim woman. We both learn about islam daily and we enjoy celebrating eid with the rest of the family. I agree with Dr shabir in that things should work just fine so long as the same message is being carried forward i.e. To children (of which there are ). We both have never been so happy and i'm greatfull for her and other educated, peaceful and fair minded people like Dr shabir.
No, you are misconstruing his message. If you listened carefully, it is clear that you must be muslim man in order to marry a muslim woman. If you are learning about Islam, I think you should make a decision very soon whether you want to be Muslim or not. If you do choose to become a Muslim, you should proceed with the marriage with your Muslim fiance, if not, then it is strongly and highly advised that you both separate. It WILL undoubtedly cause trouble in your marriage.
kdMalk thanks for your feedback. I think i understood. Dr shabir mentioned the fact that it is permitted for Muslim men to marry non Muslim women of the book but not the other way around and was most likely to protect women's right to practice their religion in an environment when men were in control. i feel this differes to today's context as woman have more power and control and equality in general plus, i have observed that just because you're Muslim doesn't mean things will allways work out, how do we know this individual hasn't been previously married to a Muslim? I just find that there's so many things that can (wrongly) paint a bad image of Islam but people like Dr shabir make islam very attractive and appealing to me where as there are too many people so quick to cast judgment on others when in fact, when it all comes down to it, I, the individual will be held accountable by god, and nobody else.
Wheatville1 You are right when you say that just because you are Muslim doesn't always mean that things will work out. But the chances and probabilities of success is more if both parties are Muslim. Because say for instance, you both get married and a couple of years from now, somehow your child questions why is there a difference between my mother and father's religion, there is a great chance statistically that the child will not take religion - in general - seriously because of witnessing the conflict between his parents of opposing faiths.
I was raised christian but converted to Islam. I love his message. Dr Shabir is saying that it is perfectly ok for interfaith marriages, but there can be troubles within the marriage. I feel if both people teach their children and allow them to choose is the best way. I believe God's intention for you marrying a muslim woman was to lead you towards the truth of Islam. I wanted to be a baptist preacher and go to bible college but shortly before I was going to make my journey, I converted to Islam by watching videos on youtube.
Dr Shabir: Doesn't Surah Mumtahana, ayah 10, legally restrict non-muslim men from marrying Muslim women? يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا إِذَا جَاءَكُمُ الْمُؤْمِنَاتُ مُهَاجِرَاتٍ فَامْتَحِنُوهُنَّ ۖ اللَّهُ أَعْلَمُ بِإِيمَانِهِنَّ ۖ فَإِنْ عَلِمْتُمُوهُنَّ مُؤْمِنَاتٍ فَلَا تَرْجِعُوهُنَّ إِلَى الْكُفَّارِ ۖ لَا هُنَّ حِلٌّ لَهُمْ وَلَا هُمْ يَحِلُّونَ لَهُنَّ ۖ وَآتُوهُمْ مَا أَنْفَقُوا ۚ وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ تَنْكِحُوهُنَّ إِذَا آتَيْتُمُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ ۚ وَلَا تُمْسِكُوا بِعِصَمِ الْكَوَافِرِ وَاسْأَلُوا مَا أَنْفَقْتُمْ وَلْيَسْأَلُوا مَا أَنْفَقُوا ۚ ذَٰلِكُمْ حُكْمُ اللَّهِ ۖ يَحْكُمُ بَيْنَكُمْ ۚ وَاللَّهُ عَلِيمٌ حَكِيمٌ "O you who believe! When believing women come to you as emigrants, examine them, Allah knows best as to their Faith, then if you ascertain that they are true believers, send them not back to the disbelievers, they are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them. But give the disbelievers that (amount of money) which they have spent [as their Mahr] to them. And there will be no sin on you to marry them if you have paid their Mahr to them. Likewise hold not the disbelieving women as wives, and ask for (the return of) that which you have spent (as Mahr) and let them (the disbelievers, etc.) ask back for that which they have spent. That is the Judgement of Allah. He judges between you. And Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise."
Also, in classical scholarship, there has never been a dissenting scholarly opinion against the scholarly opinion that non-Muslim men cannot Muslim women.
This is not fair preachers of the Christians were against Christians marrying Muslims while Muslims has bigger hearts allowing at least the Muslim men to marry a non-muslim. I love my muslim guy and his my other half, we are very compatible and has pure love for each other
#Jessica_Sanna hi jessica... I am a follower of Buddhism and my bf is a Muslim. it will be very helpful for us if you share some tips . how did u get married? is it allowed in your county? was there any restriction of laws beside the social struggle?
If one parent practices their faith daily and has a strong belief....but the other parent does not share the religion, the fear is that the child will be affected negatively by the parent who is not religious? Why would the child not be affected by the religious parent? Why are you fraid the child will think for themselves?
watched this video 5 years ago i didn't listen to what he said and i married him he was not a muslim now its been 4 years since our marriage we are the having the best life im so proud of my decision. if you are thinking about our children they dont follow any religion we will let them choose when they are old enough, we are not forcing anything. there is one thing i want to say to all of you guys dont let religion interfear in love,its a very personal thing that you dont even have to share it with your spouse .
PLEASE READ IT SISTER. sister pray to ALLAH for your condition he will guide you. The thing actually is that we are forbidden marrying outside faith and if we fall in love with such a person than it would be a trial for us, we should take it as a trail, we will get punished by ALLAH if we materialize such kind of love. I'm very disappointed nowadays that why womens want to burn in hell fire just for 30-40 years of love. Those 30-40 years are also not sure to come there is a chance that u may get died the other day u marry a non muslim. Place your trust on ALLAH you will get a spouse beyond your expectations in shaa ALLAH if u don't get it in this life than u will get him in the life hereafter if you follow ALLAH's command. He will be so handsome that you will watch him with full zeal and zest so trust on ALLAH he will fix your problem. And avoid such a person. One more thing. Everyone here is saying that there is not any verse in quran which forbids a muslim women to marry a non muslim. I will say to such lads that they have to wear glasses while reading quran. It is clearly mentioned in quran that women cannot marry out of faith. Yes it allows men to marry the women of book(jews, christian). But there is one condition that the women should follow the true teachings of the respective prophet and should only consider ALLAH as her true god. But nowadays u can see that all of the women of book actually do shirk. Christian women consider jesus as their god too and jews as u know are waiting for antichrist. So men nowadays cannot also marry women out of faith. May ALLAH bless u sister. Plzz avoid such men and repent to ALLAH. Time is a very good cure In shaa ALLAH u will forget him.
@@shahaanbabar2297 ehh thank you so much for the advice it's so well thought out but I feel like I have to tell you I'm not actually in love with anyone but again thank you so much may Allah reward you for the time it has taken you to write this message and bless you in this life and the after life
@@thinkingphoenix297 well as far as i study Islamic history and ahadith one thing which i found is muslim men in early times marry non muslim women just for political reasons not because they love that women because if you saw early interfaith marriages in Islam all of them happened because of political reasons. The first muslim to marry a Christian woman was Hazrat Muawiya r.a he marries daughter of leader of arab Christian tribe and one interesting thing is the son born from this marriage was yazid ibn Muawiya who martyed imam Hussain a.s so Allah tell us indirectly via yazid that avoid marrying non muslims no matter man or woman(sorry if there are grammatical errors bcoz I'm not perfect in English)
I'm converted to ISLAM for 3 months and married for 8 years with Catholic man, have 3 kids. my husband doesn't accept ISLAM although I'm far working abroad and he's the one taking care of my kids. Do I really have to leave him? even he told me he will not bother for what I'm doing?
plz don't be misguided leave islam this is not going to lead u anywhere practice hinduism , vipasana meditation it will help u watch sadguru jaggi vasudev it will guide u
Kiim Lopepz . Of course not. You shouldn't to leave your husband because of misunderstanding about religions. You can't force anyone to convert as a musllim. You can just suggest him ideas about islam religion. By Show Tell Do Review Please don't leave him
Driss Laroussi you are wrong. If you where already married at the time of conversion she does not have too leave him BUT stop trying to force your views on Muslims ans no muslim woman is allowed to marry a non muslim
Don't leave him, he is your husband, just try to tell him about Islam and convince him and love him more. Simple solution. it's my personal opinion not religious opinion.
I knew three interreligious marriages. 1) My English teacher married a Muslim man. 2) My friendat University had a Muslim father and 3) my friends had a Muslim father. All three saw the man being Muslim (two of whom I know were practicing devoutly). The result was the same. For the first one, only one child was religious enough to pray, none fasted becase the mother (my teacher) forbade it. Ironically, the father was a practicing Muslim and went to Hajj. The second one, I don't know whether the man practiced or not, but I do know the oldest daughter was Catholic, the middle child was Agnostic and the youngest was Muslim. The third case saw the man and kids practice, but the faith in the kids was very weak and they later left the religion. Regardless of their religion, however, they did suffer a maor identity crisis. This told me that it no longer matters whether the man is Muslim, practicing or not, or anything. Naturally, the kids see both parents and are influenced by each one. Whatever the rule is, it must apply to both. If the Quran explicitly forbids a woman from marrying outside the faith, fine. I suggest it be applied to men too. The Quran gives permission but that only means it's halal but still objectionable.
If 2 people love each other I think it is fine no matter what religion or race for them to be together. I am a Christian and my GF is a Muslim, tell me why it is wrong??
@@soulpriestess1953' Women ' is The Worst Creature Created by Almighty ! On my personal experience, i am saying ! i have seen Womens from every race and religion ! They are racist toward their own mens. Although the Zionist and KKK propaganda ( through media ) are the main reason that World is Now going for intermarriage : I have seen many mixed Couples ( married and unmarried ) : White Men - East Asian women White men - Black women East asian men - black and white women Black men - East asian women Muslim women - Christian men and Hindu men WOMENS ARE NOT TRUSTED, women Can do anything for Lust and Money
Why do we have to choose one religion over another? I disagree with the way he represents the child as being 'confused'. My parents are from two different cultures and two different religions and I can see the good and bad in both of them. No one religion is perfect. The idea that you have to choose one camp to be in all your life is not true. We should embrace complexity, nuance and multiplicity - it makes the world more interesting.
When he is talking about conflict of parenting in different religions .. does this not apply if the man is a muslim and wants to marry a non muslim woman? also when the child reaches the age of puberty, they might decide to choose their own religion then what ? 🤷🏽♀️
PLEASE READ IT SISTER. sister pray to ALLAH for your condition he will guide you. The thing actually is that we are forbidden marrying outside faith and if we fall in love with such a person than it would be a trial for us, we should take it as a trail, we will get punished by ALLAH if we materialize such kind of love. I'm very disappointed nowadays that why womens want to burn in hell fire just for 30-40 years of love. Those 30-40 years are also not sure to come there is a chance that u may get died the other day u marry a non muslim. Place your trust on ALLAH you will get a spouse beyond your expectations in shaa ALLAH if u don't get it in this life than u will get him in the life hereafter if you follow ALLAH's command. He will be so handsome that you will watch him with full zeal and zest so trust on ALLAH he will fix your problem. And avoid such a person. One more thing. Everyone here is saying that there is not any verse in quran which forbids a muslim women to marry a non muslim. I will say to such lads that they have to wear glasses while reading quran. It is clearly mentioned in quran that women cannot marry out of faith. Yes it allows men to marry the women of book(jews, christian). But there is one condition that the women should follow the true teachings of the respective prophet and should only consider ALLAH as her true god. But nowadays u can see that all of the women of book actually do shirk. Christian women consider jesus as their god too and jews as u know are waiting for antichrist. So men nowadays cannot also marry women out of faith. May ALLAH bless u sister. Plzz avoid such men and repent to ALLAH. Time is a very good cure In shaa ALLAH u will forget him.
@@alwiyyah mens too shouldn't marry non muslims from the book nowadays cuz the condition that the non muslim women he is marrying, should follow the true teachings of her respective prophet and should consider ALLAH as her lord alone is not fulfilled nowadays.
@@alwiyyah yes that conflict can occur, if mens marry non muslims too. We can see a lot of examples nowadays. Actually children of parents like this either become atheist or they start following a false god. So both men and women shouldn't marry non muslims untill they convert.
@@alwiyyah Well if your dad don't eat pork, nor dring alcohol, pray 5 time, don't eat at ramadan, have to do zagat, etc. and you see your mother doing none of these thing or vice versa. You sure will chose the easiest religion out of the two. Its human nature. So yeah if you marry someone to have children with them then you should chose carefully.
I'm another person in 'the same boat'. I'm an atheist unbeliever man in love with a Muslim woman, and it looks as if things are going well. I've been asked before to leave her for her sake, but she's an adult (neither of us are young) and makes her own decisions. Hello to all my fellow interfaithers.
hmmm exactly what am facing now. Am deeply in love with a non Muslim man and my family are not in support. I am dying slowly deep inside because I have prayed and tried soo many times but I can’t let go off his love and same with him he can’t let me go. He wants to convert but yet still my family are saying he will stop after marriage so they won’t accept him. That’s the battle am fighting now. Someone talk to me plsss
Sister think deeply. Chooosing spouse is part of life and we are tested on it cause chooosing wrong person can lead to hell. And as long as you are a believer you want to be right on your path and forgo the sins. So it is upto you what you want to choose path or temptations.
I married a Muslim woman, I'm an irish Catholic Caucasian, I think that's the term the world describes pale people ha only after asking her father's permission ofc. We are still together now, we have two children who are not being raised into religion. But we educate about different religions including Islam and for them not to be influenced to preference any religion until they choose willingly. We've made everything work like clock work our families are very close. Could say closer than most families I know from friends and their spouses. I'm not discrediting this bloke. But opinions are perspective biased only. What's in you're heart, Allah will pull you towards.
😭😭😭I really love her and she also love me, I want to spend my whole life with her, but i am non Muslim (Christian). I just can't live without her 😭😭😭 and i live in a backward country(Pakistan) and here the government, police, people and her family no one will support us, just imagine my situation 😔😔
This video actually got it wrong. Look at sura 2:62 there the Quran tells you that believing people, are also Jews and christians. So If the Quran tells you to marry believing people christians and Jews are included. Furthermore everybody is the same in front of god. If a Muslim man can marry a non Muslim, a Muslim woman can marry a non Muslim too. Otherwise it wouldn't make sense. Both Muslim male and female are allowed to marry persons from other religions.
M M There is no difference whether she or he is western or eastern , the condition of marriage in Islam is that Believer in Tawheed- the complete monotheistic conception of reality, can't share bed or be life partner of Polytheism in any form whether Trinity or deification of any other person or thing besides Allah . If you truly believe in word of Allah then you should know that Allah forgives every sin except Polytheism شرك , if your child tomorrow worships a man or any other thing besides Allah just because of your marriage outside Islam then you will be responsible for his suffering in Akhirah but if you dont believe in Allah and his messenger, you are just muslim becoz of your parents and your priority is not submission to Allah, in reality you are not Muslim you are just labelling yourself as Muslim, then you can marry whoever you want nobody will Stop you but I will request you to not label yourself as Muslim because it can Misguide others also . Muslim is the one who completely surrenders before Allah التسليم المطلقۃ في امام الله سبحانه و تعالی Muslim men also Should not Marry non Muslim women if they really care for Akhirah of their Children
Saaduddin Ansari You are very narrow minded, please open your mind to the idea that human beings are the same, and religion that stands in the way of love, which god himself has bestowed upon humankind , was constructed in ancient times because of other religions dominating Islam, but today all religions are equal and is not worth destroying two lives for the sake of one rule. I am a non Muslim and I know for sure that I would stay faithful to my Muslim man till death do us part.
I'm here looking for guidance of any kind because I'm desperate at this point. I'm in love with a Muslim woman and I'm a Christian man, and she broke up with me last night because she fears that things wouldn't work despite how much she wants them to. I'm at a complete loss and don't know where to go. I've read quite a bit that these relationships indeed exist and actually turn out just fine, but why doesn't she believe they can just because she thinks her parents wouldn't allow it? Why am I so... unfit, just because of this? I love her and I love God, what more do I need to possess? Why is this love wrong if God says he is love? What do I do?
Of course she doesn't believe this will work, she sees a future with kids who aren't Muslim. For many Muslims including myself, having non Muslim kids is a nightmare scenario.
@@usman5140 That immediately proves what I’ve already read: that the rule that women cannot marry non-Muslims is because of a presumptive fear that the man will force his religion in the wife and the children. Why is this the assumption of us when you don’t even know us? No disrespect, it’s just rather disrespectful to assume that about someone when one doesn’t know them. I would never force the children to be raised apart from Islam, I’m just asking for help. I’m hurt, asking for guidance and advice, and in your reply, all I’m getting is just “Well duh it wouldn’t work out” which doesn’t help at all.
@@unreal727 For starters, this is a rule within our religion. It is haram for a Muslim Woman to marry a non Muslim man. Just speaking from life experience and human nature, I'm giving my opinion on why I don't believe it would work. You may intend as of now that the kids would be raised Muslim, but how about 5, 10 years from now? Islam is a way of life, to think that you will not be involved with what they are taught is a little naive. It's natural for a father to want to teach his children the foundation of what he believes in. You also have to understand that if you as the father aren't interested in Islam, neither will your children be. I have many family members and know many Muslims who are married too or have/had children by non Muslim men. Most of the children either celebrate all holidays or only the ones of the father. I'm sure the Woman who you want to marry has seen many cases like this as well. You have to understand that Muslims value faith in Allah as the most important thing, even above family. You say these things work out just fine and I'm sure they can, in this life. The thing is, we believe that this is only a test for the next eternal life. In that way, its not possible to call it a success. I'm only trying to give my opinion on why she doesn't see this working. Also, I understand how you feel. I am a Muslim man living in the United States. I feel for many non Muslims in my life, but there has always been a faith barrier in these circumstances. Even as I type this, I have feelings for a non Muslim. The thing is, that doesn't negate the fact of everything else I wrote.
Don't worry about what the kids will think about, you let them decide, if you are a religious person you can teach the child your religion if they want you to, but if the child wants to follow the other parent's religion or no religion or even a completely different religion, then let them work that out for themselves and you just help guide them when and if they need help in that regard.
Here i am... Never thought i would join the boat. The worst thing is, i am a non Muslim in Malaysia, in love with a foreign muslim man. If we get married in Malaysia, i have to convert into Muslim. I have no hates towards the religion, but i have my own faith and belief which shape me into the person i am today. I dont know what else to do. This challenge is too much for me.
There is no difference whether she or he is western or eastern , the condition of marriage in Islam is that Believer in Tawheed- the complete monotheistic conception of reality, can't share bed or be life partner of Polytheism in any form whether Trinity or deification of any other person or thing besides Allah . If you truly believe in word of Allah then you should know that Allah forgives every sin except Polytheism شرك , if your child tomorrow worships a man or any other thing besides Allah just because of your marriage outside Islam then you will be responsible for his suffering in Akhirah but if you dont believe in Allah and his messenger, you are just muslim becoz of your parents and your priority is not submission to Allah, in reality you are not Muslim you are just labelling yourself as Muslim, then you can marry whoever you want nobody will Stop you but I will request you to not label yourself as Muslim because it can Misguide others also . Muslim is the one who completely surrenders before Allah التسليم المطلقۃ في امام الله سبحانه و تعالی Muslim men also Should not Marry non Muslim women if they really care for Akhirah of their Children
Quran 2:221 prohibits union between Mushrikeens and Muslim men AND WOMEN unless they believe. Mushrikeens are not Ahl e Kitab. So people who think they know religion must not misguide people. Let the Quran answer. And the answer is 2:221.
Things I have noticed, in case where man married a woman from the book and have babies then divorce the babies become non-Muslim because they stay with mommy (western) and those like me that I am Muslim and my husband is not my children learn from me... mommy the religion. I think 🤔 in the Quran statement is that women are the future of the ummah (people of faith) because the children learn religion from mommy (no matter the place). Would be more logical if there’s permission of marriage to a non Muslims it would be for women? (My opinion) because at the en of the day in that household who decide how and when would be lesson that would be the women (queen). At the time of Muhammad many women was believing in Islam and their husband was AGAINST Islam so was logical this women would be abuse if they stay with the non Muslims. And still this revelation was so fair that Muslims offer a recompense to the non Muslim men at the time. But taking this a this time of age we need to use critical thinking. Are this non Muslim fighting Muslims? Are this women in danger? Are this non Muslim convert to Islam? If a women is Islamic good wife, compassionate, lovely, and honorably would this show the non Muslim man that Islam is the truth and only religion to follow?
Lewis Taylor yes notice same. I know few women that married Muslims males, they have three to 4 children each. Non of those children became Muslims because the mother aren’t Muslims. Women are the one who carried the religion to their children because women spend most of the time with them (75% if woman is working and 90% if woman is not working ) is logical that if the mother is Muslim the children will learn to love Islam but if mother is not Muslim and the father is away (left) children are more likely not be Muslim and depending of the situation they may have learn to hate Islam.
Elisa Lopez De la Cruz you're giving ur self an excuses to prove a point god almighty already make it clear. “And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al-Mushrikoon till they believe (in Allah Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater, etc.), even though he pleases you. Those (Al-Mushrikoon) invite you to the Fire, but Allah invites (you) to Paradise and Forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember” [al-Baqarah 2:221] “…then if you ascertain that they are true believers, send them not back to the disbelievers, they are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them” [al-Mumtahanah 60:10].
How can you even share bed with someone who is not Muslim and who does not believe in Monothiesm , does not Loves Prophetص , will not read Quran to children , Will not take you for hajj and will not Fast during month of Ramadan , I as a man Can never imagine a life where my wife does not offer salah with me its most amazing experience of my life when she recites Quran besides me . I thank Allah that he saved me from marrying Non Muslim .
I have seen this theme presented and twisted every way but Inside-out and can't help but notice noone ever discusses what the principles.....the couple themselves....bring to the activity. Certainly there is talk of Love and attraction and even passion. Not once do I ever hear about Negotiation, Compromise, Problem-solving or Long-term Planning. Perhaps it might be helpful to focus less on overcoming the opinions and objections of family and friends and rather consider what sort of character allows such attitudes to control the lives of others. IMVVHO if one is not mature or grounded sufficiently to stand by their values and goals how can we expect that same person to support a partner in developing those same strengths? FWIW.
This is a very difficult question to answer because I know this couple 25 years together he is an Egyptian Muslim and she is a Christian and I'm going to be honest I have never seen a couple get along so fine. But I see them both talked about both religion with respect and she really takes care of him. There is a negative and there's a positive the negatives of causes different Faith deposit is you can learn from both religion the individual if they can keep it in peace. But remember you got people that are married among their own faith you got Muslim divorcing today and you got Christians also that are divorcing today this is why I said it's a difficult question to answer because it depends on the individual and the couple
Im non muslim and i love islam and im ready to marry my girlfrnd and convert to islam but her parents are not trsuting me they hate me bcoz of what im and they are forcing her to marry someonelse its a devastating situation , if people will not open doors for converts how will islam rise
Masha'ALLAH tabarkALLAH. Both the interviewer and speaker did a great job handling this question and describing many situations/problems that can arise as to why it should be avoided. Very concise/ clear discussion. 👍 I
it's usually the indonesian or malaysian girls who want to marry non-muslim men and think they are right in doing it ... i don't understand what is going on with the faith in those countries....
I am an atheist, so I am not one of the "people of the book". My lover was a Muslim and he wouldn't be allowed to marry me. He decided that he prefers to leave islam to be with me than to lose the love of his life. He said that he wants to spend his life with me even if it means paying the price of eternal punishment in hell. Leaving islam is illegal in his country and punishable with death. He had to escape from there. It is amazing what man in love can do for his woman.
Yeahhh " love"!!!!!! .., both of you going to realize later on how losers you are!! By losing the connection with God!!!! its AMAZING how I brought the love of my life into Islam and getting married and be in paradise forever after with our true love :D
There is a verse in the Bible that says "Do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever" That could be taken very strictly requiring you to not only marry within the faith but even your denomination, Catholics can only marry other Catholics. Others would say they only have to be Christian generally You could take a more liberal view that says anyone that believes in God from the heart which might allow you to marry a Jewish ir Muslim. I think it's probably the middle view, it has to be of your faith but can be from another church.
People of the world Tell me before this so called Religion thing came into existence where people getting married Yes or No you should ask yourself that. And tell me about the first Father and Mother Man and Woman which religion do they belong to tell me please. We shouldn't be getting married to religion, culture, colour, country, status BUT LOVE
He is correct about the parents differing in beliefs - even if one parent allows the other to teach and raise the child in the religion without interference, if he or she doesn’t actively support or involve themselves then the child can easily pick up an idea that the religious teachings aren’t real or important - “kids learn as much from what they see as what they’re told”
First start to Love Allah(swt) more than anything then everything will start to make sense and you will start to complain less and less. Allah (swt) says in the Quran,”indeed we have created man( to live) in hard struggle”. Don’t let ur emotions destroy you, Allah(swt) loves those who have control over their desires and have ultimate trust in Allah(swt). Freedom is achieved by breaking all the chains of ur desires and submitting your will to Allah(swt).
These above lines are really easy to write but its a bit hard to follow. People nowadays are stuck in between desires and faith. They dont really know what to do next. They actuallg never thought of this life is actually gifted by allah to worship allah and mantai the society. we somehow manage our family but leave allah. This is the reason why people are unable to find peace of mind. We have to put all our soul amd heart to allah and this is the most difficult thing a man can do.(but if he can it became easier to him to please allah day by day , by true hardship and worship)
Sorry but no. The basic outcome of his is "times have changed, Quran is not applicable anymore". But for this specific topic, regardless of changing times, the quran instructs us to follow certain rules to ensure the desired concept and dynamic of marriage. The language of the quran and muslim practice has been consistent
Want to ask i m Hindu but I m in love with bohra musliy boy ...? Can we get marry ..? I m ready to learn the Islamic religion and believers ..?so what's the way to get marry with him ...? Please do ans it's necessary for me as soon as please do ans the question...?
harsha verma it is always better to stick to your own kind. Love is an essential part to life be successful but love alone is not sufficient. Marrying within same religious faith family and getting settled in new family is already difficult for woman, and now you will not only have to settle in new family but in different religious faith believers will be hard. Prevention is better than cure. So rather regretting for your act later take decision wisely not emotionally.
No . According to Islamic law you can not marry with a non Muslim man . There is only way to marry your desired person is that the person you want to marry accept islam .
This is incorrect. Loves definition can be corrupted and without rules, mankind will be lost. Just how love has been redefined to include homosexual relationships. Soon the love of children and animals will also be redefined...
lock123able and if God is the source of love and the source who created both christians and muslims and jews with the capacity to love, then why do we use religion as a barrier? It's all one message from one God in the end.
I married woman who told me she's muslim acted as muslim for ten years I find out she's not muslim and now she took my children of 5 she's getting help for her church pastor and the sheriff working together to keep away from my children when I was away she was taking my children to church w/o my permission
dating is haram (forbidden) in islam. Any inappropriate interaction - especially while being alone together - is not allowed (hence dating is not allowed since it generally includes that). Technically you could marry if you are a muslim or jew, but good luck with that lol. That being said, I am not sure about how religiously practicing this muslim boy is. He could not be very practicing and not even care about his beliefs (I hope that is not the case). so he may very well be open to it. I suggest you don't go for it. His family will get in the way and it will just not work out in the end. May Allah guide you. Peace!
you both can date staying in boundaries to know each other and you can marry him if you are a christian or jew ( woman from the book). muslim man can marry them
I mean what can you do when there is no Muslim around who marry Muslims I’m in the USA and all the men marry outside the faith and we’re left just alone because it’s cooler to get with someone they feel they can relate with?
hats off, to this man..... the way he answers the question which are really troublesome situations in india and adjacent countries is unmatchable and so genuine.
1) If you or Islam Says a muslim women marrying a non muslim is a sin and word of God, then it's means non Muslims are sinners right?? 2) are non Muslims sinners just because they are non Muslims?? 3) what happens to non Muslims who are way better then normal Muslims?? Is marrying them still haram for a muslim women?? 4) if being Non Muslims is wrong, Why does quran promise each non muslim a big place in heaven and all good deeds shall be rewarded Holy Quran 2: 62...?? 5) Now what is the sin of a non muslims? And , if being non muslim is a sin?? Is it A sin that he was born into non muslim family?? Or it because he choose to be non muslim by his free will?? But for him there are no Muslims and non muslims as per his religious book.. According to him there be only good and bad people and he may be a very very good person, so what is his sin here? Or is it a sin that he didn't read quran?? 6) And if Muslims wish acceptence, respect,Iove, kindness,job, help, respect, favours from non Muslims,here Muslims don't see non muslims as sinners and are happy to receive all but when matter of marriage and acceptence arises, religion comes into picture?? 7) If Muslims say marrying a non muslim is a sin, will Muslims accept a non muslim who thinks similarly that marrying a muslim is sin for him as per his religion?? 8) who is better in the eyes of God ? A muslim with 1000 sins or non muslim with 1000 good qualities with no sins?? 9) why will God punish a muslim women if she marries a good non Muslims who may be 100 times better then her and if she is becoming a better human being with that non muslim in comparison to bad muslim who may abuse or insult her and drag on to injust path?? 10) Does god think like human, like how parents say to their children, I am your parent you must listen only to me,and must follow my ways otherwise I will throw you out of my home , is God also like this?? 11) Is God so soo self centred that he says, oh you worshiped an other God,, I didn't send you to earth to worship other gods.. Therfore I will sentence you to hell for not having recognised me or worshipped me??? 12) Has God created us and sent us to earth only so that we sit and preach and pray him alone, is that why he sent us to earth?? 13) Can God say oh man you are superior, so I grant you can to have 4 wives but try to make justice, but oh women, you are suppose to have just one husband?? 14) Can God say man is more intellegiant then a women and therfore man shall be the Wali of women, in charge and women shall abide by her Wali and marry only after the consent of Wali? And can the true God say like this? And where is free will to women here if her choice is so restricted and are Muslim men the only good poeple on earth who can full fill women's desires?? Can God say to man, since you are more intelligent, you don't need any body's consent to marry?? 15) Where is it written in quran that only muslims are belivers of god, only muslims are chaste, righteous and therefore only they can be good husband's?? How will you feel if your were told your religion is wrong or you are sinner or marrying a muslim man or women is a sin and therfore become Christian, Hindu, or likewise because my book says me to do soo, so please convert so that I can marry you or please convert because this is only religion of God and truth ? how can anybody conclude that other religions are inferior then Islam?? And will muslim accept if others says Islam is inferior to their religion?? Don't give text book pages of quran of self claiming to be the best.. Since Muslims don't read Bhagwat Geeta or towrah or Bible, can God sentence them to hell?? If not, why does that same god sentence non muslims to hell for not having read Quran?? Regards..
+Andalus101 lol realy can you tell us the interpenetration of the verse. because as far as i know and islamic history and all the scholars who have interpreted the since the prophet time say other wise. so please can you share with us how have you came to this understanding
Andalus101 my friend that was not my question. interpretation of the quran is so old my friend and so are the people who have interpreted them like ibn katheer and the imam altabari which are still printed today my friend and posted on the internet these two guys i mentioned lived over a thousand years ago and every scholar a salfi or not they all use their interpretation as a background to their research and answers for any fatwa. and the link you gave me even though it is private research it still agrees with what the imam says
my friend the contradicted each other in the hadeith my friend wither it is a saheeh or invalid and not in the quran no one has ever contradicted in the quran's interpertation. but this topic in particular no one had ever disagreed or contradicted on it since the prophet time. My friend i have only asked for your proof. their is no muslim agreed to that since the dawn of time even Christianity forbids marrying from another religion all you have to do is prove to me through text personal opinions is what have gotten Christianity to having over 100 bibles
I was married for 9 years to an white American/Italian man we have beautiful children together but I divorced him I fell in love with a man who is not muslim because the time my dad and mom died he was always there always there with charming words of comfort etc I couldn't resist his charm and bravery I needed help he was there me and the kids father are friends but hopefully Allah will guide the man I love to Islam but I don't know what to do nothing I can do really because if he wants to study Islam he would.
Even the Bible says not to be unequally yoked, in other words, it discourages believers from marrying those who are not of like faith. It doesn't explicitly prohibit it but just discourages it.
I respect Dr.Shabir but this program is called let the Quran speak not ask Dr.shabir. As a result Dr.Shabir is expressing his opinion on this matter not quoting the Quran. If the earlier scholars restricted the marriage of muslim women to non muslim men, what does that has to do with Islam. Our source of law is the Quran not the scholars........ We are all human beings and every person has the free will to marry the person of his choice. The message of the Quran is social integration and universal brotherhood.
Duale Sulaiman There is no difference whether she or he is western or eastern , the condition of marriage in Islam is that Believer in Tawheed- the complete monotheistic conception of reality, can't share bed or be life partner of Polytheism in any form whether Trinity or deification of any other person or thing besides Allah . If you truly believe in word of Allah then you should know that Allah forgives every sin except Polytheism شرك , if your child tomorrow worships a man or any other thing besides Allah just because of your marriage outside Islam then you will be responsible for his suffering in Akhirah but if you dont believe in Allah and his messenger, you are just muslim becoz of your parents and your priority is not submission to Allah, in reality you are not Muslim you are just labelling yourself as Muslim, then you can marry whoever you want nobody will Stop you but I will request you to not label yourself as Muslim because it can Misguide others also . Muslim is the one who completely surrenders before Allah التسليم المطلقۃ في امام الله سبحانه و تعالی Muslim men also Should not Marry non Muslim women if they really care for Akhirah of their Children
My boyfriend is hindu ... and i want to marry him. His family is very nice to me they act like my mom and my dad in person they are nice. But do u feel meee... i dont wanna be a murtad person
It’s haram sister . Try to give him dawah. If he converts to Islam , this is great. If not , you should probably move on. I know it’s tough but your akhirah is important
Two different faiths is not a big deal for the children. I have parents that speak two different languages. That's even more difficult. Children adapt to anything!
#unwantedrelative Channel you did not heard what he said, it's the scholar's opinion at the time and now it's different. How can you call something which came from Allah through Jibreel to Muhammad S sexist. And being a Muslim doesn't mean you're always right about Islam.
Allah did not ask Abraham to do anything. The JEWISH God of Abraham commanded Abraham to kill his son. This has nothing to do with Muslims or Arabs. This is JEWISH history about a Jewish God and His people. Allah is nothing more than an Arab plagiarism of a Jewish God, His people and their religion. Allah is a Jewish God.
The problem is, Muslim and Christians worship the same God. However, Muslims see it as a different God when things don’t align with their idea of what Islam teaches. Practicing Islam is very different than calling yourself a Muslim.
The answer is NO! If you are not practicing then do as you wish. But if you believe in Islam then answer is NO and it could mean marrying a different guy or staying single.
I love a girl and also want to marry her but she is from hindu family.Please pray for her so that she comes to the r8 path and takes Islam as her religion and also pray for me so that i can make her mine forever!!
I strongly agree with the fact that you'll face serious challenges in raising children if you don't share the same beliefs. Beliefs in right or wrong, religion, politics etc. However, the argument of the male being the one who can convert the women and steer the children is just not strong enough in this day and age. The quran does not strictly specify prohibition of Muslim women to marry men of faith. It clearly prohibits marriage to polytheists or non believers. Allah swt says the quran is for all times and places thus making it possible for us to think of new options. I don't understand why it is a problem for a women who withholds her faith and teaches her children her religion to marry a man from ahl el kitab. What is the objection here? Why should a women have to suffer being disowned and seen as outcast if they are truthfully and believers in Islam when they marry men of the faith.
4:07 “respecting someone is not the same as marrying the person” like what? 😂💀 You respect the person you marry, you dont force them to change and you love them for who they are. As for families and parents of children wanting to pursue an interfaith marriage, support them and love them unconditionally. The issue is not religious, it is cultural. The language barrier between in laws and the misunderstandings that are bound to happen. But knowing and understanding that because the faiths are “mixed” these are inevitable, the more you must try to understand each other and respect each others beliefs. Having common values and ideas of raising a family and both having similar beliefs is far more important than sharing the same faith.
Sir I have a question if a Muslim man marry a non Muslim woman and she converts to islam which is obvious can she meet with her family after marriage whoever they are christain or jew?
