Refusing A Love Bribe 

He sounds like someone trying to write a 1,000 word essay that's due in 10 minutes lmao

I actually tilted my head to the side to see if I could get another part of my brain to engage and understand him.

I know he's speaking English, yet I don't understand what he's saying.

When he kept saying “this is a good example” This is a good example of what??? I can’t 😂😂😂😂😂

“I think the excuse that is happening now is a good reason to have an excuse” 🤯🤯😅 “Is it my fault that she can’t make me pay” He is a joke and she is right for leaving him

I think I lost a few brain cells listening to this man.. my lord..

This has to be one of the dumbest cases I’ve ever watched lmaoo

“The problem mam....I think the excuse that’s happening now is a good reason to have a excuse” wtf was he talking about😂😂😂

The man asked him “Don't you want to see your daughter” and his response was “ No”. SMH

There is something very wrong with this plaintiff. Listening to him, and trying to make sense of what he was saying had me doubting my own comprehension skills. 🤯

Wait a whole minute! His financials don’t allow him to financially support his kid but he can buy 10.000 worth of jewelry?😳 This should have been a case for Judge Judy

“How is it my fault that she can’t make me pay child support” 😂😂😂

His elevator clearly doesn't go to the top floor.. lol 😆 .. he's talking but saying nothing at the same time

Some folks be thinking they can just cheat and pick their significant other back up whenever they want. Good for the defendant. He cheated she left and he even said she wasn’t rocking with him at all after the divorce. Good for her! Seems like a solid woman right there

When he started rambling I came straight to the comments for the laughs I knew I was gone get!!

Oh Lord. He’s not the brightest... & sis, you have to do better. Get to know people better you bring life into this world.

How did he even afford $10k but gets govt assistance and can't pay child support?

I laughed the whole time watching this. Judge Milian said “are you out of your mind?!” Yes he is. Lol

Lol, Doug said "I don't think you get it". I think you're right!

“ I don’t think you get it “ Had him crying all Mf night lmaoo

WHAT ON GODS GREEN EARTH is wrong with this delusional man!? Where is his PRIORITIES? 10k on an ex that doesn't want you back but not on your DAUGHTER? Wow, what a dead beat!

She need to keep finessing him out of jewelry, pawn it, and continue to take care of her daughter.

She would have been more impress with him if he had given her the "$10,000" and telling her to buy what their kid needed instead of buying her jewelry.

He is a very dangerous person. If he is still hung up on her after 4years, he won't let her be with anyone else. Keep your head on a swivel ma'am!!

Sad how some “men” aren’t willing to father their own children unless the mother will be with them 🤢🤢

Dang. Dude has a mental issue. And she's kind of slow. Someone pray for these guys and definitely the child

Me running to the comments after listening to this man ‘state his case’ 🏃🏾🤭🤦🏾‍♀️ SMH

I can’t even comprehend what he’s trying to say lmaooo

Doug at the end:"The judge is really irritating at you.She let you have it.😂😂😂

He is so lost and confused. Why should she force you to pay child support. I’m glad she pawned them and took care of business.

10K on Jade, but could't buy a ten dollar iron? All wrinkly in the court house lol

Dead beat father....stop giving these little boys children ladies.

Man I love the dude at the end “I don’t think you get it.. “ 🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

Good Going Gin..... I'm trying to wrap my mind around what I just listened to. All that rambling!

Some people don't need to be out here in these streets without supervision. GOD Bless us all!!!🙏🏾✝️❤

You cant garnish government assistance money. That's why she can't take him to court. Every paid lawyer and legal aid person told her that. He knows the loopholes.

A jade pendant, a necklace, two earrings, and two rings = $10k? 😂😂😂 She got a couple hundred in pawn. He didn’t spend more than $500 for that mess.

His explanation in the hallway was just.... my god today. Is he even on this planet?

🙄🤦🏾‍♀️What is he not getting??!! FOOL, TAKE CARE O’ YOUR CHILD! PERIODT 😂

Omgness he's so confident on what he's saying, like I'm the crazy one...😂😂😂😂😂

She better watch him. He’s giving if I can’t have you nobody will vibes

He could had bought her a house and she can still hate his guts. Guys like him don't get it at all.

Dude has a developmental issue. She had a baby with him and he can not take care of the child. I hope...the child has caring support in her life so she doesn't suffer their decisions.

If he paid $10,000 for that jewelry then I'm the queen of Neptune. 👑👸🏾

I cannot with this dude….. he talks like he convinces people on the REGULAR 😂😂😂

"We're done!" The way Judge Milian walked off the podium said it all. The dude is delusional and he needs to take care of his baby

"Cloudy?! I don't know how it could be any more crystal clear!"

I’m convinced that Mr. Deadbeat & Kanye West share the same mind 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Make it make sense! She’s being a full time mother. Girl, you go!!!

How come the one that cheats is always nasty and the one getting cheated on is a gem?

Dude is special. She knew that. Question is who the hell would cheat with him?!

That man's head is truly tough.He's the type of man who makes you look back and say, " What the heck was I thinking!!??🤣" No one should have to force you to take care of your child, Sir.

"They can't force me or make me pay child support" because he's on some type of government assistance making a under the threshhold amount but he should have to want to to pay child support on his own...

His closing argument in the hallway was priceless. 😂 Wait, does she have a diamond grill? This keeps getting better.

WOW, I need to watch this again. That was just sad.

um? wtf is going on in this court room today? lmaooo

..He appears to have some metal instability issues, the case is over and I am still trying to understand his words and what he was trying to say....

How has this episode not become a meme yet? Lmaooo

He needs his own tv show😂

The plane not landing and its a CLEAR DAY 😂

You know when Judge Milian whacks her gavel on the desk without saying "good luck, folks" you really pissed her off!

He is special..God Bless him..

I had to come back and read y’all’s comment again. I’m still rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

That little sign Douglas had before the case started we knew he was just over it 😂

The biggest laugh for me was Harvey's poor dye job

I think they both struggled with some form of disability.

I have not 1 clue what this man is trying to say

Judge: do you pay child support? Plaintiff: Well see the way my bank account is set up

I wish I knew her because ss told me the same thing!!! It took an experienced child support case worker not a lawyer to get me my money with back pay!!

“I think this is a good example…..” bro, what are you actually talking about ….. I’m so confused 🤣🤣

Judge Mathis:🧐are you on something sir? You gotta be😤coming in this courtroom talking stupid like that‼️You should be ashamed of yourself🗣🗣

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣and she was married to him. I couldn’t wake up next to a person and not have a descent conversation each day. Especially a disagreement. The frustration of trying to understand anything he said I would need a bottle of Ciroc afterwards. Be drunk every day to deal with that mess🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

EVERYONE behind the Plaintiff looks like a family of siblings!! ...or multiple sets of twins with the same DNA.....🤷🙊 ....😜😜😜💯💯

Bless his heart...

“I don’t think you get it , I don’t think you get it “ 🤣🤣 that’s exactly how I feel he a different type of slow. 🤦🏽‍♀️

She knew he was special needs and still decided to get pregnant by him. He's the type of he's not with you he's not providing for his child.

Deadbeat absent father yet says he spent $10,000 on jewelry i guarantee you he probably can't keep $10 in his wallet at any given time. There is nothing worse than a man that doesn't take care of his children and always has an excuse. I bet if his daughter grows up and does well he'll try like hell to be in her life just to mooch off her.

"How is it my fault that she can't make me pay child support?" 😅😅😅 Omg I'm dead.

Wow, just wow! At both of them

“I don’t think you get it, I don’t think you get it” 😂😭

And how could he afford $10,000 worth of jewelry if he living off the government Something ain’t sitting right here 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

that dude is as high as a kite lmao

Doug’s interview at the end.. 🤯🤣

Bless his heart cause something is really wrong with buddy!!!

Oh my... this man is literally out of his mind! He’s a good example of what to run from! He didn’t spend 10k; hence no receipt! But if you’re truly done with a man, don’t accept gifts from him. Gives a reason to hang around, harass and sue over plum foolishness... 🤦🏾‍♀️

"Why is it my fault that she can't make me pay for child support?" Ok then...

My boy high. 😂😂Harvey said I don’t think you get it 😂😂😂

How does he get off suing this lady and he is the one not taking care of his child. He didn't think that would come out in the hearing. Shameful!

Clearly, he’s not well. He needs to find a therapist so he can MOVE on.

long story short, this the type of “man” who describes women as “FEE-mehlz”

If sis married him she needs more help than he does ...

I think she was given mis-information. At one point I thought I heard San Francisco which is where I am from. Everyone is required to pay child support. If you don’t pay child support the court will attempt to garnish your wages and income. If you continue to fail to pay child support you will be held in contempt of court, your license will be taken away, and you can even face jail time. In California the court will not garnish SSI but it will garnish SSDI. No matter what, if somebody doesn’t pay, the amount that they owe accrues meaning the balance owed keeps growing. This does not happen until a child support case is filed. Child support is owed from the date of when the paperwork is submitted, not when an order is finally granted. This is why it is so important to file for child support even if you dont think you’ll get anything. For example, if somebody submits an application to receive child support May 1 and a judge finally issues a support order on September 1, the person filed against owes support from starting May 1 so there would be 4 months of arrears immediately due plus the monthly payments starting Sept 1. Some deadbeats don’t pay for decades but then eventually get their lives together and are surprised when they find out they owe $300,000 in child support. Lawyers will always advise you to file for support no matter what.

This woman is right. If her ex husband receives SSI it's nothing she can do. If it was social security disability,then his pay can be garnished. I'm going through the same thing...

The next time I get called to the carpet, I’m going to say, “I think this is a good example” and rest my case. 🤷🏾‍♀️

The judge said “You have a thick head” 😆🤣🤣

He has a developmental issue. Im gonna leave it alone. .....

"The excuse that is happening now is a good reason to have an excuse." The plaintiff is as confused as Joe Biden during his last speech. A mind is a terrible thing to waste. 🤣🤣

Unfortunately I think the daughter is better off without him in her life. He clearly doesn’t give a crap about her

I can't with a bum who want support his own, I WANT THAT 10:23 BACK HE OWES ME!!!! 😠💯

ANYONE can have children... This man is insane, and all her ducks are clearly not in a row which is how she ended up pregnant by him...