I was at a restaurant and saw a sign pointing to the bathrooms. It said, "All-gender restrooms" and I got super excited because I'm closeted and hate going into the women's. I rushed to the bathrooms, but they were labeled as "women's" and "men's". I went into the one labeled "women's" and it was single person, it had a sink in there and everything. I peeked into the men's and it was the exact same, except it didn't have a diaper changing station. Not only disappointing, but kinda sexist too.
9:59 That was my line of questioning, but with femininity. Couple of lgbt+ videos later, turns out in my case the word I was searching for was demigirl lol
10:30 gender is purely a social construct, and people don't often think to even participate until other's make note of it So even people that have no issue with their gender may question it because they think they should, which can be a good or just annoying depending on how much your gender presentation is because of outside pressure and not genuine expression 16:02 people shouldn't stop enjoying a song just because they learn the meaning behind it, like there is a song that as a kid I thought was about a winter romance, I later found out it's about drugs, it's called snowblind
Yeaaah I think the only song I stopped liking after finding out the lyrics was blurry lines. Drugs that I’ll never take? Ok sure let’s continue vibing. But kinda rapey coercion lyrics? No thx
I identify with the label "black stripe Asexual. " It's similar to apothi, but instead it's just expirencing "the absolute 0" of sexual attraction. Apothi does fit me, but I already have too many microlabels.
23:30 from my extensife research on what romanict love is, my conclusion from the data I have gatherd so far is 1 you just have to feel it 2 you realy want to be with thay person, even more if they are not there right now 3 people cant understand a polyamorous relation that is not opening up a monoagonus relation 4 it is hard and a lot of effort but totaly worth it even when it is not as a aroace I cant wrap my head around romanitic love, sexual love is simple: you want to preform sexual acts them.
Look acespec people, you stop questioning our random crushes, and we'll stop pestering you about what the difference is between sexual attraction and wanting to have sex with someone They're just things I don't think the other side will ever fully understand and will just have to accept
