I remember when I raised my standards on friendship I lost most of them and I was alone but happy at peace with myself and God. Some friends cause you to sin and to do disrespectful things.
you so wrong if you don't know yourself better as in done self discovery,then you will always be lonely,but if one does self discovery you will never be lonely and also if you have high self esteem,and you do not care about public opinion,you will never be bothered by people or society negativity towards you.It is a good life actually best life.Am a loner and introvert but not lonely, i begun discovering myself when i was in high school that's when i discovered myself as a loner and introverted too,but i did not stop there i continued discovering myself as at the same time setting my standards pole pole and it is a good life so good because one always stays out of trouble and toxic people.My family members are my friends period.
Good advice, I am that girl who can go hungry just to feed someone else. I am very good at saving but also very generous, I end up going back to zero. This is so enlightening.
Am single after a break up from a narcissist marriage. Now my male friends tell me that am not dating because am too beautiful and classy.but I don't even wear expensive clothes but I just know wat to wear for my body type, they say men fear me.
It's funny how the universe aligns with us when we decide to take a different direction to better ourselves. You should join the Kenya level up group for high-value women on Facebook. You will help a lot of woman there.Love you sana
Thank you so much muthoni. Your topics are very helpful, I have a book where I take down notes while listening to you speak. Through your channel I'm learning to raise my standards, self love, confidence etc. Keep it up 👏👏
I needed to hear this distinction between high standards and high maintenance. Also, about raising my own standards and raising the bar before expecting others to raise how they treat me.
Thank you soo much muthoni...i wrote down my standards today and am looking forward to that. I was afraid of how people will take me but you have helped me muthoni. God bless you.
Am in form three and sometimes you come across haters who every time discourages you and feel Lyk you are not important. Thank you soo much you have encouraged me and i will raise my standards and I know I will achieve my dreams. God bless you.
I appreciate your honesty. That you have a downside and you are working on improving yourself especially hapo kwa impulse buying regrets. Also it hit home hapo kwa have standards first, meet your own standards before you can expect the same from others. I can relate. I feel hopeful. Great job
don't sell yourself short..When you know your worth, clowns & F-boys will disappear. Only the cream of the crop will approach you. know your worth and increase your value
This was exactly packed and customized for me. Like for real for real😍🥰🥰.. Wow. Msoo thanks for you have changed my life from today.. what else would your fans ask for.❤️.
Heyy Muthoni thankyou for this. It's totally uplifting. My take away is stop being scared of loosing some one that doesn't even belong to you in the first place.
My home take isExcellence is not an event its a way of life...you have inspired me on emergency saving not only in a rshp but in marriage also..it have worked on me....I feel nice paying attention to your mission..mob love galfie u such wise lady who spreads love to the desperate guys..know that u HV changed lives to the heart broken .....#muthoni's mission is lit..
Good talk. What i have taken from this,is that you have to better yourself first, inorder to get what you deserve. I want to be understood, emotional intimacy, & self fullfilment So il try to listen to understand not just to reply ,,,, offer emotional intimacy and just focus on doing things that simply make me happy.
I'm poor in reading but that doesn't mean I can't find wisdom else where and this is one of the best channels for that. Talk about developing a saving habit and matters about managing finance. Tutafurahi
Muthoni your topics are so relevant to us the young ladies please lets be your target audience, you videos are so educative yaani they just convince you you have to raise your standards and to hold you dignity high
When you raise your standards especially a woman you will have many enemies including your fellow women. But only if one can withstand being snobbed, kusengenywa ciothe, by many people then one will go far and will achieve alot in life but by of course prioritizing God 1st always.. People might tend to snobbe you based on your level of standards you have set on oneself but the same people also admire you plus your confidence though they can't befriend you koz of your strict standards which they can't stand...If one set high standards she always attracts serious and constructive mature and focused people in her life.
Raising your standards works in line with keeping one's promises . From my end: The episodes are so educative. I am loving this everyday. I have to comment ata kama ni Hae. Keep up the good work Muthoni.
Always looking forward. I agree, you attract what you are💃. Suggestion for other topics: Toxicity in relationships and friendships (what it entails and how to deal with it).
I have learnt a lot. Also by raising your standards you get to know your worth and yourself better. Can you please discuss about toxic parents and how to unlearn some things from our childhood. Thank you
from your setting its look you sitting on the coffee table coz you are right infront of the sofa... my opinion,,,,, i listen to all you videos and am no longer a pick me gal GOOD JOB gal
