Such a great and meaningful song. It’s hard when you love a person more than they love you. Giving them up for their happiness when you’re the hurting the most 😢
You made me cry reading your comment. That's exactly what I did. After 16 years, I had to let him go so he can have his family back and he can be happy. I loved him so much. I'm still broken inside over it because we used to love each other so much. We were supposed to bury each other when we were old. I never imagined living without him. But I saw how sad we both were, and how he gave up. So I left and gave him back to his family. I hope he's happy and loved.
Damn that’s sad. I’m walking in the same shoes as you. After so many years fighting for them and seems like my time was not valued enough. I’m at the end of the road too and have to let her go.
The whole production of this song was beautifully produced and directed. Actors were on point. Honestly, I like the simple short acting of the story. There are some commenters who say they wished there would have been more to the story, but I think the lyrics already speak for why they’re sitting on the table. The anger and hurt the actress displayed her emotions already tells it all. The actor, did well too, esp the part he seemed to be “mimicking” or making faces. Everyone copes differently, but his coping looks to be as what we see, alcohol. Kub’s voice is still amazing as always. Guitarist, absolutely incredible! I give it a 10/10. 👏 Zaj nkauj no tu siab tshaj plaws yog muab xav tseeb tseeb. Whoever is going through a hardship in their relationship… I wish you well. You are enough, and sometimes… being enough doesn’t get you to where you want to be. And that isn’t your fault. People change. Feelings change. Love yourself, forgive, and everything will be okay after some time. ❤
This song reminds me of my brother. He had alot of talents. Growing up he not only scored off the charts in his academics but was also a state champion wrestler. His main shortcomings which brought him down was that he was socially awkward. It also didn't help that girls considered him unattractive. It was hard for him to make friends and it was very sad the rejection he received the few times in his life when he tried to talk to a girl. He always received the cold shoulder. Eventually his depression got the best of him. He turned to drugs and alcohol and within a decade became only pieces of who he used to be. Today, he is all alone. Along the way, the trauma made him and I no longer get along. Sometimes I miss the days when we were young and stood up for each other as brothers. Sometimes, I wished a girl would have given him a chance...he really just needed a special someone to believe in him....I believe in my heart that if he had found love, not only would he have excelled, he would have loved her tremendously.
We do tend to let the worst get the best of us. I hope he can pick himself up and excel in being the amazing person you see him to be. Let him know that from a Hmong sister to him said " Never let the worst win. The best is always yet to come only when one allows it to. " Take brother.
Never give up on em for all that's left is fam n show them love n life is still the way to cure a broken heart... never stop supporting... take em overseas get clean and love themselves again...
Love this song! I also love that Kub tried out a different vocal range. I was not ready for it. Lol! 😂 keep up the great work! Now, add lyrics so we can sing along. Please and thank you!
This is by far the best acting I’ve ever seen in a Hmong music video. The plot doesn’t do more than the lyrics itself and still illustrates the perfect amount of tension. Cinematography is on point!
Love this love..no one marriage or relationship is not prefect..as women or men we all go through the struggle of life..as for myself life is struggle but love urself more..no one is prefect..❤
Can't be as bad as this singer. And he ain't perfect, but he can sing sad songs..lol... Left his family and refuse to go back. Now he hiding out in the US..
Kou is not hiding. He has been working legally in the states. He has all his legal documents such as his social security, drivers license and work permit. He has not left his family. He is still working on bringing his whole family to the states. These are just all rumors from people who hate him. I know cause I helped him get all his paperwork done. If he's hiding why would he be doing concerts everywhere and comin out with videos?
Great song, nice voice, meaningful Lyrics and beautiful instruments ❤. Life is short!! if a person don’t want to be with you just move on it’s better for both. Do not harm each other in such a way!!!
This made me cry as I'm writing this. I wish my ex could hear this. And if he does, I hope he thinks of me. After 16 years together, he forgot how much he used to love me. How much he fought for me and how much he fought his family to be with me. I endured so much pain from his family, just to be by his side. I loved him so much. More than anything. But in the end, I saw the sadness he was enduring and how it was turning him into something really bad. So, I made the decision and left and returned him back to his family. They didn't even fight to get me back. And it's sad he lost me for them. But he's remarried now. I still pray for him. And I hope he's happy and that she's really good to him and take care of him. And love him more than I did. I hope the family loves her and that it will work out. But I know that he knows, he'll never have anyone who will ever love him the way I did. He just forgot. And I know he'll miss me for the rest of his life.
Ahhhh brings back great great memories hearing his voice, since I was a little kid. My dad always played his songs in the car on those long trips to fishing spots. Makes me wish I was back home to go fishing with my dad again.
@@Hbkgizmo my dad? He’s in his 50’s. I graduated and moved across the world to explore by myself. Now it’s just my two brothers at home with my parents.
Xav nug koj ib lo Yog hais tias..koj tsis hlub kuv-lawm-tiag Es kuv thiaj li Paub npaj-kuv-lub-neej Mus rau..yav tom ntej Es yog..tias kuv.. Tsis yog tus uas koj xaiv nrog nyob Koj muab lwm tus los hloov-kuv-qhov chaw lawm ces Kuv mam ua.. tus zam kev... Yeej paub koj tsis xav hlub kuv lawm.. Yeej paub koj muaj dua lwm tus.. Kuv zoo tsis txaus koj lawm ces.. Kuv mam UA IB SIAB... Es hnub no.. Cia kuv zam kev..rau koj Cia koj.. Mus hlub nws tshaj kuv Txawm tias yuav mob... Kuv lub siab..tshuav tuag Los kuv... Yuav txais kom tau qhov TSEEB... Ntshe yog VIM wb txoj hmoo Yeej los li no.. Hu..yeah... Kuv ntshai tsam muaj ib hnub Es yog luag tsis hlub-koj-tiag.. Koj mam xav txog ces Nws-twb-lig-dhau Vim kuv... Tsis nyob ntawm koj ib sab... Yeej paub koj tsis xav hlub kuv lawm.. Yeej paub koj muaj dua lwm tus.. Kuv zoo tsis txaus koj lawm ces.. Kuv mam UA IB SIAB... Es hnub no.. Cia kuv zam kev..rau koj Cia koj.. Mus hlub nws tshaj kuv Txawm tias yuav mob... Kuv lub siab..npaum cas Los kuv... Yuav txais kom tau qhov TSEEB... Ntshe yog VIM wb txoj hmoo Yeej los li no.. Yeej paub koj tsis xav hlub kuv lawm.. Yeej paub koj muaj dua lwm tus.. Kuv zoo tsis txaus koj lawm ces.. Kuv mam UA IB SIA..AAB..UUYYEHHH Es hnub no.. Cia kuv zam kev..rau koj Cia koj.. Mus hlub nws tshaj kuv Txawm tias yuav mob... Kuv lub siab..npaum cas Los kuv... Yuav txais kom tau qhov TSEEB... Ntshe yog VIM wb txoj hmoo Yeej los li no..
Very meaningful song plus great singing, acting. Love the lyric and the song and so right….sometime in a relationship…one has done the best that one can…BUT… not enough to the other person then it will be exactly as the lyric of the song..,even though you don’t want to let go and let go will hurt you the most but still have to consider the happiness of the other person.
The MV is so mob mob lub siab because this is reality here. How a discussion starts between a married couple who are already in a toxic relationship. Nothing ever resolved, same topics brought up, things getting intense then everything ends at the heat of moment.
Pass me some of that whiskey my brother. I share your pain. There are only a handful of Hmong men that are loyal and willing to make a marriage work. Our ego and pride are too enormous for us to let go. Us men takes a divorce/break up different from women. Sometimes our emotions do get the best of us, and it leads to suicide. That's why there's so much negativity towards us men. Just remember that life can still continue. Life does not have to stop just because of that particular person. It may not work out now, but maybe later on it will. We, as humans, we live and learn. There will always be another chance with the right one or even the same one. Find that motivation and inspiration to continue life, please. If you are that handful, you should be proud.
This song is just too sad. It's one of those sad song that you like but wouldn't finish listening to the whole song because it perfectly relatable to our past relationship. You don't like listening to the entire song because it's a reminder of what you went through in your past relationship.
Ua tsaug uas koj ho tau hu zaj nkauj raug kuv lub siab ua luaj li npawg. Thanks for the awesome production! Another song for the long rides to the sunrise!
Wow the anger in her face then his.. it’s sad that after sometime in a relationship or marriage both just kinda lost “why, how and who they got together”. Sometime the struggles in are lives (kids, work, school, families, careers) gets the best of us and we forget….So please take a moment to breath and appreciate each other! My 2 cent thoughts lol
Exactly! You get to a point in your marriage where you either suck it up no matter what and make it through that hump or give up because it's too much. Is it worth it? The heartache and headache. Sigh**** we are always so hopeful that if we do get over that hump that everything will be okay. But what if it's not? It's so hard.
She’s a narcissist, she was wrong but blames him. That’s why he isn’t doing most of the yelling/screaming. He wants out of the marriage, because she is unable to change. That’s why she ended up signing it.
Damn, I love this! This kind of music and production suits you so much more. Subbed! Keep it up! Lyrics really hit home with my most recent relationship.
