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3 Easy Questions to Quickly Turn Strangers into Friends 

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Making new friends or transitioning a group of unrelated relationships into a community can be a challenge. Or feel uncomfortable. However, people are all the same and desire growing connections within any circle of acquaintances. I want to show you how you can easily help facilitate this.
I have used these three questions many times to break the ice and kill the awkwardness of things. They lead to great conversation, a lot of laughs, and a pretty quick bond between everyone present.
How We Get Started
My wife Tina and I can always fill a room with food and fun, and we like to transition casual conversation toward these three questions by saying something like this:
“Excuse me...this so awesome, please help yourself to anything you want...more food, drinks...whatever you like. We want you to feel like family here.”
“We thought it would be fun to try something. We’ve got three questions that are super simple to answer, but will help us all get to know each other a little better.”
“Whataya say? Here’s the first question...”
Now you may be thinking, some people won’t want to participate. Maybe they’ll be too shy. But I have found that everyone’s favorite thing to talk about is...wait for it:
Themselves! Trust me on this, go for it.
Then we ask each of these questions, one at a time, and go around the room and have everyone answer before moving to the next question.
You will be amazed at how much you can learn about someone so quickly, and the connections people will make with each other’s lives always surprise me.
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@Youtuber-rz1dl
@Youtuber-rz1dl 5 лет назад
Let me give u those 3 questions 1. Where were u born? 2. What is ur favorite childhood memory? 3. What is the worst job you have ever had? Ur welcome friends Edit:Thnx for all ur likes guyss
@gregoryfreeman9073
@gregoryfreeman9073 4 года назад
1. In a trailer near a landfill 2. Abused by my stepdad 3. The one I currently have now. Every day is the worse day of my life Hi my new BFF !!
@grace-tz2nw
@grace-tz2nw 4 года назад
thanks bsf
@justyusaf
@justyusaf 4 года назад
You're my hero.
@lokeshtr7726
@lokeshtr7726 3 года назад
Sounds hilarious for me
@Youtuber-rz1dl
@Youtuber-rz1dl 3 года назад
@@gregoryfreeman9073 heyya
@redtiger4352
@redtiger4352 7 лет назад
I am at the bar with the boys making new friends....and asking "what is your fav childhood memory?" yeah right....i will get awful looks
@russellbeckley368
@russellbeckley368 3 года назад
Always admired Ned Flanders.
@YoBarbados
@YoBarbados 6 лет назад
Most people can’t pull that mustache off.. but my man you’re killing it
@willieackerman3549
@willieackerman3549 2 года назад
🧢
@YoBarbados
@YoBarbados 2 года назад
@@willieackerman3549 😂
@wilsonfromcastaway2819
@wilsonfromcastaway2819 3 года назад
is my social life so bad that I need to watch this and still confused on how to communicate with new people
@carlysherwin5092
@carlysherwin5092 3 года назад
relatable
@blazing_goomba9330
@blazing_goomba9330 3 года назад
Lol same, I look so awkward n weird tryna start a conversation,
@sarveshkumarr8835
@sarveshkumarr8835 3 года назад
Understandable
@whywhymusic
@whywhymusic 5 лет назад
3 easy questions to quickly turn strangers into friends: 1. How many walkers did you kill? 2. How many people did you kill? 3. Why did you kill those people?
@c_ooflez526
@c_ooflez526 5 лет назад
😂
@MrMinevision1
@MrMinevision1 5 лет назад
😭😂😂😂
@AK1BJ08IS003
@AK1BJ08IS003 5 лет назад
🤣🤣🤣
@izzomctorro
@izzomctorro 4 года назад
Fucking dead
@elderphilbert6711
@elderphilbert6711 3 года назад
Haha.. When you have watched too much walking dead.. Haha
@studiosraufncingr6965
@studiosraufncingr6965 2 года назад
*casual conversation* The other person/people: ''so tell me something about yourself'' Me: *trying to remember who I am and what I do in my life that sounds interesting
@ebhole
@ebhole 3 года назад
Honestly, if someone ask's me these questions in real life, I'll think they want to hack my email or social media account.
@ogagadestiny2256
@ogagadestiny2256 2 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂 whaaaa
@alisaurusrex
@alisaurusrex 3 года назад
1. How old's your mom? 2. Is she single? 3. Where's yo momma at?
@robertdavila6391
@robertdavila6391 5 лет назад
I ask open ended questions which gets them to talk about themselves and makes them open up cause oeople naturally like talking about themselves
@t-poseriku6265
@t-poseriku6265 4 года назад
(stares at mustache) It's so hypnotizing @.@
@lowfatcarrot
@lowfatcarrot 10 месяцев назад
love this Caesar - very practical and helpful.
@josephchapman9575
@josephchapman9575 6 лет назад
Beautiful, thanks a lot. God bless
@janedoe5229
@janedoe5229 Месяц назад
I have found that people enjoy talking about their children. Especially if I am with an intimidating person, and I don't know what to talk about, asking about their children gets them to be relaxed and themselves: how many kids do you have? How old are they? Are they going to school (what is their major) or working on their career. If I am talking to kids, asking what their favorite subject in school can be a dead end. If that's the case ask them what their least favorite subject it. They LOVE complaining about school.
@iamquest7217
@iamquest7217 5 лет назад
How do you get your mustache to curl like that?
@Mark-lv9yz
@Mark-lv9yz 5 лет назад
Look it up on RU-vid.
@koolk1dde
@koolk1dde 2 года назад
thanks hopefully this works
@davidwhitcher1972
@davidwhitcher1972 20 дней назад
I hate talking about myself to strangers.
@toshishukla250
@toshishukla250 3 года назад
That 2nd and 3rd question really works?😀 I think so..
@ozzylepunknown551
@ozzylepunknown551 3 года назад
If you can't find a purpose in your life, try giving it to others.
@MaseraSteve2
@MaseraSteve2 5 лет назад
Whoa! i have a interest in past culture of Renaissance western people that mustache is fantastic quite rare these day (maybe not that sparse in italy). And oh, nice suggestion thank you and (sorry i have to do this) may you will be blessed with fertile wine yard and gold Sir Archibald XV !
@ebhole
@ebhole 3 года назад
Great Video, but i can assure you this would almost never work in real life or give you the expected result. It's best to ask questions based on the context and situation of your encounter, introduce yourself and lead with the other person's introduction of themselves as well. Also, imbibe a bit of a humor mindset.
@blackbeans562
@blackbeans562 2 года назад
My bestfriend😢 i miss them so much
@Skoko-oh2fz
@Skoko-oh2fz 4 года назад
Or being mislead ?
@MajeedJiskani
@MajeedJiskani 4 года назад
And what if they lie ??????
@rapisor
@rapisor 5 лет назад
Guy looks like Tommy Flanagan
@57silverwings
@57silverwings 2 месяца назад
You haven’t been to bar I go too. You’d get smacked out with your childish questions.
@justice1872
@justice1872 3 года назад
Okay so i know where a tiktoker(whom i like) lives. Not his full address but the area he lives in and i want to go and bump into him and befriend him BUT I CAN'T FIND A REASON OR A PLAN TO BUMP INTO HIM please y'all help!! *i don't wanna tell him that i know him otherwise I'll be considered a fan*
@PurpleHandkerchief
@PurpleHandkerchief 3 года назад
I can see that this is a tempting thing to do - however just don’t. If you really one day bump into him unexpectedly: just tell him that you admire his work and would love to have some more personal conversation. Maybe he is down to meet you or to exchange phone numbers. But don’t force it to happen. Randomly straining in his neighbourhood, waiting for him and then pretending that you just would like to chat with a stranger... is pretty odd and also not respectful with regard to his privacy. Also I don’t think that this plan will work out as he probably is on the way to some kind of appointment and is not in the mindset whatsoever for some chitchat with a stranger. Also If you get into a friendship with him the way planned and then later he finds out that you just pretended not to know who he is, he must feel betrayed.
@laurathompson4778
@laurathompson4778 3 года назад
I mean like seven minutes in like you’re really a pain call never eat one like hate you like you’re the nerd can you feel like you have no friends because I have no friends
@AnuRadha-tc4zb
@AnuRadha-tc4zb Месяц назад
Nah. Where were you born is question often about distant pass and not everyone want to be associated with place of birth because.. they are not that place! People often start changing conversation about place of your birth while you want to talk about books shows weather etc. nope! Childhood memory😂 hah dude it’s too intense, emotional and definitely not an ice breaker for a stranger! Besides too many people don’t have ANY truly happy moments.. and have but they finished and people feel sad because it’s connected to loss and stuff. It’s very intimate question imo. The worst job! Seriously? Ok here the questions should be asked instead of: 1. What are you currently reading? 2. What’s your favourite tv show you would go back any time? 3. What’s your most memorable travel experience and why? Don’t his people’s past it’s often shitty. Ask about what in their hands now!
@andynonimuss6298
@andynonimuss6298 25 дней назад
Unfortunately these are way too personal of questions to ask strangers and weird ones at that.
@ajaykhande4583
@ajaykhande4583 6 лет назад
Nope
@romain1439
@romain1439 2 месяца назад
How to turn friends into strangers is much easier
@laurathompson4778
@laurathompson4778 3 года назад
But like what if you’re in corona leak that’s the thing you can’t put it on like drinks or anything because you’re at school and come facker I don’t know what you’re talking about so like you should say liking a new video like get a friend in corona Alex he can fix your nice words just so you know how I get bullied all the time but everyone PER
@joeruiz4804
@joeruiz4804 6 лет назад
So I asked the stranger the first question out of the blue where are you born seens kind of forward... 🤔 the third question is the stupidest you stupid questions thing negativity to the air by asking the negative question what was the worst job you ever had. That's like asking somebody what's the worst accent you ever had!
@archaontheeverchosen7980
@archaontheeverchosen7980 5 лет назад
Just the way you wrote that response I feel is a lot of the reason you're not making friends. Lol
@vincyxpagetz541
@vincyxpagetz541 5 лет назад
Lol. . . You are way too serious
@ilovecats2796
@ilovecats2796 5 лет назад
Negative people always stay unhappy!!!
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