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There is an odd sense of justice in which Quinton becomes a victim of a creepy obsessive fan instead of being one, and he handles it maturely and professionally without him becoming a subject of internet gossip. Now that's what I call character development.
Even for a serial stalker, it's not that hard to "professionally reject" someone you're just not interested in? Let's see if he's still singing the same tune if a Contra-clone comes to work for him?
People want to be victims so badly. Literally 90% of her grievances could have been solved by actually communicating and explaining what you're thinking. The worst that happens is he says no and you quit. This just comes off as a passive aggressive, drunken rambling. Working around the two of them must have been... well interesting to say the least lol.
Exactly. In practice if her claims are true (regarding pay), she is a victim in that sense maybe, BUT, personal accountability also still wasn’t taken. Which does matter. It’s a two-way street for communication, and she is not looking at the bigger picture or chooses not to. She’s got that external locus of control mindset it seems, and that can enable a victimization complex.
What is worse is that she only brought up the pay issue AFTER she was rejected by him so at that point it came off more like a threat than it did an actual issue. It also made it super clear why she kept choosing to overwork herself when the actual deadline for the editing work was flexible. She was trying just trying to impress him... so once rejected it was suddenly his fault that she had no time for friends and was working all the time. This is all from Quinton's video on the subject that I figured I'd add in over here since for some reason everyone over here either hates the guy or thinks hes creepy. So I doubt anyone over here would have watched the entire long video on the subject on his second channel
@@rollingvice Bold take I guess? I think you’re basing that conclusion on your own experiences and that’s it. If that’s the case, Im sorry. But also reconsider who you surround yourself with and remind yourself that who you’re associating/have associated with is a reflection of you as a person.
As an alcoholic myself, I can easily spot a bad drinker when I see them. Homegirl is a BAD drinker. Her issues are with her coping mechanism. Plain and simple. Either she internalizes her feelings and maintains a professional nature with the people she works with, or she stops drinking. She clearly cannot do both.
His rejection notes were extremely reasonable and one of the nicest ways to deny advances. Most guys are used to being made to look a fool lmao. She’s just made he didn’t jump on her bean.
I think his rejection notes may have been *too* nice. I don't see that Quinton said the equivalent of "I'm flattered you feel that way, but I don't want a relationship like that with you." I know that can be hard to say in the moment, especially if you care about the other person and don't want to hurt them. But anything less than a hard but kind "no" seems likely to prolong the frustration both sides ultimately feel.
I hate it when people take on way more responsibility than needed, and then get bitter when they don't get the recognition they feel is deserved. Also, she seems pretty intoxicated here. That might be her second bottle lol
As much as I don't like Quinton Reviews I have to agree with Tom on this. This whole take down drama is probably the dumbest and most pathetic thing I've seen today. The only valid point she has in this whole video is that he's using Discord as a personal therapist, yes that's cringe and wrong. But him not having a buddy buddy relationship with you when he's hired you to work as an editor for a video is 100% professional and ok, if you have a problem with him not being your friend personally, that's your problem. Also to say he's slow at getting you material is not your decision. This is his channel, not yours. He can take as much time as he wants to get material to you.
@@TedRocketLeague Because he's your typical leftist whose morals and values change with every wind direction. Dude's so pathetic he simped so hard for Contrapoints, just to be rejected. He wanted in the breadtube circle so badly only to push out all his friends in the process.
the hilarious thing tho is if he did try to enter into a romantic relationship and things didnt work out, she would 10000% be making the same video but this time he would be abusing power dynamics and made her feel pressured to get into a relationship because he's her boss. he treated their work relationship perfectly to a T with how these people constantly say. and hes the bad guy? people like this need to be avoided at all cost. they are bad people who at even the smallest perceived slight are willing to lie about you to try to ruin your life so they can get even the smallest bit of sympathy, clout and revenge. STAY. AWAY the jonah hill shit is a perfect example of this
i am glad people are finally discussing this. quinton has made many strives in his personal life to become a better person and now he's at the ultimatum, being faced with someone who's representative of his past self. i understand he can be cringe and goofy, but i mean it when i say this guy is one of the most stand-out youtubers in the video essayist community. he is very much an existentialist and i know he doesn't intend to come across like that, when his candid moments appear in videos where he's just. talking to the camera about life and his mental health in videos about nickelodeon sitcoms. idk, there's something just raw about that. i wish him the best in this journey. despite the fact that he looks about as serious as one could ever look like when discussing icarly. you'd think the dude was oppenheimer with the sorrow in his eyes.
@@milkyeyez34 most people on twitter don't mind wendigoon. i think the crowd on twitter who dislike wendigoon will also dislike quinton because a lot of their stuff is controversial in that regard. i think it's safer to say that they're both more fitting for tumblr
Flower Gothic would be fun for about as much as a bottle of Bacardi is. Pretty damn fun at first until you're stumbling over yourself and you keep throwing up all the water you've been drinking to prevent dehydration.
I'm a Quinton fan, and I always liked your old video on him. It was pretty fair and a good history recap, I found him after all that drama. But it sucked he got stranded between communities, no one wanted him, and that's when he said fuck it and struck out on his own with the excessive deep dive lore videos I've come to love, and that's when he got his big break. I think that's an admirable story of self reliance and showing the haters they were wrong, classic stuff. And his videos are funny and engaging over long time stretches. This whole recent thing has just been sad, I hope he's doing well.
Quinton is an absolute douchebag, with how abrasive he has been in the past with anyone who doesn't believe everything he believes was embarrassing, and very telling of his "personality." Which was really just copy paste buzzfeed and Hassan nonsense
i agree 100% with you!! i know most of this comment section seems to just find him annyoing or creepy but i really dont see it like... who isnt cringe sometimes
Quinton's sycophantic ode to Contrapoints is still one of the most pathetic things on the internet. He literally changed his whole outlook on life because someone went to the cheesecake factory with him. It was completely unhinged and creepy.
I know a guy who was like him. Constantly crying and seeking validation while at the same time never answering the phone when contacted about an event. Consistently flakey. Luckily he turned it around and is dating a nurse (not too good looking but very kind heart). Loneliness complex is a real goddamn thing.
he's one of those people we probably all know, or have known/met, that you can just tell are natural made simps. He is, and always will be a follower. He will never lead anybody. Everything he claims opinion over he attributes to somebody else, and anything he does he does in tribute to somebody he perceives as above himself. It's really kind of sad how easy it is to tell what these kinds of people are from just listening to them a short while.
She was way creepier than him in the end, it's kind of hilarious. I'm sure she completely regrets talking about annoying shit he did because it ended up exposing her for being weird and invasive.. embarrassing. I'm not really a fan of Qboy but damn this did not pan out nicely for her at all
You could tell she was in love with him because no one lives in your head rent-free like that for that long unless they did some genuinely awful shit to you, which Quinton didn’t. Dude may be cringe and weird and kinda creepy but he’s not in the wrong here at least.
Am I the only one who thinks quinton's DISINTEREST in this girl is what made her attracted to him, like he probably kept things super distant and professional because he thought she was crazy and didn't want to interact with her outside of a professional context but I bet if he had just approached her in a weird creepy way like he did with lindsay ellis she'd have lost all interest in him, instead he left her alone and gave her some praise on her editing to keep her motivated and she created this fanfic in her head of the two of them watching icarly and having a relationship together. It's like anti rizz rizzing
The worst I can say about Quinton is he's a boring breadtuber who was a simp basically. He's definitely blending in by being good melatonin. Oh yeah, this is basically the end result of being in a parasocial relationship w/ an editor in the end. The heavily intoxicated stuff checks out as well given how they're drinking throughout the video recounting their story.
Even funnier than that is Lindsay Ellis "apology" to moviebob Its not that she takes back or feels bad with what she said but its that she's only sorry people that disagree with her used that to dunk on bob
She doesn’t have to be intoxicated, self identifying as a “goth mother” should be a good indicator of the copious amount of mental illnesses she has that are probably weighing her down
Honestly - Quinton handled this well. Even if I'm not a fan, the accusations are BS and I'm glad he made a good response. Hopefully he's reflected on his past behaviour. It mostly just came across as insecure, but it made others uncomfortable - I really do hope he understands that better now.
My mouth dropped open when you said Flowergothic is behind this. I used to watch Flowergothic a few years ago. She's totally different now from when I watched her. Her older videos (which she now privated) were usually happy material and exposing youtuber predators. She helped contribute to Onision's downfall by reading his books and getting access to his old accounts and reading his disgusting posts. She was super nice and sweet to commenters and her subscribers as well. Then her personality changed when she came out as lesbian and dated her (now ex) girlfriend. She had more of an attitude and her material started to become a bit more unhinged. She also made weird tribute videos of random people. She also drank and smoked a lot on her newer videos. Idk what changed her but its pretty sad to see her like this. I can see in her eyes that's NOT the same person I watched and interacted with in the comments. She sadly may be battling alcohol addiction, and her mental health may also be declining. I'm truly saddened she stooped this low
I know women like her, Quinton is a loser but he didn't do shit wrong. Alcoholic "bean" women have done the same thing in the past when they're like obsessing over someone they have a special connection with in their heads
So she slips on the keyboard and spells "drunkj", she write the word "before" when she means "become", she writes "in" when she means "an", she writes "bean" when she means "being" and she writes "but" when she means "that." Her editing must be crap. The 1700 was probably charity.
holy shit she's just the female version of Quinton. I guarantee you absolutely no one even asked her for her thoughts let alone an entire video on her experiences with the guy who makes garfield videos. The lack of self-awareness is truly transcendent with some of these youtubers.
I bet she saw the Iilluminaughtii drama and thought "hey I had a kind of a bad work relation with a youtuber, maybe I should make him look bad and milk it"
I love how the writer is mad he was reminding people on his patreon that it’s only a parasocial relationship and not really a friendship because, girl, *YOU* are literally what happens when he doesn’t make that clear! 😂😂😂
This woman reminds me of the people I worked with in restaurant industry who would start a job in a kitchen, request/demand as much overtime as possible, then constantly complain 2-3 months later that they are overworked and should be paid more because the restaurant “depends” on them. I have seen it numerous times, and this seems like it is right up the alley of someone who isn’t assertive with their personal boundaries and blames others.
People like that drive me up a wall. hilarious because as soon as they leave they start sayin shit like “watch they’ll shut down for business any second now….”
I love reminding people that if you quit the job right there during your shift everyone would be over it the next day and you'd be replaced next week. Forgotten entirely in 2 months. It doesn't matter what you do or how well you do it the place succeeded before and will after.
It’s reminiscent of 2010s RU-vid. A lot of tumblr girls of this caliber would have this “smug” behavior usually by drinking coffee or tea and sometimes wine. It’s their way of showing that they aren’t phased by something, of course they’re usually phased by it quite a lot. Of course this style or “aesthetic” paired with the tone of voice these people put on is becoming more and more looked down upon because it comes of as talking down to your audience, and who wants to be talked down to by a fucking RU-vid video? People like “Flowergothic”and “The Crow Formally Known As Piper Sweeney” have seemed to not notice this or they don’t care. It’s very annoying to watch and I have no idea why these people still have fanbases.
The drink thing: She's friends with SarahZ. The drink thing is a pretty improtant part of Sarah's "cozy" style (and also a part of Lindsay Ellis' style). This other creator seems to have a lot of identity issues, which includes awkwardly incorporating elements of other people's content.
I doubt she was as attracted to him as she was attracted to the idea of manipulating him. When a beta-looking guy whose not that like, I hate saying this, but high value in the dating marketplace (unattractive conventionally) sees through a narcissist's strategy and rejects them (cause they know this more attractive woman is punching down to get into a relationship where they can control them) then the narcissist goes into damage control for their ego. So, basically: 'youre rejecting ME! ME! Look at you, you betamale, how dare you reject me. Now to character assassinate you.'
the main thing I remember about this guy was that in the middle of some youtube debate and he just started fiddling with legos and barely listening and that was the realest thing I've ever seen a breadtuber do
I'd say Quiton dodged a bullet there. Her going from Love to hate within one message is just yelling out red flags and I would not be surprised if she has a Cluster B personality disorder.
Vulnerable narcissism at its clearest. She really embodies that form of narcissistic behaviors and traits IMO. I wonder if it pushes to the point of BPD and Quinton becoming her favorite person until he didn't meet her perception of him and turned her perception of him into one of an enemy. Huh, fruit for thought.
You know, coming in I thought this was going to be this...woman...accusing quinton of being a creepster or something. Instead I get the equivalent of someone complaining on the comments section of linkedin.
i think it's just a natural evolution of people trying to cancel others for more and more trivial things, ever since the Illuminati thing came out it's apparently been seen as enough to drop a nig EXPOSED video for... someone being kind of an asshole, or a poor manager
What sucks is that this is actually a somewhat common thing for people to do. I've seen it many times, experienced a very similar thing first hand, and even somewhat partaken in it unconsciously I think. The fact is this: if someone says they like you and you reject them and keep being friends, something bad is bound to happen down the line almost 100% of the time. I consider myself to be a person with a lot of self control, but there's just something about the way those feelings can fester sometimes that I can't explain.
Dawg delete this. You just basically said “ive been there” about harassing someone who doesn’t want a romantic relationship with another. That doesn’t sound like self control, that sounds like lunacy. To say you cant have an amicable friendship with someone you once had feelings for with out acting out of pocket is 10/10 red flag behavior
@@LessTh3nThree Yeah? Well the difference here is that I never said I harassed anyone, and the only thing I did or said I did was have those feelings fester inside of me. We all make mistakes, and I think it's important to recognize and embrace that instead of trying to hide from the shadows in your head. Point is you're assuming a lot of things here and diving into the deep end of what it means to have negative thoughts/feelings that you don't have to act on.
Tom, bro. If you think im not calling him _Tha Q Dawg_ you got another thing coming. Seriously though, im shocked Tha Q Dawg had a thirsty girl reaching for him. Tha Q Dawg, made the right move here, especially if he is still trying to BreadOut. This was a pretty interesting coverage. Respec to Tom Respec to Tha Q Dawg Stayup Players!
of all the things to complain about, "using your discord as talk therapy" is the dumbest jeez man that's the least bad thing I expect a guy like him to use discord for
It seems like she has self-esteem issues, a drinking problem, and has learned about human interaction from fanfic. She probably had some idea of dating a 'famous' youtuber and thought Quinton would be a good target since he's like, a teddy bear type with some public cringe, not "out of her league" (though he obvs is). I doubt she was in love with him so much as obsessed with a certain narrative about herself. This is actually semi-standard teenager shit. Very sad to see it play out in public
She annoyed her friends so much they told her to just make a video and get over it, like a therapy. Little did they know she'd post it. Must be where the wine comes in. Or if they told her to post it maybe look for new friends.
If you think that Quinton is weird and stupid, you should definitely do a video on Movie Bob. While Quinton is weird, creepy, and annoying, Movie Bob is also weird, creepy, and annoying, but has an extra layer of loser and stupidity that truly makes him one of the quintessential lol cows of RU-vid. He’s basically the more extreme version of Quinton and very interesting along with that.
I agree but it'll be hard to do as he tends to strike channels that use his Likeness I watched another RU-vidr do a video on him and she had to draw a caricature of him and call him a different name.
MovieBob has always struck me as a socially awkward dude who takes himself way too seriously and tries way too hard to seem smart. He would instantly become more likeable and respected in my opinion if he just relaxed and embraced his own cringe a little bit more.
The funniest thing is her complaining about not getting enough money then showing an instance where she actually asked for more and got it. She uh...didn't think to try that earlier? Yeah, no shit an employer isn't going to pay you more unless you ask. Regardless of how you feel about him as a person, at the end of the day his channel is a business. The point is to make money, so he's not going to go out of his way to pay you more if you don't ask. If she doesn't get paid more and she's genuinely doing as much work as she says, quit. She didn't sign a contract so there would be literally 0 repercussions for her other than losing some income, but so would he if he doesn't have videos coming out.
Turkey Tom has helluva work ethic. Every video he uploads covers every aspect of whatever the topic of discussion is. And at a very consistent rate, upload schedule wise. Kudos Tom 👏
I'm pretty sure she's just on the spectrum, nothing else. The mannerisms and the snarky Nostalgia Critic/Linkara-esque reviewer persona gives me spectrum vibes.
Quinton essentially single-handedly saved the Garfield archives so I might be biased, but I genuinely think he’s a good guy with real talent in narration. He’s dedicated and creative and all in all, seems a decent human being trying his best.
Tldr: a humungous soy male who reviews kids shows claps back at goth lady who blows things out of proportion while all being reported by the gen z version of leafy named tomas 🍅
Quinton redemption arc? Maybe not, but as cringe as Quinton has been, the fact that he was very professional about his employee simping/obsessing over him is something I didn’t expect from him, especially after she tried to cancel him for rejecting her advances
Here's a very important thing my dad said to me once: You cannot get paid for the time you spend on something. If I make a door, it's going to take me 7 days and be a shitty door, a professional door maker is going to finish the job ten times better in a single day. I should NOT get paid more because it took me longer.
Getting a gf isn’t hard once you get out of your head and just gain a little confidence. Quinton can circumvent that baseline truth because of relative internet fame and his sycophantic followers that he’s relegated to a private hugbox for when he gets btfo on Twitter (which happens almost every week). I hope any dudes out there who feel like they’re hopeless take the former route instead of the Quinton route, because, even ignoring how pathetic it is, being a self-pitying sadboy like him doesn’t work without the infamy and steady-ish cash flow, which most dudes simply don’t have