Raug Dag EP. 25~ Phoojywg Noj sib hlub haus sib ce~06/09/2024~ 

No matter how good u think you know your friends or trust your friends, never tell them how much u got at the bank. $$ is something a good friend would never asked u about anyway. Sorry u learned it the hard way for just being the kindhearted person u are. One thing i know forsure is people like her dont and wont get far in life. They will continue to use the same tactic on someone else and when that day come she will meet her doom. Ur 10k is out the door so dont expect it back, take it as a lesson learned and sign a CONTRACT next time if u borrow $$ to ANYONE. thanks for sharing.

There are banks for a reason. If someone wants to barrow money, I'll tell them to go to the bank.

Golden rule #1: NEVER TELL PEOPLE HOW MUCH MONEY YOU HAVE.

Tu me viv ncau aw ca koj wb siab zoo thiab ruam ib yam os kuv tab tom raug kuv tus phooj ywg dag nyob rau lub sij hawm os nw nqiv kuv ib qhov nyiaj es nw tia 2 hnub xwb ce them lawm tiam si twb tau 2 hli nos kuv nug thaum twg ce tia mu rho tsi tau nyiaj li kom kuv tos hnub dhau hnub xwb kuv ce chim2 cia li yuav npab yuav vwm rau niag phooj ywg txawj dag niag poj laib lau ntawv li os vim yus hlub2 nw ntseeg2 nw es hnub no yus thiaj tau kev lwj siab os 😭😭😭

Golden rule #2: NEVER BORROW MONEY TO ANYONE.

Txhob ntxiv kev nyuaj siab rau koj tus kheej. Yus nyob lub neej ntsiag to tsis muaj phooj ywg los yus yeej kaj siab lawm. Cov neeg txawj txawj hais lus qab zib nplaig qab ntsev ces ntxias noj ntxias qhe xwb.

Trust no one!!!!

You have proof to take her to court with the check to get your money back. Good luck. Hopefully, you learn.

Never borrow money to a friend especially they capable of working 2 jobs

Remember... there's no such thing as friends or best friend. Never trust or borrow money to anyone.

Xubtubpim pojniam hmoob.

I dont blame her. When you're lonely, you are too sensitive to New friendships. I've been in those shoes too.

🚩 red flag. When she does not know that you have money she doesn’t have problem.

You got conned because you were desperate! Anyone desperate for friendship/love makes the easiest target for unscrupulous people like your "friend"! When are people going to learn that you DON'T lend ANYBODY any amount of money unless it doesn't matter if you get that money back?! If you care, then tell them to go to a bank for a loan since you are not a bank!

That’s your fault for believing her it’s a lesson to learn

As soon as she found out you had money, she started having financial problems. One after another. Playing the pitiful victim. Playing on your sympathy. She's using you. You have no paperwork. You'll never see that money again.

UA neeg nyob yuav tau ntsej me ntsis maj..koj tuag zog Lawm xwb kav Liam mas tsuav koj noj qab nyob zoo xwb lu khwv dua ...😭

Viv ncaus hu ua neeg tsuam ces tsi tshaj koj li os yus tej nyiaj es yus muab qhia rau luag ua dab tsi npaum ko xwb es koj siv xav tias ntau2 es tsi tau kev rau os cas tsi txais ntau me ntsis ne.

SMH, if I had money I will never tell anyone the amount. 😢

Tiag-tiag ces tsis yog koj raug koj tus phoojywg dag os. Qhovtseeb ces KOJ yog ib tug PojRUAM xwb. Yog yus twb tsis paub yus tus phoojywg zoo ces yus yog tus ruam xwb.

You can still sue her since she wrote a check to you. You will win

Ua neeg nyob ua ntsus ruam hwv ma, ua ntej yus yuav qiv nyiaj ntau li ko rau ib tug neeg yuav tsum paub txog nws keeb kwm tias puas yog ib tug neeg muaj hauj lwm zoo khov kho uas ntxim yuav them taus yus rov qab hos.

Bank muaj nyiaj ntau os....hais kom nws mus txais tom Bank mas. Koj ruam dhau lawm, tsuas pom txais yus nyiaj xwb es cas thiaj li yuav ntseeg neeg yooj yim npaum koj na, tej zaum koj muaj nyiaj ntau dhau lawm es koj tsis muaj chaw rau thiab Bank tsis muaj chaw rau koj cov nyiaj lawm thiab es koj thiaj txais nyiaj tas los txais nyiaj dua rau nws.

Peb ib leeg yeej muaj ib tug neeg dab peb, tabsis nws hlawv nws tus choj xwb nws yeej khiav tsis dhau nws txoj kev npam kev khaum li os😅

Tus sister, koj niag hook ywg uas koj nyuam qhuav paub tau ib xyoo cents koj twb qhia koj tej nyiaj rau nws lawm ntag. Txhob ruam2 es neeg yooj yim. Tus phooj ywg hlub koj tiag yeej tsis dag koj tsis txais nyiaj ntawm koj nawb.

Never ever qhia neeg txog koj tej nyiaj li nawb! Kuv twb mag li koj lawm kuv thiaj kawm tiav kiag lawm vim yus lub siab zoo dhau yus thiaj raug siv credit puas tag os!😢

Hmoob mas kawg foom thiab hlawv xab ntaw Kom tuag xwb

You were in denial.

Yog tias muaj tiag li ko cas koj ho tsis qhia kiag nws lub npe kom peb sawv daws paub tias nws yog leej twg kojg kom nws tau kev txaj muag kiag thiab lo

You receved many red flags about her, yet you chose not to listen to your own instincts, ces kawg kav liam xwb. It is upsetting, but take it as a learning lesson and go from there lawm xwb.

Tus niag tsov tom Poj laib kom mas txawj dag kawg. Nws ntxias koj $10,000 nyiaj noj tas ces nws plab yuav tawg nrov npooj xwb los ma. Sorry 4 ur $10,000. Let it be a lesson to learn for the future. NEVER Ever borrow $$$ to anyone again.

Txais $$$rau lwm tus mas muab xav tias yog yus muab played casino xwb 1ces tau rov qab 2 ces plws .kuv tsuas txais qhov kom luag g them los tsum xwb

You should have listened to her mom 🤦🏻‍♀️

Koj yeej ruam thiaj raug dag koj yeej tsi xav tia ib tug neeg txog txij nw niam nw tej nu twb tsi kam txai es nw yog hom neeg zoo li ca

Koj tsuas ntsos Koj ruam ces pab tsis tau lawm. You should’ve recorded your conversations with her to confirm she borrowed your money. Lessons learned.

Poj ruam

Neeg ruam thiaj li qhia nyiaj tom bank rau tej phoojywg.. muaj tsis muaj los hais tias tsis muaj, khuv hnub no hnub xwb pob. Peb niam peb txiv peb twb tsis qhia na. Poj hmoob ruam awb

Koj raug dag ntawm phoojywg koj tsis ua lav tham los koj yuav tsum muab nws cov lus kaw cia thaum koj nrog nws tham hauv phone los nws yeej tsis paub. Koj txawm kaw laib nws cov lus xwb los yeej ua tau 1 qho lav tham prove thaum sib foob rau tom court mas lawv nug lav tham any kind of prove. Why you so stupid, there's all kinds of witnesses best one is record her voice. Yeem vammeej muaj ntau yam txhom neeg los nej tsis ua li os hmoob cas hmoob yuav ruam ua luaj. Nyiag kaw nws cov lus xwb los yeej tau kawg. Kuv twb pom lawv sib foob es tsis muaj paper prove los kaw tau lus tseg thiab yog tseem muab bounce check thiab mas haj yam nplua nws tau nyiaj ntau

Koj ruam tiag. There are so many clues and you didn’t get it. Koj hlub neeg tau npiaj ruam dhau lawm.