Ikr! Not to be mean or anything don't wanna offend anyone....but the thought of sleeping with that many people seems so dirty 🥲. Ew😔. Lol but just my opinion 🤷♀️ everyone is different 😅
same. at first I actually thought that the lowest was gonna be somebody who has never had sex and the next person would maybe have 3 and then the highest would be like maybe 20 but that seems a lot. I guess I'm living under a rock or smith
@3D Animation Geek not true. Extremely generalized Edit: to tall the ppl arguing with me, ask yourself: which countries does this "data" apply to? Yup. Just USA and uk or something. Nothing more 2nd edit: a lot of boys do it with each other too since they're so hormonal. Girls aren't as much like them. Also the countries where women DO have a lower age when they do it for the first time is because younger women are viewed by society to be more desirable than older women. And older men are more desirable than younger boys. This is why in some countries women have their first experience earlier than men. But again, it's still only applies to. Some countries.
@@ぼじん-o5r Nah they’re correct, there’s a lot of data proving that. On top of personal knowledge/experience . I can at least say in the US, Canada and Japan this has been the case for the past couple decades for a plethora of reasons.
It’s always the people w religious backgrounds that be the most thottiest people lol. They always break free in college. And then a little after. But literally who cares people should have sex without caring what others think I just hope they all have safe sex
@@A2Lettuce yeah, and I guess the numbers are a bit skewed here since the type of person who’d volunteer to participate in this video would probably have a significantly higher body count than others
@@Ray03595 Nah ,the minute they see that dude's Asian face ,they already made up their minds and it is OK to see and accept that everybody can have prejudices in the thought processes.Just don't say it out loud in person's face .
@@Flyhighman77 if you want to see racism everywhere, that is what you will see. Any logical person would rank a person who was in a relationship for over a decade as a person with a lower body count. But sure, better to just say they were all being racist, even the asian woman 🙄🙄
I met a girl who was 19 once who said her body count was 78.. I was pretty shocked considering my body count was at about 2 back then. I guess everyone is different. I just hope people are protecting themselves from stds.
Yeah makes me worry HOW YOUNG she have to been when she started. That's the biggest concern with that. Hopefully it IS that just slept with dozens of people a year not that her first time was at like 10
I was surprised the lowest was 13 but also that the highest was only 50... 13 already seems very high to me but given what I've heard other's say, 50 also seems pretty low to be number one.
To the people who are surprised that everyone has such high numbers -- don't forget, they're from Southern California lmao. I imagine this video would be very different if everyone was from Indiana. Plus the types of people willing to do a video like this would probably put themselves out there more often, leading to more sex
@@melrhea12 not really . The culture from a conservative state a liberal state or states with big cities is extremely different . States that have big cities like , nyc , California, Florida, Vegas wont even be close to a state like Wisconsin, Utah, Indiana etc .
me and my friends in our early 20s all have our body count under like 4 or 5 (mine is 2 and both have been the people i've been dating at the time). some of them are still virgins. not shaming anyone, just commenting this because i find it fascinating!
@@loquendo5249 just because someone sleeps around doesn't automatically mean they have stds. Being careful, using protection, knowing what to look out for is a thing. I find that people with higher body counts are more trust worthy because they know what to look out for. People with low body counts tend to be less careful, they feel "untouchable" if you know what I mean?
@@shaq9361 body counts don’t necessarily matter, but people who have STDS don’t just “seem dirty”. nobody is purposely sleeping with someone who has an STD lol
@@Ergenhae they don't necessarily matter to u is what you meant to say. They matter to others and you can tell if someone has high body count by the way they act, id rather not have sex if i have to use a condom, i don't feel anything so why bother.
As a 28 year old virgin hearing people are okay sleeping around so freely makes me feel like such a misfit. I imagine sex as something very vulnerable and emotional. I couldn’t just sleep around. 🤷🏼♀️ (Not trying to slut shame anyone. If it works for you then great. Just not for me!)
13 at the lowest?!🤯 I have never even been attracted to 13 people. 50 is also extremely high, like where do you meet this many people or even find the time😳
@@didinkwocha294 As a person with a high number where I couldn’t even actually tell you the number… I can tell you that there is absolutely nothing in Oki’s physical image, demeanor, or personality that says he’s legitimately racking up those numbers. NOW as a professional poker player it’s certainly plausible that he’s paying for the cat🐱 he gets, which in that case does not get counted to your count in this context because all men would be significantly higher if they were willing and able to pay prostitutes and escorts.
@@drfcspezial8218 Huh? Why shouldn't SWers count just because it's transactional? Would you say a rich girl was still a virgin if she'd only been with a few male escorts? SWers are a risk for pregnancy and STIs like anyone else. I would think they should be counted if someone asks you how many people you've slept with.
Lol why do some of them look offended when they are ranked lower? Having a lower body count isn’t something to be ashamed of and having a higher body count isn’t something to be proud of.
yeah we need to stop moralizing body counts all together. a super high or low body depending on your age can say a lot about a person but it doesn't define the type of person they are.
@@ninaaden8338 ok first of all I’ve never had sex but I don’t understand how you can judge someone just based off how many people they slept with. It literally says nothing about the person and sex shouldn’t be a thing to be ashamed of.
@@clauly_ having sex with someone whose name you don't even know is nothing to be ashamed of? Alright then. Keep that same energy for the casual sex crowd who shame celibate folk.
I’m so confused I’m 20 and my body count is around 60 or so and I think that’s just a bit above average my older brother sleeps with a new girl each week 1 a week for the last 3 years or so so he has to be around 150-200
Damn, I'm nowhere near the league they are. Let's just say you can count my body count on one hand (that happens when one has been in a decade-long NOT open relationship).
I’ll be 24 next month and I’ve only had one partner… But in my case, all throughout hs I thought I was asexual. It wasn’t until getting into my last relationship, that lasted for 4 years, that I realized I identified more as demisexual.
@@m.donez8 it means someone who only feels sexual attraction towards a person they have an emotional connection with, so the emotional connection is necessary to feel sexual attraction
Oki saying that he was a “late bloomer” and lost it at 18, kind of bothers me. For one, there’s no required age someone should lose their virginity. I feel like by saying that that also puts pressure on people to lose their virginity in their teenage years. On another note, it’s so crazy when I hear about people’s body count. like personally i could never go over 3. not judging anyone because everybody has different views on what sex, virginity, and their body means to them. if you want to share that with multiple people, go ahead. of course with precautionary measures.
So let's say you fall in love with a person, have sex with them, and them they dump you. If it happens more than 3 times you'll just never have sex again? I mean, I don't like to have casual sex too, I don't want strangers to touch me and I think sex is something very intimate, but it just seems so weird to put a limit to something that's not predictable.
@@Beatriz-hs8eu hahaha! i understand where where you’re coming from and how that can be confusing. so when it comes to relationships, it’s something i take serious. which is why i’ve never been in one because im not looking for something temporary. my point is, i only want to share sexual experiences with people i have an intimate connection with. i prefer “giving” my virginity/body rather than “losing” it to someone. i know it’s a lot, but if im dating someone it’ll be awhile until i sexually explore with that person because i want to know you’re with me for ME and NOT just my body.
Oki(also sound someone who does "oki" I do it all the time like that😂) but I agree with you like that's crazy..im 21 and still haven't done it...i mean im saving myself for marriage so I only could watch 50sec of this video lol
@@InternetAntagonist I heard somewhere the average amount of romantic partners a person has in life is 7, idk if that includes sex or actual relationships tho.
When the guy said: " i was 18 and that was pretty late.." made me laugh so hard🤣🤣 i was 21 when i had sex for the first time. I think that shows how big of a presure people feel to "loose theyr virginity". Doesnt mean i didn't have a healty sex life before that.
This is out of the norm for most Americans as well. I have only had 1 partner w/ whom I married & most of my friends male, female, gay, & straight have had less than 5 partners. What you see in media doesn’t speak for the whole of the US :)
@@kittensmitten4015 LOL the comment section says otherwise. I’m from LA and it is frowned upon to have a low body count maybe it’s different in other parts of US
@@kittensmitten4015 i think it’s a struggle as an Asian American cause on one side I do feel shamed for not having a high body count but at the same time if I do I get shamed by my Asian side for having an amount above 2 😅
@@guggvcjhh3713 On the east coast, body counts like this are sort of both unheard of and would probably lead to getting shamed. California on the other hand is way more relaxed about that kind of thing.
I had an Indian friend tell me about how in India, sex is a very taboo subject that people don't talk about much, despite the main religion in India being Hinduism which apparently embraces the human sexuality. Meanwhile, here in America the main religion is Christianity which beats people over the head with the idea that premarital sex is wrong and you have to stay a virgin until you're married, and yet American society is obsessed with sex and the word "virgin" is basically an insult especially to men
@@shaq9361 Of course we can’t be sure, but it’s not that far fetched. There are more women than men and they do tend to be less promiscuous, especially outside of the western world. People are also probably less promiscuous overall in more conservative countries. Then we factor in opeople who waited till marriage,
Okay but can you make a Middle Ground episode out of this? Like people with high body count vs people with lowbody count? I think this topic is not enough discussed and still has so many stigmas, like girls need to have a low body count and if boys don't have a high one they failed their lives...
I feel like the people who would publicly reveal this info on RU-vid would have to be towards the higher end of the spectrum. No way these numbers are typical or average in the wider population.
For those surprised at the high body counts - you have to keep in mind that people who are social enough to be casted in jubilee are likely to have higher numbers. The virgin friends I have would NEVER be found on a jubilee video. And my friends who would all have numbers in the high teens, twenties, or fifties.
The producers interviewed them all and asked for their body count before the video. They chose these people with these numbers. I wouldn't be surprised if there were plenty of people with smaller body counts that didn't make it
I don't think Chris really even said anything to indicate he had a lot of bodies, makes me thing of how people oven view black men as inherently more sexual
i think it was also the fact he never had a committed relationship so he would have more "freedom" whereas they ranked oki way lower because he was committed to one person for 12 years
That is so crazy. The way that our parent's generation tells it (I was born in 2000 by the way) they were a lot more conservative and we were the ones who let loose and go wild.
Here I am at 0 at 31. 0 cannot be my age if you're wondering what that is. It was and still continues to be my choice although I'll admit, it feels very difficult to keep at it at times. I've been offered to have sex with at least 17 different people, even though I haven't been actively looking for it. Having sex with no emotions is just not my cup of tea. I feel like it is something very sacred that you're only allowed to share with someone you hold very dear to your heart. I had people I really cherished and cared for, but I cannot do it with someone unless we're deep in love that we're married and decided to spend the rest of our lives together.
@@therealswarpath5434 it is for religious reasons NOT because my prospects of marriage isn't great. In my culture, you have sex only after marriage. Since I never wanted to get married, I kinda never thought about it.
It would've worked better to have people write down rankings then read them off bc once someone ranks themself that gives the people going after them an indication of their body count
At the end when they said "more sex means better sex", I think many, including myself, would also think that means better relationships. However, interestingly enough, studies show that the higher the body count, the more likely a relationship fails. Of course, correlation doesn't imply causation, but it is peculiar.
@@sola_a but just because someone’s body count is low doesn’t mean they don’t have a lot of sex..if they’re in a committed relationship then they would have the same “skills” as someone with a high count
Wow, I guess I don’t ask people’s body counts…But you’d have to dedicate a lot of time to develop connections with someone. That’s another full time job
Same but it’s not really a big deal since I’m surrounded by people in the same boat. We all busy doing school, work, university and living life. Don’t stress about it.
@@livinglife5295 I've never had any real friends since I was in 6th grade were I had to move cause my parents got divorced and when I moved I went to 3 different schools the 1 time I had to go to a new school cause I got expelled I also have very Bad social anxiety plus I have seizures since I was about 2 but they are VERY calm not aggressive 1 at all and haven't had 1 in seven months my life is just terrible
In my culture we believe when you sleep with someone you give a bit of something within yourself. Be it energy, soul, spiritual, emotional. Can leave you feeling drained... cant imagine doing that with 13- 50 randoms.
@@PinkRose169 Southern African (I hope culture is the right word but yes going off of the definition: the ideas, customs, and social behavior of a particular people or society).
@@joaquinlopeztorres1071 Generally , a higher number of partners is correlated with a higher chance of catching an STI. That's why many sources, including the CDC, cite that the only true way to not catch any STI at all is abstinence, aka no sex
No way. Either these people are lying or they specifically chose people with body counts this high. My friends and I are all mid 20s and none of us have a body count thats higher than like, 15. And that's pushing it. Most people are in the single digits.
At any point I wish they would have mentioned protecting yourself/wearing condoms. Having this many partners can be incredibly dangerous, and don’t tell me “I know I’m clean” you get tested the week after and 6 months after each partner? Then you don’t know you’re clean 🤷🏻♀️
@@xv9021 I wish so as well, it should be normalized a normal part of check ups! I didn’t admit I had new partners to My primary dr, and gyno didn’t even ask most of the time- I had to request sti tests
If you're gonna sleep around with random people on a regular basis the least you could do is get tested regularly. There's nothing wrong with having a high bodycount. The only problem is having a high bodycount plus not using protection/getting tested.
I am a 31 year old male still a virgin, never had a girlfriend or first kiss either. I was always too shy to approach girls and never had much of a social life throughout school just came home and played videogames. even when i studied in college and started working real jobs i would just come straight home, study and sit online on my laptop play some pc games or use AIM or SKYPE to message and talk to people, that was the extent of my outside communication. I also live with my parents and have never lived on my own before, my social anxiety and depression has gotten the best of me.
Same situation. I did tried but get rejected everytime no one really wants me and i cannot understand how people can get hookups so often its beyond me its like the are living in a diferent world. Im 33 and at this point i give up suffering from deppresion and the only thing keeping me here is to know the end of one piece.
A WIZARD! No, seriously, you can meet people through video games, too. I met my person through FFXIV at like three in the morning, lol. We're both disabled, so neither of us gets out much. He still lives at home, and my living situation is complicated (I'm also depressed and anxious, as well as having ADHD, autism, and pretty severe C-PTSD; he's anxious and doesn't normally approach anyone either). We're long distance, but we've spent a little over five weeks of the past 10 months together. It can happen! I hope you can find/have found someone who will meet you where you are!
I'm so curious about the racial dynamics here. Pretty much all of them assumed the Black guy had the highest body count, and their rankings of him drove him to assume he was at the front of the pack too. I would bet money that they were acting, in part, on implicit biases regarding the hypersexuality of Black men.
@@wiseguy240Winston it could but that would seem very unlikely in comparison to the other option just because of his gender. In general there are much less guys waiting to have sex until marriage or having a low body count just because of society pressure on them which defines their masculinity by how many people they’ve slept with. Just on that reason alone, I would have guessed a male of any gender to have slept with lots of people rather than no one in this day and age if they claim not to have been in a relationship
I honestly think it was because he said that he had never been in a relationship which would lead them to assume that he had more time to rack up a larger body count.
Not really think of the time span over the years. For example for the girl in the middle she started at 15 ish I believe she is currently past 20 years of age. That would mean on the high end a new person every 3 months and on the low end 2 - 3 people each year
I'm sad to say this, but I would actually be second. I was in a very bad mental state and I used sex as self harm because I allowed people to use and hurt me. I've never wanted to do any physical harm to myself but that really messed me up mentally. It's actually hurting me a lot right now in my relationship, because I don't have a healthy relationship with sex. I hope if there's anyone out there like me, that you get the help you need and it's not necessary to have this form of 'validation'.
I was about to comment this exact thing .. everyone in the comments is acting like it’s so weird to have so much “fun” with multiple people . Like no I was absolutely miserable doing that to myself, mainly because I thought I deserved it .
@@zesantos2081 Ah, but the count is just a number. Do they even have names? Do they remember where they met, or what attracted them to each other? We don't know, of course, but simply reciting a number comes across as creepy -- like a serial killer keeping a trophy of their kills.
@@void__star yes I agree with you if they only know the number it's a bit disgusting, I assumed they remembered because if I need a bodycount I count by remembering
Currently at 0 and that probably won’t change soon. I’m just not looking for a girlfriend, and I’m especially not looking for a one-night stand or friend with benefits
i’m only ever surprised when i hear high body counts because i’m demisexual and its hard to imagine connecting with that many people in such a short amount of time lmao (fully respect what everyone does with their bodies though!)
Since your demi sexual have you never watched porn? I’m just asking since I know that being demisexual means you don’t feel any lust for people unless you actually have an emotional connection
Because you lack a real personality, Demi. How dare you make me look that up btw. You're not a sexuality, you're a person, thats just called being average. Mooost people, especially on the more feminine side of your spectrum, are majority attracted to people they have a bond with. Its called a relationship. Sexuality is not supposed to be a replacement for an actual personality.
I'm a straight dude but I can't see myself having a high body count either because I'm autistic and still have a hard time just making friends, let alone dating/sleeping with girls. I used to be really jealous of guys with high body counts but now I feel like sex is better in quality instead of quantity. I had my first relationship a year ago and to me that's way more special than hooking up or having a one-night stand. But I ain't the one to judge what others do with their sexuality as long as they got the three P's- Permission, Privacy, and Protection. If you got that, your sex life is nobody's business but yours and whoever you do stuff with.
Oki is older, considering he said he was single in his mid 20s and has been in a relationship for 12 years so I’m thinking 32-38. Not old, but old enough to be experienced lol.
I was 14 when I lost mine (oops). It was way to early and below the age of consent in my country. Me and my boyfriend had just gotten together and we got excited.😅 I am 19 now and I have only slept with my boyfriend. These people be having a massive body count by the age of 18 whilst I've had one. But no judgement to nobody! Be as frisky as you like💙
i dont believe it is wrong since you guys were both sure about it and youre still with him, therefore its clearly not a regretful decision. i remember when i broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half i couldnt have sex for a year cuz it would remind me of him too much. now i kinda bumped that number to 3 but thats cuz im finally comfortable with myself.
as someone with a body count of 47 at the age of 21 there are a variety of reasons for someone to have lots of sex. for me in high school i had a low self esteem due to having my first boyfriend leave me bc i wouldn’t have sex with him which led me down a rabbit hole. whatever works for you works and don’t devalue yourself bc you think your body count is too high or too low. just be safe and take care of yourself :)
I try my best to never judge someone based on their amount of sexual partners. But its honestly really hard. A person's body count tell you alot about them and their personally morals. I dont think I could be with someone who just have sex with people just for the fun of it. But I wont bash someone for their personally life style at all.
I agree, but I just never understood how people with a high body count almost seem to brag about it as if it makes them seem more desirable , there's nothing attractive about a person who has a high body count imo
13 being the lowest number definitely shocked me.. intimacy is so gross to me, I doubt I’ll ever even make it to 3 tbh 🤢 (the face being me imagining being with a bunch of people, not judging them! All the power to them! If it’s safe, legal and consensual then go for it.)
Unpopular opinion: I think it's perfectly reasonable to judge someone based off their body count when looking for a long term partner. Having a huge body count indicates that you either A) Treat your romantic partners as sex objects B) You are incapable of keeping a relationship and rush into them too fast C) You do not take sex seriously nor do you think it's a big deal or D) You mislead people you want to sleep with by manipulating their emotions
what does high body count mean to you tho, cuz im currently 16 and have a body count of 3 but 2 of them were both relationships of over a year and one of them was someone i had known for up to 4 years so whats up with that. some people that have high body counts for their age group arent specifically involved in hookup culture.
I am happy that you are content, but how do you know you wouldn't have it any other way if you have never tried the 'other way'. It just feels like you just patted on your back and rationalized it. Honestly, I am in your bucket as well.. but I cant help but wonder how the other way would have been..
@@MrBizaaro if I tried the other way I wouldn't be able to help but compare partners, and that's just something I've never wanted to have in the back of my mind. Could there possibly be someone out there who pleases me more sexually? most likely, but it's not a top priority of mine. My husband pleases me just fine AND I love living with him every day and want to grow old with him. Our values are the same, our beliefs line up, and our priorities are similar enough. Did I just luck out in finding a perfect partner? Maybe, but I doubt it. Patience and self control led me to waiting for the right person. I did things the way I wanted to do them.
