REASONS WHY GUYS SHOULD NEVER GROW THEIR HAIR | Men's Long Hair | Jorge Fernando 

Sorry about the audio in this one guys. My mic SUCKS!

I've been growing out my hair since 1.5 years and it boosts my confidence when I'm out in public. Love it.

The "You need a need a haircut bro." phase is real. 😂

Growing out your hair will also make you realize that people judge you and treat you differently based on your appearance. This is especially true for people who socially interact with many people everyday. Even people you thought were close friends might change. I think it's more beneficial to go in knowing this but if you don't you will probably learn from first hand experience It just depends on how you look with short hair and how you look with long hair.

As someone who grew out my hair because of COVID, I'm going to say that everyone one of the "negative points" you made is actually a positive. It all comes down to the first point you made, "are you patient enough?" COVID lockdown was a perfect opportunity for me as I didn't see anyone outside of anyone outside of close family and friends. I think that some of the points you made are actually opposite, like styling. When my hair was shorter, I could never get it to do the same thing every day because it had a mind of its own. Now that it's longer, I can just put it up until it's dry and go from there. I personally enjoy the hair care side of it, and would do that with shorter hair anyway. I kinda feel like this was clickbait, but you did bring up some good points for someone who has never grown their hair out, but the end result is so much more worth all the doubts and negativity. And if you grow your hair out long, just cut it off, it's as simple as that. I feel like everyone should try it, without question or doubt.

I've been growing mine since the pandemic started, about a year and half ago, and I think the main struggle of letting it grow is that when u have a short hair u just care about it when ur going out or when u have to wash it. With a longer hair, taking care of it becomes a routine, and If u're not patient to have that routine ur hair will become ugly and unhealthy. Loved the vid bro Um abraço!

Jorge be the type of dude who grows his hair to explain why men should never grow their hair ;)

I’m 65 , still have 95% of my hair and my natural color. Ive always wanted long hair, but never grew it out. My wife said go for it! I’m 1 year into it , and still going strong. Not many comments overall , and even if there were, I’m at the age that I don’t care! I don’t have to impress anyone. My hair is on my shoulders now, and plan to keep it going. Go strong, go long!

jorge: “why guys should never grow thier hair” me who got inspired and started growing my hair: “we’ve been tricked, we’ve been backstabbed and we’ve been quite possibly, bamboozled”

I'm 70 and have been growing my hair for 2 years. I've had it long 3 or 4 times in my life. I'm lucky to still have a full head of hair. All the criticisms, insults, etc. I dealt with decades ago when long hair on men was just coming into fashion. (hippie days) So it doesn't bother me now. But the time it takes to care for the hair, does! I never blow dry my hair so I must anticipate my shower so I don't go to bed with wet hair or go out in the morning with it wet if I shower when I get up. But through it all, I still like it. When will I cut it again? Who knows?

‘It never look good’ I feel that. It’s so damn difficult to dry and style a long hair that even after shower I still look like I just woke up from bed.

I think Jesus appeared in his dreams and asked for copyrights 😀🤣

Always the stereotypes: -are u a girl?🤡 -cut your hair,it is too long 🙉 Those are the worst ones

Bro... Forget the hair and beard talk. Your eyebrows are spot-on!

1st of July I've completed my first year of growing out my hair. Basically, the longer it gets the easier it becomes to handle. My awkward stage was.. fine I guess? My parents actually encouraged me. I'm pretty happy with it.

I had my hair long for the half of my life, so I decided for a change because of how hot it is when I work and cut my hair short. And honestly, it sucks, the barbers today know like one hairstyle, and after several bad haircuts I decided to never go to a barber again. No matter what you say they'll still do you the stupid fade haircut, it's dumb, it fking sucks. I told my wife to slap me if the madness gets to me again to cut my hair.

I started letting my hair grow out after getting my 4th bad haircut in a row. A year later I went in for a "trim" and that was bad haircut number 5. I have no confidence in hairdressers anymore.

I haven't had my hair cut in about 4 years and I totally relate to what you are saying, but on the days when my hair is doing what I want, I love it.

Your most genuine guy on internet 🔥

I've been growing mine for 2 and a half years now and it's down to the middle of my back, huge confidence booster.

Screw it. Guys can do whatever they want. Guys need to stop caring what other people think.

6:35 is fascinating to me. Of all the negatives we hear about having long hair from men, the majority of women go through this every day all the time. That's actually comforting.

Bro, the gust of wind you spoke about is too real. I decided to grow my hair this past year too and a gust from the front can make you look like you're in a movie, but a gust from the back can make you look like the girl from The Ring

I started growing my hair last April. I was able to tie my hair in a ponytail and knot just 2 months ago. Patience is a virtue.

Try growing your hair out with a curly hair type. After 2 years growing you'll happy for nothing, because your hair grows into curls. Means you'll be in the awkward stage for another 2 years.

As a woman, I pay more attention to men who have longer hair. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm growing my hair, and when I got into the messy stage I got laughed at, a lot, there was even this guy that always laughs at my hair and yells at me everyday to get a haircut and he is the reason I will not do it. But it does makes me feel bad and I lately figured out through friends that a lot of the people I study with are laughing at my hair behind my back and as someone who experienced bullying in the past and developed as a result social anxiety this is super painful, idk why I'm writing it, I guess I just wanted to get it off my heart and take off my smile mask for a second and be mad, or maybe this is the closest I can do to shame them like they did to me, anyway if you want to grow your hair you need to take into account that there are some fucked up people in the world that can't accept what they don't like and you need to accept that eventually karma will happen and thier personality will make them miserable

No! You can’t tell me to not grow out my hair! 🤣

I used to be a longhaired man. Now, I am a balding, necessarily short-haired man in my late-20s. I've always liked long hair on men. It just looked awesome to me. Unfortunately, my dad (and his dad before him) went bald in their 20s. I knew that I probably wouldn't have much time left if I wanted to count myself amongst the longhairs at least once in my life when I was around 17 years old. So I decided that it was now or never and began to grow it out. Around the age of 21, I had achieved long, reasonably dense hair. A straight, hazel brown waterfall with natural dark-blonde highlights. And I was happy as can be about it. But my pride didn't end there. I even pitied those men who didn't grow out their full heads of hair, for they were limiting themselves to the hairstyles of ancient slaves, medieval serfs and modern soldiers. Heelers, in short. I, on the other hand, wore the majestic hairstyle of medieval kings, of free Scots, of ancient wise philosophers, of Samson the Nazirite, Tarzan of the Apes and Conan the Cimmerian! The shorthairs, on the other hand, were letting conservative, boring society, peer pressure and picky women decide how to wear their hair whilst my idols and I did not. I was a fool. Because from then on out, it all slowly went downhill for me. At 22, I noticed the first signs. The hair at my temples didn't grow as long or as dense as it used to do just one year prior. And my hairline slowly began to show baby hairs where there were none before. At first, I ignored those signs as unimportant hairline maturation. But by age 23, I noticed a slight decrease in hair density almost all across my hairline. I. was. devastated. F*cking genetics! It had taken me half a decade to grow my beloved 20+ inches mane and just when I finally had it all in place, my genes decided that it was time for me to lose it. Fudge! I didn't want to go down without a fight though. So I bought me some minoxidil and went at it. Until around age 25, this helped stabilize my situation. But it still wasn't what it used to be in my early 20s. Now I had to use clip-in extensions on my temples and brown hair powder on my crown and on my hairline just to successfully mask the loss which had occurred so far. But even that wasn't meant to last. The decline marched on. By age 26/27, my carefully cared-for hair was frisky and of uneven length. It always looked slightly unkempt despite my best efforts to make it look presentable. I began losing overall length and had to use more and more tricks to mask my situation. I grew more and more unhappy with each passing year. Finally, at age 28, my family staged an intervention. 'It is time', they said. And I couldn't deny it any longer - because they were absolutely right. I had long since stopped to enjoy my long hair. Quite the opposite: it only caused me pain to look at my dwindling strings by then. Year by year, I looked more and more like an aging hippie despite only being in my mid- to late-20s. Truth be told, despite the hope that hereditary hair loss would pass me over, I'd planned on cutting it all off if hairloss ever got to me when I had started my hair journey at age 17. I didn't want to look like a self-denying middle-aged loser who can't accept the fact that he's heading for Dome City. But as the years went by, my resolve began to falter. You see, for me, being long-haired was part of my personality, my very being. It had felt so good, so right to have long hair when I was in my early 20s. Getting rid of it at age 28 felt like giving up on my best me; like giving up on my youth. Right now, at age 29, I still wished that I had a full head of long hair instead of a boring Norwood 3 short haircut of necessity . But I also realize now that I should have gotten rid of my thinning locks by the time I turned 24, or 25 at the very latest. I spend so much time in an unhappy state instead of leaving that done part of my life behind and looking forward. We are living in an age where male pattern baldness isn't curable. It will take decades to overcome this disease. All I can hope for is that future generations of longhaired men will be spared this hurtful fate. To any longhaired men reading this, I can only give the advice of fully enjoying your long mane while it lasts - but also to be ready to let it go when the time comes.

I can't really think of any cons to having long hair. What most people consider cons, I consider pros. The wind feels awesome, and the dentangling process is a pretty relaxing process. In my experience, I think finding the right conditioner for my hair was the key for easy maintenance. I headbang on a regular basis, so I'm no stranger to tangles, haha. Seldomly do I get nasty knots, though.

Dam bro your beard looking HEALTHY 😍

Just do what you love, don’t worry about peoples opinion

I’ve been growing my hair out for about four years now. Best decision I’ve ever made

My bad hair days got way better with long hair hair then short. There’s way more you can do.

A microfiber towel really helps dry your hair faster. I use it all the time and it really works 😁❤️

I've got hair all the way down my back. I'm very much a man, since birth. I love my long hair (It's all the way down my back), but I am tired of the constant comments people give me. "No, I'm not going to cut it. No, I don't look like a girl. Yes, I'm just going to let it grow." But it's not all bad. A lot of people, especially girls and women for some reason, really like how it looks. I often get compliments (from guys too, but less often) of people genuinely liking how my hair looks. And someone asked "how is your hair so straight" and I didn't know what to say because I don't have any products or anything, I just brush my hair daily and wash it once a week (drying hair takes too long and is a CHORE -- this doesn't mean I only shower once a week. I shower 4 times a week). I just think it is so odd how much interactions change after slightly altering appearance. I get people having curiosity, and that's fine, but it gets old being asked the same thing over and over

I have already started growing. Wish me luck, bcoz my head looks like a bird's nest.

Answering your questions at the end, I absolutely adore long hair on men and even tried growing it out myself, but a shaven look (or extremely short hair) just suits me and my face sooo much better. It looks more stylish, neat and eye-grabbing. That's my opinion but also almost everybody says the same. I have straight blonde hair btw. So I'm in this weird spot where I want to have long hair but I don't like how they look on me, especially compared to short/shaven. Was actually planning on buying a wig :)))) and wearing it, when I really feel the urge to gwoe my hair out I also somehow I think that long hair looks better on men if it's wavy/curly/so on.

my man is back so happy for 57k bro love you❤

Been growing out my hair for 2.5 years. But because I have wavy to curly hair, it grows out instead of down. I was finally able to just wear it down a week ago and I can say it was worth the wait.

As guy at 38 I get constantly disrespected for having long hair. Told to act my age, you're a grown man, and other similar remarks. So down side is if you're near my age and decide to have long hair be ready to get hit with people saying you are a hippie and you are a grown man act like one.

People think it’s a “MANDATORY” thing to cut your hair. It’s not like they’re wearing it. Lol

No 1. You need thick and full hair (on the top). If you‘re balding keep it short.

Weman watching that video be like: "👁👄👁 haha yeah I'm just gonna shave it"

These are more like reasons why most guys give up on growing their hair. Not that all guys shouldnt try it. Personally got tired of having the same boring look every day having to get a cut like every other week. My hair is much curlier so it takes longer to get a lenghty look but i get a compliment at least once a day at work, something which ive never had with short hair. I believe im past the really awkward stage at this point. Getting small trims every other month at mainly the sides and back towrds the bottom ends helps keep it from looking too terrible. Within 10 months ive gone from a super short cut to being able to bun up at least the top half of my hair. Everyones hair type grows differently and at different rates. It Takes time and patience as youve said. But basically Youll never really know if long hair is for you if you dont ever grow it out at least once

One year and two month of growing hair, a bit longer than you. Patience is paying off. Just don't cut your hair if you plan on growing your hair. And just don't think about your hair.

I live in Russia and am growing my hair. I thought that only in countries like Russia, people think that long hair in men is unusual.

My advice as a male with hair that reaches to his midback, don't grow it out if you aren't going to be dedicated to it. If you have curly hair (like me), prepare to invest more time. Research about haircare is very important. Curly hair needs tons of research, especially. Also, eat healthy (excess of fresh fruits and vegetables, few sugars). Consider hair growth pills (I use curlsmith).

I'm 40 now, but I've been having long hair since I was 15 year old! The only hard thing it's to learn how to maintained it, specially if you have wavy curly hair lije my case! And about what people thing it's not important because every person is it's on world!

For example, a man should protect a woman. Hair absorbs emotions. So if he is more sensitive than her, it is so much stress, most women non verbally (we perceive 90% non verbal) see a guy with longer hair over shoulder and instantly avoid him. Whereas middle long hair or style longer curly hair on top is great. Caring, but masculine enough. A man should never have more femininity than the woman herself. How could we be the female one in his arms, if he is perceived as half woman?

It takes a lot of dedication and commitment in growing your hair.I have been growing mine for more than a year already and i must say there are the goods and the bads but nonetheless if this is your goal, then go for it.

Happy for not having too much long hair, neither too much short, medium lenght hair is perfect for me

im 13 and ive been growing my hair for 2 years or 1 and a half, its not as long as i want it yet but when i try and invision short hair i hate it , i couldent live without long hair XD my hair stays the same almost everyday, and im a guy but i do take really good care of my hair

i grew out my hair way down past my shoulders back in 2020 then got drunk on halloween night that year and me and my friends shaved my head fully clean and have been depressed about it ever since, giving it another go in 2022 wish me luck

Really like the longer hair look on many guys especially long coarse straight hair. Have a friend that has beard w/o the longer hair on my friend he just looks awkward with shorter hair and full beard. Longer hair on a guy is his OWN unique hairstyle. Your in this video is looking GOOD

Nah my hair just went boom 💥💥💥💥 I used a beanie for so long and my family DOES NOT LIKE LONG HAIR they always tell me to tie it up and having it tied up makes me deal with pretty bad dandruff

Almost 60k subs And you were celebrating 10k last month 😂

The worst thing having long hair is after showering, hate it everyday 😅

Please continue growing your hair out and don't listen to silly youtubers

I actually like the long hair because you can notice it less, the man bun is the cleanest hair style you can have, nothing in your face. My friend has medium hair and he can't do anything to keep it under control, even hair bands can't keep the peaks under control and he hates it flopping around when he runs.

I actually love my long hair. It gives me so much confusion and makes me feel beautiful.

I looked dog turd bad with short hair. Now not much had changed. I look bad with long hair too haha.

22 month no hair cut covid got me here. I just stopped cutting it. The awkward period became a ball cap period. I'm at shoulder length now going for mid back before I take a cut. Want the end of my pony tail to look like a high quality paint brush. I do notice that people stare a lot. Occasionally I get one or two unhappy souls who ask why I don't cut my hair. If you stare at stupid people silently long enough they simply walk away

You had me at subscribe and immediately I did. If you really want long hair do it. Cream rinse is the key. Leave tsp in and brush on way to work. I started this covid ish 2019 Try it guys. The ladies love the feel between their thighs 😊

One thing forsure is it makes you really not give a f what others think about you. “Get a haircut” heard it to many times I may look rough asf right now all in good time babyyyy gonna rock the Geralt of Rivia. Fades are way to basic now

Some leave in conditioner, use cold water at end of shower(for hair). Also get layered hair trim if your a guy. I have b2 type hair but I make it work.

i’m about to start bro fingers crossed

Right on top of this video, I saw another one about why men should grow their hair.

I don't know why I'm still watching mens videos ^^"

Jorge your videos are really useful and you are really a great person 🤙🤙 Always support you 😊

This was posted on the day that I cut my hair short and I hate it

The hair is amazing dude

Can you believe at this moment there’s actually two people who disliked this vid. Show me who these people are bruh

The point of being an introvert with long hair is spot on. Damn, I hate people coming at me or start making conversation and end up judging the way I look. Like excuse me hello, could you just mind your damn business? I'm growing my hair not to please you. 😂 The other reason why I grow my hair is so I can make an excuse like, "oh nice to meet you too but please excuse me, I'm in a hurry, my hairdresser is waiting. See ya, bye". Socializing less, me time more. ✊

Felt good seeing you 🤗

i had long hair and cut it and i think im gonna grow it again

I want you to have that Zayn Malik signature haircut again

Been growing my hair for about 10 months now :D

I was 6 months in and Quarantine was helping me a lot, but idk why my school principal hates long hairs so much (he's half bald and can't even grow a decent beard 💀) He literally called me out on it 6-7 times and now I've gotta cut my hairs, oh man I feel so bad.

It’s really helpful during the winter.

My neighbours(not all ) thought that I'm gay because I have long hair

I know what you mean with looking homeless I have medium length hair and a medium to long beard and it takes alot of work to not look homeless, a tip keep your beard looking sharp

I find that I save a lot of money with long hair because I seldom go to the barbershop.

I grew my hair for a year and a half but I had to cut my hair because of the hair loss. Is that something that everyone experienced when growing their hair ?

Been growing since my daughter was born she will be six soon…hair to my shoulders

Just found your channel. Great content! You should make a video on how to trim long hair if you ever get a cut. Ps you sound like one of the Beatles, awesome! 😁

Ive been growing it out for about a year now just found this video 🤣 i work construction its definitely tough this summer to want to keep it going

Not every guy can sport long hair. I myself have always found that guys with long hair look very SEXY SEXY !!! I love a man with long hair. There is just something about a man with long hair that I love. Plus I think you look very handsome with your long hair. Kudos to you babe for sporting your long locks.

Just on the last point, you still need to visit the barbers (or hairdressers) at least once every couple of months to tidy up the ends of your hair, especially if you're using heat to style your hair. I say this as a guy with hair down to his midback. You will ruin your hair if you skip on a tidy up

just got done rocking a mullet 10in. in the back and 2in. of business. Going to get longer hair back again and next time keep it all same length.

Jorge I never blow dry my hair that heat will damage your hair just softly towel dry it and let the wind dry your hair that saves time and makes your hair healthier

There should be a Jorge filter.

been growing my hair since March 2019. Its kinda long now and i only visited the barber once to trim/ groom the edges.0

much love g my hair is slowly gonna be like yours…..one day 🥺😩

I found out that long hair = Gym and exercise is not so fun. That's the downside for me.

Bro has the most perfect hairline I’ve ever seen

I growing my hair around 8 to 9 months now I'm best phase in my life..🥰

I as a boy I decided to grow my hair and now becoming a man I am so glad I did, hy hair is past my chest and within a few years it’ll be down to my back and it just feels right I hate how I looked with short hair

I actually got motivated by alex Costa too grow out my hair and its actually hurts to w8 im growing since January but i got a long journey to see my hair long .

Womp womp im still growing it out, but this is still a nice video! 👍