questions i ALWAYS avoid answering 

Let's lean into how truly odd this year has been, and answer many of the questions I always tend to avoid... kick back & have a peaceful day 🤲🏻❤️

Ah, the holy trinity: undiagnosed depression, undiagnosed anxiety, and undiagnosed Gay

i love you legend

I'll be honest, when I saw the title I was thinking "Ok, he's gonna clickbait us and give us some cute tea and say stuff like "Yes I've accidentally stolen a bagel before" or something irrelevant" but you actually answered the questions people have wondered for years 🥴😂

About successful. Watch what Harry Styles said about it. "As long as you are happy doing what you are doing- nobody can say you aren't successful "

Connor is my comfort human. Is that a thing?

Are you telling me you've never hooked up with miranda sings???

I love how you just confirmed that relationship without naming him. And I love how everyone is so respectful and funny in the comments being like "he who must not be named". I love this community!

my 13 year old self is very satisfied with u confirming the relationship with u know who

“one of which you definitely know, let’s be real. “ okay hi my past self is screaming

thanks for confirming that the thing i obsessed over for a year when i was 14 was not a lie. i cringe at my behaviour now as I’m 19, but i was so invested in it at one point, so its good to know now :)

"One of them you guys definetly know let's be real" Me: *chokes on spit*

First of all, the vibes are IMMACULATE Second, can people please stop asking gay men if they're a top or bottom lol

connor, we miss being called chickpeas:(((

Omg I literally thought he would never address the whole 2014/2015 relationship. He is so graceful about it as well.

You seem like you're a good place ConCon! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 and send some of that LA sun this way...(this was the most dad comment I think I've ever written)

kinda off topic but you're literally the only youtuber i still watch from my youtube era lol i'll just never get tired of your funny but chill videos, you really have a unique vibe

it's great to see that you and other youtubers from your "youtube generation" ( like tyler oakley, dan howell, phil lester and others ) give less importance to numbers and more importance to their personal lives (and keeping it private), to growing as people, and it's amazing to see you be generally happy with yourselves and at peace in a way? you just do your things, talk about what matters to you and don't really try to please the algorithm i think we all felt a bit lonely this year, i moved out from my parents in September to start my first year of uni but it ended up being fully online so i am away from home but also didn't meet anyone so it's a bit tough, but vaccines are coming so who knows :) your videos always relax me and it's great to see that you're doing well

It warms my that TS and Connor still follow each other on instagram. I know that they are aware and proud of each other's achievements and that is just so precious 😭

Question: Religion? Connor: Spooky ooky

If cinnamon sugar was a human, they would be Connor Franta

Probably the nicest thing I've watched whilst eating a bowl of pasta, butter and parmesan....

“he was a kind, lovely, intelligent, man. so naturally, i had to ruin it and break up with” okay me

Connor: ... And I'll answer it in a way that's respectful to ev- Wish Ad: *plays* Edit: 🎵 I know I'm not the only one... 🎵

Omg I’m early but the color grading tho *chef’s kiss*

those glasses look so good on you

"People grow up, people change, people drift apart and that is not a bad thing, that's a normal thing. I think people get really obsessed with nostalgia and they want things to always be one way but that's just not the nature of life." I really needed to hear this. Thank you Connor you make it all better

“One of which you definitely know, let’s be real” thanks Connor 😂😂

FINALLY THE 16 YEAR OLD ME CAN REST IN PEACE, NOW THAT ONE OF THEM CLARIFIED AND FINISHED THE BUSINESS! at least ONE of my teenager ships was real.

You know Connor, I've watched you for years now. Never in those years, I felt like you were as happy as you seem to be lately. I wish you all the best. You're a good human.

the little voiceover bits are so wholesome

I love how we all know who “one of which you definitely know, let’s be real” is without him actually having to say who it is 🥺

Not enough people talk about that the good side is about this man. It makes me cry! That must have been tough on you Con, glad you seem so happy now :')

i love that even when it’s a question video, it’s pleasant and aesthetically pleasing. i love distressing with these videos

the "how are you, really" question is really all i cared about

i love these little cute chill vids

Just wanna said that your videos are always helping me to calm when I’m anxious for more than 6 years now. Thank you!

Thank you for your kind sharing, it was fun and moving at the same time (no shames time either) 🤗🤗

man there’s not many people i can happily sit through a whole video like this from anymore, but your videos always make my day. i wanna be friends with u

"People in general give me anxiety" Yes.

*Getting this out of the way now - the lighting is IMMACULATE and you look especially stunning here* 😳🥰

remember when you ended ur videos with the “dododododododododo byeeeeeeee”

Can we appreciate how unproblamtic of a youtuber Connor is? Like finally a youtuber who isn‘t involved in drama and just lives an asthetic life and is the most adorable person on this planet🥰

Connor you have such a calm, warm, old soul energy and I love listening to you talk, feel like I'm absorbing a little bit of that energy through the screen.

you prolly won’t see this but still- 2012 i took a year off school preparing for the exam of transferring to an art university. i was so confused and frustrated with life, the only thing i can do is keep drawing and painting. that’s when i found you on youtube. whenever i feel bad your smile makes me so happy and inspired. lately, there’s lots of shit going on with my life. i’ve been depressed for months. i cant pass a day without thinking of suicide. but with help, i’m still here. trying my best self to face every single day. long story short. seeing you getting better and BETTER by every coming video REALLY makes me feel so happy & proud. seeing you become so comfortable and genuinely happy in yourself has been beautiful journey. most of all, you giving me the strength to continue. thanks a lot connor’ keep it up. ily Xx

Literally started youtube because of you king so glad you’re still genuine af 👏👏😭😭 we love to see it

i love how real this is. i feel like a lot of them time even when influencers are answering these questions/doing these videos they are still dramatizing this, and this video just feels so real and made me happy. it was refreshing to watch🤍.

it is genuinely so refreshing to see such an honest and open video. I loved every single second & thank you for talking about things you definitely did not need to talk about but still put it out there for all of us. Thank you for being such an incredibly role-model to me growing up all those years ago (and still being an incredible human bean)

HOW IS HIS SKIN SO PERFECT?? I LOOK LIKE A PIECE OF SWISS CHEESE COMPARED TO HIM

Ya boy is fine! Yassss! I had my best financial year since 2013 this year! Brag/Celebrate/Be Proud away!!!

“... So naturally I had to ruin things“ 😂😂 I feel this in my ancient joints😂

I love that this is a trend going on with the creators I entered adulthood with. None of these answers are ever unexpected or anything crazy. It's nice to know that ya'll are finally in a place where you're settled enough into yourselves where these things aren't as stressful to talk about anymore. Gives me hope that me feeling more settled into myself as an adult too isn't just some house of mirrors thing. Like, I am actually getting some (just some) of my shit together. Glad to hear you're doing well Connor! Don't forget to drink water :)

I love how gracious you are even when answering the nosiest questions and how genuine you are instead of putting on a mask for the sake of views. You're truly a wonderful human being, Connor❤️

you’re the only person i could listen to talk for hours. if you had a podcast i would sooo listen to it, your voice is just so soothing.

the relationship he was talking about made my heart happy, i never rooted for it at the time but just taking me back to then warmed my soul

I miss the times where even popular influencers and RU-vidrs took their own pics and even uses Instagram filters made everyone seem more relatable and normal

You are the only "old" youtuber I've stuck around with and I will always support you, chickpea! 🤸‍♀️💛

Connor Franta. You have been a bright light in my world since I was in high school, helping me to laugh or smile on days that neither feels possible. I am SO thankful that you have found your self worth outside of numbers or what others consider "success" and that you are happy and healthy. I really look up to you and hope that I can be a bright light in my circle of influence like you are for so many.

Very real, very honest, and totally relatable. It’s no wonder you’ve stayed around. People put all sorts of things on you that say more about them than about you, but you simply tell the truth, and I admire that.

this really felt like a catch up with an old friend, pure comfort. thank you connor!

The word "cute" pops upp in my head every so often whenever I watch Connors videos. Like really, how many people out there have cute personalities without being super loud and bubbly (which is a little overwhelming to me as an introvert)? I just feel happy and at ease when watching Connor. Good vibe, mind, heart, humor and general personality.

ahhh you’ve truly never seemed more contented to me and hearing you say that you are fully emotional stable, although a little lonely makes me feel very very happy for you, it gives me all the good gooey warm emotions ya know. i’ve been following u for quite some time now but i realised i never really consciously treasured the small but certain happiness i get from watching your videos and seeing you grow and all that sappy shit, so i just wanna thank u for that and say that i’m very proud of you and i hope you are too!! you may not be as ‘successful’ as you once were but to me you’ve never been a bigger source of comfort and joy and i’m so glad you’ve been staying true to yourself throughout all this time

This was such a heartwarming video. I really appreciate how sincere you were here. I have been a fan of yours for several years now. Keep up the positive vibes, Connor! 😃

connor! you look so happy, actually glowing✨ so proud of you king!

The way he makes me feel safe and I feel like I'm talking to a genuine friend of mine...thank you Connor for putting a smile on my face💗🧸💗

Connor you are such a kind soul. Every time I hear or read something about your breakup, my heart still breaks up for you. Idk it's been so long but I still do. It brings back memories of things in my past and it's so relatable. I love poetry. I hope when the pandemic is over i could come to a signing tour for your next book.

I feel so happy for you! I know how hard life can be and feeling sufficient for yourself is amazing!! During this quarantine I focused more on myself and I am also on a better mental place ♥️ best wishes for you ever

great vibes, connor!!

i feel like your the human version of a golden retriever i’m obsessed

I've been a fan of yours for years but lately in the last year or so, I have appreciated you more & more with each video. You are such a thoughtful & levelheaded person with a great outlook on life. Thank you for giving me a sprinkle of happiness & sanity in this crazy time. I hope you have a wonderful day. 😊

I love how genuine you are, when everything else I see on the web is so overly exaggerated and out there. Thank you for this

I've been watching you for so long and in that time me, you and the community, it feels like, grew up along each other. I enjoyed your content years ago when I was a teen and I enjoy your current content as a *ahm* adult. Thanks for being a part of this wild ride

i don’t know why... but the, “thank you very much” at 8:44 just radiated julie andrew’s vibes and i love it

Connor, you seem so happy, and I love it. This video was so honest and wonderful. I love watching your videos, when you're open and honest. They always make me remember how alike I am, and it helps me realize that if someone out there is feeling and going thru the same things I am, that I can get thru them too.

you make me so incredibly happy, every video just warms my heart like crazy, it feels like company and it distracts me from how bad my mental health has been lately. thank you for existing thank you for the videos and the content. glad u are okay KING OF MY ABSOLUTE HEART, thanks for making me feel a bit less lonely!!

aww connor, answering these questions in the way that you did really shows ur growth over the last few years and I am happy to see you so emotionally stable and content (-: I know the process was far from easy so I admire you and hope to reach this level of inner peace one day

AHH YESTERDAY THE STREAM AND NOW A NEW VIDEO MY HEART IS FULL♥️💙💚

:) missed you! Thank you for the comfy video! People ask really invasive questions so it’s nice of you to be vulnerable and answer them and I love how private you are and I’m glad you’ve set healthy boundaries as an internet person. I’ve seen a lot of internet people have difficulty with their boundaries, but you seem very happy and healthy about it and it shows and it’s super cool to see.

what i’ve realized from watching many of these videos from different ytbers is that while being a yt fan years ago was fun i kinda perfer everyone being a lil more grown up and chill ☺️this is just a fun lil corner of the internet now and i love it !!

"are you in a relationship right now? i feel like you want a long answer but there is no long answer" *insert samsung galaxy commercial* right here. of all places, right here

Always good to see one of your videos. I agree that success shouldn't be defined based on fame, money, or subscriber counts; it's about enjoying what you are doing and the experience along the way.

as someone who was into RU-vid culture and following RU-vidrs closely back in the day (6-8 years ago), this is probably the first video of yours I’ve watched in years and it’s so appreciated that you’ve always remained so authentic - ty

I'm really happy to hear that you feel comfortable with yourself and are emotionally in a good place!! That's definitely something to be proud of. Thanks for always making me smile!! 💜

every time connor posts it’s like my anxiety goes down and i just vibe🥰

Connor literally answered all the questions I had in my head for him and I’m genuinely so happy for him. Good for you, Connor 😭💕

Ngl haven't watched your videos in a hot minute .. okay since I was like 14 so like 6yrs..(ew I'm old) but this was such a heartwarming video to come back to, glad to see you happy and thriving!!

I finished your book for the 2nd time. it was so hard to get it since I'm from Portugal. Some friends send me it as a gift from the UK and I love how honest you show yourself there and that really helped me. I think you are an amazing person and thanks for being more genuine every day. It has been a pleasure to know you for almost 6 years now. I hope you still safe and happy!

8 years later and i’m still here baby!

When you said “ I love you” I swear I felt the tension in my shoulders alleviate. Thank you for being a positive influence on my mental health since like 2013 haha

I like that you're able to be a real human while still politely but firmly having boundaries on what you share. I'm honestly still working on that??? And learning how to say no more. 🥺 Thanks for this! You give off such chill vibes and I always leave feeling a little bit lighter ❤️

Hey Connor! I used to watch your all your vids but life happened and I stopped but tonight I was feeling so down and hearing you & seeing you again makes my heart so happy, I'm so glad you're good, I wish I can reach your level of happiness someday ♡ truly thank you for everything, sending you a big hug, you deserve the world 💫

"i'm so excited genuinely" escalated to "that's a bit of a fckin lie" that's me right there

im so proud of how far you've come I've literally grown with you.

thank you for being so candid about all of this. so many other RU-vidrs love mysteries and profiting off mysteries and keeping things secret but i think you talked about everything in just a really mature way and it's so cool so yeah

i've been your supporter for quite a long time now and i just love how much you've grown. you've always been and inspiration and will always continue to be one too.

Your aesthetic is so cute and I love it and I love watching these. 💛

I hope his DMs don't get flooded with the wrong questions now trying to peer further into his privacy. I really love this man for being honest when HE feels it's right too, even though he has no obligation to share anything of the sort: please, whoever you are respect that.

My respect for you grows with every video and I've been watching your videos for about 7 years...you are such an incredible human and one of the few content creators I still enjoy watching. So grateful that there are still genuine, humble people like you out there

connor your energy has always been so kind. thank you for bringing light in a year that was so grey for so many

your voice is always so relaxing and soothing to listen to. i love u!