Rebuilding Trust in Your Marriage After Infidelity (Part 1) - Mark & Jill Savage 

Same here! 😢

I always had an ounce of trust. It just fwwls impossible

Exactly with my situation right now. I trusted my husband with everything. Found out he was having an emotional affair. Been struggling also mentally, spiritually and emotionally.

I am in the same boat with my wife. I don't know how to do this.

Same. Caught him talking to one woman. Took him back. Then I found out there were others he talked to. Don't know if there was anything physical because he refuses to be honest and transparent. Love him so much and trusted him blindy and it hurts that he could betray me with such ease.

amen

Well technically... (whether it's the husband or wife) that is cheated on, the offended party has biblical permission for divorce in this scenerio (and only in this scenario); but I'm not saying that the offended party SHOULD take this route, but that it's allowed in this one case. But whether it was the man or woman in the marriage, Christians should be consistent with this either way; adultery is equally sinful whether it's a husband or wife that commits it.

I've seen it work the other way. Its wrong on a number of levels and should be called out equally. Its a form of theft and no-one will convince me otherwise.

@@Remy4489 i would add that I think even under conditions of adultery the offended party had better think long and hard about divorce if they have children....especially small ones.

@@Remy4489 Me personally I have been married 30yrs & have been through deep hurt from my husband that destroyed me as a woman I sought counseling he came to most of them but things didn't change I tried many times more than I can count & I told him there will come a day I don't cry anymore I always prayed for him to change in a area that caused major emotional damage that led to us finally separating & we've been separated for a few years he's never tried to get me back even though I've not heard of a ‘other woman ‘ I wrapped my life & love up in my grandchildren to find love & they love me so much but my life to move on & divorce him has never happened I don't know why I can't make that step.. I don't know why it's not because being in love with him.., I just don't have a answer..,💔

Thank the Lord my 2 sons are married with babys🙏

You just d described my life

So right

But your forgetting one very important aspect Jesus Christ can do anything ❤

Thanks for your question, Evarist. We agree that it's important to have both men's and women's perspectives represented when discussing difficult topics such as infidelity. That being said, we would encourage you to check out our broadcast with Bob and Audrey Meisner - bit.ly/3Npt149. In this conversation, Bob and Audrey describe how God's grace led them along the hard road to reconciliation and restored their marriage after Audrey's infidelity. We hope this helps. May God bless you!

​@focusonthefamil When men are the victims, Focus on the Family blames the husband for the wives infidelity.. and Focus on the Family makes the cheating wife a hero

Also check out: Josh & Katie Walters, David & Terri Sumlin, Rusty & Heather Bryant, Rick & Tiffany Bulman, Harrison Scott Key and Lauren.

Getting it out there in the open is important in the healing process. And, once you recover from it and can help others it shrinks the issue somewhat and makes it easier to let it go. You won’t heal from something unless you acknowledge it and work through the pain of it. I’ve been there so I understand them taking about it and trying to help others.

@@deejay7759 yes! I hear you! Although acknowledging and getting it out there are two different things; We all hv our way of seeking healing and coping mechanisms. I hope this couple and many others in their situation are able to forgive and restore trust again.

Telling the story can be empowering if you have grieved and grown, what you described an anecdotal case.

Hard to be godly when you discover this. I’ve been there too.

I feel the pain tooooo

Me too.

Very natural reaction to feel this way. I’m sorry he hurt you 😢

That's what am going through. Still not sure of what I should do 😢

we gotta give the sheep the room they are desiring distance from the shepard.

It is still a spirit and condition of unfaithfulness. Marriage needs rules and boundaries that protect what we value. Be consistent with the rules and boundaries! ♥️🙏🏻

I remember that too. I don’t think they did. I believe they went their separate ways.

I don't remember that??

Yup, I wondered what had happened.

Why are you creating such negative posts?

It was Mike Trout. I hope they reconciled.

very hard amen

I STILL WITH MY EX. MARK. NOT A JOKE. HUS NAME IS,,,, MARK. BUT HE IS NOT CHANGING. I AM STILL HERE 43 OVER YEARS. I AM WIFE NUMBER( TWO AND . EX WIFE FOUR). ONE IS GONE AND THREE IS LIVING ACROSS THE STREET FROM US. I HAVE SERVED MARK'S FAMILY OVER FOURTY THREE YEARS. .43.... THERE US WAY MORE TO THIS. BYE

@@luciyoung777 my prayers are with you🙏♥️

Lol love language is ridiculous....

I think they try to clean it up for the broadcast.

Does sound like it

It takes time t heal

It takes a lifetime to get over betrayal.

When she talks about it she is reliving it in the moment. It is hard, but you know they are in a better place

If you don’t believe people can change then you don’t believe the Gospel message.

@@brandonmorrison3041 you must’ve cheated lol

May I ask... ¿?WHY¿? You have this thought? Like, Seriously you think it's oooo so different for women?? Why are women always the one thats"Supposed to be STRONGER,N HANDLE IT" IT GOES BOTH WAYS PERIOD!! NO DIFFERENT FOR WOMEN THEN IT IS A MALE!! INFIDELITY IS INFIDELITY ITS NOT MAN VS WOMAN OR VICE VERSE!! Either way Cheating on your spouse is JUST AS HURTFUL being a male or female it has no gender! Betrayal is Betrayal , Lieing is Lieing, Cheating is Cheating! There is no different definition based upon your Gender... There is also no different instructions for healing based upon gender!