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Reading to Live: First Thoughts on Yiyun Li’s Dear Friend 

Shawn Breathes Books
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@jacquelinemcmenamin8204
@jacquelinemcmenamin8204 5 лет назад
I love this review. Reading has been a life saver for me. I have anxiety & depression and chronic insomnia. Add to that the stress of being my disabled sons carer. For years here in London I couldn't read. Then I discovered audiobooks and my life changed.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
I’m so glad audiobooks have worked so well for you!
@josmith5992
@josmith5992 5 лет назад
I love it when you say you don’t have words to describe a book and then give us fifteen minutes of passionate and articulate discussion of it! It’s so interesting that you said you read this book at the right time, Charlotte was reading Yiyun Li’s The Vagrants and had to take a break because of its subject, I started Where Reasons End last week and didn’t feel ready for it, clearly her books have that aura of being ready for them. I’m not giving up though, she’s always been an author I thought I’d appreciate and I have her short story collection Gold Boy, Emerald Girl which I intend to read a story from before the end of the month, perhaps a small dose is the way to start.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
I can get the Kindle edition of Gold Boy cheap - shall we buddy read one story and then decide whether to continue?
@josmith5992
@josmith5992 5 лет назад
I'm 17% of the way through the first story but can wait for you to catch up. Let me know. The first story is about 74 pages I think
@mitchelaxler7656
@mitchelaxler7656 5 лет назад
A stunning discussion that reminds me of why I keep reading: The unmatched experience of finding a book that is transformative, not immediately fathomable, that opens new worlds and ways of thinking and being, and reforms one's very approach to reading itself. I need such a reminder every few years. Thank you.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Mitchell, your comments touched me deeply - thank you so much! Please come back and visit my channel anytime! Have you ever considered starting a BookTube channel yourself?
@seriela
@seriela 5 лет назад
WOOHOO! You broke through the Annotation Barrier! This video was such a great way to start the day.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Thanks!
@gemma2275
@gemma2275 5 лет назад
This video was so amazing and I'm so glad I had a chance to be a part of this moment. Not many times during our reading lives do we feel a significant change happening when we know we want to take a different direction with it. Hearing you talk about how this book's lead to that kind of moment for you was joyful. I think every reader can relate to having their reading life turned upside down by certain event/book. I still have not crossed the writing in books river. I wonder if it'll one day become a way I'll engage with books. Getting my hands on Yiyun Li's work will be a priority as soon as I have some money to spent. Thank you for this video, Shawn, and it surely was way more cohesive and informative than you give it credit. Glad to be witnessing a change in your reading life that you feel this excited about;)
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
This comment filled me with joy. 🥰 Would love to hear how you make out with Dear Friend!
@BookishTexan
@BookishTexan 5 лет назад
I literally ordered this book while watching your video. What a wonderful reading experience you had. I think your experience with this book is what we are all hoping for when we pick up a new book or author.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Thank you so much! There’s a comment below, Maria is wondering where to start with William Trevor. Would you mind giving her some suggestions? Thanks. Also, I have ordered Trevor’s Two Lives because Li wrote about it in this book. If you haven’t read that one, how about buddy reading it with me someday?
@BookishTexan
@BookishTexan 5 лет назад
@@shawnbreathesbooks That would be great. I have read one of the novellas in _Two Lives_ already but would be happy to read it again along with the other one. Just let me know when.
@LisaK1075
@LisaK1075 5 лет назад
I’ve had this sitting in my cart online to buy for quite awhile. Time to buy! Great video!
@georgiam4576
@georgiam4576 2 года назад
You were right, this is an emotional review and I loved it. I was aware of the book but will be ordering it as a result of this video.
@anenthusiasticreader
@anenthusiasticreader 5 лет назад
I found this collection to hold a mystery I could sense but not fully grasp. I still think about how she rejected her native language, as you talk about. I thought it was because of the unhappiness she felt in China. I’ll be curious to see if you connect with her fiction. I want to read more, and reread this book sometime, too.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Thank you - I am so looking forward to checking out her fiction!
@francine38
@francine38 5 лет назад
Hey Shawn. This book has been waiting for me to read. I spent the whole month of January in the hospital and this was one of two books I had with me. I never opened it. I will find it and read it. What a moving and profound respect I heard you describe with this book. I hope I have an important experience with it as well. Thank you Shawn. Her name is pronounced ’eeyoon’ .
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Thank you so much - when the time is right, I hope it speaks to you too!
@southernbiscuits1275
@southernbiscuits1275 5 лет назад
Shawn, I really enjoyed how you expressed your feelings about reading this book. I feel there are two kinds of readers. There are readers who internalize the experience of reading a book and then there are those who socialize the experience. It seems from what you said in this video that you internalized what Li said in her book. Li mentioned the author, W.G. Sebald. I've read two of his books, The Rings of Saturn and Austerlitz. What makes me admire Sebald as a writer so much is how he makes connections in his books not only of people and things from different places in the world but he also makes connections between people and things from different time periods. I learned back in the nineties that there are books that contain deep truths about the human condition. These truths are not political truths. The truths have nothing to do with nationality, sex, sexuality or skin color. To read books because of the skin color, sex, sexuality or nationality of the writer or the subject matter is to define people because of these aspects of their lives. In books that relate truths of the human condition, nationality, sex, sexuality and skin color serve no purpose. Why? Because the fact of the matter is, we are all human. Our experiences may be different because of outer conditions but the reality is, as humans, we are all the same and what constitutes a life well lived is the same for each of us. In the books I have read where authors explore the deep truths of the human condition, they strive to teach us from an internal point of reference rather than an external, conditioned one. Unfortunately, a lot of people prefer the social bonding process more than the internal quest for inner understanding.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
I really appreciate the feedback!
@pegthebookprizeaddict579
@pegthebookprizeaddict579 5 лет назад
Your best ever and just what I need as I start a new era in my (Reading) life...thanks for sharing🙋‍♀️👏🏼💕📚
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
🥰🥰🥰
@RaineyDayReads
@RaineyDayReads 5 лет назад
Oh my! There’s another Shawn recommendation for my TBR.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Sweet!
@EricKarlAnderson
@EricKarlAnderson 5 лет назад
Great to see your overflowing passion for this book! And I'm so glad you pushed yourself to try it! I love to see near-instant reader reactions like yours where you're so excited about what you've just read and don't even know how to articulate your feelings yet (though you've summarized and analyzed the book very well), but your intense feeling for the book comes across and that's what's important. I had the same sense of knowing it's a book I'll want to go back to again and again. I think you'll equally appreciate Where Reasons End.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Will always associate the impact of this book with it being a favorite of yours! Can’t wait to read more of her stuff and the writers she writes about!
@alldbooks9165
@alldbooks9165 5 лет назад
Wow! A book that inspired you to annotate. It surely is a special book!
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Indeed, 🥰
@theaelizabet
@theaelizabet 5 лет назад
I’ve just ordered this and can’t wait to get to it. Thanks for such a thought-provoking video, Shawn.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Wow thanks!
@CharlieBrookReads
@CharlieBrookReads 5 лет назад
Wow it sounds like a powerful read !! I rarely see so affected by a book.*adds immediately to my TBR XX
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Let me know how you make out with it!
@whatpageareyouon
@whatpageareyouon 5 лет назад
I really enjoyed Where Reasons End last month, so now I definitely know I’ll love this too : )
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Which is the inverse of how I feel about Reasons! Or is that the converse? 🤪
@myreadinglife8816
@myreadinglife8816 5 лет назад
What a glorious review! I will try to get my hands on this immediately. ❤️
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Yay! 🥰
@thuntz29
@thuntz29 5 лет назад
Wonderful review Shawn! You made me bite the bullet and get it. 😊
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Awesome!
@marianryan2991
@marianryan2991 5 лет назад
What a wonderful gush. I love her work and have read all of her books *except * this one, to be remedied soon! The new book is also extraordinary. Fwiw, on the audio book of Where Reasons End her name is pronounced more like the way you guessed.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Oooh can’t wait to hear what you think of this one!
@SixMinutesForMe
@SixMinutesForMe 5 лет назад
Great review - I’ve just placed a hold on it at the library - not sure why I haven’t read it yet as I remember Eric loving it a while ago too!
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
I’ll be so curious to hear what you think!
@ameliareads589
@ameliareads589 5 лет назад
I'm currently listening to Where Reasons End and it is really moving. But unfortunately it was for a sad reason that made me pick it up. Not always is reading capable to save someone, often people are not even able to do so. So professional help is necessary and very important.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Glad to hear you’re finding Reasons moving, and you’re absolutely right, reading is never a substitute for mental health care and I hope I didn’t imply that. It certainly seems to have augmented Li’s treatment.
@barbradingwall3502
@barbradingwall3502 5 лет назад
Great review! I've had this on my shelf for some time & this review makes me want to get to it right away...but also I feel like maybe I should save it for a time when I "need" to read a book like you're describing. There are definitely times when I am searching for books to act as a type of emotional salve.
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Whenever you get to it, I hope it speaks to you!
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
BTW did you get my reply to your comment about the Narcopolis buddy read?
@barbradingwall3502
@barbradingwall3502 5 лет назад
@@shawnbreathesbooks No, I didn't see anything about a Narcopolis buddy read. I actually read it this month.
@mariajesustovardedios4064
@mariajesustovardedios4064 5 лет назад
Such a compelling review!! You’ve named William Trevor, I’m interested in him. Could you recommend one of his books to start with? Thanks!
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Brian of Bookish has read a lot of William Trevor’s stuff, so I have asked him to comment and give you some suggestions. Happy reading!
@BookishTexan
@BookishTexan 5 лет назад
Hi Maria. Shawn asked if I could suggest a starting place for reading Trevor. I would definitely start with short story collections. Trevor wrote several novels, but I think he is best as a short story writer. So maybe start with _The News From Ireland_ or _After Rain_ . His last collection _Last Stories_ also has some very good stories as well.
@mariajesustovardedios4064
@mariajesustovardedios4064 5 лет назад
Shawn The Book Maniac Thank you again!
@mariajesustovardedios4064
@mariajesustovardedios4064 5 лет назад
Bookish I didn’t know this. So I’ll look for a short story collection. Thanks a lot! I’ll take a look at your channel👍
@LisaK1075
@LisaK1075 5 лет назад
I’ve had this sitting in my cart online to buy for quite awhile. Time to buy! Great video!
@shawnbreathesbooks
@shawnbreathesbooks 5 лет назад
Enjoy!
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