I've been married to my sweetheart for 41 years. When I look at her, I see the woman I married 41 years ago. Were older now, but were still in love. I couldn't go on without her by my side. We hold hands when were walking and a day doesn't go by that I don't tell her, I love her. I struck gold when I met her.
Alot of you guys are missing the point of this video. Many times in life, we as partners has forgotten what it's like when we first falls in love. We tend to forget the reasons why we once fell in love with each others. Why we meant so much to each other. Some times, it's not the dead end yet. We just need to remind each other why we are together and what we have gone through just to be together. Finding that special one in the billions is not easy. The guy just thinks that the once love, that sparked both of them together are gone. And the girl reminded him.
Exactly. But hey, why talk about then when it's so much easier to be negative, or show how clever one is by being negative and 'exposing' all the tricks this evil woman has used to manipulate him? Yeah, maybe once the love is gone you can't get it back and none of this would work. But if there's a chance that this has happened because someone has maybe forgotten why we loved someone, or that this person mattered, and feelings are rekindled, was it ever completely gone?
To anyone who wants to know the SONGG! The song is called { So We Meet Again My Heartache} by Melody Gardot. Melody Gardot is the English version. However, if you want this or the Chinese version, then it is [ So We Meet Again My Heartache ] by Yoyo Sham. I hoped this helped yall ʕ•́ᴥ•̀ʔっ♡
This woman used a type of "learning process" on her husband known in psychology as classical conditioning. She used the pleasurable sensation of a hug while taking him to all the places where they had their special occasions in their relationship. She then gave him the divorce papers without a hug, and it made him reconsider. He began to associate their relationship with the hugs. Coincidentally, this is the primary reason why people don't leave abusive relationships. Classical Conditioning is used with sex instead of the "hugs", and the sex receiver associates the relationship with sex.
It is human conditioning. Leo Burnett paid for and designed this for a reason. It is a Leo Burnett mistake to let the manipulatees in on their "secret" in-depth and in-breadth. Thank God for God. My guess this film meant to be and is shown at high executive levels in business and government.
To my recollection when I saw this video prior, the video ended at 4:44. My intent is not to ruin a beautiful short film, but it is what it is. This is a TEXTBOOK big $, political, institutional, business and mass media (overt and covert) advertising, consumer, behavioral conditioning example packaged as something socially responsible. The not-year-dated (an advertising ploy to put something that begs for stewardship out and leave it) elementary-school token comments by anime iconed "people" were added after the 4:44 mark after my original view (these three comments in particular chosen from 479K online interactions?!) - careless. Does not pass the smell test. Covering-the-tracks. But there is a social and relational necessity involved - hence the PAYORS, the manipulated, and the payee.
Except if he stopped loving you, no hug and nothing could make him want you back. If he wants a divorce, trust me, the love is long gone. From more than 3 milion people, only a few thousands agree to remarry, so the majority remains separated. Life is not a love story, it's cruel and harsh. Be brave. If he hurts you by asking a divorce, you can find another one to never want to separate from you again.
I don't agree...my husband and I married right after we both turned 18. We had a child at 16 and everyone said we were stupid to get married. Most gave us three months. It's been a long three months, we will celebrate 30 years and four children later in two months. NEVER give up on love, love is not disposable...fight for it, it's worth it! Both need to give a 100% to make it work!
Kristie Jacobson - Congratulations. That's great for you and the very few others who succeeded but lets face it most kids who do that fuck up big time and end up with zero relationships and nothing but struggles.
This is fake lol. Who would wanna divorce her? She's looks GREAT and apparently she's VERY smart and resourceful. lol. In a word full of Anita Sarkeesian, she's one in a million.
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Guys in my experience always wanted me back after it ended, especially if they were the one that ended it. I'd be really upset sometimes when it was over but then usually in less than a few months, I'd get a call wanting to get back together! It happened in my marriage too. I've been in a relationship for 9 years that has been the best thing that ever happened to me so hopefully there won't be a break up to deal with. We are in love everyday and tell each other so.
The song is inspired by Melody Gardot - so we meet again my heartache. It was made especially for this short film. Good luck finding it. Anyone who does, YOUR THE REAL MVP
C'est triste de constater qu'en Chine où les valeurs traditionnelles sont souvent respectées qu'il y ait autant de divorces. Mais il est aussi encourageant de voir qu'ils en ont conscience et essaient d'y remédier. Très belle vidéo en passant !
We use the phase "dissolution of marriage" when we get divorced. Which means "separation into component parts". I am divorced. I am no longer with a man I loved for 14 years of my life. When we were together, every dream, every goal and every vision I had, had him in it. Divorce breaks you. You literally have to start living as one - rebuild yourself and your dreams too. I would never advocate for a person to get divorced. Love is worth fighting for. No one can stop loving a person that easily. Put the same anger you have at getting the papers signed, and use it to save your marriage.
As much as I want to believe that LOVE is a great force that can miraculously save any problem, this video is only applicable to those married couples who have fallen out of love or with small problems they can sort out together (e.g. vices, financial etc). However, there are couples out there who are physically abusing each other or who are only forced to marry their spouse because of family traditions or business matters. How can they believe in the power of love if there is no love to begin with? Will you still go back to your husband/wife after he/she kicked your face or dragged you across the house by your hair? As the quote says, *fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me*
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Really love it. Love how they put emotions together. And how story goes, amazing film Even its short. Change of emotion is flawless. Plus her chinese accent sounds so beautiful.
LadyOrchidity Heartily No. It's because we think differently. The faster you get that through your brain, the better your understanding of men will be.
B Rad and because u except ur flaw and not try to make it work thru communication and telling the other sex whats the best way to get your point accross, then ya nothings gonna change in this world, and ppl will always have difference ofpinion n can never meet in the middle
Di dalam setiap hubungan, pasti ada naik turunnya. Pada saat turun, yang diperlukan adalah usaha dari kedua belah pihak, untuk dapat menaikkan kembali rasa cinta di dalam hati mereka.
rockmyballsplease And I'm sure you know exactly what went wrong in this video? And you must be an expert on relationships, since divorce is that simple to say someones at fault because they didnt try hard enough. im sure that's the only reason right? looool
I've seen this video many times before. now it breaks my heart to see it even more. Both me and my sister are going through divorces. She's ending a marriage of 17 years, and I'm ending mine of 3. I've never been more confused about love or marriage before like I am now.
The video was very well done! Loved it! Loved the Message! And if it was not for my sweet husband of now 8 years, I don't know where I would be. He always has my back. He is my rock.
Please, Mr. Mister. I'm Catholic, so I do believe in Jesus. But religion has nothing to do with keeping a marriage healthy and strong. In fact, I sadly know too many women and men in their 50s, 60s and up who only stayed in abusive relationships were the other cheated and made them miserable because they believed this is what religion taught them to do. So no, "more Jesus" isn't needed in China. What China needs are values and education, just as we all do.
lol all "jesus" countries lead in divorce. it's actually a trend that's popularized by the jesus nations. maybe you should try something different. worship satan or something instead. can't possibly be worse than what u guys do now anyway
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If you think you have doubts about your spouse I say you contact [wizardcryptohacker@gmail.com].They helped me hack my husbands phone and I caught him hooking up with other women The evidence came in very handy in the divorce. You can mention I referred you for a quick response and probably get a discount.
Although, yes, going to the beginning is a great way to remember how and why you fell in love, you have to keep following the path to figure out when and why it fell off track. Bringing up past feelings is a temporary fantasy and doesn't fix what brought you to the point of contemplating divorce.
If you think you have doubts about your spouse I say you contact [wizardcryptohacker@gmail.com].They helped me hack my husbands phone and I caught him hooking up with other women The evidence came in very handy in the divorce. You can mention I referred you for a quick response and probably get a discount.
I was married 30 years ago the 24th of Novmember . I miss being married after being divorced 9 years. I don't miss the pain and disfunction on both sides of the vow. This was beautifully woven together. Makes me want to try again. †
Aww!!! To Sweet & Sad!!! Wished I had Memories like that... Mine Story was just weird... Period... When you think back, it's Very Funny & Laughable!! LOL!!
love really dont let it go... the way she choose to try.. we all do once.. or everytime we r going to los whom we really luv so much ... best short love movie ever watched.. great video touchoursoul..
Beautiful. We live in a world where it is not about us any more, we forget why we fall in love in the first place and walk away always looking for that one special love, that dream, that fantasy when we had that special person all along. My ex learned that tooo late, he is now chasing the dream......
I keep coming back here. I know the reason. Not just the beautiful music and the well done directing' camera; editing. who knows what secrets lie in the hearts of women?
wish i had these to go by when i was with Thuy. I had no one to turn to for advice about what i was going through. But I'm glad shes happy now. thats all i ever wanted for her.
It's a nice video in part because it focuses on the reasons couples should stay together rather than the reasons that drove them to discuss divorce in the first place. When those reasons come to the foreground, then you understand why divorce is often the right solution. Some people are simply better off separated. The divorce lawyers would certainly agree. :-)
The song is called { So We Meet Again My Heartache} by Melody Gardot. Melody Gardot is the English version. However, if you want this or the Chinese version, then it is [ So We Meet Again My Heartache ] by Yoyo Sham. I hoped this helped :D
God this is sad. I do not wish this upon anyone, under no circumstances. Yes, yes, people lie, people cheat, but more importantly, people change. If it is your decision to let something that was once so beautiful go, then so be it. But fight for what you believe in. B-Stout: 3 years married. And proud to be with my beloved wife. Pray, many years more.
Gladly there is no divorce here in Philippines and if I'm gonna get married to that beautiful woman that knows how to have conversation to a man on a stormy days and knows how to treasure memories I will never look to other woman...
This story was making its rounds in print a year or so back but pretty cool that they made it into a short film... just wonder if the original writer got his/her dues.
Beautiful and heart warming story. However the reason there is such a rising level of divorce in China is because it harbours a social acceptance of men having mistresses. They have different names for the roles of these mistresses and it's socially accepted that men will not be faithful. No official is a real man in China without his own ernai. Outdated gender expectations are causing the rise in modern breakups. Men are still expecting to marry virgins and they are not virgins them selves. The left over non Virgin women therfore become socially acceptable mistresses. Watch this video and read between the lines an you'll notice it starts with her lonely in bed on her own. That says it all and yet it is brushed aside and she is the one fighting to save their marriage and remind him what he's lost. Basically this video sugar coats over the issues that lead to breakups and implies that love can blossom again (which it can) without confronting the issues or triggers. As long as she is the accepting docile wife that asks for hugs it can be cast as romantic. There would be nothing romantic about the portrayal of a angry and bitter wife with a man desperate to save their marriage because to do that it infidelity would have to be shown to be unacceptable, and that is fought against within a male driven culture. However things are changing as China the gain their social freedom through economic growth, and those that cling onto outdated roles will find themselves divorced.
That was beautifully done. I see way too many divorces that could have been saved. Marriage isn't easy but it's worth to fight for. I also really liked the music in this video. Who was it?
I'm currently going through a divorce and it's great that my own wife is being nice right now through this. But much like this couple, we have still decided to divorce regardless. This video is too much of a reminder but it's still a nice video.
Interestingly enough, the actor who plays the husband is actually happily married in real life.. Odd how he constantly plays these characters that end up in divorce...
That why m never leave my sweet girl even she did many thing wrong or even she lie me(the thing Ice hate the most), bcoz Ice believe that she won't all bad at all and may be no1 can bear with my bad speech with her as well. Ice love her much than what Ice can say
