It took a really long time before they made stalking a crime. So, people who were stalked before literally could do nothing. At least now we can make reports..... that's it. Edit: grammar
What is worse is that OP NEVER got informed that they had been released. Someone REALLY dropped the ball there. OP didnt even get asked by the parole board. So something is really messed up there that OP never got contacted in regards to it.
Second Story: Looked up OP's account and it looks like a year after that post, she wrote another in AmITheAsshole. Looks like after the LegalAdvice post OP began going to therapy and realized that her mother was just a terrible person who abused their older sister. Also, looks like OP is trying to rebuild her relationship with older sister.
I’m glad she was mature enough to do some self reflection and understand her sisters point of view, I wish they are able to grow a healthy relationship!
about the impound story, She was arrested without probable cause, which means her constitutional rights were violated, OP can talk to a lawyer and sue the police department and police officers because when cops violate constitutional rights, 2nd and 4th amendment they have no qualified immunity. It will take a little time, but OP will end up a lot wealthier than when this started.
Sorta, Quilified immunity is a District by district thing, I suggest you look up Steve Lehto video on explaining it, He is a lawyer and when you know how its decided, its really fucked
Fun fact: Texas lets local judges try the case so if you get arrested, wether the cops are right is determined by a judge who definitely knows them. Something similar happened to me in a city called Godly TX. Not only did I pay out the bum for my car, but they also billed me for being in the jail threw 2 meals ($350). No crimes charged. I shopped some lawyers and said I would re-coop nothing, because it was a known trick by the city to gain more money. Costs more to fight it then its worth, basically. That's Texas
If OP was black, this would be a news article about yet another black person killed by police instead of a Reddit story. She's lucky she's white or white-passing.
Just a fun fact about your thumbnail, I see you chose Canuck the crow! He was basically a celebrity in my city! Canuck terrorized a specific mailman, stole a knife from a crime scene, and would often ride the skytrain. He interacted with a lot of people and was really mischievous, like trying to drink peoples coffee and rummage thru bags. He even went into a cops van and defecated in it (after stealing that knife). Although he disappeared a few years ago, Canuck was our city’s beloved (and unofficial) mascot. Edit: I meant ‘defecated’ and not ‘defected’. I mix up my words sometimes lol
We need to do the same to pigeons. It's tragic how they went from beloved animals to pests because of some incorrect newspaper articles that just became "common knowledge."
I dont think op in the crow story realizes that their army will continue to grow, considering the fact that crows can and will teach their children who's friendly and who isn't
Story 2: The mom got what she deserved for abusing and neglecting the older sister, so it's completely understandable the sister wants nothing to do with her. My guess is that OP wasn't abused like the older sister was, so she couldn't understand from her sister's perspective. And she wants to contest the will to make the sister pay the abusive mom, and claims she isn't defending his mom? Absolutely disgusting. OP is just as bad as her mom.
Ya wth? Its pretty clear from the story that "Mom" was doing her damned best to fuck over the older sister... EDIT: It also seems to hint that the dad was aware of this, hence the divorce (not sure why that is the exact route he picked but it kinda feels like it was ment to fuck over the "mom")
I agree with all that but can we talk about how her dad groomed his underage babysitter and married her at 18?? That would fuck anyone up. He should've left her more to make up for stealing her youth and putting her in a position where she has no work experience or even a high school degree
Story 2: How does OP not realize why the sister doesn't want to give the mom anything? She was literally abused, so she resents OP's mom for that. I hope she doesn't give the mom anything
Not mention how's it the sisters fault the mom wasn't an adult and put saving away... But tends to be coming with abusers being narcassists & they are horrendous at money as the spouse & world will solve it for them... Unfortunately know from my dad being that mum except worse that mum saw it happen & let it tho she didn't see the worst of it physically I was often begging my mum to help me and she kinda just ran away... Again my dad was the abuser and yeh I COULD NEVER give my abuser, let alone my abusive parent (imo does way more damage as I've had both and yeh parent is way worse in my own experience)... And yeh unfortunately since OP even admitted she was one or the two golden children's she is a mini narc in a sense but more the narc is AMAZING as having the golden child fight for them if the abused one(often either or &/or forgotten child, scapegoat child) look up those terms as it explains it so well and how a narc or narc like parent system like that can completely poison each child against each other. I'm surprised the older sister even spoke to her sisters but shows how strong she is... I talk to mine out of necessity & that's because she grew into a "mini dad" after she even learnt to join in on the physical & verbal abuse on me too so that's what she's learnt to do in life (I'm less than human in her eyes - yes she admitted this if not in those exact words).... Tho OP did say it was only the mum was abusive, so might be why also.
Because OP really only heard of the abuse and his mother was manipulative beyond belief. Thankfully it’s been a while since that post and there’s been updates that they realize how evil their mom is and are rebuilding a relationship with their sister.
Story 3: I wish you could find their parents and tell them about how their daughter has been lying about her age, but the smart thing to do is run, don't waist anymore time block her on everything and run.
Also to document everything incase it ever goes to court and you can prove that she intentionally lied and deceived op and he wasn’t going after underage girls
Yeah, Talk to her parents if you want to continue relationship, I don't think it's as bad as people of internet think, If you're clear side with her parent/guardian, that you're dating her before know her age, and promise will take care of her blah blah blah, I think most parent will support this relationship. When 40 yrs old man date woman like late 20 people just shrug it off, Like you're adult it's your choice, but some adult grown up in environment that tend to make them 'mental younger'.
@@nightroad5810 a 20-year-old is a legal age, 15 isn't. It's not matter of "She too Young for you" it's a matter of "she will get you arrested and thrown in prison". You may not believe me but there are people out there that believe you should be able to tell someone age by how they look, my mom is one of them even though most people can't tell how old I am on a regular basis. On top of that this relationship is a lie, OP thought that he was dating a 19-year-old, she's not. I was thinking he should say something because this girl is putting herself in a seriously dangerous situation looking for random adult men on the internet. Something that need to be stopped now because who knows how many of our men are unknowingly committing an act of p word. But he has no idea how these strangers are going to react, and they might blame him even though she the one lying, I wouldn't take that chance.
@@nightroad5810Nope. The difference between this and your example of a 40 year old and a 20 year old is that they're both adults. I don't care how old they look, a 15 year old is a child. The fact that you would "need to discuss with their parents" in the first place should be enough of a sign that this is not a person capable of consent. Even if you discounted how disgusting knowingly entering a physical relationship with a child is, you're literally risking huge legal ramifications on the hope that a teenager is emotionally developed and stable enough to enter and maintain complex emotional partnership. Once again, NOPE.
When I was little, I saved a crow from our dogs. He had a broken wing so we brought him home and patched him up. He stayed with us for quite a while & never really left my mom's place. He could talk. His favorite phrase was, "here comes trouble ".... Still don't know if he meant me or him😂 He could say my dead name. Now, over 30 years later, his offspring still know me & caw my dead name. I moved just down the road from my mom's & have a murder of crows in the trees cawing at me & jumping up & down until I acknowledge them, then they fly around the property cawing in a way that sounds like cheering...
knowing crows there is a chance they picked up what here comes troble meant and they certainly knew that was your name and crows are just goofy like that i love them
Oh my gods that amazing!! And i dont know how you feel about it, but id considered that the only time dead naming would be tolerated 😂 for context, im not cis and use different pronouns; but I'd be so stoked to be addressed, even with the wrong pronouns, by a crow that I'd make an exception !
OP of the last story literally went from wanting to be a gothic disney royalty, to accidentally having a crow army, to having the army protect and serve the neighborhood. absolute king level stuff.
And over time they will grow into an army that makes that neighborhood the safest place in the country. I mean, what are criminals going to do when there's a flock birds trying to peck their eyes out?
Cops are always bigger criminals than the criminals they are hired to apprehend. The cops were offended they had nothing to do in this case as they didn't want to do anything so they decided to do something against an innocent person
Holy cow the stupidity is real. No he thought the wallet and money was more important than his life when he chose to steal. I’m so sick of a sick society that values scum over people who actually have to work and earn their money. I hope OP takes them to the cleaners
And get three specific dog breeds that can unsubscribe that stalker from breathing. Those breeds are Doberman Pinser, American Pitbull and German Shepherd. They are fast, strong, athletic, and are perfect to tear that psycho apart.
As an added, dogs would make her life safer and can help with trauma, but be careful with the German Sheppard, they need alot of energy and can be hard to train.
Story 2 is a legit IRL Cinderella type story. OP really should have put it in AITA, but it doesn't sound like she has the self-reflection capability to wonder if she might be the unreasonable one.
Story 5: She wouldn’t win in court for slander because he didn’t actually lie to what he knew at the time. It would just cost a fortune in court fees so lawyers would be the only winner
Actually, in order to sue someone for libel, you only have a case. If you can prove the person is lying. In their case, it’s a screenshot of a text that was sent so there is no lie being told there. It’s not libel if it’s true.
Exactly. I'm honestly shocked at how many people are turning against that OP. The dude got cheated on. Yes, he did something stupid in plastering the text on social media, but this is the exact kind of thing you typically hear on the revenge reddits (namely pro and petty) where people would congratulate him on getting back on a cheating SO, but here they're bad mouthing him and calling him an incel or niceguy.
Also, correct me if I'm wrong, but when you get into a relationship with someone (unless otherwise stated beforehand) you ARE mutually exclusive. And even if you weren't, you'd still need to communicate with your partner if you're seeing someone else as well, and not do so behind their back, because that is cheating.
it wasn't specified wether they actually were in a relationship, op said they "dated" that does not have to mean they are officially together nor does that mean they have decided to be exclusive. note, he doesn't call her his girlfriend either, so I think this is the case. so, if both haven't said "let's be exclusive" then they are not exclusive. apparently the girl didn't think so. so no i don't think she cheated, yall really need a reality check
@artemis754 Not- not really. What you're talking about is completely subjective and what _we_ think doesn't matter at all, it's what he reasonably thought and believed. His idea of dating could've been - and appeared to be - completely different from her's and he believed they were despite not discussing it; he found the text and thought she cheated. What he put on the Internet wasn't a lie, the screen shot was proof of that. Putting that on the Internet for the world to see is not libelous literally because it's the truth. It can't be libelous or slanderous if the statement or words are true.
Story 4: I would and Sue the police for wrongful arrest and having your car towed for no reason. They didn't say anything because they knew you could Sue since their argument is complete BS, and make them pay to get your car out since it's in there because of them.
Third story: a similar story happened to Zach Anderson (19 year old), girl he met said she was 17 but was actually 14 and was sentenced for 25 years. So OP is royally screwed and theres nothing he can do but fight the claim.
There's an update to the Zach Anderson case. He was granted the Holmes Youthful Trainee Status given 2 years probation and is no longer registered as a sex offender. Still, true justice in this case would have had all charges dropped, even the girls parents said the charges should have been dropped.
There was a case in Britain that I unfortunately don’t remember the name of, but the guy met an underage girl in a club, she looked identical to her above age sister, and took the sisters Id to get in. Because he had no reason to doubt she was of age, given everyone in that club should have been, he was let free with no charges
@@DarkLobster69 Damn he was lucky then, I have heard of a similar case in Arizona were a guy was sentenced to 22 years or smth. It might be an American issue 🤔
@@dosde8391 it is but did you ever read what the first judge that sentenced him said? "You went online, to use a fisherman's expression, trolling for women to meet and have sex with. That seems to be part of our culture now: meet, hook up, have sex, sayonara. Totally inappropriate behavior. There is no excuse for this, whatsoever." - Judge Dennis Wiley Ridiculous, sentenced him to that because he did what a massive percentage of perfectly normal teenagers do and had sex with someone he believed to be of age. Literally got punished because of some old farts puritanical view on morality. And somehow he's still a judge despite that and other crappy things.
The pickpocket story is unfortunately fairly common. Police don't like people handling situations themselves, since it's more paperwork. I was actually threatened with assault charges after I tackled a pickpocket to get my wallet back. I guess they would've preferred for the guy to make off with my wallet, and for me to file a useless police report they would never follow up on.
"How am I going to stop some big mean mother hubbard from tearing me a structurally superfluous new behind? The answer: Use a gun. And if that don't work: Use more gun."
Not all solutions are permanent, some are temporary fixes, sometimes You don't go all full on with the solutions due to the fear of worsening the problem but now that she prove somewhat the gun method, she can expand on it.
Story 5: It’s not Slander or Libel. There’s no legal recourse here because he wasn’t actually malicious in saying she was a cheater and wasn’t trying to harm her job prospects through a lie. He actually believed that she was cheating on him. Also, even if the girl won, she would get basically nothing. Yes, it was an AH thing to post, but there’s nothing legally against being an asshole as long as you believe you are telling the truth. Source: lawyer
And she was cheating, so he was being honest. Seriously how hard is it to just tell a guy that you're no longer interested, break up and move on. Pursuing multiple men at the same time is cheating. I hope that in addition to losing her job, she also wastes her time and money on the lawsuit just to lose.
Based on the birth year (being 2003) story 3 is really old. You would have to be born in 2008 maybe late 2007 to be 15 nowadays. I immediately realized when i saw the real birth year because I was born in 2003 and I'm currently 20 so it's a repost, op can't calculate age based on birth year, or just an old story that's been brought back up
Story 3: I'd say Op should run, no amount of documenting will save him no matter what it is, if their relationship gets out one way or another he'll be labeled as a predator and be thrown in prison.
Any prison sentence for a man accused of being a "minor" predator is a death sentence. OP should ditch that girl, sure but if she feels slighted, she might lie as payback.
The post about the underage Tinder girl really sickens me. My younger cousin was showing me pictures of a girl who's 15 years old who dresses and posts very mature, sexual, and adult photos on her Instagram and other social media's. It's just so disheartening and disgusting that literal children are able to dress and front like they're adults. It makes me sick to my stomach and just sad for these girls and boys, when I think about all the youth they've given up on.
It's scary how old young teens today look. I'm 19 and am in a beginners volleyball group that mainly consists of girls age 12-15. The scary thing is that I look like one of the younger people of the club, while being the oldest. Some of them could easily pass for someone of age of consent while definitely not being that
Honestly, as someone who has to be able to guess someone’s age consistently well (selling alc) it’s so easy to tell whose an adult and not in person. I get online, but no amount of makeup can change your age irl. Any person who uses that excuse is lazy and knows better.
To be honest, I think the person being stalked could potentially solve their problem with the last person's problem of having an overprotective murder of crows.
apparently most animal group names and stuff were basically decided by posh Victorian scientists (don't remember my source though) so I like to imagine there was just a group of them sitting around a table drinking and naming various animals
Corvids are so Intelligent. Remember folks. Not just crows are corvids. If you live in an area with ravens and blue Jays, they are the same level of intelligent. The remember faces. If ever you have the opportunity to help a corvid in need, do so. It benefits you in the long run.
2nd story : notice how the mom immediately dropped out of studies at 18 to marry the dad. Not trying to excuse her bullshit in any way, but I think she's been groomed. Just wanted to say the dad's a real POS too
She was groomed, plus the father was her employer, meaning in position if power. But the mother wasn't groomed to be negligent, abusive and cruel to the older sister, and to throw away all the money. I think her treatment is the main problem, not the age when she hooked up with the father. He did leave her a place to live which is immensely important and big expense off, and the younger daughters can provide for her, if they want to because they benefited from mistreatment and never daughter help for their older sister
Story 1: I feel so bad for OP. That’s terrifying!!! Story 2: Good for OS! OP can’t see the abuse OS went through. Story 3: Yikes. Documentation saves the day. Story 4: What the heck?!?! Dallas do better! Signed, a fellow Texan. Story 5: Why does this feel like a “nice guy” situation?! Yeesh! Story 6: Technically, the ring was a gift from the AP which means it was the wife’s belonging. Story 7: And that is how you get away with murder.
A ring given in contemplation of marriage is a special case, covered in most cases by state law. If the marriage does not go forward, the ring reverts to the giver.
@@Dog_in_treefrom what it sounds like, they were never bf/gf together. If you haven’t agreed to be in a committed relationship, then you aren’t. Hence, no cheating.
First Story: The justice system is clearly failing OP. They "can’t prove" it was him even though all of the names and pics are of him? This is insane Second Story: Funny how OP mentioned all the things their mom did to their older sister, claims to not defend their mom's actions but then has the audacity to ask older sister to give their mom something from their dad's inheritance? That is hilarious Third Story: This is one of the scariest things about online dating. The fact this girl lied about her age could get OP into serious trouble. All she has to do is lie again and OP's life will be ruined. OP should screenshot the tinder profile and all of that to prove he genuinely didn’t know her actual age and needs to stop all forms of physical contact Fourth Story: Another case of the justice system failing OP. OP was arrested for not being licensed to carry a firearm when said license was in the wallet stolen by another person. These cops need to be retrained because no way this bs was actually allowed to stand. OP should sue as well Fifth Story: Lmao OP wants to send a cease and desist to stop her from talking about her when OP himself literally slandered her name. I hope she wins that lawsuit because OP brought all of this on himself and wants to be seen as a victim Sixth Story: Why would OP want to keep the ring of a man who was railing his wife? I would’ve just gave it back and moved on with my life. However, I don’t blame OP if he does whatever he wants to that ring Seventh Story: Who knew feeding wild animals would get u free protection for ur person and property. Not only did the crows not kill someone, they actually saved a life that is cool
Second story: OP just doesn't want his/her mom on his/her own back and leeching off of him/her, that's all. It suits him/her to throw older sis under the bus as is their family tradition.
Yeah this is how women are treated by law enforcement. Well, stalking victims, really, but stalking victims are overwhelmingly women. I mean I get the misogyny, but like.. stalking victims are probably the most vulnerable. I guess they're worried about infringing on another person's rights, but like.. 😒
I love the crows story. It's so sweet that the crows are the neighborhood defenders now. I feel like crime has been down in that neighborhood ever since the murder moved in.
In the 4th story, OP needs to file a lawsuit on the police department. Their excuse for arresting him simply is not legal, that's not how gun licenses work in literally any state. 1: They have a record of license holders, even if he didn't have it on him, they could search him up to prove he has one. 2: He did, in fact, have his license on him when leaving his home, it was simply stolen, which will be proven by the documents police would have to file after the situation as well as body cams likely confirming this. They detained him illegally and he's now facing financial struggles because of it, making the police department liable for a lawsuit that they will not win. When he does win, they'll have to pay all the fines for him and thensome.
The funny thing is, the cops probably could've gotten OP on some other violation. I'm not sure about TX law, but in most states it's illegal to draw on someone over property. You or someone else needs to be in physical danger. Again, I don't know the specifics of TX law. But I'm guessing if the cops wanted to make something stick they could have, but instead they're just being jerks.
There was nothing illegal about arresting him. He was not remotely justified for drawing a gun since he was not defending himself or his property at the time. Drawing it DURING the theft is a different matter.
The crow story is reason why I have such a strong desire to find my forever place sooner rather than later, so I can just befriend all the crows and be there for generations, so that I wouldn't have to leave potential crow friends
It is always nice to hear people befriending crows. It landed me in hot water years ago myself, but that was a rare instance and a bit of stupidity on my part.
Exactly! This is why I don’t think R/Slash should be covering r/legaladvice. It’s one thing to just read the posts, but - given how complicated the ::law:: can be - him responding to them feels a bit unethical.
I came here to leave this comment. The law doesn't care one bit about 'she said she was 18' in most places it is a bright line, and a strict liability. The same with manufacturing of you know what. If she saaiiiidd xyz, the law doesn't care.
There are actually a good amount of cases where if the man can prove that she lied about her age , he’s golden . There’s even one on RU-vid . The problem is he needs absolutely solid proof . Like I’m talking he asked her in a text on tinder , her bio , and her having a fake ID .
@@izraelburgess937 hi there👋 I am not an attorney, but I have a law degree, and I’ve worked in criminal law (prosecution and defense) for nearly 2 decades. I’ve NEVER - not EVER - seen a statutory case dismissed because the minor lied about his/her age. I’ve seen judges consider those facts in sentencing, but I’ve never, ever - not even once - seen a judge consider them when deliberating guilt. If you’re familiar with a case (or cases) where that defense was proffered by a Δ and a judge accepted it, please let me know when it took place and what jurisdiction, ‘cause I would LOVE to read those case notes (I mean this sincerely, not sarcastically).
During the intro I got a bit confused since i forgot that a murder referred to a flock of crows. I thought that a literal murder (the crime) saved someone for a moment until I saw the title.
It's worth noting that OP in story 3 may not be in the clear just because he had evidence to the contrary. Statutory rape is usually considered "strict liability", meaning that doing the thing, even without knowledge that you were doing the thing, is still going to get you a nice visit to prison.
Story 4: Not surprised this happened in Dallas, their PD has getting investigated AND charged for corruption at every level and for failing/refusing to do their job for 20 years.
Story 3: the fact in all the 13 months your gf lied about her age is just gross, op my advice would be tell people before she does because she could spin the story to make you out as a p word also end your relationship now if she lied about her age what else is she lying about. Story 4: call a lawyer and sue the police department for false impressonment and for the tow fees hit them and hit them hard. Story 6: get legal advice because I don't know if the ring falls under a gift or is still owned by the person who bought, so do that before doing anything for your own benefit. Story 7: no you would not be liable unless you actively planned and was involved in the crime, glad to see everyone came out great crows are amazing animals.
2) While muther is despicable people, including RSlash, seemed to have glossed over father bedding then arranging a *minor* to be dependent on him then be too hands off to protect his child against the very girl he monkey-bared into marriage with
Story 2: WHAT A ROLLER COASTER. The mom is an AH, but she was also DEFINITELY groomed by OP’s dad so we can’t really blame her for literally never growing up, that man snatched her out of HIGH SCHOOL and made her a housewife, she didn’t even graduate. That’s not the older sister’s burden to bear, but it is WILD.
Maybe, but nor is she a good person. Anyone who abuses children and/or treats them badly has no sympathy from me. Agree though that the dad certainly doesn't sound like a prize if you're wanting someone with good character.
Yeah same here the dad sucks as a predator and the mom lashed out at the only one she could in frustration which sucks for the older kid. I think rslash got it wrong op isn't mom but really is like op's dad manipulative as HFIL.
@@vp-oe1emOP literally says his mother didn't graduate high school to marry his father. Meaning that the father knew her from high school age/before being even 18. So yeah grooming. Also he is a cheater. Also he is a shitty father who held his child bride accountable for his actions as an adult man who could choose to still financially support his oldest child.
Story 1 (the stalker): Because the psycho ex broke in, I think OP would've been in the clear for killing in self-defense (I AM NOT A LAWYER) Story 6 (Neighborhood Crows): The scaring of the neighbor was because they thought that OP was in danger. The crows only knew about OP being the safest person to be around, so when the neighborhood started feeding them, it was showing that everyone was safe to be around. (I AM NOT AN ORNITHOLOGIST (bird scientist))
First story. Of course there's something she can do. Shoot him again! Edit: ROFL! I almost spit my coffee when I unpaused and he said "Yeah. Buy a bigger gun."
Story 5: Can someone please explain to me how this story is a "NiceGuy situation" or why what OP did is slander? I'm confused right now... I saw in this story a man feeling disrespected by a woman he dated for a while (casually via an app, sure but dating is dating) and in his anger against the woman who basically used him, posted on Facebook a screenshot with the "cheater" tag. He lost most of his friends over this and the ex is apparently ready to sue him because she lost a job opportunity because of this situation. Is it that impossible the girl OP dated is in the wrong, probably lied a little about what happened and there was no slander on OP's side? Hell, is this story even true or is just there to troll Reddit misandrists & misogynists?
I think it’s because we never hear about what was in the text, it could have been flirtatious or it could be a friendly hello. We don’t know, he could just not be telling us to save face. Another detail is the fact that he said not to text other men when they were at OP’s place, notice that it wasn’t about her cheating, just talking to someone else. One last detail that is the most suspicious is that most of the people around OP left him even after seeing his evidence. Most people would support the victim of cheating and if he was a victim, everyone around him are just unnaturally cruel.(or manipulated we don’t know) Someone in this comment section talked about “exclusive” because it was mentioned the story but “exclusive” could have been taken out of context. It might be about “Even if we’re in a relationship, doesn’t mean I’m ‘exclusive’ to talk to.
@@hopebringer7124 Thank you for the explanation. I will however stay on OP's side for one reason, despite the lack of infos in this story, the girl he casually dated lost an important job opportunity because of the screenshot of the unknown message exchange. A simple friendly hello wouldn't have gotten her in such a situation.
@@wargamesmaster That makes sense. I might be able to make a case that just the implication of the girl being a cheater is enough to get her fired by political agency, like the idea that she might be in a scandal, but ultimately I don't know. I heard of stories of people not getting a job or full-on fired because their social media isn't to the businesses liking, though I might be bias on what a business might do. I'm ultimately undecide on what is the truth, but I would prefer that the girl is innocent because of the implication that so many people would defend a cheater and basically bully a victim for being an victim. I know it's not unheard of, but I like the "girl innocent" idea more. Sorry for being lengthy
@@hopebringer7124 Still, wouldn't a political agency that cares about its reputation more than anything else at least check the information before firing someone? Doing it would open the agency to a lawsuit and I thought this type of places avoid this kind of "publicity" like the plague. And if a screenshot of a text was enough to confirm the identity of the person to fire, then either it went beyond the "friendly hello" conversion speculated or one of the employees of the agency was the other guy and covered his a** by snitching on the girl.
@@wargamesmaster I think you have valid point, I'm just here to give reasoning on why people are so against the dude. I do not have the ability to find bigger reasoning beyond the surface. If I can give anything on your point it would be that point relies on who ever fired her to be running on logic. Thank you, have a good day.
Where I currently work, we also have resident crows that we feed, Russell and Cheryl. They've left us a couple presents where we leave the food like shiny bottle caps, a marble and a coin. Definitely going miss our murder when we finish that site
For the slander story Rslash is being stupid. The charge of Slabder is someone is spreading a lie about you which negatively impacts you. Op did start a lie he caught his GF cheating on him (practically) and decided to put her publicly. Meaning she's going to lose hard.
I noticed there's a bunch of stories where there are two parents and they create a kid and then at some point one of the two parents disappears and a new parent shows up and then because of that once some of the newer kids come along someone is treating the other kid poorly the one that's only half related to the current parents. In these stories it's usually the abused kid that is the one posting on Reddit. This time however it's one of the other kids. This kid even says that The older sibling was abused and yet they somehow don't understand why the older sibling wouldn't want to help the mom.
Story 5: Anything less than a confident yes is a no. Relationships aren't open by default, and unless OP consented to his girlfriend seeing other people, that's cheating.
The sad part is: this is legal precedent. There was a guy in OP’s exact position. The reason he found out is because her parents slapped him with charges. Now he’s on the sex offender registry.
Had a case where a guy met this girl. They went out, she got frisky, and they ended up hooking up. Turns out, she had stolen her much older sister's ID. (They looked a lot alike.) Somehow her parents found out. Guy thought his life was ruined. But the parents were well aware of her typical behavior. Tactical nuke dodged.
I lived in North TX for a while, then east, and in Central TX much later. Yeah, I remember the laws being explained to me pretty much that way. I disagree about TX being "backwards," though. The TAAS (not sure what it's called now) was the single most challenging (and therefore my favorite; I was a bookworm) test I took in all my school years, and that was with me in classes that were far in advance of my age group (I was 12 and doing the work of HS seniors, passing with a B average).
@@theickster3008 is the right way constant School & gas station shootings? Is the right way carrying guns without licenses in order to cause things like this? Is the right way for people who shoot up places & kill minors & elders just for the government to say “not my problem”?
@@theickster3008 Yup. TX is the best state to live in for a responsible gun owner. Lefties just get butthurt that they can't f--k around in TX without finding out.
I'm so frustrated by the OP in story 2. Is he so thick that it hasn't occurred to him that everyone got what they deserved!!! And now after everything his sister has been through he's trying to work out how to take from her and give to her abuser... nice.☹
If the dude in the ring story gave her the ring after she told him that she was separating, how are you going to fault him for anything? She literally lied about her marriage, he was none the wiser
Ring story. Come on Dabney! Clearly OP needs to trek across Middle-Earth with it, to the land of Morder, then cast it into the fires of Mount Doom. Only there can this evil be unmade. Crow story. OP is DEFINITELY a witch. But, now I'm going to start feeding the crows in my neighborhood and see what happens.
The story at 6:45 sounds about right. Recently went to northpark while on vacation and their security is dedicated and quite good. You can’t even get into the mall itself if you’re dressed trashy
Story 2: Mom got what she deserved, but I'm angry that the father pretty much got the last laugh, as he was even more despicable. He literally groomed a child to drop out of high school, and lets not pretend he was father of the year because he LET his oldest child be abused so he could keep his young bride happy. He then had this twisted plan to trick his wife into a divorce which just so happened to coincide with her getting older so he could write her out of the will and ruin her life. Lets be honest, mom is an AH but father is an even bigger AH.
A lot of assumptions, there’s no proof of grooming, the kids were not present when dad met the wife… Not saying it didn’t happened but at the same time, you’re 18 sleeping with an older men who already has a child, she kinda put herself in this situation.
Last story: I live across the river from Portland in Washington and there's a lady that feeds crows in the neighborhood at the stop sign next to my work. This results in crow poop all over our cars, all the time. Car wash prices add up when we have to constantly try to keep our cars clean since bird poop is so bad for bird paint. In WA state, it is actually against one of the RCW laws to feed a carnivorous predator, which crows can be considered. We put up a yard sign next to the stop sign with a photo of her car and the RCW listed. Haven't seen her back. :D crows are awful
for story 5 im pretty sure truth is an absolute defense so there is no way for the girlfriend to sue if he believes it to be cheating but its interesting to know rslash is fine with girlfriends having multiple partners
She wasn't his girlfriend lol. They weren't exclusive and OP acknowledged that. That's why OP's friends knew he was being an a-hole. So she didn't cheat.
Similar to the last story, I used to live near a large forested area. Many people would go into this place to hunt or to target practice or other things you do in fairly untouched woods. I would target practice with my bb guns and never had an issue. One day when I started to pull out my pistols, I heard a warning call from a crow. I spotted what I thought was him (it was far away and I don't see the best, hence fake guns rather than real ones). I unloaded the pistol, showed it to him, reloaded it and shot once at a stump. He had been continuing the alarm calls the whole time, and some birds were joining him, (I'm fairly certain several flew away at the first call, but i didn't actually see them, just heard them). I just repeatedly unloaded, showed my bb gun, reloaded and fired once, until eventually the alarm calls changed to ones that didn't feel as agitated. After that whenever I went into the woods I would hear a call that I swear just sounds like an 'all clear' and I would see crows and other birds super chill around me. If i went into the woods and they were not chill, i almost always ran into another human. It was as if they knew that I was not a threat, and knew that I knew that they were to be respected. I'm also fairly certain that at least some people who go out there have shot at the crows. I think that before my first interaction with them, someone must have shot one. My patience with them 'proved' it was not me, and I was given the clearance to walk in the woods in peace.
#5- OP basically said "I was casually seeing a girl to keep my time free and my options open. She did the same thing, because she wanted more than I wanted to give her, and I saw it, and now I'm heartbroken"
Being from MO I'm so glad common law marriage isn't a thing. Had a kid and separation from engagement was very vicious through custody battle on that alone, couldn't imagine having to deal with assets and such as well.
How can she be a cheater when y'all are not dating in the first place. Talking and likeing eachother does NOT mean youre togther, thats a choice. He called her a cheater for talking to other people when THEYRE NOT EVEN DATING. Mans is crazy and possessive
Like, if you wanna be an exclusive couple, ask to be an exclusive couple to the person you're seeing. It's not cheating if you're not a couple. If she was his girlfriend she'd be dead wrong. But she's not.
Story 2: im sorry for OS that she had to live though the abuse, but I applaud dad for looking out (at least, if nothing else) for her future. It’s good to know that OS won’t have financial struggles in her adulthood and can live her coming years (after the current fight has blown over) without worries.
well i don't think we should applaud the dad in this story considering it sounds like the guy practically groomed the mother at bare minimum so while he did a good thing for the daughter, it doesn't excuse the guy for being a predator who more than likely groomed multiple high schoolers
Crows are very loyal and protective; they love to play and can make friends with any species (crows and wolves are naturally good friends). When you feed them and befriend them, crows start considering you part of their clan/family so they will look after you. That includes calling for help if you're injured, attack whatever is going after you, bring you gifts, keep you company, etc. Always make sure you shoo away any potential predators to them or their babies and they will love you forever !!! Moreover, crows tend to live to be around 20 years old and near their parents' nest so this can go on for *decades*.
Arrested story - this is yet another example of criminals are coddled and victims are punished. OP, if it were me, I would contact an attorney first, you definitely have legal recourse against the police. No matter what I would also contact news outlets, and post all over social media, everyone especially the criminal needs to be named and shamed !!!
For the 4th story Arrested; OP should've only pulled a gun if he thought his life was threatened, when you pull a gun not out of self defense you get more legal consequences then you would if the guy was actually trying to hurt you. Op never said if the guy was a threat to his or his friend's lives so OP was seen as the aggressor in that story and treated as such.
I mean the other dude had her car keys and the ability to potentially have a deadly weapon that op was positive he had. Could have had another weapon easily. Not sure if that would fly but op may be able to argue that had very clear understanding that he had access to a deadly weapon
OP did not say if the other person had a weapon or not and keys could be counted towards it but the guy wasn't using the keys in that way he was only using them to steal the car
He didn't even say that he felt threatened with his life. He only said he pulled out a gun on the dude because the guy was trying to steal his things. OP is still seen as an aggressor to the cops as there's a lot of key things not seen. And the thief didn't charge OP with the keys or physically pull out a different weapon.
Crows can also talk, I want to train an entire army of crows to say 1 thing and 1 thing only..."Run". I imagine the crow army chasing my foes to Thomas Bergersen's Dragonland.
"How am I gonna stop some big mean mother hubbard from tearing me a structurally superfluous new behind?" "The answer... is a gun... And if that don't work?, use MORE gun." -Dell Conagher
I don't understand why everyone is so hard pressed against the guy. Maybe I missed some kind of context but didn't she come to his house, say she's allowed to talk to all the guys however she wants, then leave? He posted it online that she's a cheater... okay... Where does the ruining her life unjustly come in to it?
@DuncanGDA exactly. If exposing your shitty behavior ruins your life, then you ruined your own life. "Wah wah wah, now people know I'm a cheater, I'm the victim here!" 🙄
@@DuncanGDAI’m with you I was surprised when rslash pulled out the Karen voice for the end of that one. She cheated (at least as I understand it) and he called her out like so many people do that rslash has praised
@@meadeiocre7085 Also it can only be slander if it is not true. Keeping two boyfriends without their consent is cheating, so he is in the clear. If she looses a job with a political party over it, she should not have two timed her "boyfriends". Morals these days. Lost "friends" over it, is no loss at all, just sorting out our "friends".
Story 3: good luck in court buddy. I believe you that you didn’t know. If she decides to report you they’ll believe her over you 100%. I would have made an excuse to leave when I saw the ID and gone ghost.
Given that they were about to corner and confront a thief, I’d give him a pass. A cornered animal is a dangerous animal, and as sophisticated as we think we are: we’re animals too. OP drawing their gun preemptively ensured no further escalation could happen, even if the thief was armed as well.
This is Texas. If someone is approaching your property you are able to defend it. Having a fire arm to protect your property and vehicle are treated the same over here.
@@RealCoolstriker64or, the guy could have had a gun and pulled out on OP. After all, this is Texas, where guns are like candy, everyone can have one. Op was just making a potentially dangerous situation even more dangerous. Op didn't ensure anything but just letting the would be thief he had a gun.
