We promise we don't always cry... Only when we mean it. Iam Tongi has an amazing talent and an emotional story and we couldn't hold back the tears in this video. We hope you connect with him as we did, and enjoy our stories as well.
It’s ok fellas I cried like a baby. I was the on duty paramedic that pronounced my dad deceased. Hardest thing I’d ever done at the time. Recently my daughter beat leukemia so that rank’s just as high. This beautiful soul makes my wife and I cry every time he sings.
That sounds incredibly difficult. I’m sorry you had to go through those experiences but I’m sure they make you appreciate all the good times even more.
As a Tongan, we are taught the cycle of life. Iam would’ve spent 2 -3 weeks mourning with his family and reinforcing his lineage and bonding with his family line. I am so happy that you both feel his emotion as men, but also our culture that respects life, calls ownership over family and protects the legacy of every soul that’s gifted to us - just as Iam has perfectly represented us. ❤️🇹🇴 Thank you for feeling. Your families are blessed to you have you both. Much respect. 🇹🇴
Yes I agree as a Tongan as well we were told to be strong for our family and to always be respectful to others. And I feel for iam and the lot for his Tamai oku fakaofa ne mate but his father is loooking down on him and is so proud of him.
Hawaiian girl here, and I cannot get enough. I go to bed hearing him sing and wake up to it. I’m humming them all day. What a gift he has given us all. AI used to sell the full versions of each performance. If they still do it, Iam’s catalog will be part of my playlist for sure. Can’t wait for his album and concerts. He deserves to win. If he doesn’t, it won’t matter. The world has fallen in love with him already❤
I do the same. I'm humming and singing at work, when I wake up and go to bed. And when I listen to him sing it I cry every time. His voice is like an angel. My 4 yr old grandson is singing it now too. .I love Iam Tongi and I believe I am his #1 fan...lol😂
For the edification of the content creators, James Blunt writes his own songs. This one was about his father who at the time was terminally ill. He felt he wanted to eulogize him while he was still alive. Luckily an organ donation from a distant relative saved dad’s life and he’s still with us.
Losing my brilliant, funny father to the curse of Alzheimer's and dementia, I can say that how Iam feels, to a man who lost his father, that feeling never goes away. Dad's monsters, I couldn't chase those away. When it really hit was when I was back at his house, unpacking the small box from the care home. I broke down finally and started crying. "I'm sorry, Dad. I tried so hard." My dad passed when I was 56 years old. Iam is only 18. What an incredible, brave, strong young man Iam is.
What people really don’t understand is that it’s ok to breakdown and miss the the people you loved, nowadays generation it’s all about social media attention just to be remembered for a DAY and forgotten in seconds smh
Ooh. This felt profound to me. Almost like the influencer lifestyle is a perversion of the desire to “make a name for myself” but being an influencer won’t go down in history, it will simply make you feel like your contributions to the world were important without actually doing so… what an interesting thought. I want to explore that more.
You cried in front of camera and I cried while looking at my phone.😢 Yea, that kid poured his heart out singing that song. Thank you for sharing your personal story. 💜
I cry every single time I hear him sing this song. I’ve watched his audition so many times and each time I weep. I literally sob. His voice carries the pain of losing his daddy. I wish I could hug him and hold him and comfort him through the loss of his father. I don’t ever remember listening to this song until I heard Tongi sing it.❤❤❤
I know how he feels, I lost my father in 1988. We were 8 children in the family. In 2011, I lost my little brother, he was 43 years old when he passed. I was 10 years older than he was and I more or less raised him. He was always with me so when he passed away it was losing my own child. It took me 9 years to get over it, only to lose my closest sister in 2020. (not from Covid). They were the two closest to me and yes I was so unhappy with GOD. Why take the two that I was closest to. I still cry and often I go to call my sister but remember she's not there. Thank you for sharing. Ontario, Canada. Love always.
It’s the strangest and emptyest feelings in the world reaching for the phone to call someone that’s not there anymore. I feel with you. Even after so much time it can still happen and it hurts. Thank you for sharing your story. I really appreciate your personal comment.
I’ve watched IAM ‘s Audition so many times and have cried each time, Thank you for your kind words in support to this young man. I can relate to the father and son relationship, although I am a daughter but the eldest who was at my father’s side in his last hours., I feeling emotionally for you as well. You made me Cry! Holding and rubbing my father’s hand, telling him it was alright to go to sleep, I relate to that song there as well.But doing so at such a young age, is harder and so Sad, love that last line of comfort. “It’s my turn to chase the monsters away.”
Iam Tongi 💯 Has all our votes His angelic voice is extraordinarily beautiful, have never heard a more beautiful voice that's comes so natural, like melted butter ❤
everytime i revisit that audition , thought tears would stop at one point, but i was wrong..i too had to hold someone dear to me ,holding her in my arms. the last word I told her, Mama its ok, i will be ok. Not even a minute passed , she went peacefully....
This song is an emotional trip for me. My dad passed 14 years ago from cancer. Final monts where nothing could be done, he just spent them at home. One night his nurse woke us up 2-3 am, stating he was leaving, for us to tell him goodbye. We went to his room and we saw him making a huge effor trying to stay with us. We thank him for his life and everything he did for ours. Told him that we love him, will always do, and that eventually, we'd be ok. After that, he just left in peace. Such a strong moment. This song takes me back to that precise moment. I enjoyed your stories, thoughts and reflections.
Wow, very touching.🥲😔That’s my biggest fear, to have to say such a difficult goodbye to my loved one.😞 Thank you for sharing your story. Hugs to You & your family.
Aloha From Hawaii Guys - I appreciate the support for our young islander. Moreover, I appreciate the reflection you both shared - very heartfelt. I've watched many of these reaction videos for Iam and I'm not surprised by the reaction of the men. Our relationships with our families and the expectations that we have as men by society makes most not speak of such emotions as we hear in this song - at least not publicly... The circumstance and the words of the song bring out an emotion we as men feel BUT in most cases are not in the habit of expressing. This song brings to life what we all feel deep within our rough exterior. Yes, the thought of having our parents leave us to continue the journey alone but then knowing the cycle repeats itself is a lot to take in... You have have earned a sub. Mahalo!
Mahalo nui for your comment and for subscribing, brother. Iam’s audition was truly special. I spent a few years myself living in Hawaii. And came to really love and appreciate the people there. I actually lived right near Kahuku, so it was cool to hear him say that he was from there. And you nailed it, he expressed what we all eventually have to feel, but that doesn’t really get talked about a lot. I hope lots of people have the chance to feel what he made us feel. Aloha.
This bradda is from the same peice of rock as me , same school , different up bringing same aloha spirit tho this is tail gate kine music you guys are just lucky he went for it 🤙🏾 . Garentee winner puting kahuku on the map - again 🤙🏾👊🏽🍻
My Mothers best friend said something to my Brothers and I, the day before she passed. She said, “sometimes they just need permission too let go. So all of you need to talk too her, and let her know it’s okay”. I’ll speak for myself, I did just that. I let her know that we’re okay, and that I wouldn’t leave my Dad (step) hanging. That I will be here for him. And she nodded with a look of…that’s just what she needed to know. That day she refused her lung treatments, and passed over night. Mr Blunt, I’m sorry but this song is no longer yours. It belongs too Iam Tongi now. Your raw reaction Gentlemen was incredible.
I have watched this young man sing and I love him. His singing reached my heart. My father died 10 years ago and now this his singing I have cried and I miss my dad.
James wrote this somg for his dad after finding out his dad had end stage kidney disease. A long distant relative reached out and donated his kidney. His dad is live and well to this day.
This song was written by James blunt after he found out his dad was dying. Beautifully, it was a fan of this song who donated an organ to james blunts dad and he is still with us. This song saved his dads life
I've watched many of Iam's songs, and he has an extraordinary power to emote. The judges cried during his performance of Sound of Silence -- not normally a tear-jerker. And he is now Top 5 in the competition. He brings emotion to every song he sings.
My nana passed away 2 years ago. She held on for us.. She was in a lot of pain. My mom, who is the oldest, didn't want to let her go. I told her that its selfish to want them to stay for our sake. I told her she needs to let her go..that my nana is staying because we are asking her to... i told my mom to say goodbye to her and that it's ok to go... We love her and will miss her 😢. She went to her room and told her it was ok.. a few moments later my nana took her last breath. This song hits the heart and jurked my grown man tears out. I wish the best for this yung man and his family. Tongi..ur dad is very proud of you with or without an American idol. Much love brother 🙏.
Of all the reactions to this song, I love yours, the way you two break it down so beautifully, well done! I love the part where he sings feel my hand on your own, looking to his father, who would sit nxt to him nd harmonize.
This broke me 😭! You ready to chase the monsters away? My grandpa’s, my father are all in heaven now and now, I am preparing my son for when it’s his turn to chase his monsters away 🙏🏼
🤙🤙🤙🤙 Hana Hou William Tongi. Amazing performance on such an emotional and sad song. It take courage and strength to deliver this. 💯💯🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇦🇸🇦🇸🇹🇴🇹🇴🇹🇴 Aloha Nui William Tongi. Rest in Peace Sir Rodney 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen to that. It’s not easy to sing in front of others. And it’s not easy to be emotionally vulnerable. And man, doing both together is really next level. I’m really proud of this young man. And I hope he really goes places.
I really appreciate your words. It really makes it worth it to us to react to sensitive content like this and express ourselves in a vulnerable way on video. Thank you.
This is my first time seeing your videos. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and heart. Tongi is a treasure and needs to be protected at all costs! #newsub
The hardest thing was losing my Daddy Christmas day 94. And let me tell you, Daddy's hold a very special place in their children's hearts. Especially if that child is a girl, I was his baby. I love y'all's honest emotional reaction
Incredible moment by William tongi so emotional made me miss my dad so much who passed away back in 02. The discussion and sharing you did after the performance was beautiful appreciate it so much
Thank you for sharing that. I love how he was able to share his feelings through music in a way that was so relatable to so many people. He really got me thinking about my own relationships and roles. -Remmington
My father passed away may 8th, 2017. this song brings back so many memories of that time, i wish this song was out when he did pass. Iams iteration of this song breaks my heart, because i know every single feeling he has. Love you dad and i miss you everyday!
This song is amazing and as a man I want to cry but also as a man we tend not because we want to show we’re strong and that we’re not weak but I do cry but I cry alone. This song is what I think of my dad. My dad has been my hero since I was a little boy and now he’s still showing that he’s always been a hero and a best friend that I’ve wanted my whole life. If my dad sees this I just hope that he knows that he’s my best friend n a hero. Love you Dad
Aloha gentlemen, as a Kanaka Mauoli full blooded Hawaiian, the traditions of every Polynesian culture, whether Samoan, Tongan, Tahitian, New Zealand, Kanaka Mauoli, Mauori...etc... The respect of our Grandparents, parents, and Children is always furst n foremost #1. Our upbringing is so different compared to any other culture in my own opinion. We all end up helping each other no matter the circumstances. Our way of singing is cultural, meaningful and Love for one another. Granted some of us have flaws, but we always strive for success and making sure our next generations learn and become great young adults as it becomes their turn to take their futures and move forward for their next generations to succeed in their own lives. Mahalo for your reactions. It was very heart felt, and loved n respected by all Polynesians. God Bless you and your Ohana 🤙🌺💯 Mahalo from Hawai'i nei 🤙🌺❤️
A true man sheds a tear 😢...what a beautiful voice and I wish him all the look in the world,hes a credit to his dad to his family and 100% to himself 🌟
I love Iam...he is a soul searcher...he gets mine everytime...this song should be on the radio...God Bless this 18 year old young man...he is the real deal...❤❤❤❤❤❤
Guys your commentaries made me feel seen and appreciated. I was the strongest person at my dad's passing and I was able to held strong for my mom and brother. "Dad, you can go." Those were the hardest words I had ever said in my life.
I’m new to this channel but as a sensitive man myself its beautiful to seeing other men that aren’t ashamed to be sensitive and caring. I really connected to the mustached man when he talked about his discussion with his children.
Your grandmother is in the presence of our lord and savior Jesus Christ. I really enjoyed this reaction from you two. Very genuine reaction. I love how you said this is a raw example of humanity. Beautifully said.
You guys nailed it right on the head for me. I am so very blessed and I kiss the skies everyday because my father is still alive. But nothing is forever and watching the pain and grief of others who have lost their parents is gut wrenching. Knowing that our parents will leave one day and not knowing how we will take it. I just cry every time I watch this performance. Iam Tongi is our Hawaii boy and a gift to the world.
Thank you for this video. Immediately one of my favorite songs, and your commentary made it even more meaningful. I wish I could give so many more thumbs ups. Thank you so much!
Beautiful video, I applaud the great wise words and true feelings you guys expressed, I too felt everything from this video of iamtongi too. I cried about every time I watched his song and that was about 30’times now.
Thank you for your beautiful reactions in terms of words and comments about such an emotional performance. Dad is still here with us and such performances by a strong young man and the emotional reactions by the judges keep reminding us that one day, we have to say goodbye 😢😢 with our Loved Ones, and it hurts😢😢😢. Thank you for being real, Honest and truthful about your reactions.
Great reaction, would be awesome to react to James Blunts version so you can compare the difference and see the emotion in both iam tongi and James. Back story if you decide to react to it James wrote the Song once he found out his father had a failed Kidney and they couldn’t find him a compatible Donor. So the song was pretty much a farewell to his still alive father but James assumed he wasn’t going to live for much longer. Once the song was released a distant cousin heard the song and came forward to get tested and was compatible so ended up donating a kidney to James father and ultimately saving his life. But the music video of “monsters by James blunt” was a single raw take of James with the feeling and knowledge of his dad going to pass. Hope you check it out ! ❤
Grandfather passed away in 2020 In his home around family. I held his hand cuz he was hanging on. I told him those words. It’s oh k. Don’t worry about us. I’ll take care of everyone now. And then I felt his grip loosen and he passes with everyone around Love this video
My dad died 3 years on march 27th. When he died he took my heart with him. He was my hero and my everything. When iam told his story and sang this song I felt his pain. I'm not OK and I never will be again. Iam has a voice of an angel.
It’s really hard to lose people close to us. Songs like this remind of us the hurt, but they also remind us that we can find our strength as we keep going. God bless.
@@ChaseAndRemmingtonMusic Thank you. He was the best and it's hard every day. My family is close and as long as we have each other it will be OK. Thank you for reacting to iam's audition.
Talofa from the islands, love your reaction and being real about life. Cheering for our island guy Iam, wish and hope all the best in his journey on American Idol 2023. Thank you so much for sharing.
Iam brought out so many. Feelings in me that. I have been suppressed for. Years I can only thank him for t hat release I feel better for him why I can't explain it but it happened ty for the video of him
Thank you guys for this video. It doesnt matter how many times you watch it. It still too emotional and I cry everytime. May God Bless Iam amd family and you two.
You guys are amazing, your bravery and fearlessness to be this vulnerable is so deeply touching and admirable and I believe this will help many men and people in general.
From another Hawaiian girl from Beautiful Pana’ewa, Hilo, Hi…HE’S already WON!! My heart, mind and soul goes out to Dad Rodney and Mom - for Blessing us with their Humble Talented Son.. ❤❤❤❤❤❤😢❤❤❤❤ Thank You so very much for your Awesome and Loving reaction… This is my answer to spelling the word LOVE….TIME…take care and many blessings to Yourselves and Everyone making time to view and share…❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am so happy i stumbled across your video. This reaction vid is definitely one of my fav. You both did well. Wush you both all the best with yr families.
2 things .. i listened to this over an over an over... it was so beautiful. I also learnt something positive from this.... show as much love to ur parents cuz life is short... altho i do it i feel i wud show even more attension an love to them now.... god bless u IAM and ur dad RODNEY i kno he is smiling in heaven seeing u bro
Great reaction and I can relate to being a father and knowing once I sleep, my sons will be the men who will be the rock and shield of my own and their own homes.
It’s the circle of life, but it hits hard sometimes, especially when talented artists give their hearts to a performance so we can all feel a little more human.
