Q&A of a Freelancer living alone 

슛뚜sueddu 벌써 기대돼요😍👍🏻👍🏻

Luv u n tq for sharing 🤗❤️

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Stop! Tea with milk is milk and tea, but where is the water? (Russians are in shock)

hello I really like your videos, and I really appreciate your subtitles in Portuguese (seriously, thank you very much), I would like to follow you on Instragram but I can't find your profile. Could you give me the profile link?

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theres heaps who live like so, at least those that are around me. look a step closer, you'll prob see too. just because they live in a different mindset or opinion, it doesn't mean that its wrong, or that their opinions or standards aren't strong enough to lead their own lives.

then masculine muslin countries will take over cuz their population will cont to grow while we are replaced by robots.

I see alot of women like this these days. They always get depressed when they turn 40 because they regret their decision of not having kids and now its too late for them to have them even if they tried due to being too old. They wish they had a husband and a sweet child that hugs them every morning and tells them "goodnight mommy I love you" in the evening. In your 20s its fine to not care about marriage and stuff but this "strong independent woman" meme has really gone too far and can be very damaging to women. You have to watch out to not become a 40 year old single lady filled with regret wishing she lived her life differently.

@@fiubnl4990 yes. But there are those who don't regret such choices and living happily. Maybe it's all about what you can handle and what you can't. There are some people who have had enough with their toxic families. And living alone sometimes works wonders in their lives. Of course it's hard for the majority to understand this. But we should remember that this world is diverse and people do live off the route. And one more thing . Living alone , being alone and loneliness are all completely different things. I too have seen the regretting people, but I have seen the happy ones too and getting rid of toxic people in their lives made them happier. Have a nice day

I went through the same thing as you. Thank you for sharing with me. We can be stronger and live happier ♥️

you all are so respectable and inspiring women for a young girl like me. thanks for sharing ♥️

I am also a woman in my 20s but still living with my family :) I hope you'll find peace and happiness 💕 Stay healthy and safe 💖

@@sueddu siento mucho oír eso :(

Rose, you are so very right...I think I was much lonelier when I lived with them. And I felt so free and good hitting this guy out of my home. Till now no one is allowed ever to live at my place again, and I am so happy with this. Yes not even giving my key away, not in any way. My home is my castle. :-)

나는 한국어를 못해요하지만 당신이 나를 이해하기를 바랍니다 desafortunadamente en la vida he tenido ciertos problemas que me han hecho una persona solitaria, tímida y reservada, la gente se ha burlado de mí y me han ignorado, por ese motivo prefiero estar solo y gracias a ti he aprendido que ser solo no está tan mal, porque cada persona necesita su espacio para reflexionar de su vida. 🌱🌿충돌 상황에서 나를 진정시켜 주셔서 감사합니다. 콜롬비아 인사말.

same.. always home haha

She's an introvert person

Same...

same

Right!!! I totally agree. Women are perfect humans just like men.

Eu poder escrever em inglês mas infelizmente não sei sou brasileira e gosto muito do deus vídeos ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Sorry to break it to you, but you can't choose the right one, when marriage as an idea is anti-female thing. Marriage can't be good or made right. The sooner you will understand what I mean, the sooner you will stop dreaming (about men) and start dreaming about your own life, and making it true.

@@stevenbotwin That's not necessarily true. It depends on where you live and how progressive the people around you and your future are. Marriage is and should be a promise that you will share your life with the person you choose. This means working together in every aspect of your life (emotional, house, finance, children). The only sad thing is how many people still hold on to old values and traditions that are not necessary.

Right!!!!!

Same here! I was cricitzed the whole time for not wanting to live with my family. I admit I wanted to leave before becacuse I wanted to run away from the problems I wasn't mature yet to handle. But now I'm sure it's just how I am and that's the best solution. I would never be able to pretend that I should live with my family for any reason approved by the society. I just can't.

@@tuyenta2794 I can totally relate to your situation. But just so you know, I've had friends who left their family homes and are at their happiest now. So, don't ever doubt your decision. All the best to you :)

dont worry. u can do it. i was in similar situation and been dreaming of my own place...and after i left...i actually went back and thought about it - i actually was searching for 10 years to leave my parents home! finally got the opportunity, and the timing was right. it was scary to do everything on my own, and being able to afford it but i knew i had to leave. so i really needed courage. even though i was scared and doubtful of my abilities to keep the apt. i just worked so hard, and now im free and happy. so you can do it. you can do anything as long as you think you can and put your mind to it. right now it might be very hard, someone once told me, when ur living with people you didnt choose, and u have to stay bc of money, u just have to endure them. of course, after leaving my family, i understand now how they think, but still doesnt mean they have the right to control u. once u leave and live ur independant life, they cant tell u what to do. thats when i got my confidence and it is good to have good friends next to u that can u can depend on their sound advice as well. stay strong, u will get there. just wait for the right opportunity - even though it is scary, just be confident in urself that you can make it - or just be determined that you will make it. and ideas that will help u fund ur life will come to u.

her answer made me feel more validated in my own choices to distance myself from my family. it's nice to hear someone else be as steadfast in their opinions as i feel, yet cannot adequately express to others.

@@k3d1c how did you manage to earn a living ? I'm asking this because I want to get away from my family but I am scared that I will be able to financially support myself becuz I only read in middle school now.

I am in my 40s now. Just wanted to say "Hi" and tell, that I want to live the life you are living. It is so great to spend my time alone or with a group of my closest female friends (also radical lesbian feminists), and never do, what men society says.

You are an inspiration to me now 😍

Wow! So many likes. Thank you so much. 💖

@@stevenbotwin Hi back at ya.! I glad you are well and safe. 💖

@@unknown-kn4uf Thank you! 💖

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lol in the US women only gain from getting married, especially if they divorce. This may be the difference from Western and Eastern women.

Well unmarried women lose significance. Her loneliness shows this. Imagine being so lonely that you start making RU-vid videos? lol That's a really sad life.

@@ston3kold18 if you were being sarcastic then you can ignore my comment. I respect your pov on this, but I want to highlight that not everyone get the same idea of her being lonely, even tho I'm so lucky to have a loving family, friends and money I still want to live a life like hers, and this is what I'm trying to do. I think social people like you might see this as a sad lonely life, but for some this is the best way to live.

ston3kold18 i don't think she ever said she started producing these videos because she's lonely?

When time goes on you'll feel it. You'll feel a confidence about your life style. You can be a single or be in marriage if you want. I don't want to get married, I'm 26 yo, and I definitely sure on it. I don't want to be a mother. I don't want it all my life. Listen to yourself more than others.

Living life to the fullest doesn't mean you can just achive it when you are with someone else, it doesn't have to be that way, being with someone else or with many people actually won't make your life better either, for someone who like being alone, it'll drain their energy when he or she is with so many people, at some point also they can't be themselves. But... being married or not, the most important thing is that you have space for yourself, to listen to yourself, to get to know more of your self, in order to have self improvement. Like me, I'm married, but the most important for me is that I don't have to deal a lot of things with my husband, eventhough when you consider 'your family is important' is a good thing, but still... I do what's important for me, listen to myself more & don't want to be interrupted by surrounding. Living life to the fullest for me is when I listen more to myself 🙂 and of course my husband is the love of my life, pure love will give you space & let you just being yourself.

Exactly same situation as you girl, I still dunno how my life is gonna be but I think that everyone who want something that people around say it is not the "rigth thing" we all should work hard and prove them wrong. I believe you'll get that life you want, figthing! 💜

I used to be exactly like you and people around me were the same like in your situation. Now that I'm 21 I realized...I was right all along and others were wrong. The more time passes, the more I realize how much quality of life I find being my own person, being alone, and being independent. I'm so glad I fought against my family from getting me married. I'll finish university soon enough and move out to live alone and finally be at peace and have full control of my environment without having to worry about what the other person under the same roof will think. I wish you all the best! You're a very smart person!

No women needs a man and you don't need a man to become a women! Quote from Little Women: “Women have minds and souls as well as just hearts, and they’ve got ambition and talent as well as just beauty. And I’m sick of people saying love is all a woman is fit for.”

sung min 👍👍넘 좋은말이네요

Thank you so much ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

I hope you are doing well. I know this was posted 7 months ago. I just felt your comment. Hope things are better for you now.

Wish you luck

여름 공감합니다!!🌸🌸

계속 도전하세요 원하는 삶

이분처럼 사시려면 일단 돈이 많아야하는데 이분은 구독자가 70만이 넘어서 돈 걱정이 없으니까 직장에 취업하지 않아도 사실 수 있는 거 아닐까요

@@jonasontaylor6941 슛뚜님 구독자수 별로 안 많았을때도 직장은 안다니셨어요...!헐 근데 구독자수 언제 70만 넘었지...?

여름 오랜만에 이 영상 다시 보다가 여름님 댓글이 맨 위에 있어서 답글 하나 남겨요 😊 저는 윗분처럼 말씀하시는 분들을 정말 많이 만나거든요. 유튜브 하니까 돈 잘 벌겠지, 그니까 편하게 살겠지, 유튜브가 사람 살린거지.… 근데 여름님이 말씀하신 것처럼 저는 학교 졸업하고 바로 프리랜서로 고군분투하면서 살아왔잖아요. 그 과정이 있었기에 지금도 있는거고, 유튜버가 된 것도 넓게 보면 저의 스쳐가는 프리랜스 잡 중에 하나일 뿐인거고요. 실제로 지금도 유튜브 외에 강연이나 촬영, 출간 등 다른 일도 늘 병행하고 있어서 일의 분야가 달라졌을 뿐 예전이나 지금이나 제 마음가짐이나 인생에 대한 철칙..이라고 해야하나, 아무튼 그런 것들은 하나도 변하지 않았다고 생각해요. 물론 경제적으로 안정이 되면 좋겠지만, 돈을 어떻게 벌고 얼마나 벌고는.. 내가 삶을 대하는 태도와는 전혀 상관없다고 댓글을 남기고 싶어서 길게 써봤네요 😅😅 항상 몸 조심하시고 행복하세요 ♥️

감사합니다 😊♥️

Sean Dennis Such a thoughtful comment. I’ve read thousands of comments, and I never leave comments, but your raw honesty is impressive too. I’ve heard a little girl once say, “hurt people, hurt people”. And in your case, “healed people, heal people”. Sending hugs 🤗

ありがとうございます 😊

저도 감사합니다 😊♥️

Oh Are you in Korea now?

슛뚜sueddu Yes ! First time in Asia . Your traveling videos are part of the reason I’m here !

니은팩토리 nieunfactory 댓글 남겨주셔서 감사합니다 😊❣️

Omg same! I'm also a girl in my late teen years and i really enjoy my own company i hope someday we can achieve our goals 💛

@@imwatermelonely8336 thank you!! and back to you ☁️💌💌

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