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Tara Conner, Miss USA 2006, shares her life-long struggle with addiction and what she has learned from 10 years of sobriety. Addicts are not bad people that need to get good, but sick people that need to get well. In this challenging and at times humorous talk, she calls for a different response to the addiction crisis.
Tara Conner is a Television Personality and Recovery Advocate. Through her work, she shares her experience, strength and hope with audiences throughout the United States.
Conner was crowned Miss USA in 2006. During December of that year, she entered the Caron Treatment Center and completed 30 days of treatment for alcohol and drug addiction. She has since celebrated 10 years of sobriety.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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Комментарии : 262   
@workinprogress77
@workinprogress77 4 года назад
Now THAT is Miss USA. You have a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing it.
@joea.6017
@joea.6017 5 лет назад
I personally went to school with Tara. I am glad to see that she overcame these addictions and is able to talk about it. Maybe her speech will help the next 14 year old little girl who is struggling with life. Make KY proud sis.
@healthylivingwithpaul4765
@healthylivingwithpaul4765 5 лет назад
This is something that I can relate to on so many different levels. Congratulations Tara on your sobriety, I am now 22 years sober
@SourLimez
@SourLimez 6 лет назад
11 months Friday
@lilipodg2636
@lilipodg2636 5 лет назад
Hi will, how is it going for you?
@NannaandEmi
@NannaandEmi 5 лет назад
2months :)
@TanyaJo
@TanyaJo 7 лет назад
The best talk I have heard ! Speak your truth even if it is uncomfortable. Congratulations Tara on 11 years
@davidaston5773
@davidaston5773 6 лет назад
She IS absolutely brillant at story telling isn't she Tanya Sales.
@9milasmine
@9milasmine 6 лет назад
Wow..Thank you MISS USA...Not a mess.
@jamiepeterson7876
@jamiepeterson7876 7 лет назад
thank you!!! great talk! i have 32 days clean after 11 years in addiction and i want to be an advocate for girls going through this disease when i am able!
@kayraozbakir9517
@kayraozbakir9517 4 года назад
So good you can be proud of you! Keep going on and value yourself❤️
@mayrahernandez8607
@mayrahernandez8607 4 года назад
I’m soo proud of u best decision in your life promise u that
@CariABray
@CariABray 4 года назад
Jamie Peterson, I know your comment was from 2 yrs ago but I hope & pray that you're still going strong!! 🙏💙💪💙
@gerardjones7881
@gerardjones7881 4 года назад
@@kayraozbakir9517 Being proud is a recipe for relapse.
@kayraozbakir9517
@kayraozbakir9517 4 года назад
Gerard Jones why?
@angiehaas4058
@angiehaas4058 4 года назад
Thank you for this! I will have 2 years clean tomorrow. You are more than Miss USA to me, you are a WARRIOR!!!
@victoriamare4762
@victoriamare4762 5 лет назад
She's so amazing I love that she can laugh about something so painful with such grace and sincerity.
@adrianozampolini5686
@adrianozampolini5686 6 лет назад
Very brilliant and humorous young woman!!
@mvaralakshmidevimvaralaksh5133
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@kymstultz9631
@kymstultz9631 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing. I'm a person in long term recovery. 11/15/11 is my clean date. I'm blessed to be able to share with addicts on a daily basis because God found me worthy to work in a drug rehab as a peer support. I love that you called out the old-timers to share their recovery. Together we do recover.
@dbloodline
@dbloodline 6 лет назад
Extremely inspiring... i hope she never relapses. blessings!
@dmitritrs4867
@dmitritrs4867 6 лет назад
Such a beautiful soul . I'm not american and never heard of her but she blew me away . Thank you
@amexa1101
@amexa1101 Год назад
God bless her for recovering and helping others to follow her example
@katrinamareen
@katrinamareen 3 года назад
People will look down at people with addictions... Being told to be a good mom, just stop drinking, just cut back, you just like to drink, you dont have a problem... Its heart breaking, especially when people will ignore cries for help and say its attention seeking... well yeh it is... they was attention in that they want to be heard, helped... its a cry for help.
@allspirited22
@allspirited22 3 года назад
I am viewing this 4 years after you made this tape. Thank you so much for holding a candle up to this darkness. Bless you.
@cfdmedicambo68relf7
@cfdmedicambo68relf7 5 лет назад
Congratulations My Recovered Friend And My Recovered Sista I Made 5Years Sober From Alcohol On July 21st Of 2019
@visualmoon2771
@visualmoon2771 4 года назад
Never recovered.. always in recovery
@ggrr840
@ggrr840 5 лет назад
True development! Love her presentation. Great speaker! This is what the real Miss USA 2006 is in her full potential still making her mark of being relevant in 2019. I will be honest that i wished Tamiko won. You Tara prove mer wrong with this speach!
@stacyejones4122
@stacyejones4122 6 лет назад
That was phenomenal! She is very strong for sharing her story and thoughts.
@brentbonham9427
@brentbonham9427 4 года назад
Wonderful ted talk. I've been sober since july 27th of 2012 and I too am very vocal about my recovery.
@jenromano19
@jenromano19 2 года назад
That was incredible. She has a gift for speaking and making people feel something. I am a woman in long-term recovery as well, and I loved everything she had to say.
@weltschmerz4606
@weltschmerz4606 5 лет назад
What I loved the most was her honesty 💙
@billwong6077
@billwong6077 7 лет назад
Very personal story. You were very poised! Keep fighting on!
@markg.4246
@markg.4246 5 лет назад
Recovery is NOT about “fighting”.
@brushstroke3733
@brushstroke3733 3 года назад
Shame is a huge component of addiction. We addicts use partly to escape the shame we feel from using. Shaming addicts for their behavior to help them is like throwing gasoline on a fire to put it out.
@cairnelisabeth1497
@cairnelisabeth1497 5 лет назад
Thank you for your work, Tara! You didn't have to make this your life's mission, but you did. Bless your kindness and generosity! I am with you. I have the same disease
@simplydriven4196
@simplydriven4196 4 года назад
Best executed speech I have ever heard and fantastic points.
@felaniecastro8722
@felaniecastro8722 7 лет назад
Wonderful call to arms and encouragement to bring this message to government. Much needed. Bravo
@jamesmactaggart9
@jamesmactaggart9 6 лет назад
She is lovely. Ive been there. Much respect!
@jamiepeterson7876
@jamiepeterson7876 7 лет назад
congrats on ten years!!!
@spoyledbratt
@spoyledbratt 6 лет назад
She is so well-spoken! Great talk.
@britishteacup22
@britishteacup22 2 года назад
What an inspiration Tara is! I love how she can express her pain with such grace and dignity! And to throw in humor the way she does, brilliant! Well done Tara and all the recoverers out there
@susansimpson72
@susansimpson72 5 лет назад
11/25/18 - ten years clean
@markg.4246
@markg.4246 5 лет назад
See you on the road to happy destiny. : )
@user-qn4sj3cu3u
@user-qn4sj3cu3u 6 лет назад
What an incredible, humble presentation. This woman is so brave and resilient.
@gretchennewsom7599
@gretchennewsom7599 5 лет назад
Wow! Love the honesty. Recover on. What an inspiration you are. It's about time for our voices to be heard! I agree completely. God bless you
@WhiskeyTango68
@WhiskeyTango68 Год назад
10 years of sobriety is very very rare for a Miss USA. Congrats. 🇺🇸
@kellyclark2806
@kellyclark2806 5 лет назад
Love when people share their story to help others. I was bulimic for 10 years and see SO MANY parallels between your story and mine. Recovering out loud makes you feel FREE. Thank you Tara! xo
@dianecaney
@dianecaney 6 лет назад
Well said, Tara. Thank you for your bravery, intelligence and dedication xx
@jamesoconnor9452
@jamesoconnor9452 2 года назад
She’s strong, smart, funny, and then beautiful.
@lisaj5769
@lisaj5769 6 лет назад
vey witty and inspiring speech!!! thank you!
@rubbersidedown7041
@rubbersidedown7041 4 года назад
Thank you for this talk Tara. Great point about helping those in prison with addictions get the recovery they need.
@bobbysuncin4368
@bobbysuncin4368 3 года назад
Chaos around me was how it was in my mind. Bless you for bringing light to the stigma.
@DeborahSRocha-fo6ti
@DeborahSRocha-fo6ti 2 года назад
Wow! Thank you Tara!! That line… “the chaos in the room was like the chaos in my mind,” describes the struggles those dealing with mental health disorders face daily!
@misssc3062
@misssc3062 4 года назад
Amazing, absolutely amazing, this girl is saying exactly what we needed to hear and know. Let's take the stigma away from the people who are already suffering and having a hard time coping. Life can be hard, but with human acceptance and connection, the sky is the limit. God bless xx
@pleiades.puppets
@pleiades.puppets Год назад
Congrats Tara! And, I love the concept that the morality isn't in the addiction, but how we respond to the crisis of same.
@iseewhatyoudidthere1245
@iseewhatyoudidthere1245 2 года назад
Thank you for this presentation. What you shared will help many people be inspired to get well. That being said...addicts should be careful how " loud" we are about our recovery. Did you know that if you are a victim of medical malpractice you will not be able to be a witness? The very fact that a person is in a treatment program, Proves that person is an addict and therefore not a " credible witness". So dont be Too loud because in a legal sense, declaring oneself to be an addict means that anyone can do anything to you and they will never be punished. Trust me on this. When people learn that someone is an addict, they don't care about our recovery. All they hear is that you Had to recover. BUT if you have lots of money, support, etc...you probably CAN be as loud as you want.
@tinaquinn3464
@tinaquinn3464 5 лет назад
Absolutely beautiful.Congratulations on your 10yrs.
@jamesgaffney5699
@jamesgaffney5699 5 лет назад
very genuine. I applaud your honesty.
@dennisbennett3219
@dennisbennett3219 7 лет назад
thanks for sharing keep coming back it works if you work it
@mrelixirgalactic
@mrelixirgalactic 26 дней назад
Thank you so much for this Tara. I need it.
@EveningTV
@EveningTV 5 лет назад
The problem is even worse than this because even treatment fails 90% of the time. I believe the reason is that it ignores trauma, and rather than utilizing effective low cost treatments, some such as EMDR is that have been around for at least a decade. 12 step programs have a place, and should be available and encouraged for those who want it, but it is not working as the foundation of most treatment programs because it ignores trauma. I was glad that Tara Conner included her trauma in the story of her addiction,but it ends without telling us what broke the cycle.
@MaryLopez-kb7xp
@MaryLopez-kb7xp 5 лет назад
Totally agree. Trauma is the real reason behind alcoholism and there are many ways to heal trauma that do not involve a treatment center. I think we mostly need more of an awareness.
@gpymama
@gpymama 6 лет назад
Absolutely best one yet. This woman is so engaging.
@rickcook2798
@rickcook2798 2 года назад
Thank you Tara, for opening up and sharing your story. You are a blessing and an inspiration. God Bless you!!
@lukemitchell1975
@lukemitchell1975 3 года назад
i hear you load and clear. im 8 years soba. thanks for your words
@mariakeegan9711
@mariakeegan9711 Год назад
That was so articulated. 10 years amazing keep going. Absolutely people need to speak out about addiction. As it there is still a huge stigma.
@Harsh-pd6td
@Harsh-pd6td 4 года назад
She's amazing brilliant young lady.
@JesusGodHolySpirit3
@JesusGodHolySpirit3 Год назад
She is so intelligent. Thank you Tara Conner. What a wonderful strong amazing person.
@cathyecooper4376
@cathyecooper4376 4 года назад
Good 4u ~ you go girl... now that is the face of "real" courage 🙌🏽🙌🏽💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@rachelstreeter4264
@rachelstreeter4264 2 года назад
I’d LOVE to talk to her one on one. How deeply this resonates with me is unreal. Thanks love
@carennawillmont3706
@carennawillmont3706 5 лет назад
I appreciate your vulnerability!
@Hannah-sg1wy
@Hannah-sg1wy Год назад
made me cry. beautiful talk
@MissUnderstoodasAlways
@MissUnderstoodasAlways 2 года назад
I’m so glad you’re amongst the Miss Americas ❤️
@mariannenowottny1732
@mariannenowottny1732 3 года назад
Geez, she is SO GOOD!!! Really kept my attention with her story. Better than most TED talks on the subject
@tjkohler7795
@tjkohler7795 Год назад
I play this for my clients Tara's awesome
@elijahgarcia5504
@elijahgarcia5504 4 года назад
How brave and accepting of herself i dig that! Good for you !
@saresare798
@saresare798 3 года назад
Okay what?! You are insanely incredible. This is my Ms. USA for life.
@dinakindred
@dinakindred Год назад
God is good! He will deliver you, if you ask 🙏🏾❤💪🏾
@craycee1488
@craycee1488 6 лет назад
How incredible!!!! You are an inspiration!!!!
@dionevanrooyen9769
@dionevanrooyen9769 6 лет назад
Great talk by a very courageous woman. I salute you.
@mickyeverton
@mickyeverton 6 лет назад
Great Delivery, Peace From London. ❤️❤️
@coquis408
@coquis408 4 года назад
She’s Amazingly unique. I want to read her book.
@arlinegeorge6967
@arlinegeorge6967 3 года назад
Beautiful impressive amazing brave soul. Inspiring. Thank you.bless you. All your dreams come true.
@dionel8
@dionel8 4 года назад
You're so brave for sharing. I'm sure you mean a lot to young people on the edges of addiction.
@flomcgee5812
@flomcgee5812 7 лет назад
Nice job Tara!
@FloridaIsOneHellOfADrug
@FloridaIsOneHellOfADrug 5 лет назад
She’s awesome and very courageous!!!!
@Exploretravelwolf
@Exploretravelwolf 6 лет назад
great talk. so important her message
@simplydriven4196
@simplydriven4196 4 года назад
Best ted talk I have heard
@lgkirsch1
@lgkirsch1 3 года назад
Wow she is just so great and truthful💞
@ben3eagles831
@ben3eagles831 7 лет назад
I am so proud of you,,
@samanthaneal1931
@samanthaneal1931 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story.
@JBJB-uk7xu
@JBJB-uk7xu 5 лет назад
She is so beautiful!!!
@jaysonwyner9577
@jaysonwyner9577 Год назад
great speech
@debbiehahn5622
@debbiehahn5622 6 лет назад
Time to care for those in need! Inspirational!!!!
@shelleytheman2215
@shelleytheman2215 5 лет назад
Very brave and wonderful talk!
@DanielAlvarez-sl6yh
@DanielAlvarez-sl6yh 4 года назад
Dang i Love her Voice
@runebauer68
@runebauer68 7 лет назад
Good speech 👍👍👍👍
@matieurod752
@matieurod752 Год назад
Dear lord she’s so incredibly beautiful, glad she is where she is right now in life lol
@b-2466
@b-2466 4 года назад
Great to see our fellow Kentuckian doing great!
@seboisemanager2201
@seboisemanager2201 6 лет назад
You go girl!
@rarejourneys
@rarejourneys 2 года назад
I can identify with her story a lot 🙏🏽❤️
@illconductor
@illconductor 6 лет назад
Thank you Tara.
@TheBlazad
@TheBlazad 4 года назад
Power to you lass!! Much love from scotland
@Alexis-pt2cu
@Alexis-pt2cu 6 лет назад
I’m from Kentucky as well. Didn’t know she was! But wonderful speech!
@jesb7464
@jesb7464 5 лет назад
Great talk! Loved the vulnerability, the courage & the message! You rock!!
@aarondawes740
@aarondawes740 6 лет назад
Amazing presentation!
@aboutdawntoday
@aboutdawntoday 6 лет назад
If you told me a beauty queen associated at one time with cheeto would open my mind and have me crying at the end of her talk, I would not believe it. Thank you, Tara Conner.
@shesnutts3469
@shesnutts3469 3 года назад
Love her comment at 8:15 tho... "We dont need to lock people up or build a wall " That was sweet ! I bet she pukes at the thought of being close to him...
@skypiev4438
@skypiev4438 3 года назад
@@shesnutts3469 Shes making a joke, she knows we need a wall not just for drugs but for child trafficking.
@skypiev4438
@skypiev4438 3 года назад
Yea and he cared enough about her to get her help. Many other bosses would just fire them.
@shesnutts3469
@shesnutts3469 3 года назад
@@skypiev4438 And where was it she implies or states that? ? I must have mssed that part
@skypiev4438
@skypiev4438 3 года назад
@@shesnutts3469 After she said she was caught doing coke.
@JimmyJaxJellyStax
@JimmyJaxJellyStax 2 года назад
No question she is beautiful and it's definitely no immunity to real life addiction struggles.
@bkdascenzo
@bkdascenzo 6 лет назад
Happy to see that this talk is at a university.
@NH-tg1rb
@NH-tg1rb 4 года назад
POWERFULL! Thank you
@melaniestarkey7868
@melaniestarkey7868 4 года назад
Thank you I needed to hear what you have to share
@dianeatwood3990
@dianeatwood3990 4 года назад
This was a great story everyone can learn from her. Great job
@dianeatwood3990
@dianeatwood3990 4 года назад
Great story thanks so very much Diane Atwood
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