We men can be notoriously bad at reading signs from females though, in either direction. :) (then again, that's why we listen, so we can learn to read between the lines better)
Ehh, no. I'm sorry but many women tend to overestimate their ability to express their interest. It should be more like: "If you're confused whether if she likes, you're probably better off not being with her anyway, whether she likes you or not".
I absolutely endorse Corey Wayne's 3% Man book. I've read it about 10 times, apply what I learned, and handle dating way better than the former simp I was.
“3 Percent Man” is required reading for any guy, especially if you’re having trouble with women. The book is free for goodness sake. Thanks for covering this Courtney, Corey is far more practical of a dating coach than most of the red pill gurus on the internet.
i love how corey wayne displays that dating and relationships isn’t like what we’ve all seen in the disney movies. we’ve really been brainwashed to believe that being a stalker or a needy weirdo is cute and attractive. he really is the best coach that teaches self respect not only to men but women.
Yeah, it's always unrequited lust and infatuation from someone who is unattractive and not the personal preference of said person. It's considered charming and being a go getter. The person either has to change their looks to get the love interest or do ridiculous or incredible feats to earn their attention. Couple this trope with parents not teaching kids to understand this and pursue those that want you back is what leads us to today's society. Everyone is chasing after the unattainable and uninterested only to be heartbroken.
The main reason why some men act this way is because they have a sincere belief that they have no other options when it comes to women. They don’t think they can attract someone else so they put all their effort into that one person
"If you haven't heard from a girl for four days, she doesn't like you." Harsh, true and straight to the point. More guys need to hear that. Love it! ❤️
I've been waiting for this for so long. Two of my favourite RU-vidrs mixed on one video. Fantastic! Thanks, Courtney. Your reaction and input have been on point!
Don’t be the “fill in guy” respect yourself, sometimes us men can feel like the fill in guy if your dating an absolute beauty and that’s ok if she’s stunning, right?anyway I liked this video a lot, thanks Courtney ❤️
It was a 2012 video, he said that it was 15 years before that. That's 26 years! Lol! I recently got out of a 25 year marriage. I was an emotional, clueless, wreck! Coach Corey SAVED MY LIFE!! Not literally, of course, but on how to approach life and relationships!! He's da man! Yes. Courtney is awesome, too!
Corey's material is the real deal. I owe the best relationship of my life to his advice. He helps men stay away from the toxic red pill material and find high quality women by becoming good men themselves.
@@joeam4977 I was going to say this. RP is just information about the nature of reality. It is neutral. Do what you want with the information but RP in and of itself is neutral.
Was wondering when other youtubers were going to find out about Corey! I knew from the moment I saw the thumbnail of this video that he’d be your favorite lol. He’s awesome!
i dont like the whole "there are 7 billion people on the planet" argument. i dont have access to all those people. for goodness' sake, 3 billion of them are chinese - that's never gonna happen. Seriously, let's narrow this down here. Say i live in a city of 150,000 people. probably 50% of them are women. let's say 50% of THEM are married/committed, old widows, young children, etc etc etc.... Realistically, I probably only have access to about 20,000 eligible women. AND I haven't even discussed the uglies/unmentionables either, by the way (which you might argue are the majority). "there are 7 billion people on the planet"... yes, there are. but that is completely irrelevant to my dating options. anyway ya Corey Wayne is a hero. massive respect for him and what he does.
I disagree, everyone loves themselves and have confidence and hope otherwise they would jump off a cliff. The problem is attraction is usually not reciprocal. I personally have been at the both ends of it. I have been strongly and passionately liked by someone that I did not feel passion for and vice versa. When men are the top 10 to 20% in your social group, you are guaranteed to be liked by 80% women, it is the truth, dating app or real world it applies the same. Men should chase excellence and not the women.
Self-love is the biggest most feminine misplaced ideology ever. Especially in women, it's pure justification for unrealistic and irrational entitlement.
True, BUT people who had bad luck with romantic relationships often need that tiny push from someone else to be more confident about themselves. It's just a kiving fact both for people who are secure or insecure. The moment they have a romantic partner is the moment they shin even more than before.
Corey Wayne is a really awesome guy! Great video reaction! Glad you like him. He is very straight forward. No games! Perfect point you made at the end!! 👍🏼
Mister Wayne was the original QUALITY DUDE for advice back in the day before all of this red pill b.s. Corey been preaching since the good ole days 👌 I'll take his advice over anyone else's.
I’m sure she would agree. Most level headed would agree when HE or SHE belongs to the streets! As I mentioned in my lengthy post above, Corey’s material is so sound, it equally applies to men and women.
"...guys, be the best 'you' you can be and everything else will fall into place..." Thank You Courtney for that statement, you basically summed up what we gotta do:)
This made me learn a valuable lesson from the, " Once you stop caring, then she starts chasing." This is triue because what we should do is invest time in ourselves first like self-care, self-improvement, goals, achievement, and purpose. Once you start prioritizing this first than her. She'll find an interest in you from the fact that you have goals and meaningful purpose in life. If she's playing games. Cut, move on, self-care, and purpose 💪 stay safe kings 👑👑
Corey Wayne can be brutally honest sometimes, but he's one of the good ones and imo gives great advice overall. Your reaction videos are my favorite by far Courtney, thanks!
Courtney, the way you interject at the most opportune time without disrupting the flow of who you're reacting to whilst providing meaningful contribution is really effective!
Coach Corey Wayne is pretty good, I don't listen to him much anymore because he just regurgitates a lot of his teachings but yeah Corey was kind of the OG on RU-vid when it came to men's dating advice.
Still is the OG! He might regurgitate his material but that’s a good sign, that’s called: CONSISTENCY! His advice never changes because he holds true to his principles and believes. So why should he say anything different? The principles are the principles and reality is reality. Even for modern day dating. Just my two cents based off of my personal experience.
pretty good?...when you have as much success as he does lmk..also here's a woman agreeing the guy is all that.. Like he said 100 years from now these principles will be relevant because he understands the psychology of women..10 to 15 times 4 real
Be there, done that... allowing a girl who "likes" me just to get attention to get close. I'm too busy, and too good to waste time on a confused girl. The older I get, the only people I let close to me are people who treat me with respect. I enjoy your work Courtney - you seem wise beyond your years. Take care and good luck!
Corey's an amazing guy and pretty spot on with social situations and behaviors. I've been watching him for almost a decade now, and he has really helped me on several occasions. Thank you for doing this review Courtney, I'm loving these reaction videos.
You're so level headed, and provide an extremely refreshing perspective on dating in 2021. Found you on Alex's channel on PWF. Keep doing you Courtney, you're killing it! My new favorite dating channel!
I just have to say, I like your advice. It's honest and there's no alternative motive to it. Your tone of voice is perfect for letting things think in. Thank you Courtney.
“Cmon man” 🤣 I’m watching his videos every morning while I’m sipping my coffee. It’s Like morning routine. Plus I read the book 10 times, and listened to audiobook also 10 times. I’m going to keep reading it once every month. Nice videos by the way from you
Your right she missed that. The original Video is from 2013. Coach said about 15 years ago so that puts it at around 1998. Way before smartphones and social media.
Hey Courtney, thank you for giving Corey’s material feedback. He was my first mentor in being a masculine guy. He is so real, thanks to him I was able to grow as a man and learn to better navigate the dating worl. I really enjoy your content cause feels very real, just like his. Thank you for all this great work you do 🙌🏽
Guys, there are SO MANY fish in the sea - chances are, even if you got the girl you are obsessing over, she'd dump you at some point anyways. Don't believe the "live happily ever after" narrative. Relationships have a start and an end date. You will have many girl friends so don't waste your time on any that don't like you. You want a girl that actually desires you - that is the prize.
As Coach Corey Wayne, says you must love in way the other person feel free! Treat all women the same take it or leave, don't take personal it wasnt meant to be!
So glad you covered this Courtney. It is funny, Coach Corey and you are the 2 relationship RU-vidrs I regularly watch. You both take a grounded, commonsense approach to relationships. I appreciate both of your efforts in this sphere. Both of your efforts help to guide one to not settling for bad Love. By the way Courtney, you radiate kindness and compassion in understanding men's perspectives and roles in society. Peace Bella
I've been following Corey Wayne's work for a few years now and the thing that I like about him is throughout all of his videos and his books his advice (seems) to come from a place of gratitude for all the experiences he's had with women throughout his life, whether they were positive or negative. All the other men who give dating advice seem to have this air of resentment towards the women they've been with throughout their life. They always seem to blame women for their own short comings in being able to pick out someone who is a good person to date in the first place Corey is the best, hands down
True. Basically, Corey teaches us to take responsibility for our own life choices like an adult and look at them as learning experiencs to improve ourselves. The other's teach people to blame others for our choices as if we are children, and we cannot possibly grow or improve from that mentality.
Corey Wayne changed my life. He teaches to not disrespect women, but instead to embrace yourself & purpose as a man. And that indifference, makes the difference. On the contrary, he teaches to value a woman. Since listening to his audio book 15 times, I’ve become a confident self-centered man. The key is this.. I’m not faking it - it’s ‘become me’. And I now date only confident & high quality women. Great review!
“The Coach” (Corey Wayne) is on point! I already knew most of the dating fundamentals he teaches but what I have really learned from him is how to understand women better and relationship skills.
Corey Wayne is the man! His book literally changed my entire perspective. He teaches a very simple principle about focusing on your mission and purpose in life first which will naturally feed into dating/relationships. Always hold yourself accountable first. Glad you finally did this Courtney!
Mystery says the three phases are attraction, comfort, and arousal for you. What this guy is getting at is that this behavior destroys the second one and when she’s uncomfortable, guess what else disappears? The other two. So if you’ve already made her comfortable, just go with that. It’s not like you’re working on a car and you gotta keep tweaking it. You gotta let it ride wherever it goes. If that means she doesn’t like you, then dip. And if she does, keep going and let it go naturally. I agree with you 💯 though that the push pull crap. That’s a sign of “she isn’t for me.”
Courtney we all appreciate your authenticity, self respect and humility. I am thrilled that you advocate digniity preservation. Continue to share your knowledge with the world.
The way she reacts to these videos is pretty unique, timely interjects her opinion to certain points and still keeps you fully engaged with her and the video itself. Wonder if she's just natural at it or its a skill learnt.
Knowing the difference between attention and attraction is such an important skill. I spoke to my trainer and we both agree- chase goals not girls.. the rest will take care of itself. Some girl with a BF is hovering around me at the gym and it's getting weird.. had to talk to my trainer for some perspective..
I'm actually curious--what did he tell you? Sounds like she's either not that happy in her relationship and has a crush on you, or she just likes attention and is wondering why you're not giving it to her haha
I used to be the classic nice guy full time :/ but coach Corey Wayne along with coach Craig Kenneth pulled me out of that hole. Those guys changed my life literally 👌🏻
I enjoyed this video a lot. You just got yourself a new subscriber! Corey comes from a place of purpose. Picked up what pick up artists couldn’t and that’s becoming a wholesome person. There’s a difference between manipulation vs inspiration and that’s starting with the right intentions.
Corey's advice has been the only advice that has truly worked and changed how I carry myself. All the other dating advice doesn't work. Corey is the only one worth listening to imo.
Getting a woman is a lot like catching a fish. You pull too hard, she breaks the line. You don't pull hard enough, she gets slack and gets off. You got to know when to reel, when to let out some line and when to just cut the line and move on to the next one.
If she likes you she makes it easy for you to catch her. If she doesn't then mysterious roadblocks will get thrown in. It's up to the woman not us on relationships
COURTNEY I AM SO SURPRISE YOU DID THIS VIDEO!!! LOL I LOVE Coach Corey Wayne, been watching him for YEARSSSS, just watched one of his recent videos today before I saw this video.
I expressed my feelings with as much honesty and clarity as possible. The ball was out of my hands. When the woman couldn't decide over her feelings and wanted to spend more time thinking, I walked out right at the moment. I am so proud of myself I did not hesitate. Hope good luck to all brothers.
Corey Wayne changed everything for me, I read his book and watched him for YEARS, I now have my dream wife and pursued my passion to become a full time stock market trader. I love this man.
Glad to see this. I am a long time follower of Corey's. You 2 definitely are on the same page with a lot of your principles. His advice and material truly transformed my life. Not just with women but professionally as well. If you haven't you should definitely read his book.
Hi Courtney, I just find your first reacting for Corey Wayne and I’m happy to hear that there someone on the opposite side agrees with his work. I’ve been watching his material for years and it helped me to understand women. I will forwared this to his channel to let him know there’s a hot admirer who enjoy his material 😀👍
There was a girl I knew from university, now just to be clear I was not into her romantically, main reason was becasue she was very tall and I like shorter girls. Anyway, I only viewed her as a friend and she seen me as a friend, well more acquaintance really. We got on well in person and spoke about our mutual interest in horror films, but whenever I messaged her she would take days, sometimes a week to reply. I always found this very weird. Then one day out of the blue I got a whatsapp message from her saying 'Hi, how are you?' followed by a load of other questions relating to my life in general. I thought it was odd so I just answered her questions and we spoke a bit, but didn't hear from her again. Then a few weeks later I messaged her and she replied but with very wishy washy answers and I haven't messaged again since. Personally I find it very strange why people are like that.
@@fettaheker Probably, but usually when you ask why does she take ages to reply, you get the answer 'because she doesn't like you', but what I dont get is why would she then reach out to me and make an effort to talk just randomly out the blue?
@@Podheroes247 bcs she had no one to talk to I geuss. But you should have asked her out when she showed that interest in my opinion. Dates are better then text game
@@fettaheker But like I said I wasn't attracted to her like that. I just find it weird in general that people ignore you all the time then suddenly reach out
Pretty girls are a dime a dozen! It’s funny she said that she don’t like guys that are bitter. Yet, women are always bitter that men go for the younger women and crying about patriarchy this, and patriarchy that…. Who’s the bitter one? 🤔🤨🤷♂️ Women are just bitter than they set their standards so high that they’ve priced themselves out of the dating market and still won’t settle. Gents, there’s a future in investing in Cat food companies because there’ll be plenty of spinsters and left over women to go around.
Coach Courtney and viewers: I’m glad you discussed one of Coach Corey’s videos. I’m a hard core Corey student, he and his book “How to be a 3% Man” has helped me tremendously! Here’s the thing with Corey, he’s a straight shooter! The BEST part about his advise is it’s unisex! Yes, unisex!! It applies EQUALLY to men and women! Most of his audience and videos are geared towards men but he does have a small audience of women as well and he highly recommends women get familiar with his work or at least his book so women can understand more about themselves and how guys are so different than women. Corey does NOT “dance” around subjects, advice and quite frankly the truth! He’s a peak performance coach and specializes in self-reliance. He knows his stuff and I love how he uses personal experiences to back up his credibility. Most if not, any other coach I’ve ever watched /listened to doesn’t talk much about their past relationships, the mistakes they’ve made in the past, or the path they had to take to get where they are today. Corey has done that and I respect him for it. He explains HUMAN NATURE to men and women. He explains how attraction is NOT a choice. He shares what you can do (man /woman) to put yourself in the BEST position possible to attract and keep the man/woman of your dreams. Final note: He’s been a coach since early 2,000’s. He’s been around for awhile and has a lot of experience to fall back on. I’m very OCD, therefore I pay close attention to people’s patterns… I know this video is from 2012 or so, but I promise you, rather you watch a Coach Corey video from 2009 or 2021, EVERY SINGLE VIDEO has been CONSISTENTLY the same information!! The advice from 2008, still applies today! Why? Because attraction is not a choice, it’s either there or not. Regardless of how dating is viewed in modern age, the principles Corey teaches on attraction has no expiration date. Once you learn his work, you’ll realize it’s timeless knowledge that will always hold true. Certainly watch more of his videos, he literally has over 2,000 -3,0000 or more videos on ANY topic you can possibly think of: dating, relationships, marriage, ghosting, narcissist, gaslighting, cheating, career searching, exercising, chiropractic care, healthier life style changes etc. He also has all 3 of his books on the Audible website /app if you are into audio books. Definitely start with 3%Man. His material is a mindset and a NEW way of living, not just “advice”. Enjoy!
We’ll, I’ll be damned. One of my top two men’s relationship experts reviewing the other of my top two relationship experts. How did I know they were going to be on the same page?
No, women have their own set of problems too. It's worth listening to their dating coaches sometime (except Matthew Hussey, who's the male equivalent of Marni).
