Muthoni I resonate with almost everything you are saying. I have been deep in toxic relationships, I have let my guard down, and I have been exploited and walked on by men. Anyway, now am slowly recovering from those situations. But here is what I have to say, there is nothing like "I know I did things that I shouldn't have done" No. Life is not always about making the right choices. It's a package of all of it; the good decisions, the celebrations, the bad decisions, the mistakes, failures. These are what make life LIFE. The good choices and the bad choices make a package of who you are, own them in equal measure. The only thing is: what have you learned from all these experiences that will grow you as a person moving forward? Appreciate those 'bad decisions' you made because they have built you into the STRONG WOMAN you are today. And girl, keep up the good content.
Red signs I ignored in my 4yrs relationship 🚩🚩🚩 1. Lie 2. Borrow money and never return 3. Complain about all my friends 4. Complain I call my mom for to long 5. Slept with his baby mama 6. Hit me 7. Choke me 8. Call me a baby everytime we argue 9. Irresponsible 10. Drugs and alcohol 11. Stealing from me. 12. Accusing me of killing our baby( I had still birth at 36wewks) 13. Slept with 6 women and gave me Infections. I wish I left when I saw the first ref sign. BUT ITS NEVER TO LATE.
This channel has been very helpful and i can't miss a single video. Its part of my routine now. Kindly Speak about '"Toxicity/Jealousy at the work place"
I have gone through cheating, verbal abuse and emotional abuse which were all deal breakers in those relationships. I am glad I have moved on from them.
Ata nimebuy notebook juu this is a class on its on thanks gal for always educating us I Rilly appreciate you are helping a soul out there....waiting for that topic emotional immaturity..
Then I have never been in love 😂😂😂 " finding myself googling things never" 😂😂😂....but I agree on most Kwanza that one of wanting to call shots 💯 is top of my list.
Muthoni you really have beautiful eyes and the words that come out of your mouth are so full of wisdom. That makes it very easy to listen to you non stop
Muthoni,waaa!!why and where did you get all this experience??You’ve just hit that nail on the wall. I married my Germany husband very young,had no exposure with life,he separated me from my family and my friends. I never understood why?but later when I got fed up,is when i slowly slowly understand und understood what he was up to. He wanted me not to run to no one. Ooh my God🥲have been thinking am the only one…your so beautiful,i love your style,your hair is amazing,your wonderful..you’ve won my heart ♥️ we are in the same level..let me hit that subscribe button…beg…beg keep it up😘
Thanks a lot Mūthoni. Kindly also talk about where by you meet a guy and he starts asking ,“what you have?”. In terms of material things. For instance lets say i am a nurse. Then a guy asks me. “Apart from being a nurse what else do you do?” For how long should a lady stay before she disclose what she has/ or what she does? Because guys are also nowadays gold diggers. Kindly help.
Hey, Muthoni I wish I knew all your advice 10 years ago but anyways am still learning a lot. Keep what you are doing gal it's changing lives! It has changed me a lot.
Hi, Msoo you are talking about the reality of things, but I guess, maybe is out of my previous relationships but most of the red flags you have highlighted wee with my partners, n they are women not men
Wish i saw this like 3 Years ago... There many things i would have done different. But all said done am working on me and knowing what i want in any relationship
Aki apo kwa googling was soo me😂😂 kwanza his captions aki post on socials ati 'what does it mean to say...' zingine napata ni song lyrics I end up listening to the whole song what it means and all renditions of the song🤣🤣🤣🤣 Wueh! God is good😁
Hi Muthoni I love your your talk being a mother of young girls. Another red flag is someone who does not want the best for either at work or in education......you look like you are doing better than them. Like I lost a chance to go for a scholarship coz he was threatening that if I take up that I will not find him later
Waoh thumbs up, love this video very informative indeed, face the bull by its horn don't fear if something is wrong because the guy is providing you,.. Ladies get your money, waoh!
Surprisingly there are girlfriends like this...very sick with an exaggerated opinion of themselves. Talking negatively about others,being mean about your other friends
Thea is guy i was dating everytime we get back my moods change I'm not happy... what i did i called off the relationship.. it affected me 2 weeks now I'm Soo happy 😊😊
Mso i like your advice. But all the red flags you described are actually deal breakers. One needs to take a walk as soon as they happen. Coz they are bound to happen again, and may be this time very late.
For me , it's trauma bonding. Making excuses for behaviour he is not willing to change (had a traumatic childhood and everything and everyone around him must suffer) Don't wait 2years to end it honey it's harder
I feel I was in the same shoes... He wouldn't be happy if I left work without telling him it would create a scene. Would go for days without talking to me and he would want me to apologize..he even got vulgar at a point coz of a disagreement we had... He was like you will do what I say not what you want.. Anytime I saw his call I was afraid what he will tell me. It got worse when we couldn't work out and he asked me to refund the cash he had spent on me.
What could have become of most of us if Msoo💖 never fed us with such knowledge ???🥱🥱Thank you for always sharing,,I can confidently say that my social life is on another level☺️☺️❤️
Someone cannot call you stupid and then ati you communicate nicely?? Hell No! That is a deal breaker right there. I will disappear and never to come back.
About trust...I never trusted my ex because he was the type of guy who would share everything about me or us to his friends...Thank God I know better and am learning alot from you...Am a whole new person
Went out with a hanky- loaded guy- waiter spilled his drink- he seriously insulted him- red flag- how he treats those perceived “lower than him” ( and what’s lower anyway?- we are all human)
Wish I had this advice several months ago...i would have saved myself from so much trouble and heartache..but thanks Msoo for speaking to me. I really appreciate
How do we deal with the curse that someone puts on you when you leave them suppose they are nacissist or abusive then they tell you that u will never prosper or settle. Does these things work?
izi ni vitisho baridi unless there is a blood covenant tying you together....but kama ni this kawaida breakup it will not do nothing to you just love yourself and you will be good to go and be happy..
A curse is a curse ...,the same way parents curse their children is the same way any another person can do out there so lemme give you a piece of advice....raise a seed (any amount)that is going to break every kind of evil words spoken towards you and learn how to always say God forbid when someone is talking to you in such a way and also while you are praying learn how to declare decree good things over your life and that way even the “silent curses “ will ruin not your life ....,remember that even when someone curses you with their thoughts will also affect you but people don’t really realize that....,
