On this episode of Reality Check Rachel Mwine and Dr. Evas Atwine discuss the idea of a couple moving in. Is it a good or bad idea? Find out everything you need to know before making that final decision.
1.commitment# when u commit, u direct material and emotional resources. 2.Security, if banks ask for security how about securing your relationship? Wow what a wealth of knowledge, thank you ladies# God bless you both
This is a truth revealing topic. Thank you, Racheal & Eva. A scenario came to mind to bring the matter home for me: You walk in at Spear Motors and ask to test drive a 300M Mercedes Benz before you make up your mind whether to buy or not. You get excited with its road performance & you crash it. The company legally compels you to pay close to 100M in repairs. You walk away with an experience of how a Mercedes feels, but without owning it! Yet with some wounds to show!
I'm indeed blessed for having gotten this information. Sometimes only love aint just enough, she said "Love needs security inorder for it to be fulfilling" and it's really 100% true. I learnt it today, processed it and I totally agree.
Such an eye opening session especially for those who were contemplating this sort of arrangement/approach. A Very informative show ladies. . Always a blessing to us❤❤❤
Liked this episode a lot because it put into perspective this, "come we stay" phenomenon. I once had a friend that I was trying explain the danger of "come we stay" to but she wouldn't listen to me. She went ahead and stayed. It has been a rollercoaster for her. I now see that I didn't have the right words to explain what could go wrong. Thanks Evas for helping us explain things that we struggle to explain.
Thank you for this Episode Words make impossible possible for sure, it's just how to communicate and a deeper understanding of reality. I would also love for you to discuss the realities of faith (religion) esp in the recent years, I feel pastors are breaking marriages (women tend to follow their pastors and now do the wrong things when it comes to managing their home affairs)
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It's interesting how the law recognizes common law relationships in North America. When a man and woman live together, they are considered common law, and after a year, if they want to separate, they divide whatever they acquire living together 50/50. Some even buy a house and have to sell. It's treated like a marriage.
Sadly it is different here, which is why seeking security and commitment first before you live together might be the protection you need in case of future challenges.
Depends because again some countries like Canada common law doesn’t affect such things but if maybe there is a chance of a baby of course the parents will have to discuss over child support so I believe marriage should be respected and valued at all costs.
This is really an intresting talk Can you talk about the choices parents make to their children interms of getting them spouses without their consents or permission.
I love this show, I watch it religiously. You are doing the lord's work. Something doesn't sit right with using particular examples, maybe if you could state like a scenario, other than saying there is lady that came to me etc, If I have been to you and I watch the show I will know you're referring to me and I think trust is then broken. My Unsolicited two cents.
