The last story: I lost my husband in January 2023. Because of his conditions, he wasn't always rational. And managed to leave the hospital AMA (*) 3 times. The last time he convinced the hospital staff & some visiting friends that he just wanted to go outside for some fresh air. He then took off in his wheelchair and somehow got into his truck & took off! No one knew where he was heading or why. I had to really work to even put out a missing persons report. He was finally located almost 48hrs later. He was FOUND before that after he pulled over bc he felt too sleepy to drive. Somehow the officers that found him didn't see the missing persons report. They took him to a nearby hospital/facility but it was almost 24 hrs before I was notified where he was. Very scary. He actually got upset that I'd reported him missing! I told him that if I ever went missing like that and he DIDNT report it, we'd have a problem. At least HE .wasn't thinking clearly. The fiancee didn't WANT to be found bc she was not anywhere she should've been. (*)(AMA = Against Medical Advice)
I heard the last story a bit ago, and it turns out the fiance wasn't cheating, but she was actually gambling behind his back and using his cash So yeah, he dumped her pathetic ass
No doubt, that's a good way to get/keep customers. Mrs Fields started at a small shop in a mall. Not selling a thing until she got the idea to let people try for free. One of our biggest cookie makers.
I would have figured she would find the free food and then call a complaint that she wanted a free burger instead, or that they had put pickles on it, or some other nonsense in order to get more free food.
The only thing I would do is call the store, not to complain, but to let them know: 1-They gave me an extra 'this type' of sandwich. 2-If someone calls about missing 'this type' of sandwich from their order, they aren't trying to scam you.
Final Story - OP did NOT overreact. OP was genuinely concerned about his fiancé and she’s mad at him? I have a feeling that she was doing something that she wasn’t supposed to be doing and she’s mad and embarrassed that OP called the cops on her. For her own safety I might add.
Honestly, she probably was. I have a feeling she was involved in something unsavory or illicit. It definitely looks like she's trying to hide something at this point, the way she's trying to spin it as OP's fault despite trying to be a responsible person and look out for her welfare
The thing to consider is, did OP tell her that morning? If he didn't then of course she was upset when out of nowhere a police officer pays her a visit at her new workplace. It's all misunderstanding because of lack of communication. One thought why she didn't come home the whole night. The other thought why there's police looking for her. Also, if she was sleeping in her car at roadside, why didn't the police found her?
Man I love (sarcasm ) how Karens try using the "single mother" excuse thinking it entitles them to get whatever they want. And they enjoy the "you're traumatizing my kid" routine also. Meanwhile little Johnny isn't paying attention or bothered in the least. Except for Karen's public display of narcissism and entertainment.
Also the one going off on the armless kid over the disabled parking spot. "You can walk, single mothers like ME need that spot more!". Being a single mother isn't a disability, even if the kid wasn't using it, that wouldn't entitle HER to it. It was her choice to have a kid, other people aren't obligated to bow to her for doing it.
In the last story what OP's fiancée told him was the worst lie I've heard since listening to the lies told by other kids in the schoolyard. The fact that he not only believes her, but is feeling guilty clearly shows that he's just lying to himself. And the fact that he started to get angry & worried so shortly after the phone call is his subconscious' way of trying to tell him that in this case 2+2 don't equal 4. He really needs to seriously reassess & re-evaluate this relationship
Whatever she was doing, he did not deserve her 'hostile' response to his being worried that something bad might have happened to her.. I, too, would have called the hospitals and the police because that was the responsible thing to do. "Anything" could have happened to her. I'd drop her for how she responded his responsible worry and action for her welfare.
Some other commenters are saying that apparently there was an update from the OP and that he later found out that she'd actually been at a casino gambling all night.
If Karen thinks missing an arm is not a disability that should use a reserved spot, she should try pushing a shopping cart or carrying bags across a parking lot one-handed.
Story 3: So basically, he went back on his word and broke a promise just because he was willing to bend to his wife's will. He's a doormat to his wife. That woman needs to go.
And THAT Ladies and Gentlethings is why you ALWAYS GET PROMISES IN WRITING!!! even IF they're made by Family... On second thought, ESPECIALLY if they're made by Family... Just in case... 😄😁😆😅😂🤣
@@GhostRider-sc9vu I believe I said the same thing in answer to another comment...get a home close enough and they don't need to leave their Friends or change Schools...
Story 4: I would've replied to Karen (who is obviously several twinkles short of a glitter) that if my dog had a face like hers I'd shave its butt and teach it to walk backwards!
The arm missing post. Being a single mother is not a disability, so she couldn't park in the handicap spot that OP was using anyway. On the other hand, with the way she influences her kid, CPS needs to haul them away before they grow up to a life of prison.
OP needs to get a hold of the police and get that woman's info and sue her for violating his human rights by having the police called on him for his appearance making him feel inferior as well as a monster by having them come.
Karen: How can you treat a single mother like this? Husband: Honey, what's taking so long? Me: (dies laughing) - - - - - Someone else: (ends their sentence with a) Woof. Me: (dies twice laughing)
@@chezsnailez Ditto my mum. Dad died when I was 17 (30+ now), and she never said that line. That and my dad was kind of a medium bigshot in the region so a lot of people knew he passed.
When Karen started using the ‘single mother card’ my first reaction was ‘Oh great another one’ but when OP mentions that her husband showed up, I started laughing because she made a complete fool of herself in front of everyone who saw her.
Imagine, OP is waiting outside his house, walking up & down, wondering where his gf is. Meanwhile, she's busy romping about the bed with another guy. If only he'd sussed at the time, he could have locked her out permanently
Ironically, I remember that OP said either in his comments or update (don’t remember which) that he has an open relationship with the fiancé, so except for people like ex’s, she could’ve been with someone else no problem.
Story 4: it seems that Karen is unaware that the last of the Ugly Laws (laws prohibiting ugly, deformed, or disabled people from appearing openly in public, especially if they were begging) in the US was abolished in the mid 1970s. Attitudes changed and in 1991 the Americans with Disabilities Act was signed into law. But it seems that she is stuck in the past.
The disfigured and disabled stories reminded me of the time I was in at the store with my mom and some man in a truck said that I should be ashamed of people seeing me (I'm fat). Then I saw his eyes go wide. My mom (fatter than me) got up and started telling him off. The fact that we are well known at that store caused employees to come out to see what was wrong. The man's daughter came out and said this is why he can't come in the store and she said sorry.
Just because OP has injuries does not mean that an entitled person can call the Police on him for bring ugly. Yeah, she should have gotten more than a verbal warning.
She SHOULD have been Arrested for Assault (knocking the things out of OP's hand), Misuse of the Emergency System (calling the Police for a non-Emergency), Filing a False Police Report (lying to Police about what OP did), Harassment and Vandalism (for her kid drawing in marker on OP's window, if it hadn't wiped right off, then it would be Destruction of Property)...
Story 1 - Sounds like ‘Karen’ is so damn bored with her own life that she’s gotta find even the tiniest thing to complain about to some poor innocent bystander. And really, complaining about an extra sandwich in their order. She must be pathetic. In this modern economy, if I found an extra sandwich in my order that I didn’t order, I’m not complaining. In fact I’d be laughing about it and retelling the story to my friends
Same here! Not to mention I’d be absolutely _thrilled_ about the unexpected culinary largesse! Bonus meals like that are _not_ to be sneered at, especially when you’re living on a “deep blue collar” paycheck!
The Karen that attacked the disabled teen could have been arrested for physically attacking the teen and it might have even been treated as a hate crime as well
My dad lost his left arm when he was 18 due to an "unloaded shotgun". My entire life, I never heard of anyone being "traumatized" by my dad's. I taught my daughter that people are different, have accidents, etc. She was never traumatized either by his arm and loved to have her grandfather "tickle her with the stump. Hate and "traumatized" is taught to kids by their parents, it doesn't happen naturally.
The karen in the lost arm story was crazy. Op should have called the police for harassment and vandalisim. The mother harassed her and the kid drawing on her car was vandalizim
Memory unlocked. I worked at 5 Guy's. We had a homeless man smelling strong of piss come in and buy a drink. I'll name him mittens. Mittens then asked if we could just give a double bacon cheese burger with a large fries. I said no but I can comp his drink. He scoffed and still paid for the drink. Mittens then went over and started asking customers waiting for food if he could just have theirs or if they could just order more. One lady offered him a single hamburger which he rejected. His stench and sketchy behavior emptied the store except one customer. Mittens started building himself a fort out of tables and chairs. Then he got a bag of peanuts and brought it to his fort of solitude. Once secure and defended he started throwing peanuts at the only other customer, as if he were having a snowball fight. The other customer did not seem amused but didn't look up from their food. I walked over and body blocked them from being pelted by the onslaught of peanuts. It wasn't long until the police that I had discreetly called before the fort went up had arrived. He stopped his nutty barrage to converse with the officers. I didn't hear what was said but I was watching and drinking the drama tea. One officer starts making a path through the fort. This angered mittens. Mittens grabbed a fist full of peanuts and made as if he was going to throw them. Officer #1 shouted "don't do it." Mittens stopped, then put the handful in his mouth, only to spit it all into an officer's face. officer #1 did not change their facial expression at all but you could also feel the angry ora come off them. Officer #2 face changed to one that was poorly canceling pure glee. Officer #2 tackled mittens so hard I wouldn't be surprised if #2 went off to play the for the raiders later. And that's the last I've seen of mittens in 5 Guy's.
She wasn't asleep in her vehicle alongside the road. If she had been, the cops would have found her when they looked. Actually, he should have been more worried a whole lot sooner. And she should be glad that he WAS worried, worried enough to call the cops. Probably spent the night with a boyfriend.
Story 1: This is what the natural aging process does to Pathological Narcissists. Being mean & nasty to others and complaining about anything little thing they can find are the only activities they can engage in to experience a feel good sensation and they are alone because their mean and nasty behavior drove away anyone they had in their lives before. And the only person to blame for that is themselves.
Story 5 - That's a normal reaction to someone not responding any contact, but what is not normal is he believing in that lie of hers. I searched for the post and saw that it had an update and that there were more about his fiancee than what he knew
A friend of mine married a gold digger girl. When they started their relationship she had a ton of credit card debit. She had a sob story why. She also said her previous husband was abusive. This girl was not attractive. However the friend was quite vulnerable. After they got married he helped her pay off all the debit. Friend is not rich. Then she started maxing out their credit cards and filed for divorce. We later found out she never changed her last name and got contacted by her first husband saying she did a similar thing to him. On top of it all, her single mother of 2, twice divorced sister kept trying to hit on my boyfriend, now husband. Looking back her sister was probably going to pull the same con. About 6 years ago her profile came up on Facebook and it was a wedding picture. All I could say is, victim #3 here he comes.
Final story, many years ago my brother didn't come home. My SIL called the guy he gave a ride to. He was home. That's when she started calling the cops. He had been T boned by a guy trying to read a map while driving and pushed into something on the other side of the road. The only part of his car that wasn't destroyed was the driver's side seat. He was conscious at the scene and told them he had a wife and 2 children. He was medivacted to a trauma hospital, but no one called her. It wasn't until she called the cops that she found out about his accident. I'm not sure how long he was in a coma. They had to operate to relieve pressure on his brain. We could have lost him. If you're not going to be coming home when you say, call someone. I'm a widow and have taken a few trips by myself. But, I check in frequently with friends and family so they know I'm okay.
So the last lady was tired. She tried to call the boyfriend, but her phone was broke. She decided to nap anyway. She happened to magically wake up on time to be at home just in time to take the kids to school, since her phone was broken and she couldn't set an alarm. Unless she's trying to say it was just not getting service, which I'm sure magically fixed itself. Either way, her story is garbage and she's 100% a cheater. Dump that broad and find a real woman.
Some other commenters are saying that apparently there was an update from the OP and that he later found out that she'd actually been at a casino gambling all night.
Not only was she gambling, it was with a card she stole from OP. Most ironically of all, unless she was with an ex, she couldn’t have been cheating for sleeping around because they had an open relationship.
Sorry for this folks. I am sssooooo past annoyed with the “I’m a single parent” crap. I am also a single parent (mother in my case) and I never even had this type of thought. I don’t care if you got yourselves into the position of single parent or someone else caused it. Just get the hell over yourself and try to live your best life. I raise my child on my own with very little government support and a total of $200.00 in child support. I made it with the help of friends and family. I worked for most of my child’s youth (from 4 years to adulthood) without this excuse. If I can do so can everyone else!
*Story 4-* I have a friend, who was in the Army, was shot in the head by a sniper, *and survived!* 😉 You can see where the bullet hit the side of his head and, because of his helmet, went over his scull. It looks pretty crazy! But, he’s one of the nicest guys you’d meet! And because of guys like him, we live in a free country! 😁 *Thank you to all the Veterans out there!!!*
The poor teenage girl getting harassed for taking a disabled spot for her arm made me so angry. Like, people, just leave her alone and let her live her own life! It’s not her fault she lost her arm and might not have a prosthetic one to cover the stump. People just need to mind their own business!
I have a large scar on my face. Once a man was berating me about the scar, saying it was scaring his innocent baby (5 or 6 year old kid who seemed completely disinterested in me) and I shouldn't be allowed out in public. I told him that my government was so impressed by the scar that they gave me a medal for it, the Purple Heart.* He shut up and went away, grumbling under his breath. *Note to non-Americans. The Purple Heart medal is given to US service members for being wounded in combat.
If OP can find a new place close enough to the current school, his kids wouldn't have to change schools, just homes... It still sucks, but at least they don't have to uproot their entire lives or leave their Friends...
Re: the "ugly" story, growing up as an Autistic kid, I was put in classes with other kids with varying disabilities up till Kindergarten, and all of us in those classes were used to everyone looking and acting different. Whenever my mom and I would go to the mall or somewhere public, if we ever walked by someone with a missing limb/visible disability, while other people would chatter about the person from behind their backs, my mom noticed that I would just glance at them and walk by, not caring at all. So, if I ever saw this guy, I probably wouldn't have given him a second thought and just went on with my day.
I get a lawyer involved after my father asked about painkillers. Try and get as much info on this new wife and get the police involved because apparently she's doing something super shady.
7 months ago I had a below the knee amputation and while no one has been outright rude, they do stare a lot. I have a prosthetic but people still stare at me, I'm very open and tell them to ask me questions if they are really that curious. They usually get really flustered and walk away
Last story -- I've gotten too sleepy many times while driving & pulled over to rest. A 20 minute nap does wonders. OPs fiancee may not be cheating on him, but she's lying FOR SURE.
Some other commenters are saying that apparently there was an update from the OP and that he later found out that she'd actually been at a casino gambling all night.
Waiting 24 hours to report missing person is a myth. And a dangerous one on top of that. The sooner you report, the better chances of a person being found alive.
Story 1: "Free food isnt something to complain about-" Uhmmm I have another example, but not the free food... but someone getting what they ordered. I work at a chicken place and a woman ordered a 1 breast dinner to go.. She came back for a refund... because the chicken breast was "too big" & i overheard her say smthn like "How am i supposrd to eat that much??" 😂
Story 4 - I think OP handled it rather well. I think I'd have said, "If ugly people aren't allowed to go out in public, then what are you doing here?" Or maybe, "That's a good-looking kid you have there. He must get his looks from his father!"
There actually was a thing in various cities of the United States from 1867 to 1974 called unsightly beggar ordinances, retroactively named ugly laws. These laws specifically targeted poor and/or disabled people. For instance, in San Francisco a law of 1867 deemed it illegal for "any person, who is diseased, maimed, mutilated or deformed in any way, so as to be an unsightly or disgusting object, to expose himself or herself to public view.”
In the last story, the suspicion that his fiancé might be cheating on him, crossed my mind, when he kept getting vague excuses followed by longer wait times….(& settling on a 7 hour nap ? He needs to look deeper)…
Yeah, on that last story, that woman is DEFINITELY lying about her whereabouts! My money is on her cheating, falling asleep at the partner's place, & not waking up til morning. That story she came up with has more holes than an old fishing net.
Some other commenters are saying that apparently there was an update from the OP and that he later found out that she'd actually been at a casino gambling all night.
@@forcewielder2000 Yeah, that would have been my second guess. Either way, she's lying about where she was, and gambling addicts usually end up dragging their partner down financially, so he needs to get out quick!
To the young lady with one arm, I am so sorry that this happened to you. People can be incredibly ignorant. However, know this. What goes around comes around. You may not have gotten justice that day, but this lady will get hers.
I ordered from a local ran restaurant for dinner for my uncle and me. Got the 2 fish 1 side meal. Seeing it was near the end of the day both my uncle and I had an extra fish in our meal boxes. You don't hear us complaining.
I was at BK the other day and I was having a really bad day. I was getting my drinks while waiting for my Rodeo cheeseburger. The guy came up with my bag and said "Rodeo burger and fries". I told him I didn't order fries. He said "well they're in there" so I thanked him and told him he made my day better 😊
Extra sandwich Karen story: Must be nice to have so much free time you can call up a business to complain about getting something extra. Yeah, sometimes I take something back up if it's not correct, but if I get something extra I didn't order and the rest of the order is correct? That's either going to get eaten or tossed, but I'm not making a formal complaint about it. Beggar story: They say beggars can't be choosers. They haven't met some of the beggars we encounter. FIL's house story: New wife sounds like a gold digger to me. And it's possible either she has a "pill problem" or she's caused FIL to have one for control purposes. Handicap story: I simply don't understand some people. I was taught as a child to not stare and to accept that some people have had things happen to them that was not their fault or in their control. GF late story: No OP, you did the responsible thing. In most ways so did your GF. BUT... while they are few and far between you can still find payphones here and there. Your gf overreacted to the police coming by her job. The explanation was simple enough and her boss and coworkers should understand.
With the last story (the "tired" fiance with the "broken" phone) - some other commenters are saying that apparently there was an update from the OP and that he later found out that she'd actually been at a casino gambling all night.
How dare you give me an extra sandwich plus my entire correct order... Some people should never go out in public and I don't mean people that look different, Thanks for laughs.
Imagine being that pissed off about getting free food! What do you care if the company is losing money? How much was it, $3? $4 or $5? Man, talk about people with not enough to do.
Years ago, when I still worked retail (I don’t anymore), we had a promotion going for one of the brands that we carried. Free ball caps with the purchase. We let everyone that bought the brand about it. We had 1 guy get angry because he doesn’t wear ball caps and wanted something else as he doesn’t have a need for them. We told him sorry, can’t, all we have are the ball caps. He could take one and give it to someone else if he wanted. He yelled at us because he thought that we probably raised the price of the jeans so that we could give out the caps. One of our managers came up because of the yelling. We let her handle it because the guy was going psychotic. He wanted a discount for his troubles to prove that we didn’t raise the price. My manager asked “why would we raise the price for a cheap ball cap? It’s free to customers and they can give people more than 1 if they want.” That sort of shut him up (we had several boxes of those caps. We were allowed to give up to 3 or 4 of them if asked or if we offered, which we did, even to him).
The first story reminds me somewhat of an incident years ago when I worked at Burger King. Another nitwit making petty complaints. Some guy ordered 15 burgers, then brought them back complaining they were burnt. I looked at the burger he showed us. The manager looked at it. It wasn't burnt. He was referring to the grill marks. We told him as much, and that they couldn't be cooked any other way. They're put through a machine on a grill belt and passed through for a specific amount of time at a specific temperature. That one machine was our only method for cooking them, so they couldn't come out any differently. He insisted he wanted his burgers remade so they weren't "burnt". Suffice to say, he didn't get his wish. He was asking the impossible. He ended up leaving muttering who knows what under his breath.
Okay, regarding the story of the mother and 5 Guys and wanting to teach her child about compassion for others - well, she FAILED spectacularly! The minute the CB started DEMANDING the moon and back was the perfect teaching moment for her child. Compassion is a good thing to teach. Not being scammed is also a very good thing to teach. And how not to be entitled is also a good thing to teach. Instead she taught her kid that no matter how entitled you act, you will still get rewarded. Mom gets a big ole D for her troubles (D, not F, because at least she didn't give him everything he wanted but she still gave him food - an A would have been if she had given him nothing and taught her kid that being entitled usually gets you nowhere).
I think I heard story 5 already. She wasn't cheating, OP looked through their finances and realized she had a gambling addiction. She was at the casino all night.
7:48 - Sounds like a scene from *_"Me, Myself, and Irene"_* seconds before Jim Carrey goes on a rampage. Same result, public humiliation and total shame.
I personally stopped giving money to beggars on the streets. It's happened a couple times in the 00's where a begger asks for some change. I say "sure", open my wallet grab a $5 note and give it to them. Only for them to ask for the $50 note which they saw when I opened my wallet. They then turn nasty when I say "no" despite my original generosity and shoe no gratitude for my original donation. While $5 isn't too much for me, $50 is a significant amount to me (especially that I was a student at the time and didn't have an income). They were going from asking for "change" to asking for a major contribution.
For the story about the so called mother, if I were husband I would have divorced her to actually make he a single mother. For the Karen calling 911, the man should have sued her for harassment.
Story 3 - pilly girlfriends. Sounds like a former neighbor. He was in his late 50s and kept getting GFs/helpers in their early 20s. AFAIK every single one of them turned out to be after his prescription medications.
Yep. I remember seeing one of the "helpers" passed out on his patio. IIRC our apartment manager had her trespassed for the man's protection@@JamesDavy2009
Some other commenters are saying that apparently there was an update from the OP and that he later found out that she'd actually been at a casino gambling all night.
"Oh, at least you're being honest about that. I'm no lawyer, but it might be a good idea to continue being honest when the police show up to arrest you for theft."
For story two... I'm homeless and when I asked someone to get me something to eat...I kinda did have to be picky since I'm allergic to mustard and onions...so if they offer to get me a mcdouble or something I say "can I get that with no onions and no mustard" then explain my allergies...some people are understanding....others...not so much. I have been told "you'll get what I get you cause some people have less than you..." And I've had to give away some burgers to others because...I can't eat them due to mustard and onion...
Some other commenters are saying that apparently there was an update from the OP and that he later found out that she'd actually been at a casino gambling all night.
Is that first woman REALLY going to complain about a free sandwich? If that happened to me, I wouldn’t complain even if it was a sandwich I wouldn’t eat - I’d offer it to my mum or something. Weird.
The panhandler story brought to mind coming up to a Tim's on my way to work. There were several homeless types around the door and one was holding a paper cup at chin height as he approached me. I wasn't going to drop more than the quarter I had handy, but when I did, there was an audible "cloop!" He looked into his cup of coffee bemusedly. "I didn't realize!" I said. "C'mon and I'll get you a replacement." We went inside and I ordered my planned coffee and donut "and whatever my friend here wants." He heard that. A large coffee, sandwich, two donuts and whatever else later, I paid up and left, realizing only then the whole thing was almost certainly a scam using a cold coffee to get lunch!
Story 2.5: OP told the Karen that she...with her 1 item...could go ahead. OP did not say that the kid with the full cart could though...so OP did not "lie" at all. Story 5: OP definitely has a cheater on their hands...drop her NOW and get on with your life.
Some other commenters are saying that apparently there was an update from the OP and that he later found out that she'd actually been at a casino gambling all night.
Last story.. Sounds like the fiancé has or is having or just started having an affair with someone.. usually when a person is trying to put the blame on someone else for their wrong doing, this is a sure sign that something ulterior is going on..
Some other commenters are saying that apparently there was an update from the OP and that he later found out that she'd actually been at a casino gambling all night.
