Quiet Days of July // gardening, thrifting, and a boho bedroom refresh (story 80) 

❤ when you're sitting on the bench talking about the lady who said you needed to lose weight, my heart went out to you because it is not true. You are beautiful and there are many men who would find You Beautiful Just the Way You Are.

I would have said to that unkind woman "if I can't find a man to love me for ME and not my looks, I'd rather stay single" then get up and walk away! I love your videos you are such and inspiration, please remember you are a beautiful human being no matter your size, it is your heart and soul that matter! Love little Charlie too!

I'm a 67 year old man and have watched every video. I look forward to it every Friday. Love your videos. Give a hug to Charlie.

Ohhh I nearly had a heart attack when you took the scissors to that comforter 😮 But it's fabulous hanging on your wall. And it still shocks me the rudeness of strangers and what they think they can say to strangers!

Your garden is lovely. I am a 65 year old woman and I get so much inspiration from your channel. You are such a sweet person. I love the way you dress and the way you decorate your cottage. I just moved last month to a retirement village here in Florida. I will get to create a garden in the spring and I will take my inspiration from you. Thank you for showing your beautiful style to us. I must say too that any man would be extremely lucky to know you. All the best to you and God Bless.

Hi Katie, I am a Brit girl who has been watching your channel for a very long time. I will always be so grateful to have found you as you are an oasis of calm in a rapidly maddening world and I so enjoy just being able to shut it out and watch you make a beautiful home and garden. You are a true inspiration and a kind soul. Blessings to you and your sweet baby boy, Charlie. Debs X

The old lady was probably mixed up, because a " Good" man loves you for who you are and not your weight. You are beautiful my friend and as I said before thank you for sharing your beautiful videos as well as your beautiful spirit. Get him Charlie 😂😂I love him. I'm not feeling my best today had a flare up but your videos always bring a smile to my face, thank you ❤

Oh my GOSH! HOW UTTERLY RUDE OF THAT WOMAN! That makes me mad! I was just sitting here totally enjoying your beauty and light. Your channel is one of my VERY tops! You help me to feel peaceful and grateful for life and nature, and honestly your channel enriches my life. Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. It really helps me and I know others feel the same. Sending love to you❤❤

God made us complete, we should NEVER need someone else to make us complete, I love watching your videos!

If I were sitting beside you on a park bench the first thing I would notice is your beautiful smile that creates a warm glow all around you😊

Dear Katie! you are talented, smart and beautiful inside and out. You are a calm voice after a long day. You have so many traits that make you unique and wonderful. The world is upside down right now, but it is the most important people who will always see the beautiful you❤️💕

Videos never long enough.

I've love your videos. You are funny, sweet, and absolutely gorgeous. In my old age, you bring me peace. Thank you❤

You are perfect the way you are. Love this video.

Grrrrrrrrrr it’s so hard to like humans! You are gorgeous and beautiful and so kind and tender hearted! You are the whole package!❤️😘❤️😘

Your enthusiasm for life just makes me happy and feel joyful. Thank you so much.

I LOVE your cottage it is soooo cozy and warm. One thing I have learned from you seeing all the beautiful colors on your decor is that I need to decor with the things I love not because they match, I used to be like everything needs to match perfectly, not anymore I decor with the things I love!! ❤️ you are such an inspiration and I adore your positive and encouraging videos. Forget about the old lady, she was probably miserable, we speak by what is in our hearts.

I feel like I'm visiting a friend when I watch your videos! I was young in the seventies and you and your cottage remind me of them! ❤

Oh my! Your bee balm is stunning!!! What a wonderful gift!

Can't believe it's been 2 years either, been watching your videos this whole time! Glad you are still motivated to make them! You are truly a beautiful women inside AND out. A Venus, a goddess, a fairy... at least to me. 😊

I havent watched your video fully yet but its me and my husbands anniversary today and whats so nice is I had just finished all my work and was opening youtube and I saw your notification. I was so happy when I read the title because I felt so celebrated. I am so thankful for your videos and how much they inspire me. They have been helping me with my anxiety. I also feel that your videos are the best way to relax and reflect. I have been watching some videos again and again because I feel the more I hear the more it helps and calms me down. Thank you so much for all the effort you take for filming and editing the videos. I am totally grateful from the bottom of my heart

I would have pushed her right off the bench lol. We do come in all shapes and sizes. Love all the colours. Beautiful quilt. Have a lovely weekend.

I just screamed when I saw “ Baby Charlie “! He was SO little . ♥️ I’ve watched you for 2 yrs now . & you’re not only beautiful on the outside ..but more importantly you’re beautiful on the inside , which shines through clearly to me . 🥰

So glad you have stayed posting. I love and look forward to seeing you. Blessings

Out of that one ugly comment look at all the beautiful comments you received. People can be so hurtful. You’re a beautiful woman ❤️❤️❤️

The park bench story reminded me of all the comments I would get while working in a bank. "You have such a pretty face its a shame you are so heavy" lol Once again Charlie fills my heart.

Congratulations on 2 years of shining your beautiful light on this world, Kate! Thank you! 🩷

My gosh, Woman!! You are just stunning inside and out!

When i heard you talking about "the bench lady" oh dear... Because you are beautiful,you shine from within,you are funny,caring,you see the beauty and wonders in life and the everyday,you have a big,warm heart,you are creative and so good in what you do for a living because you see what other people dont see!!! Just wanted to thank you for reminding us to stop and enjoy life even when it is hard sometimes and i also want to thank everyone in here because i always feel we are connected no matter where in the world we live(i live in Sweden). We are a soul family in all ages and stages in life(i am 47). Sending you all warm hugs

I have to say I think you are just a beautiful woman. And your heart is just as beautiful.❤

All your dresses and outfits are so pretty!! As are you, Katie. 🌺 About the old woman, she was a person who had a profound lack of empathy. Unbelievable. You are such a beautiful woman, Katie, truly fortunate in the “genes” department. You’re gorgeous. All women go through phases of struggling with weight. It’s part of life for each and every one of us. We support each other, we don’t tear each other down. Put her comment far from your memory stores!! 🌺

Your little puppy is so well loved. Your cottage is also well loved by you❤ thank you for sharing your videos

We all love it when u take us along on your photo shoots and visit thrift stores. I have been following you since video #8. Everyone takes us on a new adventure, I love the out-in-nature ones too….I so love little Charlie. Thank you for this lovely video. Enjoy your weekend💕🐾🙏

You are lovely inside and out, thanks for sharing your life and talents with us. I look forward to seeing your videos each week and seeing little Charlie too. Your photography and home decorating ideas are delightful to watch. As for the mean bench woman, consider the source. She should be ashamed of herself; I really can't tolerate intentionally rude people. We've all encountered those types; they must be very unhappy people.

The cheek of that old woman! It couldn’t be further from the truth I think.love the film

Those lil zingers from our past can really hurt!

Happy Anniversary 🎉 Kate, your beauty and grace outweighs any and all negativity that may come your way 🍃🌸🍃 Thank you for another wonderful video, give Charlie a hug for me, he is just the cutest 😊

Happy anniversary and thank you for the gift you give us on a weekly basis! Much love to you and Charlie❤️

I am so grateful to have found ur videos recently. Ive been binging on them. U have such a beautiful soul and are so creative. Ur photography is amazing and is a feast for my eyes. The fact that u were able to share the memory of the lady who had such negative advice shows growth. U are absolutely beautiful inside and out. At almost 88 yrs old, Ive learned that I dont care what others think of me, as long as I know who I am and God loves me? .❤ Other than hot beverages, I drink everything else at room temperature. Never use ice. U are so blessed to live in such a beautiful place and experience the magic of nature. I lived yards away from the Delaware River in Chester, Pa. and never realized that it ran as far as Hudson Valley. Ĥudson Valley looks like Paradise to me and a wonderful place to call home for now. Each video I watch, I feel like Im visiting a friend and Im left with such a sense of peace and serenity and beauty. I love ur Charlie! I rescued a 4 yr old chihuahua mix, who was unsocialized and very neglected as she lived in the backyard since a puppy with a 150# Russian Lion dog. Need I say more? Her name is Lola, she's been with me for 4-1/2 years now, and she's still a work in progress. She makes my heart smile, tho.😍 I, too, love thrifting, boho and vintage, dresses, hats, and makeup.💕 Ur dresses are so romantic and feminine and fit in perfectly with ur landscape photos. Hold onto all your videos forever. They are definitely keepsake memories and such treasures. Oh, how I would love to live in ur Boho cottage❤ ciao for now.

Omg , I can’t believe that woman said that ! Not everyone is so shallow , thankfully! You are beautiful inside and out! ❤️❤️❤️

Thank you darling girl. I am a 67 year old woman, and I watch every video now, I think I started watching when you moved into your lovely home you are in now. Charlie fills my heart with joy when I see him too. You are a beautiful young lady, both inside and out, and I thank you for your lovely videos, and your beautiful soft kind voice, and I love the clothes you wear, they are my cup of tea, as we say in England when we like something! Blessings and much love, from Jilly & Madge the black rescue greyhound, from a sunny West Devon, England. xxx

I had to laugh at what you said about the old lady, … remember, we all are products of our time. You are just beautiful and perfect the way you are.

Wow, I can't believe it has been 2 years! Time passes so very quickly, and as at the beginning, I am enjoying your videos just as much now. Thank you.

My sister and I were going through a hard time together just a month ago. We both love to paint with water colors, so we decided to take our paints and head for a peaceful place as an escape from it all. We ended up at Mills Mansion just a bench or two away from where you sat! I will treasure the memory! BTW, watch out for little old busybody ladies who have no filter! You are gorgeous!

Mother nature just does what is needed. When we need water, it rains 🎉 etc. she is nice most of the time. And sometimes not. 😅❤

You are a joyful person and I love how grounded you are .Wait for your next adventure you are a friend I would enjoy but I am old and I think in your heart you are an old soul .Have Fun ❤

Congratulations on your two year anniversary! Excellent videos that are always thoughtful, kind, and inspiring. Thank you so much!

It was wonderful meeting you, sending blessings & love, Caroline

Each of us viewers are blessed to have found your beautiful videos and are so glad you decided to share you and Charlie ❤️from🇦🇺

Happy 2 year anniversary, Kate! Loved the bee balm, lavender and sunflowers. We are half way through our summer season and I so appreciated all the wonderful garden delights you shared. Slow summer sweetness for 21 minutes! Thank you so much.

You are such a delight! Please don’t let anyone make you feel inferior. You are beautiful inside and out. I love watching you grow and evolve; this mom is proud of you.

You are such a blessing. Please keep posting your videos as often as possible. I still can't believe that very rude woman's comments about getting a husband & losing weight. The nerve of some people!

congrats on 2 years of videos. I love them all.

Lucky us that you listened to your wise inner voice to start a RU-vid channel! I've been watching for years, and your soulful, caring, talented, gentle way of being in the world has inspired me to shine these same traits. You've been a soft landing ground and bright light during tough times. Sending you so much love (and that very sad old lady was projecting her own fears because clearly you're a gorgeous earth angel! That's happened to me as well, and it can feel so conflicting)

I can't believe it's been two years since I started sharing your home and your life with you! Your videos are refreshing and honest, and you are so beautiful❤

Comfort. Calm. Nostalgia. Those are the words that describe your channel. In this video, especially, do those words fit. What a swirl of homesickness I felt, as I watched your lovely video. I miss the East Coast. I miss the quaint, delicate, beautiful nature the East gives. My heart belongs there. Watching you walk the sweet streets and shopping in the beautiful little stores, I got to missing home. Thank you for sharing the special vibe that the East Coast emits. I felt a little closer to home. Thank you for that. Now, here is something for you. You are always sharing your heart with the world, now, it is time for us to give back to you. The way to do that, is to write encouraging things, to show you how much we care. I read some of your comments, and, it seems everyone is loving you and your channel as I am. There are some of us who have watched every one of your videos starting from your first one, and, in doing that we have all seen you evolve. You have grown strong, more sure, more confident, and from that, you are a more wonderful version from two years ago. Your story about the woman on the bench was incredible. The way you told it, you had courage with a little humor stuck in. I bet, you could not have told that story with such dignity and a smile, years ago. But now, you can. That is growth. You should feel proud of that. I know that woman hurt you, and, that is sad, as, it is not true. Nobody has to look a certain way to get their soulmate. They just have to be who they are meant to be, and that will be enough. A kindred spirit will be found. Kindness, compassion, interests, those are what bind us together. If we relied solely on looks, wow would I be in trouble. I am as tall as a ten year old and as knobby kneed as any elementery school girl. I have giant glasses and dress in comfy, out of date clothes, but, here I am, married for thirty one years and with four children. My beautiful husband chose me, 4 foot ten, gawky, half blind, but, with a giant heart, kindness that won’t beat, a love of life, nature, learning. That is what matters. So, you go be you, and love will find you, I have no doubt.

Thankyou for this post, I've had a very dear friend staying with me for two days and being alone tonight, I was really hoping for some positive happy content to watch; was so glad to see that you had recently posted. I LOVE your channel, not just your style, but the calm and honest way you speak and share your stories. Your smile is pure magic and you have those smiling eyes that are so uplifting to others! It's so refreshing to hear someone acknowledging their challenges but always finding something to be positive about and never actually complaining or obsessing about problems. As for gorgeous little Charlie, I absolutely adore him! I have a chihuahuaXcavalier called Rosey and they have very similar temperaments. Congratulations on your flowers, they are magnificent! Thankyou again for your inspirational and calming videos, take care xx

Oh Kate how lucky you are to have hummingbirds ❤ they are my absolute favourite birds snd what I would give to live somewhere to have them in my garden! We don’t have them here in the uk but I did visit a friend that lived in Seattle and we sat in her garden watching hummingbirds coming in and out 😮 it was so amazing I’ll never forget it. Thank you for your beautiful videos I love them so much and I really hope to visit your part of the world one day. Xxx

Hello again lovely BoHo Gal......Another great video. Loved shopping with you at those amazing thrift stores. The quilt looks great behind your bed. I just love changing things in my little house....every season is a new look. Pillows, quilts, throws, etc. Oh .....that old woman was absolutely rude in her opinion with her unsolicited and negative statements! You are perfect just the way you are! Beautiful and sweet and natural. Don't you dare change! Your little boho cottage and lovely gardens are so peaceful and cozy. Enjoy the peace and serenity they bring you.

Katie, for all you know that old woman had her own woes, like growing old. She saw you as young, pretty and content and probably felt very jealous of your youth. You are a wonderful, pretty and kind human being, so don't you ever think negative about yourself okay. I grew to love myself and so should you. By the way, I prefer my water just how it is and not cold. Be proud, you should be!! ❤❤❤❤

Happy Anniversary!!! I have been here since the beginning and I love coming here each week to see what is new in your world. We are also in a heat wave in Oregon, too, too hot for me, so I am jealous of your beautiful rain showers! It is fire season here, and there are many in our state right now. Thank you for sharing your world with us! To the woman who sat on the bench with the younger Katie, shame on you!!! What other words could you have chosen, to show love and kindness? I hope you do not take those words to your heart dear, she was WRONG to say them! Wishing you cool breezes, and beautiful days!

You have brought so many lil moments of peace into my life. Your videography is beautiful and so is your heart. The world is better with you in it. ❤

I set aside time every Sunday for my "Sunday Reset" and to watch your videos. I love your videos and end up day dreaming every single time! Stay you, stay strong and know that you are beautiful, loved & appreciated. You are a treasure!!!!

You are so pretty! I cant believe that woman said that. I love your videos, especially of the beautiful scenery and Charlie. He's my favourite. I enjoy gardening too and would love to have your rainfall, especially in summer.

I so enjoy your videos and your thoughtfull comments. I live in the country in the eastern townships of Quebec which is very similar to your area. The winds have been beautifully refreshing in this high humidity situation. Stay strong, stay prepared .

First time I watched one of your videos, and I am so impressed with your skill, technique and taste. You have created a wonderful environment that anyone can feel the gratitude and sense of awe of just life around us. You are a goddess!

Bee Balm is my favorite too. I have magenta in the back by our sunroom windows and I too love watching the bumble bees, butterflies, and hummingbirds.

Happy 2 Year Anniversary! I have been a Loyal follower since the beginning and look forward to every post. I adore your cottage, gardens, Charlie, your thrifting adventures and YOU! Especially since I just moved to the Hudson Valley you have helped me find the best thrift stores! And oh my…that Bee Balm! And shame on that nasty old lady! You are beautiful just the way you are ❤️

The heavens declare His Glory!! Congratulations! on your one year anniversary!

It brings me so much joy to watch your videos. You have such a beautiful heart. Thank you for sharing yourself with the world.❤

I appreciate YOU as well I too am on a journey of learning to be a new person Recently widowed… alone in my little cabin north of you about 3 hours I am finding MY healing to Thank you for sharing your story

Ohhh my heart! I just stumbled on your channel….you are definitely a soul sister….room temp flower cucumber water always for me. Finding joy in the simple everyday enchantments here in WV amongst my gardens and nature spirits…A thrifter, artist, up cycler, and rescuer of vintage things. I will stop by often! Thanks for making yourself and your adventures available to share….💜Ayla

Hi Katie congratulations on your anniversary. I enjoy your videos so much and look forward to many more 💕

Love the quilt you put on the bed ❤ and then hung on the wall. The years sure fly by

No! I can't believe she said that to you! I love your videos and your outlook on life - brings me so much joy. I've been thinking about Blueland - I'll go check it out. I LOVE that bee balm! Have a great week and congratulations on such a huge accomplishment.

Come to West Michigan to see and walk in beautiful lavender fields! They're amazing.

I don't remember when I started watching, but enjoy everyone. Yes, I drink room temperature water, but with it in the 100s here in Oklahoma, cold water hits the spot. Stay cool.😊

Good morning Kate, lovely garden of flowers, The Bee balm is a plant we don't have growing here in UK, unless we have another name for it. All looks lovely and cheerful Butterflies and Bees and Humming birds all around you. It's been a delight watching you grow and thrive over the last few years, you have found your happy place. People say the oddest things to strangers don't you think. You have made a contented life for yourself and Charlie, enjoy each day as it comes sharing your gifts of joy. Hugs and Blessings 💚🌹🙏

We come in all different shapes and sizes and relationships form from love. Don’t change unless you want to. You are beautiful just the way you are and someone will eventually see you and come into your life loving you as you! I had to learn that later in life. Like the sky above, it is beautiful whether storm, snow, sunshine or sunset. We are like the sky❤️

I found you right as you moved into the home you are living in now. Always enjoy your videos!

✨🎉Congratulations on 2 years! I do love your videos and enjoy them so much. I find you very inspiring ❤️… I also agree that your beautiful soul shines thru and I hope one day you find your soulmate, but you are living a lovely life now & that is sooo important. I got married at 45 for the first time & he is my best friend. I have another friend who found her soulmate at 64. I so agree - better to wait and find a truly good match. But I remember fearing I would never find one… I remember having to shift my thought to my life now & enjoy the flowers along the way. Some days were easier than others. Even so - I would still rather be alone than in a bad relationship. There is much joy to be found in life with fuzzy loves & good friends & books & your music. ❤️🌷🎉✨ Wishing you the best! Lynne

Thank you for 2 years of wonderful videos ❤

Good grief, what an awful, rude woman! You are very beautiful and very lovely inside and out. I think I started watching back when you didn't speak on your videos, I look forward to watching your content regularly because it reminds me to stop, look, breathe and have gratitude. I also love your style and thrifted finds, I'm always ridiculously happy when I find that item I just can't leave behind in a charity shop. Ax

Thank you for this wonderful video, so full of color,of some marvelous and precious humor (loved that very quick scene of the adorable silliness occurring in the first thrift store that you visited) - I love that! And your gorgeous ruby pink and lavender garden and all the bouquets in your happy home, and the nervy older lady on the bench who was obviously to me, “ Miss Inappropriate” to most everyone. You have bouquets everywhere, and the new fabric bouquet was so charming too! Might I just add that when people are hurtful, they are hurting themselves and need to feel better by finding a target. I’m not excusing that little lady’s words, but it has helped me to shed my own little moments when I’ve been in similar situations. Knowing that their comments have nothing to do with me has truly helped me to wonder, to be curious about what their suffering is, thus taking it off of me, and letting it go quickly. Enjoy your gorgeous garden, Kate - your videos always bring such sweetness to my Sundays! Thank you! 💜🙏🪻🌷🌺🌻🕊

We must be as we are and not as we should have been. Agree? 🥰 You are beautiful and smart and make great videos😊🍃Have a great weekend!

Happy Anniversary Kate! I am sorry you had that experience on the bench. First, there was/is no truth in her statements. I have noticed how strong and fit you are while working, walking, and playing with Charlie and also how feminine and graceful in your dresses. Secondly, I am proud of you for continuing on your quest to eat healthy, stay active, and practice self care in so many ways. Ways that you pass on to us. Keep um coming! 😊

Love your cozy little cottage and all the colorful decor! You do such a good job mixing color w/patterns! Love all your sweet finds!

Just love watching your 😊beautiful videos and listening to your calming voice,my tastes are much like yours( boho) but I can also remember the hippie days, which were much the same style.Please give cute little Charlie lots of hugs and kisses from me,he is so full of fun.You are truly a beautiful lady.🌺🌸🌻🪻🐝🦋🥀🐇🐦‍⬛🐕‍🦺🐝🦋.💕🇺🇸🇬🇧xx

As far as water I am a bit of both room and cold Thanks for sharing your world with us have a awesome weekend ❤❤❤😊😊

Another touching and intimate episode Kate. Beautifully edited and transporting. Thank you for the joy you and Charlie bring to so many. We cherish you and your simple and lovely life. PS. The Olympic penninsula in beautiful Washington state (where I call home) has many lavender fields. 💜 💜 💜 💜 💜

In the air conditioning, I like room temp water all summer (with a splash of sweet tea that I buy at Walmart). During the winter, I drink hot water… Your stand of bee balm is glorious!!! ❤

I love all of your videos and I think you’re one of the most sweetest loveliest person I have heard and I think you’re perfect. Just the way you are.

Kate congratulations on your 2nd anniversary! 👏🙌 I have been watching since day 1 and have enjoyed each and every video. You are meant to be doing this as your inspiration and talent with the camera is just awesome. It’s too bad such a lovely place to sit and relax ended up bringing back a “not so great” memory. This little old lady obviously was speaking of her days growing up and the way things should be, not realizing we do not have to cater to those beliefs anymore, thank goodness!! We all know already how beautiful you are inside and out so nobody is perfect right? Anyway thank you again for sharing your vulnerability and as always I look forward to your next video….Lisa 🤗🙏💓

Hi Kate & Charlie. I love going back and seeing your past videos. I didn't think Charlie could be cuter. until going back and seeing him as a puppy. I have been concerned about yall. I had heard on tv that New York had had some tornadies and really unusual westher. thankful yall are safe. It is so beautiful and lush there. Here in Texas, it's just hot, hot, hot! The rain is such a blessing when we can get it. I love the new quilt you bought and seeing you and Charlie cuddle on it! This was a great video. You have such a sweet smile, Kate, and I love to hear you laugh. Oh, Charlie's protective bark at the groundhog running through his garden was adorable. I hope yall continue to have a great summer. Oh, by the way, I like my wate,r ice cold! Take care, sweet friend, and please give Charlie some loving from me!

Thank you for continuing to share your life, your videos are so enjoyable and encouraging 🥰

You are a beautiful boho chic with such great vibes and so much inspiration. 🌺🏵🌻

Happy 2 year Kate ❤you are so amazing and beautiful ❤ I look to your videos every day watching you and your videos just hearing your voice is my therapy I love you so much and I can't forget little Charlie he is absolutely precious ❤️ ❤❤️ be well my beautiful friend ❤️

I have loved EVERY SINGLE VIDEO! Thanks for sharing your life with us! Jill

Your videos are so beautiful. You are very talented. I always watch you when I need some calmness.

The cut off part of that quilt would make very nice looking pillows😊