Reacting To "How To Get A Woman To Think About You Nonstop | 3 Powerful Ways!" By Apollonia Ponti 

“We only have time for healthy and secure relationships here” ☝️😂

You have a great way of bringing out good points from these videos, even when they are coming from a ‘less classy’ point of view.

_"If I have to play all those games, and be immature and insecure like that, I don't want it."_ That about sums it up. Such calculated, premeditated behavior requires apathy and detachment and that's the opposite of having genuine feelings.

Don't prioritize someone that treats you like an option.. this applies to both men and women

Don't lose your goals for a hole.

Give her the gift of missing you. You don’t always need to be attached to her everyday. Few days space works wonder.

If a woman is thinking about you literally non-stop, then she’s probably a stalker…

Men don't be simps!! Women don't be queens!! Just live life!! Go after your goals and interest and stop worrying about if your gonna be in a relationship. Let it happen naturally. (Nothing will change lol)

I don't think Appoloni is manipulative at all. Watch more of her videos to get a bigger sample size of how she communicates with her topics. Appoloni is one of the best on RU-vid.

Lmao I think my dad sent me one of Apollonia’s videos a while back out of nowhere. For some reason he really wants to me get a girlfriend lately. Like yeah it’d be nice to have a partner, but feel like I have A LOT of work to do on myself physically and mentally.

Courtney reframes these concepts in a very graceful and respectful, to both people’s, way

If a guy has to follow these rules on purpose and not naturally, then eventually when you get her, she’s going to realize you’re not really that mysterious/busy/charismatic of a guy. Just focus on building your life fellas…

If there has to be a video or tips on how to make a girl think about you, it's manipulative. Here's a tip. Don't think about it. Just be you and be indifferent and not think about women. Women will come to you when you don't try. Then it's just recognizing the signs that she's into you and you can really break that down to just people text or hangout with the people they want to hangout with. So if she's doing that with you, she likes you.

Gotta say, I'm very impressed with Mrs. Ryan. Her advice is a heck of a lot better and more level-headed than the stuff coming out of the manosphere and the PUA's. I agree with her that most of that stuff seems to be about manipulating women or how women are trying to manipulate men. I can see why they have so much trouble with women and why they seem to always end up with the wrong ones--if you're always deceitful and manipulative with women, you're only going to attract deceitful manipulative women.

Subscribed you since you had 8.9k subs and I appreciate your content and growth ❤️

I watch these channels to both give my teenaged boy advice and to adjust how I interact with my wife. As I like both creators, I think this was a gracious and meaningful reaction video.

There was this hot girl in high school.. probably the hottest in school. ALL the guys used to simp on her and compliment her. I used to insult her about her attitude. SHe always used to try and make contact with me and wanted to talk to me. Girls are complicated fellas I swear.

You are spot on. I love your content. I educate my son on how someone can use rigid gender roles to manipulate you. When ever I hear, “The man is supposed to…”, I am out. In my 30 year career as a mental health professional, that is the most common manipulative tactics. Using rigid gender roles to get compliance. That is why I educate young men to always ask about the gender roles in their household as a child before you date anyone.

Good content Courtney. Apollonia Ponti comes from a dating point of view. Also, Jessica J another dating coach similar to Apollonia.

yeah i hate most of these dating coaches, it's like a marriage therapist who's on her 4th marriage.

I would Auto like Courtney's content if i could! Nah lie. Such calm, collected delivery. Without tearing someone else's content down. Well presented. Greetings from Jamaica

How about…. Who cares if she’s thinking about you? You men need to stop concerning yourself if ANYONE is thinking about you, especially a women. Chase excellence and your purpose. You’re the prize, stop concerning yourself about “HER”.

Genie: "master any wish I will grant for you...any! " Master: "I want a highway to Hawaii, I am afraid of flying and boats but I want to go." Genie: "master, that is too difficult even for me...all that concrete and steel...impossible ...give me another wish to grant! anything!" Master: "I want to understand the mind of women." Genie: "you want that highway two lanes? "

If she texts me I'll answer when I am on my phone.This silly waiting game is for manipulators. You always find time to spend with the one you like. Just be yourself if your looking for a relationship. No sosial media Stay busy Have hobbys Be social Don't play games Don't be clingi or a simp Don't try to change her for your benefit Look at her actions and not words Don't feed bad behavior Don't get emotional angry Learn to walk away Quality woman are out there guys, they are sadly rare now in this days, and usually not found on Instagram or tinder.

You are a wonderful lady! Beautiful and convincing

I want to marry your voice 😁

Loving the awesome content! Keep up the good work Courtney your the best❤️❤️

Courtney reacts to Apollonia... The multiverse continues to break on a daily basis 😂😂😂😂

I love how you are only about the facts. You have no idea how destructive these click bait videos / tips are for many, many guys. These people say this crap just because it's just the popular thing to say and doesn't require any thought

I wish there were more women like Courtney, astute, grounded and emotionally healthy. So refreshing and with amazing grace!

Would you react to Aba and Preach?

That was an old Video she made Ryan

Great job highlighting her points and putting your spin on them. Even when (I'm assuming) u didn't totally agree with her take, you assumed her intent to be positive and reframed it in a healthy way. I have watched a lot of her stuff (I mostly like it) and like seeing it from another angle.

You just said the same thing as her, its just that you didnt like the way she said it... good video by the way

Apollonia is more for the hooked ups, not relationship material.

Sooo just wanted to say: I think it may be a good idea to reconsider the ideas she's giving of men planning out how to act or what to say at certain parts of the dating game. Many men fail with women because they don't have a plan of action on how to attract women. Women are the reactors to what it is men do during the courting stage, and many men turn women off because they don't know these things. When Apollonia says something like "let her wonder what you are doing" or "don't respond too early to her text," while the advice may seem "manipulative," the reality is those things actually DO work better, but a man that's "just being his natural self" may not have this knowledge and need to know that it's ok to do it. Thus, him doing it would not be his "natural" inclination, but just because he has to THINK about doing it vs. naturally doing it doesn't make him a manipulative person. As a man, I can attest to a lot of the things she's talking about - I've been the one to "not play games" and text all the time, and 99 times out of 99 times women didn't find it attractive; I've been the one who let a woman always know what I was doing, where I was going, etc. and 99 times out of 99 times, it turns women off. Knowing these things being actively conscious of doing them has made all the difference in being able to attract women. Just something to consider. I think men and women go about dating differently, and it only helps men to be a bit more calculated in their moves, albeit not in a malicious way.

Courtney understands men. She understands her role as a woman. Wow, I did not think ladies with her qualities existed in this world anymore. Outstanding effort Courtney, keep it up! You are definitely a high value woman. Young ladies could learn a lot from you.

I love both Apolonia and Courtney. Your both wonderfull women.

I am still waiting for Courtney Ryan's reaction to Kevin Samuel's content. I highly recommend this for a future video!

Meaning if u get a relationship with a girl it's over..🤣🤣

Question: is Apollonia Ponti still single ?...This will tell you fellas if her advice is sound.

The key word is "balance." Allocate your time for you, but also pop in and talk to the individual you are trying to build a relationship with. It should not be that complex nor should their be 5-steps to make x, y ,and z do 1, 2 and 3.

I like this advice honestly I like it that I always love your advice you help us with women and We’re grateful for that 💯

U want girls to think about u non-stop?: Make money. Stay busy/have a purpose. Get in shape. Be an Alpha not a simp.

I think Apollonia is more the "push,pull" type rather than "pleasure,pain" type. She does come off sometimes like she's being manipulative in what she says, at the same time she talks about not being manipulative. Sometimes I do think her advice is ... questionable.

Yeah, I've been watching a few of Apollonia Ponti's videos. I don't agree with everything she says, just like I don't agree with everything in your videos - and that's not being disrespectful... I've been watching a LOT of *_DARIUS M_* videos... His videos are pretty dark, but honest towards how _some_ women manipulate men. I respect *_DARIUS M_* the most of all...

Apolonia's advice is awesome, as much as yours, Ms Courtney.

I can say this for a fact. You and Apollonia are the top two people I listen to when it comes to dating woman and keeping this fresh.

I recently discovered Courtney's videos...I really enjoy them!!! She's gorgeous, has a sweet, sexy voice, & just offers such great advice on a wide range of topics. Thanx, I sooo appreciate that & after several videos, I became a subscriber.

courtney you re being a bit of a trail blaizer here! you re kinda debunking the "never take dating advice from a woman " rule EASILY one of the top 5 non toxic dating channels for men

We as Men only want hook ups because no women wants a relationship goal men it never works out in the end.

Can you please do a video on how to go from dating to a relationship?

1)Establish Attraction - "The Vibe" 2)Establish Comfort - "The Safety" 3)Establish Arousal - "The Dominance" These three things are a recipe for imprint. The Security - "The Lifestyle" and the Character - "The Personality" are secondary. Lotta betas come to the table with just these two things and then wonder why they get cheated on with a guy who has the first 3 things. It is what it is.

Its kinda funny, we got a fish commenting about another fish on how to get a fish😂 this is good content for the simps..

Dear Courtney Ryan.... Thinking about someone non-stop.... Is no doubt a train-wreck waiting to happen for both parties.... Be Kind and realize Non-Stop thinking is actually immature... Always in Good Taste... CHEERS!!... Courtney is so Cool....

When you see enough videos like this, you start to realize that the advice rhymes: basically have your own life and don’t be too clingy. I personally prefer Courtney’s channel for the way she presents the info. Apollonia is alright but not my favorite tbh

Just watched Teddy's video on his grandfather, grandmother and father about his grandfather's, now Teddy's, watch. A boyfriend like Teddy is pretty good evidence that you are a very good young lady from whom to take relationship advice.

Honestly girls in general give REALLY bad advice about getting a girl.

Exactly being the man doesn't mean you need to carry the weight forever. I had a significant other like this. It was me putting all the effort from day one and year after year. Just simply exhausting.

Would like watch a conversation b/t Ponti and Ryan. Older vs younger female energy. Could be a good observation of where they both are in life and experiences. Ponti is married and Ryan has a live in bf. Just an idea.

Honestly, being somewhat unpredictable works not only with relationships, but with life in general. You see, our brain does not notice things that we can predict. And because of that, as we age, learn more about life and make a stable lifestyle - our life seems to be flying so fast, unlike in childhood. And it's not that the time itself accelerates, but we do the same things over and over, our lives are precisely planned, and you can approximately predict what every day would look like. So there is no perceived difference, nothing fresh to learn and experience. This way even good relationships could become invisible, and would be noticed only after, say, a breakup. And they would say, "why did I leave him\her? We had such a good relationship".

A hole 🕳️ can give you trouble from both sides, LoL 😸😆🤣.

Can you react to Jessica J?

These are manipulation tactics. Period. Like the one who likes you for you. Leave the ones who don’t like you alone. Don’t be manipulative. Don’t play games. Tricks are for kids.

what a disaster! contrived immature games. deliberately infused misunderstandings. battered feelings. heartache. uncertainty. doubt. conflict. chaos. relationship instability. conscious miscommunication. there’s nothing but unnecessary premeditated DRAMA here. this a bunch of calculated cold-blooded mean spirited garbage! how very mean, courtney!

In the end its about "go with to the flow" you dont need to memorize things like dont message her in 2 hours because thats bs just focus on your life, purpose and improvement in the end its all about having fun in life not stressing if she like me or not just go with the flow and have a healthy relationship.

How many videos have you watched of Apollonia Ponti Courtney? You have great points Cortney but Apollonia covers all of these in all her videos. This is just one and what titles you RU-vid videos need to use to get men’s attentions... With her it’s not about giving cookie cutter advice and I’ve seen that in you aswell which is great. It’s about men to understand themselves in order to be their authentic selves improve themselves to build their confidence to become the man they want to be High Value man that a high Value woman will want. Also for them to understand the type of women that are unhealthy and know which woman to go look for if they’re after a series relationship. Might be interesting if both of you do an interview as you both are targeting men. You have great advice but I’ve gone from 0 to 100 with Apollonia Ponti’s coaching and programs.

Ewww. Imaging trying to get with someone who expects you to play this corny courtship game and having to follow all these weird rules of the game. How exhausting. No thanks...

Having her think about you nonstop like my last gf did can be very exhausting! I got tired of her freaking out when I didn't text back fast enough. A bit of apathy isn't so bad.

Sick advice by teaching how to manufacture intensions for the purpose of deception. Obviously not for good fraudulent outcomes. This the beginnings of a deceitful person.

Honestly I trust Courtney's advice more lol.

Courtney obviously hasn’t read the book 10-15 times. Lunch dates are bs her gay male girlfriend does. Dates happen in the evening as the goal is a fun opportunity to make sex happen. Come on Court.

If I know a girl is playing mind games like this, real manipulations for a calculated result in her favour, I dump them fairly quick. Fortunately I am very happy being alone and single and I am very happy waiting for true gem, even if I never find her.

The only problem with these advices - maybe because they are coming from women - that they don't talk about the real causes. When a guy texts too much to a girl the reason not always that he doesn't have anything else to do - but it always looks like this, that's the problem. I see - but, when a guy meet somebody who is really special, not just "ok" or "ehm" but "wow, what a connection", and he isn't too "practiced" in dating, the childish feeling of "I want to play whit my new best toy all day" can rule his brain. Maybe he's busy like hell, but too passionate about her, not to text - maybe he hasn't have that friend to talk about this type of feelings, so he talk with the only one who know about it -- the girl. I know, I was there - that is what we have to stop - and it's not manipulation, it's jut control yourself. And these advice are the practical side - without the inner causes.

My outlook on your overview of what she is saying is ' your to quick to judge on top of what she is saying '... You had stated your opinion on one part, then listened to the second half, then said ' Mm ok, that makes more sense '... I'd suggest listening in full to her advice then have a more justified response :)

Never ask a fish how to catch fish.

As a single man, I can only say "give a F**** Break". I can not believe that anyone would put that much though into this.

Not natural what she’s saying. Sounds as though she downloaded it from Wikihow then printed it off and memorised. Not spontaneous. Feel sorry for those who will stop being themselves and try to incarnate this

What makes u more a guru ( known it all ) than any other coach? Do u have any data to prove that your advice brings positive outcomes?...who are you to critique another coach? Who is critiquing you?

Like you said she didn’t say anything too terrible but if you are doing these things solely because you want to “make the girl think about you nonstop” you should probably question if that is a healthy behavior for an overall healthy relationship. I’d say it’s probably not.

Ummmm no, the worst you are is not good at all for hook ups. You have misconceptions about hook ups. Decent behavior is absolutely necessary for hook ups as well.

The first one is really good but she literally used the worst examples to showcase it. Yes be unpredictable, but not with immature things like not texting too quickly.

My experience is that women do not want to hear from you every day or every other day . Sometimes not even every week however IDK how else to keep a woman interested . I am a disabled man and I would not say that I can not work but I would say that the benefits that I get through social security I couldn't get through 1, 2 or even 10 years of working at a job . Sure the system is failing and one day ill be forced to get a job but until then I have to stay on social security as it is just the best option right now . So what should I do as far as relationships go . I am getting so tired of online dating . I am going to a new Bible study on Tuesday I am hoping that ill meet somebody .

I was put off from the very beginning of her video. "Attraction" skills? Attraction is not a skill, it either exists or it doesn't.

Right on! I would state it your way! And I do not think you can get her think about you! You can not force things! You just have to play your cards right, but there is no guarantee!

The only game you should be playing in dating is Schedule Tetris. Fill your schedule, and BE busy so you don’t have to pretend

Don't get it twisted, Apollonia Ponti seems professional and mature, she is not, she is all about games and that is it. Games disguised in something sophisticated, games for the grown ups, but she is still not matured and wants butterflies first and foremost. She is all about the thrill and going for the player that doesn't want you. Also Apollonia is past her prime and is still about games. A grown ass woman thinking anyone has the time to play games with her... lol

You're way better than ponti. She emphasizes that men should not be nice, unlike you, that good women are not lookinh for bad boys.

Okay I have a filing about you that I don’t like don’t know why just yet but I have seen some of your content and oh hold up I’m burning my breakfast I get this okay I haven’t see any one for four years but I’m good now day’s girls ply want a friend with benefits and play games and I’m out okay have to go and do my walk so I let you know paka paka this is bay in Russian

Courtney isn't making it better. She's just changing and adding words so she doesn't feel responsible.

Who is that busy that doesn’t have 10 seconds to send a couple of messages per day to the person that he is interested in? Or has to reply after 10 hours to a message because he’s so busy? Wtf… if a woman does that to me I’m not going to reply ever… that’s just rude … people today just don’t have common sense

I tire of so many different coaches and things saying to 'not show interest' and such. I have the opposite problem, most of the time I'm genuinely not interested. So this advice does not help me.

12:51 I can see Courtney had some business ideas there hm hm

What if it is my opinion that farts in a jar are necessary element and are part and parcel of a healthy functioning society?

I never thought Courtney Ryan would reaction video on Apollonia ponti I wonder she watch some Courtney Ryan video too

Love your videos! Keep up the good work!

Your channel was a suggestion after I've watched hers. I don't really watch hers anymore.

I am happily married but always watch Courtney to keep it fresh. I even bought all white sneakers. Keep it up Courtney, you are a breath of fresh air and give such great advice.

Looool she didnt like how apolina was teaching guys to manipulate girls.. I would rather learn from apolina

Women are way too much effort. Not worth it IMO. I still watch because it’s interesting