Reinventing Yourself

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One of the most exciting things about life is being able to transform your identity whenever you want. For most people, transformation happens naturally and gradually over time. But sometimes you can purposefully and intentionally undergo a process of personal reinvention to become a new version of you.
In this episode of #GayMenGoingDeeper, we’re talking about Reinventing Yourself and answering questions such as…
1. What has contributed to defining your self-image?
2. How have you let go of old versions of yourself?
3. How have you gone about reinventing yourself?
4. How do you perceive yourself now? How much of that perception comes from how others respond to you?
Join us as we share our own reinventions of the past, present and how we’re reinventing ourselves for the future.
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@granvillefoster6719 8 месяцев назад

Wow. I am 77 and just accepting what I have always been. I am now reinventing myself. So much of what you covered resonates with me. Thank you.

@GayMenGoingDeeper 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your journey! It's never too late for self-discovery and reinvention. Wishing you all the best on your path of acceptance and growth. 🌟

@flyjet787 Год назад

My god, this channel is so vital and necessary for gay men in Western culture! Thank you!

@WellismoCoaching Год назад

Thank you for that 💟

@Gary_Texan_USA 4 дня назад

Thanks! Guys, you've given me valuable information, support, and encouragement to be a better Gay man who understands how I fit in the LGBTQ community. Eventhough I am a 70-year-old disabled bedridden resident in a nursing home facility, I'm contributing what I can to your efforts for the good of the Brotherhood of Gay men. ❤

@GayMenGoingDeeper 4 дня назад

Thank you so much for your generosity! It means the world to know that our efforts have provided you with valuable support and encouragement. Your strength, wisdom, and dedication to the Brotherhood inspire us deeply, and we are truly grateful for your generosity, especially knowing the challenges you face. You are an important part of this community, and your contribution, no matter the size, helps strengthen the bonds between us all. Sending you much love and appreciation! ❤

@johnsenra2815 Год назад

I absolutely love this episode. as a 67 yr old. I have experienced most of the situations you discussed. I'm going to save it to watch it again and again. I also send it to a few friends who can benefit. I'm still trying to find myself, and some of your suggestions will definitely help. THANK YOU

@GayMenGoingDeeper Год назад

Thank you for sharing the love John! ❤

@jjvodvarka Год назад

Ditto with me. The collective wisdom is impressive

@neutralmultiverse8589 9 месяцев назад

I truly loved hearing you talk about going from cushy corporate job to blowing your own mind by being an entrepreneur... its so inspiring to hear this!

@GayMenGoingDeeper 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad our journeys resonated with you. Here's to inspiring ventures! 🚀😊

@neutralmultiverse8589 9 месяцев назад

@@GayMenGoingDeeper to more inspiring ventures!! ty! :)

@liamducharme Год назад

How can this only have 73 likes? This was an incredible episode! Come on guys, remember to push the 'LIKE' button if you like it. 🙂

@mattlandsiedel Год назад

Thanks Liam 🙏❤️

@yogawithloren Год назад

Great discussion. Thanks for all the thought provoking sharing.

@allenjackson1417 Год назад

I have watched this episode several times, and each time, something different rings a bell with me. I just came out to my family after hiding for 8 decades, and the response so far has been acceptance and love. My son-in-law has gay friends and I have asked him to introduce me to them so I can begin finding others like me and who can help me to expand my horizon of those I can openly relate to and learn from. Thanks to the three of you for your being there when I needed to hear that I am OK as I am.

@GayMenGoingDeeper Год назад

We’re happy that you are finding such value in our creations that it’s positively impacting your life ❤️

@RoyJohnson-tr5uy Год назад

Perfect topic for the beginning of the year and personally where I am with some recent shifts in life, career, and relationships. Keep doing what you're doing....you all are making a difference!

@GayMenGoingDeeper Год назад

Thank you Roy! Happy New Year

@katjaseidel469 Год назад

You guys are amazing. Your podcast helps me a lot (and I am a straight girl). Currently reinventing myself towards the creative being that I truly am (and always was as a child but then later in life lost it more or less). In my case this is singing and dancing. Kind of hit rock bottom last year, husband left me, moved out, me being alone and also dealing with health issues. But I see the way out of this and also go it in reinventing myself. Or for me the term works better, that I am just coming back to who I truly am. Of course combining this with my experience and being as an adult woman. And also currently welcome the thought that I will be able to have a true loving relationship with a man again. So thank you three for your thought and Inspiration. 🌷

@GayMenGoingDeeper Год назад

Sending love as you navigate the grief of your loss. You got this ❤️

@katjaseidel469 Год назад

@@GayMenGoingDeeper Oh thank you very much

@tinpalace 10 месяцев назад

I love this and I love you all, thank you for talking about this

@GayMenGoingDeeper 9 месяцев назад

You're welcome!❤

@KevinBrunot Год назад

I am new to the gay world. Well kind of at 44 I came out. that was last year. This has been the hardest most challanging year of my life. Losing my job my house and so much more. I Just recently found you guys and it's so good to see all the topics you cover but this one has touched me the most. with so so many struggles ahead some days I ask myself was it worth it after 44 years what did or will I gain.

@gunterthehusky6519 Год назад

I feel like y’all are my dads/ older brother/ very wise friends! Absolutely love hearing that I’m not alone in dealing with similar situations, I want to thank you guys for the advise and for sharing your knowledge with us!

@thestickgatherer Год назад

This is so helpful. Worth a second listen. Thank you.

@WellismoCoaching Год назад

Thank you! Listen as many times as you need to

@gw6482 Год назад

Change can be terrifying, but it can also be great! I think the hardest part is to realise that we need to reinvent ourselves, of course dating to start changing is very difficult, but realising it is just almost impossible sometimes for a lot of us. I’m very grateful for finding you guys, every episode is very special, and I’m always looking forward to hearing you. Warm hugs

@mattlandsiedel Год назад

Thanks Gabe 🙏

@10-OSwords Год назад

Was a straight A student, AP scholar, went to church twice a week even after my family stopped going; was the best kid anyone could ask for...constantly physically & mentally abused, threatened to be 5150'd, had cops called on me all the time, always told NO-that was the only word my parent ever said to me, NO. So nothing I did or will do will ever be good enough. & I've done a lot to advocate for myself & care for myself but that is always a big big part of my mental state.

@skapalski4031 Год назад

great episode! 58yo here in Houston, currently reinventing myself for the umpteenth time in my life! Keep up the great work guys! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜!!!

@GayMenGoingDeeper Год назад

It’s a never ending process isn’t it. Cheers to enjoying the journey and not focusing too much on the destination 🥂

@kso808 Год назад

Great program today! 👍

@nathanielplacide4119 Год назад

Just stumbled on to your podcast, I don't even know where to start 🤗.

@GayMenGoingDeeper Год назад

Welcome to the show! There's a lot of juicy episodes to go through - but no need to do it in any order. Just pick the ones that speak to you

@nathanielplacide4119 Год назад

@@GayMenGoingDeeper yeah I got like 5 tabs right now 😂. Thank you, my brothers.

@xtradelite903 Год назад

Sometimes a friend may notice a positive change in you. And, that’s nice.

@johnlasichak6396 Год назад

love you guys. Especially feel connected to you Matt Landsiedel.

@mattlandsiedel Год назад

I am grateful for that resonance John 🙏❤️

@richardfloridaman Год назад

Here we go. Happy Thursday y’all.

@jaketron.seattle Год назад

I discovered during 2022, that I'm most likely autistic. I had to reshape my self image to really fathom this extra dimension of me, that there's something going on with me aside from being gay. learning from other autistic people on tik tok has help me understand myself, more than watching gays on tik tok. gays on tik tok are always really sassy, but it was going through autistic people on tik tok that really opened the door to, "here are traits you have, and here is a new world of everyone with these traits". but I will say in reflection, its weird to have something about you that you dont know. and then, you find it out at 31

@David-in6cw 8 месяцев назад

Mateo, Kaplan, Miguel, estoy disfrutando de este podcast en you tube.

@doughouck8467 Год назад

Michael, thank you for the closing comment regarding age. It was affirming to this 66 yo.

@GayMenGoingDeeper Год назад

Glad I mentioned it as well! I wish I had said it from the top. But all true nonetheless.

@nichotto 11 месяцев назад

Can’t help thinking, “ Here we go again, gay man equals handsome young man “. Just as I never saw myself represented when I was a child or teen or indeed, in my twenties or thirties , I’m not not seeing myself as a sixty something. Plus ça change, plus c'est la même chose.

@jjvodvarka Год назад

I love this episode! I feel like I really know you. ❤❤❤

@WellismoCoaching Год назад

Awww we love that! After so many episodes, our audience definitely has an intimate knowledge of us

@shakawalker9895 Год назад

I was validated as a bottom growing up but now I top, top more through my age growing up

@johnstewart6049 Год назад

👁️🤎that term ‼️Year of Fear‼️

@seto749 Год назад

This made reinvention sound more like eating Brussels sprouts than Swiss chocolate.

@GayMenGoingDeeper Год назад

Sometimes it feels that way 😊

@mattlandsiedel Год назад

Lol, I feel these vibes. But I also like Brussels sprouts too 😁

@seto749 Год назад

@@mattlandsiedel I have bad associations with them, though at least I can eat them, unlike bananas, which make me gag.

@mattlandsiedel Год назад

@@seto749 lol 😂 🍌

@SEACRUZNY Год назад

💙

@ulfutstrand Год назад

ok....i dont wont botox in my ass, i dont want to change my nose, my lips are perfect for kissing the one i want....this changing thing of everyone and everything is a sick thing....why dont we all accept the reality of who we are , and live in our world as friends and lovers, cause there is actually no other way,....

@eonasjohn Год назад

Career wise I feel lost.

@richardfloridaman Год назад

I hope you find your new calling.

@richardkarnes5286 Год назад

Careers are so important, or seem so important, for our survival, whether physically, socially or personally. Just remember you are not your career. I have spent decades seeing myself as my career. I didn't fully exist separately from my career. And that has left me miserable at times. As you search out how to improve or change your career, please don't forget that you're so much more than how you earn a living. Be good to yourself. Sometimes being lost is not such a bad thing. Maybe this is a chance to decide what you really want and to find a way to get there.

@GayMenGoingDeeper Год назад

Sorry to hear that John. Perhaps your next reinvention is a professional one...

@johnstewart6049 Год назад

You kn🤔w as corny as it sounds: 👁️Swear 👁️thought 👁️was the only 😔ne