William is seeking a reduction in child support because he makes less money and has another child. Marta is not having it. She does not want his child support to be decreased. Does William get the relief he is seeking?
I agree with this 10000% I wish she was able to preside over my upcoming case. I need her advice because I feel like I’m going to be completely railroaded. Very fair she is!!
What most women need to realize is, child support isn’t and shouldn’t be used to make the father miserable. They should still be able to live their lives and have fun too. She’s for sure in her feelings about his relationship and other child.
@@mousemeat1352There are laws that determine how much money can be taken from the persons paycheck. However, in this case the mother receives the money. There are no checks and balances - the mother may not know how to budget and allocate the money. Each case is unique.
@@mousemeat1352 It's an equal responsibility. Most divorces are initiated by the woman, not because of abuse, but because "the man isn't romantic enough anymore" or something else stupid. And yes, if you have kids, any reason other than abuse is stupid. They universally are selfish and exclusively hurt the child. So yes, it's an equal responsibility. She gets the child and the responsibilities that come with it. Beyond that, it's simply a math calculation. Child expenses added up. Then divided between the two incomes. The better earner has the bigger burden.
Yup but in my state having another kid is your problem they will tell you to stop having kids you can’t pay for but she would have never gotten $800 for one kid even on $50k income more like $450. They subtract all the basic debit first then add the child support failure to pay is jail time.
@@Comonique in Denmark you pay or get paid a max of 200$ in child support the kid doesn't need any more than that it's ridiculous to watch this dumb as fuck legal system
@@1888BW depends on location in US, some places require an absurd amount for basic needs. However I think the US system is fucking retarded on how bias it is to women. This woman was using the child to hurt him.
More people like that man need to be celebrated. I used to drive by our city’s water sanitation plant going to and from my father’s house. When my brother and I could drive ourselves over together, we started talking about how horrible it would be if the plant shut down. We spoke to my mom about it, and that’s when we found out many people don’t see these fine workers as actual human beings.😢
As an over-the-road driver I found people look down on us yet we're the ones who bring your daily needs and supplies. The majority of them can't even tell you where their food comes from or how it got to the store. They're teaching their kids food comes from the grocery store.🤦🏽♂️
Really, celebrate a man who clearly hates his child simply for not liking football, and is clearly trying to abandon his other child? This pathetic excuse for a man is someone we should look up to, really?
@@skyesmith5683 no your twisting words. He said “because she wants him in cheerleading or something” meaning he doesn’t know. Cheerleading doesn’t mean the kid is gay. Your looking for clout
@@keishalebray1996 the dad views cheerleader as a feminine and female thing to do and does not want his son being involved in those activities for that reason. That is homophobic. Sit your ass down and shut the hell up
@@keishalebray1996 no, you’re being willfully obtuse. You know why he doesn’t want the kid to be in cheerleading. He’s homophobic and the child may not even be gay and instead of taking an active role in the child’s life he, himself, is choosing to be childish and selfish.
@@skyesmith5683 that is stupid the dad obviously isnt the intelligent type and he clearly said it was a bonding issue that he grew up with, its hard to connect without some sort of common ground his family saw football as this common ground and this kids mother probably is pushing him to have nothing to do with football
@@henrybisschoff8629 would you go into the technical aspects of your job with your child support judge or just tell them you work at a water treatment plant?
I like this Judge. You can tell that she is low-key fed up of women who abuse the system and unleash terror on innocent hardworking men. The defendant looks so innocent and peaceful, yet so wicked. Besides racism, America also needs to sort out the child support system.
I heard a story once, where a man earned himself 30 days in jail for telling the judge "this is why young black men are selling crack" when she told him the amount of child support he owed each month.
Had an employee who made $1400 a month gross. After taxes and child support he went home with $400 a month. He was also involved in the child's life and had 50% custody. How on earth is he supposed to live and support the child on $400? He told me his GF had to basically pay all the bills.
@@jazzybear6175 The father isn't seeking a reduction in child support because the kid don't like football. It's just one of the reasons he's disengaged with his son. The mum, on the other hand, don't want the child support to go down because she's pissed he has a new woman. The fact he has a child with that woman isn't helping her mood. Can't you see these are two completely different things?
I love it when a judge treats everyone fair regardless of their gender. With every single case you restore faith in justice. May God bless your strength of character!
Yoo I like this judge a lot!! Appears to be very fair in all her cases.. She's also a beautiful & educated sister.. Little black girls, take look at this representation
These judges in Houston are biased against fathers. My current wife and I of 15yrs have 2 children together and I had a work injury that took over 1yr 8mo to recover & rehabilitate. Never wanted to reduce my CP payment this whole time, but it needed to be done temporarily at least. I'm alienated and ostracized from my daughter by a manipulative narcissistic control freak with a bigger bank account than mine. Bottom line I was told to kick rocks and they squeezed what little MORE they could out of me. Put my family in some hard times and current pay still isn't what it used to be. AG suspended my work license and couldn't renew vehicles registrations for getting behind over 6mo worth of payments. They didn't take in account I was paying what I could every month, but it just wasn't enough. Had to take out a loan just to get back on track.. Guess this guy won't be catching a break any time soon. We need more unbiased judges like this that can see reality and rule in fairness.
Not only more judges you need more laws like this that are fair and equitable most of them aren't the father is always made out to be the bad guy the mother is some shining angel with a vagina that dispenses money and kids.
no, it would have happened anyways - that's the entire reason he was trying to get a reduction. The judge just twisted it against what she said because she was talking a fool.
@polishjinx She's a newly elected judge and lawyer in Texas. She has her info in her Bio you should read before you put out incorrect information. The cases are based on real people, just reenactments.
Part of me is wanting to tear up... I can't believe how is women can be. It's sooooo good to see a Judge who refuses to see gender and chooses actual JUSTICE. I lobe you Judge ♥️ you are a MODERN DAY HERO 🙏🏽💐😍
I LOVE THIS WOMAN!!! She is so fair and I just praise her 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I’m a father and never miss a payment. I’m glad I have a healthy relationship with my sons mother.
I love how she, just single handed, showed every frigging judge in American how to distinguish and conduct a legit family court case with logic and not play into the scorned ex. Bravo judge!!!
This is what happens when you’re greedy. My ex sister in law took my brother to court for an increase in child support and the judge ended up ordering a reduction.
My mother demanded that the court require my father pay for a really expensive summer camp every year because it was “part of [my brother’s name]’s autism therapy.” My twin brother hated being outside and hated the camp, but I loved it and ended up working there in leadership working in animal husbandry. What my mother didn’t know was that the judge that day had a background in early childhood education and teaching children with developmental delays. The judge asked “I beg your pardon?” To which my mother had the gumshoe to make her demand again. And that’s when she realized her mistake. My mom got screwed that day. My dad paid for my portion of the camp on his own accord because I loved it so much, and he saw it made me happy. My mom paid for my brother to attend so he wouldn’t be at home by himself. I only learned about the crapshoot of my parents’ divorce litigations after I turned 18, and I was dying of laughter.
No these are not skits. There is a law regarding these shows They act as an arbitrator. Their dicisions are binding,and can be challenged in the court. And also no show can find these number of actors and make them act so genuine.
@@Aditya-xd7zt they're actually skits. If you go to the channel's "About" page, it's says clearly that they are all actors and these are all skits based on real cases.
Wow.. as a Florida woman, whose ex lies and never pays ANYTHING, and a second father to a son who does whatever he can... the attitude of the men can change too. I never ask for anything from either, the 2nd is just a stand up guy 🤷🏼♀️
@@aquacandela3705 did you watch the clip??? Pay attention…she did not allow the man to get railroaded…simple! It’s so many women that punish the man for moving on…
Judge you are something else , I applaud you your honor . You are a divine being. ✨✨ Someone I definitely would love to meet. God bless you for always keeping it 100 and making sure justice is served.
Bruh her attitude is nasty asf...bih take tht reduction nd leave this man alone...at least he paying you nd takin care of his child...move tf on..somebody’s still in love wit the baby daddy😭😭😭😭
A judge that is not biased to women and treats men fairly, I love judge Vonda and we need more judges like her! I also like how judge Vonda gives us a summary of everything at the end to why she ruled the way she did. Your Honor!
Vonda, you make some of the cutest faces when you're being sarcastic to people who waste your time, and complain about dumb issues. Vonda, you the best❤❤❤❤
I love watching each episode from this wonderful judge. She keeps it real and does not play the fence. I love watching the face of the upset parent when they didn’t get to play the system.
That bit about 'football' verses 'cheerleading' at the end shed a little light. Based on what he said, he thinks his son is too feminine or that his ex is raising him not to be manly enough - if he's being mean or cruel to his son because he thinks he's too girly, THAT is a problem, and the mom has every right to be mad about that.
Not only did she not acknowledge it, she reinforced that it was okay. First time I've ever disagreed or been disappointed in Judge Vonda. VERY disappointed.
I lost a custody battle in Georgia because the Judge had recently worked on a case where a father's child died while he was playing video games. He heard I was a gamer too and no matter what I brought forward regarding my ex's family's prescription drug abuses, he was biased against me from the very start, even though the GAL saw no reason why I couldn't be primary physical custodian.
@@darnellpeek2543 - Is the mother black or a POC, BIPOC, etc.. If so, that has nothing to do with race, it has to do with biases for women, which is sexist, not racist.
I sure wish this court was available to me when my son was a child. I had to go to a place called "The Friend of the Court" which could have been called "The Enemy of the Court". I was told that since I work, my son doesn't deserve child support"! I got absolutely no child support ever!
You do know these are actors right? It says at the end that this is just for educational purposes and they are actors and they are paid. The judge isn't really a judge and she's just a lawyer.
So we’re going to ignore the fact that the father said he doesn’t like his kid because he doesn’t like football and the judge basically said ‘yep, valid reason for not liking or spending time with a kid you created’???? Like wtf???
None of u clearly go to the end of the show where it says these people are all actors and its purely for informational purposes she's not even a judge just an attorney
WOW! Child support aside, I'm puzzled by the number of comments that lack even mentioning a father disliking his child because the child doesn't like football. It was despicable for the judge to make light of it.
Blaine Street Hi there! Thank you for your question. I’m torn on that issue. I think where the money goes should be on the children only; however, I’m not sure how I feel about the government “tracking” the parent’s spending. Further, if it’s found that the parent isn’t spending the money on the child, how would the court handle it? Just my thoughts. It just seems a bit intrusive to me.
I freaking love this woman just asking what do you do with the $ is priceless to hear. Thank God I did my 21 years completed case in NYC a judge would never ask the woman what are you doing with the $. If you ask where's the $ going they'll say it's none of your concern just make sure you meet your monthly obligation. God Bless her just being fair is all men ask 👍😎.
