Relapsed and Emotionally Distressed 

This 👆. She is absolutely blaming him for her relapse, unreasonably expecting him to be her savior, and not taking personal accountability for HER actions. It’s a shame because he seems like a good guy that cares for her.

Yes she is !! It’s everyone fault but hers!!

She's being a Coke-Karen.

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I was saying the same thing

She tried to talk loud and talk over him to deflect from her lies...he should have never got involved with her.

I think you maybe right! It sounds like she took her wishes or prayers to make herself righteous. Prayers and wishes don't make you right with God. Take care.

It, does.

@Dee Ransom Your thought is very correct. I've said it before and I'll say it again, "It is up to her to decide to or NOT to begin taking drugs again"(as you've said, "accountability").

I literally thought I was hearing things wrong, so I had to start the video over to listen again. That’s sad!

🙌🏾 Six years, One day at a time! That's awesome! Don't stop. 💞

Yes and no there was a divorce case where the wife was complaining about the husband drinking come find a few times that after the husband would complete rehab the wife would pick him up and get completely shit faced (and yes she admitted to do it) the judge jumped on her and she canned her divorce.

Baaaby she tried it, and Your Sobriety is your choice and seeing tho that was your year anniversary you should’ve been saving so that you only had to depend on you… but maybe she had already relapsed and didn’t want Togo And deflected the whole situation, by trying to play the victim

Congratulations on being clean for 6 years!!! You've got this, and you'll do great!

Congrats and keep up the awesome work! 🤘🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾 2yrs for me

The majority of addicts if not all, are very manipulative and non accountable. That's what makes them see no wrong in their actions, sad but true

Yeah that was evil

Exactly when she said that..she told me all i needed to know!!

I wish her the best and pray that she makes her One year recovery, and beyond. I also hope that she realizes that her Boyfriend was trying to help her the best he knew how. Accountability is key.

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That addict mentality

She really did try! I believe ever he said

Knew it was coming! As soon as he proved he tried to get a room! It was over

This is true.

I noticed her weirdo behavior in the first half and the constant projection from her was the biggest Red Flag for me. She also gives such strong Karen Energy with the tears lool. She looks a hot ass mess too with the hair and the messy makeup 😅😭. He's "controlling" because he wants her to get her life together lmao. She has such an unlikable quality to her. Her little 30 days isn't enough. I hope they do a 2 year update!

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Facts

Thats true queen

It broke my heart when he was describing the woman he met at church. He truly loves her and I’m sure this whole experience has been heartbreaking. Watching somebody self sabotage and blame everyone else while you’re trying everything in your power to help them has got to be awful.

Yes Lord... Glad he was able to walk away 🙌🙌🙌

Boy, she really had me fooled until the about offering her another room.

NO' She's NOT! Anybody can take the Negatives of a Person's life depending on what it is. Spin some nonsense/foolishness, to make someone look BAD. That's a shame! SMH!

@@ANGELAKCLAY It is very manipulative to mostly blame him(not mostly herself) for HER decisions and mistakes. Had she blamed herself MOSTLY, as well, I would've given her a bit more understanding, but she didn't. Condoning her behavior of blaming MOSTLY him for her own decision(s) & mistake(s) shows that she is still thinking in the drug addict mentality. One can only imagine how she may have been the times she was doing drugs deeply. She is an adult and should be held majorly accountable for herself & her own decisions.

@@traciemartin3785 ACTUALLY' She should have stood her ground. She was double teamed and that's unfortunate. Rather than Argue, she let them have it.

​@@ANGELAKCLAYyou are insane

She is the type of woman that will claim a man raped her out of anger.

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Noowwwww she’s taking accountability 🙄 At the beginning it was all his fault

EXACLY!!!! The story switched up when Mathis started to speak to her a bit more aggressively! Like OH so now you outta nowhere you’re taking accountability?!? Smh

I just hope that he never have anything else to do with her… even if she comes back pleading . Run Guy Run !!!..,she is a very toxic addictive manipulator!!!

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They say at least 1 year sober Before relationships because it’s hard enough the first year without drugs you don’t need to add relationship stress.

Right, this is a prime example of why they say it..

I think it's a relationship wit someone in recovery

@@mezxth00935 It’s a relationship period for a certain amount of time.

@@FinDom1 but that's not the rules that's all I'm saying it's wit people going thru recovery as well. It'll probably be smart not to deal wit anyone like u said but that's not what they tell them

Me too! I was saying 🗣Get🗣Her 🗣Judge!

Man me three!!

Gurl I was YELLING AT THE TV 😂😭! She's sitting up there trying to gaslight him and all he was trying to do was get her to be serious about her addiction issues lol smdh. The "crackhead" stories had me cracking up, love when judge says that 🤣.

@@laceykanda995 lol exactly !!!

Me too

Yup

She was looking for a home,(the boweaver

Not psych show ,people's court...

Mean old man 😮😮

I absolutely agree with you on this one, Adrian Prince.

He sure shouldn't have. Not worth the trouble at all.

@Adrian I agree.

Exactly!!!

I bet he’s somewhere waiting on her. He ain’t done.

Exactly!

Yeah, caught that

Thought I was the only one that caught that

U call It queen

@@LaLakers17the hell are you talking about? 😂

Omg, I was thinking the same thing

She’s a liar!

Shit I applaud him for keeping those texts

EXACTLY 💯 Judge Mathis needs to stop being a judge and become a counselor since he know so much‼️ that's his thing NOT THE AUDIENCE, this is getting ridiculous ‼️ I'm not responsible for an addict actions, and I refuse to coddle an addict ‼️

@@maryone9587that part 👏🏾

@@maryone9587 right on. I'm a recovering addict the only person who can cause me to relapse is ME ! JM is a joke these days .

@@Tyme_flies I am happy for the progress you have made

@@sereneamani1713 Thank you 8 years clean .

Yes, and the hardest step.

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She still in denial...she not trying to get clean 4Real 4Real🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️💯

Lady, stop playing the victim and hold yourself accountable for your mess.

YESSSS 😒

Exactly, addict shit I have done it thank God for recovery!…I hate ppl that play the recovery card but living foul

@@lashirahcurley5443 so glad you are better now. Congratulations!

Facts

She probably traded that phone for drugs

@@nixonsneverendingthoughts2824 exactly

Exactly like we all know this just by watching this show but if she is an addict and was going to programs then she knew what she was doing she should never gotten involved in him knowing she was still struggling

Preach beautiful

He deserves a good woman not after all what he did 4 her and her child. She's manipulative and really did a good job in leading him on to continue in a relationship with her. She's gat nothing to offer. If were him ,I won't look back even if she's back 4rm whatever recovery. A crackhead is a crackhead.

You ain’t lying she still has a dark aura and presence around her I wouldn’t give a damn how squeaky clean or how many days sobriety ENERGY is Everything and I am still feeling bad vibes🤷🏽‍♀️

AMEN🙏

Agreed 🙏🙏

That’s how they are, even in recovery!

I don’t understand why he would become involved with a woman who hasn’t been sober for a full year!! Heck, I wouldn’t knowingly become involved with a person who has a habit/addiction of any kind.

@@akimat418honestly I think ppl don’t know how bad a real alcohol addiction can be until you’re around someone who is severely addicted to liquor. I learned the hard way but definitely left shortly after realizing how bad it was bcuz I KNOW that’s something I can’t deal with smh

She's not for real go home Honey

AIN'T NO CHANGING OR HELPING THEM ,EVEN SOBER TO BE HONEST ITS WHO THEY ARE ITS THERE PERSONALITY

You mean AMM AUTOMATICALLY MARQUIS MONEY😂

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I'm a woman and I tell my brethren, anytime a woman can't provide for her own basic needs, leave her azz alone. Women these days ain't got no business waiting on no man to buy them a house , a car, clothes, a business..etc. This is not the 1940's and 50's where women couldn't do certain things unless a man was helping her. Opportunity is everywhere. Buy yo own shyyt. Brothers leave these trychs alone.

​@@maxxpopp2373Amen.

That’s literally the first thing they teach you about addiction when you go into treatment

You're right, I really wish she would have finished that whole program because he really messed up a good relationship. She had a supportive person who cared. But everyone has their own breaking point. I'm glad he showed maturity and walked away.

I can somewhat empathize. My dad was an alcoholic. Chose alcohol over us. My mom tried to get him help but he would decline. Then blame her for not helping him.

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Have older brothers who have been on drugs on and off all their adult lives. One is homeless & the other was released 10 yrs ago from prison and went back to drugs & now in back in jail. This addiction is so powerful and destructive to everyone in its wake

@@GrumpySmurf0813 oh yes I’ve been blamed.

@@gail1436 oh yes for sure my brother has been in and out since 16 yrs ok lost his own dad to drugs and didn’t learn from that! The system also helped to fail our brothers bc they give them no help or follow up with sobriety they just release them and that’s it!

Very

You see how she switched it up real fast after that lol. First it was he made me drink then it was “I don’t blame him” after JM went in on her.

Exactly queen

Spot on!

Exactly queen

Another crach head move

Oh she smoked Dat phone for sure

You caught that too? She wanted to go for a binge because she had already relapsed. The texts offering her a room tied that fact up nicely

She wanted to be with her crowd

Preach queen

Yep, you can't live your life because you have to be considerate of someone else's mess

I am jus realizing this now. And idk why but they play that victim card well when ironically they cause everybody else misery. It's sickening. I'm now 37 weeks pregnant and the father is in another state "finding himself" and it's all my fault. Smdh. Wish I would saw the flags sooner

​@@nodoggybag1207Firstly, I pray your baby is healthy and happy, and that you have everything you need as a mommy, especially if this is your first child. Raising children is a wonderful experience even though sometimes it can sometimes be hair-raising or frightening. Mostly it's so much fun and so very rewarding. God bless you and your child with all of His blessings throughout your lives. Never give up hope as a mother. I'm praying for you. Secondly, the "father out there somewhere finding himself" 🙄 obviously doesn't have the courage nor the strength that you have to help you raise your baby. Maybe someday he will realize the woes of his ways. Possibly not. In the event that he doesn't, you will have to remain strong and have the conviction to lead your child to become jyst as strong and as courageous and as hopeful as you. Y'all shall overcome - I just know it. (I speak from experience. My first husband left me alone when our child was only 14 months old. I had no family because he had moved me two states away from them. It was traumatic and difficult, but my son and I survived, and he is The Most Wonderful young man I know. 🤩. Naturally, I'm biased, but you understand. I raised him to be a champ in spite of all odds stacked up against us, no thanks to his father. Anyway, @nodoggybag1207, I wish you well forever and always. Surely God is watching over you and your baby, wherever you are. 💐🙏🏽

Yes indeed I tried to help my brother and it was like heavy weight forming on my shoulders and once he couldn't get nothing else out of me I no longer heard anything from him once that happened my shoulders didn't feel so heavy anymore # never again THEY ARE MANIPULATORS USERS LIERS .....

Say that shyt again honey realist comment I've seen in a minute

@@kgames1748 Thank You Love 💕💕💕💕

Until she relapses again! 50 days clean for an crack addict is nothing. I’m so sick of giving addicts a round of applause because they are finally not lying, stealing and abusing!

You fell for her lies, this woman is a dope fiend con artist and everything that comes out of her mouth is a lie. Honestly she has a demonic spirit in her .

She’s been in the game so long it’s a con she just knows the right things to say. She’s really made that man seem like the devil talked about him locking her out of the room while he’s telling her he’ll get her own room. She went to the bad side of town to get high but she’s blaming him. She’s never gonna change she’s just gonna play the game as she sees it

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I find it interesting that you would add the comment, *"Not that he's an angel....."* I'm curious how anyone, after listening to the testimony in this case, would not see this man as an angel! He was literally there for her in ways she wasn't there for herself....but you say, *"Not that he's an angel....."* 🤔🤔

@@blackwisdom Because no one is an angel.

​@@blackwisdom Real Talk. Seems like he accepted a woman with some baggage, loved and took care and provided for her and her kids and on top of that planned to marry her and commit. Hell even while they were arguing he still tried to make sure she was safe. And I doubt her spending that week in Vegas was because she called and he declined assistance but rather she put off on asking him for a ticket as long as she could and either bit the bullet and asked for it or called a family member to get her right. Man's literally ain't have not 1 negative thing they CONFIRMED he did but her? Sht a whole book of the wrong she was out there doing while trying to slander buddy's name 🥴

@@susiesolangesimpson2828 if, according to you, no one is an angel, then there's no need for you to say he's not an angel...because *NO ONE* is, that means it's a given. That's like saying anyone who's able to read this message can read....that too is a given...so, it doesn't need to be said.

Yes queen he seen it

She looks better, but she still evil...she didn't say she acted wrong in the courtroom

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@@peterdarker1 😂💯👺💯😂

You believe that con artist dope fiend, cause everything that comes out of her mouth is A LIE, BY HER BEING PRETTY MEN SOME MEN WILL FALL FOR HER DOPE FIEND CON.

😊 I can see why....

So true queen

Yes lawd...

Yesss mammn

Marque is just a plain MARK.

This is why you don’t mess with addicts, sober or not! They will traumatize you greatly!

I like your comment Renee Brown🤗🌹💐🤗

Ain't they babe smh

I felt the same way 👍🙌🙌🙌

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She didn't say the right thing by saying you should never have mess with me the right thing would have been if she chose not to be with him the same way that would have been the right thing from the beginning she knew that she was an addict she knew that he wasn't she knew that he could do whatever he pleases and it won't affect him she can't if she knows these things then she knows that she should not be around people places and things this is what they tell you in AA and na so she has no excuse she's a manipulator we'll probably learn the skill when she was out in the streets I don't know but I know that she is not right and she did not say nothing correct the statement

If the roles were reversed and a woman did what he did for a drug addicted man than the comments would not be in her favor. They would say they have no sympathy for her. Our society is so odd 😂

@@mahailiabrown3972 i understand your point. However she did not adhere to the AA guidelines. And that was the reason she relapsed badly. What the boyfriend should have done is get educated and informed about how to deal with an addict who is trying to recover. It was a mismatch and the end result before JM. Again I’m happy for her achievement in recovery at the end of it all. Wish her well.

@@barbarapaton4005 it's her responsibility at all times she knew she wasn't suppose to date before a year no matter what it's her fault and like I said she said nothing wrong she is a manipulator

@@mahailiabrown3972 well I will keep far from manipulators! Wouldn’t mess with them at all !

Because she did the powder form of crack!! And she say it.

She was on everything...😢😢😢 Xanax alcohol and other stuff!