"Ladies please don't think that having a man completes your life.. there is lot within you to explore your life'" l love you bro.. for this advice on life of women...
നാട്ടുകാർ : നിന്റെ മോളിങ്ങനെ പുര നിറഞ്ഞു നിക്കാൻ തുടങ്ങീട്ട് കുറച്ചായല്ലോ... അച്ഛൻ : ആ ശരിയാ.. അടുത്ത ആഴ്ച്ച തന്നെ വീട് ഒന്ന് വലുതാക്കാൻ തുടങ്ങണം..പണിക്കാരെ ഏർപ്പാടാക്കട്ടെ..
Le നാട്ടുകാർ : "ഇവളെക്കാൾ ചെറുതിനൊക്കെ കല്യാണം kazinjallo.... അവൾക് നോക്കുന്നുണ്ടോ " എന്റെ ഇക്കാക്ക :അതിന്ന് അവൾക് വീട്ടുകാർ ഉണ്ട് നിങ്ങൾ ടെൻഷൻ ആവണ്ട 😁 Uyir വീട്ടുകാർ 💯
18 year old Me : Dad, i wanna be an architect. Dad : No, you become a doctor.You are not old enough to take such a decision. 23 yr old Me : Dad, i like someone. Dad : No, i will find a good guy who has a govt. Job, is good looking, matching your horoscope, who is compatible with our family. Me : What about my likes? Dad : What?? You have likes? You don't know anything. You are too young to decide what's good for you. ( Makes multiple matrimony profiles for 'chekkan' hunting) Me : If i am not old enough to decide anything, why are you asking me to marry? I am too young for that right? Dad : 😐 Based on true life events 🙈
റീസൺ അറിയണോ 1. പെണ്ണുങ്ങൾ തള്ളകളാവും. പിന്നെ ഡിമാൻഡ് കാണില്ല 2. കൊച്ചുണ്ടാവില്ല (parentsinte കണ്ടുപിടുത്തം ) 3. അവരുടെ നെഞ്ചിൽ തീയാണ് രണ്ട് കാര്യങ്ങൾ കൊണ്ട്. ഒന്ന് വേറെ മതക്കാരന്റെ കൂടെ പോയാലോ? രണ്ട് കല്യാണം കഴിക്കാതെ സെക്സ് വെല്ലോം നടന്നാലോ? അത്കൊണ്ട് ഭൂരിഭാഗം വീട്ടിലും 25 ആവുന്നതിനു മുന്നേ കെട്ടിക്കുന്നേ. ഒന്ന് വിട്ട് പോയി മരിക്കുന്നതിന് മുന്നേ നിന്നെ സുരക്ഷിതമായ കൈകളിൽ എത്തിക്കണം കെട്ട് കഴിഞ്ഞാൽ മരിക്കുന്നതിന് മുന്നേ എന്റെ കൊച്ചുമക്കളെ കാണണം 😆🤣
Don't marry a person who cannot think or decide for themselves especially daddy' s little girls and mamas boys. Its a straight ticket to hell. I've been there ...done that.....
എങ്ങനെയാ ഒരു ചായ കുടിച്ച് രണ്ടു മൂന്നു formal meetingട ലൂടെ ഒരാളെ മനസ്സിലാക്കുക🤔... വർഷങ്ങൾ എടുത്തിട്ടു പോലും പലരെയും മനസ്സിൽ ആവുന്നില്ല😒 Anyway Good vedio bro👌❤️
Marriage between families! Seriously! Well said Ahmed, I hope what you are trying to convey would be understood by somebody. Marriage is between two individuals & their lives matter! Let that sink in people!!!
Aw man.. how you speak my mind.. My dad and mom had "10il 10thu porutham" and got divorced after 18years of marriage (filled with alcoholism and misogyny) My husband nd I have only 10il 5u porutham (meaning 5 outta 10 lol) and we are living happily for 8 and a half years now ..
വെറുതെ വന്ന് രണ്ട് ചായയും കുടിച്ച് കണ്ടിട്ട് പോകുവന്റെ കൂടെ ജീവിക്കുന്നതിനെക്കാൾ നല്ലത് നമ്മളെ മനസ്സിലാക്കിയ ആളുടെ കൂടെ ജീവിക്കുന്നതാണ് . 🥰🥰🥰🥰 അല്ലെങ്കിൽ Single life . 😎😎😎😎 💍💍💍💍💍
Netflix Germany : okay, let's produce Dark Netflix India : chalo let's produce Indian Matchmaking show🤦♀️ 4:02 to 4:13 hilarious 😅😅😅 4:24 to 4:47 just love it bro👏👏👏
Veetukarudeyum naatukarudeyum santhoshathinu vendi matram kalyanathinu onnu sammathichu koodey? that's what arrange marriage sounds to me like..oru chaaya kudiyil thudangi,very next day engagement il avasanikunnu🤷 parents be like: personal space? opinion?wats that?ingotonnum parayanda,angott kettaaal mathi🤷
Ladies......Plz don't think that having a man completes Your life. There's a lot more to Explore within yourself than waiting for Someone to come in & Complete your life....... Wow....loved it ❤ Thank you for this video
Hey! If u seeing my comment, it’s easy to say ladies marry when u want, but 99.8% Men needs a woman below 22. That’s a hard truth, And these uncle type men need young girls, also a guy of a 28 also need a 19 year old girl, and that’s making a parents to feel insecure about their girls. Men need to change, before pointing at someone
It’s happening to me right now😝..especially so called “relatives”. But am so happy to be a scientist and and pursuing to be a better one still , even under immense pressure from society with all the comments you have mentioned , but luckily am outside India, so they can’t get hold of me🤪. Every individual should have the freedom to choose what they want in terms of relationships and career, whatever it is 😍
ഇതൊക്ക മാറണം..... പക്ഷെ....1500 വർഷം മുൻപ് മതത്തിൽ നടന്നതൊന്നും ഇന്നും തെറ്റ് അല്ലാതെ തുടരണം... എല്ലാവരും അത് ബഹുമാനിക്കണം..... സുഹൃത്തേ ....... മതത്തെ വിമർശികുമ്പോൾ താങ്കളുടെ ഈ പുരോഗമനം എവടെ പോകുന്നു.. Astrology is a very old science..... But religion ..... Ohhh.... It is fact.... Relevant and true..... Isnt it???? Mr???
You are very right. My parents also brought me up with that mindset and after crossing 30 I realized that marriage was never for me. I dont have time to think of what I wish to do in life and Ifeel like watching my life go waste. I can never forgive my parents for not letting me go the way I wanted. Always I grew up with the mindset that I need to live upto the image that someone else has created for me. It's very depressing
Ahmed broiii respect dear for thiss. ...u really said it...pressure nanayit und dear .. Broi but the ugly fact is still indian parents wont change !! Really its extremely awkwardd ...!! 😡
Even if girls aren't becoming inventors or popular public figures just don't pressurize them to get married... the least thing parents can do is understand that they're individuals too and they've full power over their lives
And then there are some who idolise parents...”amma kondvarunna aale njn kettu”type. We all should respect our parents but doesn’t mean everything do will be for our ‘good’ Parents are mere selfish humans, and not worthy of absolute obedience
According to നാട്ടുകാർ ആൻഡ് വീട്ടുകാർ, 21 വയസ്സ് കഴിഞ്ഞ പെൺകുട്ടി = മൂത്തു നരച്ചു മൂക്കിൽ പല്ല് മുളച്ചവൾ, വീട്ടുകാരുടെ ബാധ്യത etc.. etc.. 🤷🤷🤷 എന്താല്ലേ!!
വകയിലെ അമ്മാവൻ: പണിയൊന്നും ആയില്ലേ മോനെ വകയിലെ അമ്മായി: ഹോ മോള് വലുതായല്ലോ നമ്മുക്ക് ഇവളെ അങ്ങ് കെട്ടികണ്ടേ give a side mone Here comes the matchmakers
Groom’s Profile Smoking - Never Drinking - Never His *family’s* requirements of a bride Smoking - Doesn’t Matter Drinking - Doesn’t Matter You see the irony, Don’t you എന്താ ല്ലേ അവസ്ഥ ... 🤣🤣🤣...
You said it bro, ppl insist of getting married also bcz you can't be a mother after you reach a certain age..according to them "ഒരമ്മ ആവുമ്പൊ ആണ് ഒരു സ്ത്രീ പൂർണതയിൽ എത്തുന്നത് "....jeeeez such innocently toxic thought... 😖 Im like, if your ability to have benevolence and empathy depends upon the hospitality of your uterus, that's a serious handicap.. If you attribute certain things to anatomy, which is a given and not a choice,it's like saying guys rape bcz they're hardwired in a way to have less control over their hormonal responses 😖😖
Coming to this video after your jasmine video and the later explanation.. common man you are talking good stuff here, you talked about astrology as a religion and all.. you could be better dude
“Beta/ Beti, shaadi karlo.. Pyar ho jayega!” What a dangerous and overused statement in our society that has destroyed many a life! Just because it used to work that way a few decades ago doesn’t mean that it will, in our era. Indian parents, please understand 🙏🏼 Good work as always, Ahmed! May your message reach as many people as possible.
I'm 31 years old ! Divorced have no kid's and that's okay. എനിക്ക് ഇല്ലാത്ത വിഷമം ആണ് നാട്ടുകാർക്ക്. കി കി കല്യാണം ആണ് ultimate goal നാട്ടുകാർക്ക് not for me ☺️ live and let live
Whether girls might become a 'famous' or a 'successful' person in her career, irrespective of that, she deserves a life she wishes for like a normal human being.
I really liked your idea about marriage , astrology nd all those stuff's..but in Kerala it's really difficult to follow these things.... coz we knew the fact that we are not in a control of ourselves especially girl's....it's kinda sad but this is the truth........ ND u know it's really sucks 😖
what annoys me the most is that my parents are more concerned about the caste ,horoscope, financial baground ,job etc of the guy... they don't even want to know if I am interested or not... l know the love me and they gave done a lot for me...and I respect them... but what's happening with most of the girls is emotional blackmailing... I have also faced this...but I strongly told my parents that at this point I don't want to get married. Even if you convince your parents somehow there comes those relatives and neighbors .Why the hell is they so obsessed with our lives.... ivarkonnm vere pani ille eeshwara😤
@@dhruvrajesh8831 Sad thing is, it's the other way around. Most people are old-fashioned. Truth is, many parents can be "good" parents who otherwise care for their children a lot, but have some inappropriate ideals. But those inappropriate ideals are a really big deal.
Well said.. the parents are deciding their kid's life.... they can control them till 18..bt aftr that parents should let them to make n take decisions about their life... the marriage is the most annoying thing to be forced on someone if they are not ready to get married... if they like to marry just go for it ..bt don't compel them.... Thanku Ahmed for this vdo👏👏👏
almost every girl's life in India loving a guy for 2 3 years and knowing each other (in her house ) Girl: Appa, Amma, I love one guy, he is a businessman. I wanna marry him. Parents: No you can't marry him, tomorrow a guy is coming for the bride seeing ceremony. (the next day) the guy comes drinks coffee and talks for five minutes. Girl: Appa I didn't like the guy. Parents: Sorry daughter but this alliance is fixed more than that he has a government job shubham...
There was something called Gandharva Vivah in Ancient India which can be translated nowadays as Love Marriage. It has diminished and most of parents are not supporting that. Marriage on basis of caste, cult,races is complete bullshit.
Im 30+ single female . Even if i convince my parents, , the so called relatives and naattukar wont allow us to live peacefully. They will put the blame on parents. I still never understand why are they so bothered abt my life
This is what we need from every men... oh sorry every "HUMANS" . . The way of 'feminism'... the way of 'humanism' Marriage is afterall finding a partner to share your views, happiness, worries, sadness, your love.... Its not about 'men caring women...men having responsibilty over women... and the men matters '
Feminist is nothing but "equality for gender " Humanist is nothing but "treating everyone equal"... If i speak on behalf of womens it may be becoz i or my surrounding females have suffered by the situation... and i speak on behalf of them considering them as "humans " Yu can define me as 'feminist' or 'humanist ' I may speak on behalf of mens coz my brothers, husband or surrounding men may be suffering from the sitaution... Either yu could define me as ' masculinist' or 'humanist ' But for me the final thing matters is "human life and the right of them to live "❤️ 🙈🙈🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
In my opinion Humanism only works after both genders are equal. In a society where women is way so down we need to take a bit too much care for them to grow. So u can't treat everyone "equal" in a patriarchal society like this. After both gender have the equality we can definitely change to humanism.
@@jyothi3826 that's what we said dear....Feminism is the way of attaining equality for everyone in this society.you are correct.ettakurachalkul Ulla samoohathil adadyam ad neekanam ..
