Nicci is that family member you sit down with after years of not speaking, just for you to find out (disappointedly) that they never matured/did their work.
Many of a family members I blocked and distanced myself repeatedly are just like this. As decades go by it will be ppl you love that stay stagnant and don't realize it. That shit is scary.
YES !! Thank you.. It makes you wanna keep your distance and not fix anything- Like Everything happens to her!! Only her.. Not even one apology about what she’s done.. She is a huge disappointment
Honestly, Nicci still doesn't take accountability for anything. She can never acknowledge what she did wrong... it's always someone else's fault... If you're the victim in every story, then you're probably the problem too.
Plus she is trying to make us and this friend feel and say what she wants. This Nicci is a full nutt case. Whew. Stop this show. 🛑 it now “In real life, Mo!?” No. No. NOOOO!!!
Nicci really did herself a disservice with this interview. You literally proved everyone right. It was draining watching her point the finger and not take accountability
Let me reiterate since it's gone@@swisschoklate736positivity is positivty. There's always a 👿 in the room trying to ruin it but you will never prosper
Literally right above your comment someone put this is healing I love it🤣🤣🤣 man I swear some black folk are so blind it's ridiculous their always so quick to turn a blind eye forgive and move on🤦🏿♀️
Nicci doesn't seems like she's taking accountability for any of her actions. You can't shut people out and then expect them to read your mind. That's not how life works.
It’s still everyone else’s fault. Not a, “I could have done this better or an I understand your point”, it’s still, “me me me” this is why the audience didn’t fake to you, it’s this same attitude.
Nicci at the end of the day communication is our partner clarity is our friend. We hear what you said was happening with production pulling the strings to create a hostile environment for ratings. At the end of the day you being a executive producer of the show but having a long standing relationship with those ladies should have had a sit down with one of them at that time and said look we had a great first season but this is what’s now going on and they are trying to paint me in a negative light. And they could have relayed it to the others. The lack of trust/communication was the downfall with everything. There is strength in numbers.
The fact that she was unlikable from season ONE! Right out the gate! So if she was an EP….than she’s unlikable in real life! She couldn’t even get a good cut being a producer? Am I missing something?
I’ve seen the episodes that are in question. Nicci, appeared to be practicing underhanded tactics! Period! She appears to be disingenuous! I don’t know her personally. My opinion is based on observation. Monifah, is given solidness back then and now!
That's just what it is. When will ppl learn you can't flip it, wait years and then add some "new info" that doesn't matter and can't rectify you action in that point in time.
That's exactly what it is. Nicci's ass is playing dumb & refusing to take accountability for anything wrong that she did. She walked around w/this inflated sense of importance, that read out as arrogant, bully behavior & she can't expect Monifah, who is thee most genuine, patient, kind-hearted person on the show, to have coddled & babied her every step of the way. She created her own downfall & got exactly what she deserved!!!
Think its how MO talks like her rhythm the stutter then repeat. I noticed the chops too but they picked up right when the thought was moving forward...I hope
Nicci is such a dam Narcissist. She’s taking zero accountability. She’s only listening to respond. Cutting MoNifah off! Nicci is on this tour to prove she’s not a bad person that’s it’s backfirbackfiring. I’m watching a sit down come to Jesus interview & im feeling the same way I was feeling 10 plus years ago when the show was on “that dam Nicci is something else” how dare she come dwn on Mo like that. We all watched the show. Mo was the definition of mutual/neutral. Mo wanted everybody to get along so they could sing/tour/make money. & nicci & her ego put a damper on the whole show!!! It was terrible. She’s terrible. Her & that Kelly price. & Kelly they nicci under the bus. Even then too aren’t friends anymore (But Kelly was wrong) anyways, Nicci & Nobody but Nicci needs to take ownership & responsibility for her mishaps & misfortunes!
@@WIRFTV What did Rick James Say At The BET awards🤔 Was you the girl backstage that night🤔 I've never disliked you Nicki but you're rehashing old venom💯
Fact is , Monifah chose a side. I watched their seasons and I don’t recall Monifah ever defending Nicci publicly (or privately as she never called her) she sat and giggled at every comment Selena made about her “friend”. At least KeKe Wyatt tried to stick up for Nicci (publicly and privately) and I think that’s what Nicci expected of Monifah. I loveeeee Monifah but I don’t think she’s being honest- everything Nicci brought up, her defence is ‘I didn’t know’ I wasn’t there, I don’t remember, I don’t recall’ like gurlll what do you remember?!! 😄😄just say I didn’t care or I wanted to be friends with Selena but just completely acting oblivious to EVERYTHING is crazy to me 🤷🏽♀️
@@SunshineTheGoddess preach! If folks don't like Nicci just say that but to put the villain stamp on her without going back and watching others around her is something else. Only one who had her back was Keke and Faith was never there
But now you see something... Angie Stone said something on the Divas Atlanta season 3 reunion show that stuck out for me and she quote... "All money, ain't good money...". The owners and executives of these reality shows don't give a fuck about someones name or character being tarnished in the public eye... All they care about is 💲💵 DOLLAR! Moral to this story, NEVER go into business with people you love and care about. Point, period the end!
I think you can go into business with loved ones - but - you must ALL remain clear on the main goal of the "business." Love could have won but we have the remember the devil is busy/in the details. All money is not good money. I'm glad this conversation is taking place. I do hope all parties take accountability because it does take two to tango. Both parties play a role in the breakdown of any relationship.
Yes!!! She doesn’t want to take accountability for anything. She wants a I’m so sorry and let be besties cause I you right and In wrong. I can’t stand people like her! It’s mental!
If Syleena decides not to reconcile with Nicci, I wouldn’t blame her. Nicci didn’t take any accountability for her actions. She could have reached out to them and let them what was going on, but she opted not to do so. In addition, I noticed a lot of “me, me, me” talk from Nicci. She didn’t even acknowledge the fact that Mo’s daughter didn’t come to the wedding and you know that had to hurt Mo. I was optimistic after seeing part one, but after seeing part two, how I perceive Nicci hasn’t changed.
Nicci, the phone goes both ways. She wants people to read her mind and come to her. She makes so many assumptions about what ppl know, or should know and how they should react even when she’s isn’t in contact with them. It’s insane.
Mo better than me. I would have gotten up and walked out. Cause it don’t seem like Nicci wants to move on. We can clearly see what was going on behind the scene that made her act the way she did on the show but if Mo does not know that to her you just being mean. Both parts need to take accountability
Nicci also has to take accountability that is hard for somebody to continue to ride with you when you're shutting them out and not communicating anything. Understandable about the show in the backlash, but you can't be upset with her about you going through litigation and she doesn't know.
Is my thing about the entire conversation. You get on a National platform and say the things you said. You can back track those words and you get angry while discussing your thoughts. Its quite clear, you said what you said in the moment (PERIOD) MO!!!!!
Monifah didn’t owe her an apology. None of the women do. How can you acknowledge that the women weren’t privy to what was really going on and you didn’t tell them, but be upset that they didn’t reach out to you? In reality, all they had to judge the situation by was your behavior without any context and had every right to not fuck with you.
Accountability is a Beautiful Thing ..........😊. Nicci, should learn how to take Accountability for her portions of any situation. Mo, has from looking at this Definitely Absolutely taken Accountability for anything she's done 😊❤. God bless them both ❤🙏😊
Mo gotta be honest, maybe on the show it wasn't the size she picked, but when she decided off the show to go on the radio and to Kiki while her and Syleena were taking shots at Nicci and talking about how close they were, she picked a side and that was wrong. If I were her, before that radio interview I would have called Nicci and talked to her, for called her about her indifference to her when it came down to the R&B Divas reunion with Wendy Williams. Baby real, we cannot continue to take how we felt about Nicci on the show, and use that to override the clear facts that we are seeing in this video pertains to the off-show foolery. Any of us would be hurt if our friends did that to us.
But I watched the show, I don’t see why people don’t like Nicci. When it came to the tour between her and Selena (at the dinner at Selena house, it was established whichever one has the best perks wins) so that was that. I honestly think people just sided with Selena because she was the “popular pick” and Selena got all the other girls to side with her by exaggerating Nicci charity event as a fraud (but both Selena and Nicci had good points) ON TOP OF Angie Stones push back of the charity (all because she really didn’t wanna sing with the little $100 donation lol) but let’s be honest nb likes “the loud fat black woman” (look how they dislike Monique for speaking her truth) so it made it easier for the world to dislike Nicci. Now it seems to be a lot of behind the scene drama. PLUS Selena had other issues with Selena about a workout DVD so she was trying to get at her and she did it on the show!
Somebody get the violins out. This is another reason that ppl disliked Nicki on R&B divas. She’s always playing the victim and acting like she’s owed all these apologies. Meanwhile was she’s passive aggressive asf and thinks someone wants to be cool with someone like that.
I’m just seeing this and I watched all of RnB Diva’s … this is making me feel like Monifah is just not a loyal friend because at the end of the day I have had friends that I had betray me and I just walked away from the friendship.. I have had nothing bad to say about that person since and anyone ask I keep it light and short because it was a real friendship.
I still hate you were misunderstood during that show. I never ever thought you was scamming anyone!!! You didn't deserve that shit. But I know y'all can work this out.
This was a misunderstanding that was caused by production. I don't believe that Nicci is not trying to own up to anything. What I saw was a woman that got set up and is hurt. This was something new she was doing. When you are doing something you've never done before, things happen that you may not know how to handle or react to. Nicci admitted on her show two years ago that she was naive about things. I think both were angry and hurt and took it in the wrong direction or too far. I think both of them should have simultaneously reached out to each other. Mo: What is going on with you, how are you shutting me out?' Nicci : "Because this is going on da da da ." There should have been a collision of reaching out (Does that make sense? ) I really feel that Nicci has her flaws and faults, but I can feel that she is a caring person and very sensitive. When she is hurt, she may not always know how to handle it well. But, all the women had flaws. Some of therm took their anger and frustration (though understanable too far). IT WAS A BIG MISUNDERSTANDING. This is NOT Team Nicci Team nobody. I just saying what I feel from what i've seen and heard. Don't attack, but you don't have to agree with me.
Looking at the clips Nicci has a point. Monifah was not being neutral at all. Syleena talking sideways about Nicci and Monifah not checking it is foul. And yes Monifah was strattling the fence and not taking accountability for what she said and did. Nicci was not shown in the best light on RB Divas.
@@vgreen1106 I mean let's be real Nicci is not innocent either. But her and Monifah were friends. It's cool that she vibe with Syleena, but allowing Syleena to talk about Nicci and you not check it and going along with it was foul.
Glad Monifah and. Nicki talked Keke Faith Selena should have a group chat to come together on tour or back on tv music industry can be a cruel place keep praying moving forward match 18?2024
Monifah isn’t being honest! If someone is your friend, and you know them a little bit, and you notice something is off, you call them, and you see what’s going on with them. Nicci is cool folks, and she will have your back at the end of day. The producers obviously turned on her, and made it a real diva situation. This wasn’t Nicci’s vision!
Okay I see people saying Nicci doesn’t take accountability… but let’s be honest Monifah was wrong in the whole situation. She defended Syleena but it was Nicci that brought R&B Divas to the table. Syleena is a mean spirited person just like monifah. Ungrateful women. Honestly Nicci you should just let it be. You can’t make somebody see their wrongs when they are not open to it.
Nicci could have said " thanks for the apology an just in case I EVER did anything to hurt you, I would like to apologize as well"! Period! An that's how you move on ! Just to cover all bases! She wasn't perfect either!
My sentiments from part 1 are the same for part 2. We owe Nicci an apology bcuz she was dragged for this show. I love Monifah down, but it seems she’s not taking responsibility/accountability for the role she played in the breakdown in their sisterhood. Whether she knew what was happening or not, she didn’t check-in with her friend and put all the responsibility on Nicci. I would really love to see Nicci and Syleena have this conversation.
Ina a way she did. On one of her podcasts, I saw it. She said "Are there some things about me I need to work on after watching the show... Absolutely. "Could I have handled some things better.....absolutely". That's what she said. She just didn't go into details, but she did own up to an extent. She just didn't say it like that on here.
Even in this moment… She still cannot take any accountability and she’s low key bullying Monifah throughout this video. Nicci, you’re making what the negative press was saying about you look true.
The camera only takes what you give... 2) Nikki is a emotional narcissist... it's all about her... Boss Lady now wants to play martyr cause the mean girl act was obvious as them gums...🤣😂🤣🤣 Fyi.. Simple ??? Why didn't the Angle🙄(Nikki) tell anybody from the very start of all the so - called back room drama. She didn't have a problem telling everybody she was the boss??? I'll wait😏
Not only has she not even tried to change since the show , but she’s spent all these years blaming : The Divas, The Franchise, The Realty company who took her house, The Lawsuit she herself filed, Social Media and WE the People for having an opinion !! Like GIRL when do you grow emotionally and realize you are the problem..
Nicci is still playing a victim without trying to understand Monifah’s position. She is the type of person you have that last conversation with, get your closure and let her go on about her business. If Monifah was her girl like she said she was, she would have sprinkled a little something in her ear, so they could have banned together and changed the narrative of what was happening. She shut Mo out and then expected her to just be the same.
I mean they did eat her up on the radio, did eclipse do state that she was originally always trying to do a tour. So for them to go on the radio show and to act like that's not what it was, was crazy. Yes, even if I made a mistake or I'm wrong, I will be uncomfortable with my friend being buddy buddy with somebody that really does not like me. Especially in a radio interview when she talked about how close her and Syleena was and their similar sensibilities. If y'all gone get on Nicci, get on everyone, come at it from all sides.
