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Its so nice to see people finding partners later in life. Like Paul said "relationships take work". Sadly, sometimes only one person puts in all the work, and it gets old when its one sided always. Congrats on your friendship. Love to see youtube couples living their best life.
No relationship is perfect. Communication is key - Give and Take...Meeting in the middle is very important.. Good see you back. I think it is important to take a breath and just live from time to time.
Our tough moments are when the husband wants to pull into a tight spot or a tiny gas station with cheap gas and the wife finds the stress of that and the potential for hitting something too much. We had to come to an agreement that ease of pulling into the gas station was just as important a factor as the price. Also we have agreed to reserve spots that are a little bigger than the bare minimum we need. The second stressor is around maximum distance to travel in one day. sometimes one of us is more optimistic than the other about the distance we can cover. Trying to do too many miles can cause a cascade of stress later when you are setting up in the dark or trying to start dinner while you are over- tired.
Oh, we can relate! I'm sure you saw our video where we wrecked the back corner of our camper in a gas station! We did a video about how far to travel in a day. We believe in the Rule of 3s: 300 miles or 3:00, whichever comes first. Wishing you happy travels and thanks for watching our video.
Gotta say resets are required from time to time for sanity sake and to refocus. The wife and I have been married 30+ years ran a business together and were always around each other 24/7 and people always asked how you do it, well you just do and respect each other. BUT in a RV it's different, we are not full timers but do winters and several months in the summer in our 5th wheel. I cracked up when Paul made the reference of having an argument and you still have to work together to packs up, so true. Been some frosty miles on the road even in the summer heat. Fortunately we are quick to get over it and move on without resentment. There are times when can hardly wait to get back to the brick and sticks just to have the break, but then get antsy to get on the road again. Great video as always keeping it real. Thanks
Thanks so much for your comment Don. We are glad this is such a relatable video. Congrats on your 30+ years together! Happy travels and see you in the next one.
Sometimes people think this lifestyle is footloose and fancy free. Locations change but life has a way of keeping us in line. It’s amazing how much we have to do just to keep going. Relationship is the most important thing we have and this lifestyle will put it to the test in every way.
First step we have decided on is where our dog houses are. Cindy gets the 5th wheel and I get the truck. Luckily the truck has two beds, refrigerator, microwave and a tv. (Volvo 780 HDT) Hers is the Grand Design Momentum 398MR. 😭🤣😂. Don't worry Paul it only took me 8 years to get my head out of my backside so your doing better than me😂. It's funny when Cindy and me sit on our couch together we hold hands. The kids think we are nuts and all day ewe. But we tell them as you get older you will find that you really can't stay mad at each other. Personally we have also told our kids to get rid of the King size beds they have. We still sleep on a full size bed. I tell the kids, mom can't run from me and I cant either. So you can't go to bed mad. Communication is the key to a good relationship. We've been together now for forty years. Sure ever day isn't a party but we plan on making it the best we can. With gods help each day we live to our best. Safe travels and roads Brian and Cindy, "xtreambydesign with passion"
Awww, such a great comment, Brian. Thanks so much! You two sound so sweet together! About the doghouse- we took our couch out so Paul has nowhere to go! Another incentive for us to not go to bed mad! Congrats on your 40 years!!!
Niagara Falls! Slowly I turn, step by step… Don’t forget to visit our hometown of Lockport. The Erie Canal runs right through the city and we have some cool bike trails. Happy trails!
You both sound grounded. With injuries that could add stress. You both seemed to have good goals. Sending comfort to you both. It's good to see you both. Relationships are both so individual, and you both seem to want to work on it. Counseling will hopefully help.
Glad so see you well rested and taking time off to re-evaluate things. Both of you are a fine example of life’s meaning. You are real straight shooter honest kind and you are fighters for the good in life.
Great video, so nice to see you two again, standing next to each other, speaking from your hearts and being open and honest with your thoughts and feelings. It’s seems like you really do love each other and are doing a great job making things work. From a selfish point of view, if I didn’t see any new videos coming out , I would really miss both of you, because you take a part of us with you as you as you travel on your journey together.
Liz & Paul Always enjoy your videos and honesty. You've both have had your share of obstacles and hurdles Rving full time. We can relate to your comments both on being in such a confined space and how much work it takes to edit video. Charlotte and I put out a few videos and know the time and effort required to do so. We can tell by the quality of yours how much you care about producing a good product. On the Rving full time, we don't, but spent 56 days last year rving the western states. I could tell we were getting a little on edge towards the end of our trip and we've been married for 38 yrs. Glad you took time to regroup and looking forward to watching your videos again. Don't know if you camped yet in Pa. if not don't be a stranger.
We will be BIKING through PA as we go from Pittsburgh to DC. Looking forward to that! Thanks for your kind words and glad you got some good camping in last year. Hugs to you and Charlotte for 38 years!
me n hubby are just about to celebrate our 45th anniversary. going to a lg city; stay in nice hotel; swim in pool; play ping pong; do mini golf; go carts etc. we plan fun stuff to do and save/show each other funny stuff off yt all the time. he works hard, he gets his dinner served to him on his lap watching tv every nite. we dont fight, we may disagree at times but hes a professional negotiator for a multi million dollar business, so theres rarely any raised voices in our house. and we read the Bible/pray together/go to church together. love/respect/fun are the ties that bind.
Liz and Paul, that was a great reality check!👍 My hubby and I have talked about this and how important it is to have clear expectations, respect, understanding and extra kindness. It can make or break a trip forsure. 👋👋👋
Continue : traveling around nrw zealand, we took life slowly, never watched TV and talked to each other all the time with no secrets and enjoyed the wonderful world we live in. When my wife got multiple sclerosis and is now in wheelchair at home, now we look to people like you both, to see how dreams of travel through your eyes, you give us so much happiness watching your wonderful life. Our relationship is enhanced by your love for life. Be safe be happy and take each other in your arms and dance with your eyes closed and feel the wonder of life. Love from brian @ barbs in new zealand x x
Awww, Brian and Barbs, what beautiful words! Paul and I are so touched as we sit here and talk about you two. You are halfway around the world but feel as if you are right next door. Love to you both! Liz & Paul
RV life to fix a relationship is like having a baby to fix a relationship. 😂 Liz, I'm so impressed by your channel. What an adventure you've been living. What a beautiful lake. That campground would be a favorite for me.
Love the honesty in your relationship. Frankly that’s one of the many keys to a long successful relationship, in 2022 I’ll be married 40 years going strong.
Oh how I can sympathize with you two. 7+ years living in a semi. And there are no doors to slam! 13 feet long was the longest length we had. But we would not have changed a moment. We spent 3 years out on the road and decided it was working so well, we married. It's always good to unplug when you need to and never apologize for doing so. A healthy relationship keeps a healthy life. You two are AMAZING, carry on!!
Thanks so much for your comment, Liz. You can definitely relate. That's awesome you two survived and THRIVED living in a small space. It really makes you appreciate the important things. Hugs to you both!
We are not full-time and have no plans to go that route but we have to say we give kudos to those who have done it and made it work for them. Paul and Liz, I think you were simply meant to be. I smile when I see you two together and it's so obvious that there is so much love and caring in your relationship. Hugs to both of you!
Awww, you are so very sweet. Thank you so much. See you in our brand new video right here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gKS5lM31FLw.html
We did the Pittsburgh to DC ride a couple of years ago. We were In our early 60's and rode at a 6mph pace for 6 to 7 hour per day. We camped most of the time. We carried all our gear with us. The hotels are very bicycle friendly along the way. The Allegheny Passage part is wonderful, but the C&O is rough and full of mosquitoes. Just bring lots of bug spray. Great trip!!! Thanks for all of the encouraging videos. Brendan & Lena
Thanks for this. We'd love to sit around the campfire with you and learn more. Bug spray! Hadn't thought of that!!! We were talking to the trip organizer who told us the C&O has been smoothed out over the last two years. We shall see. Stay tuned!
It is ok to watch two different shows in different rooms (I head to bedroom, hubby in family room). We are together but not up each other butts. I don't have to watch his "stupid" shows and he doesn't have to watch mine (and feel resentful). Then we settle into bed and watch something we both like.
Glad you are back, understand you need vacation (break), and you should for healthy minds. I give you guys permission to take time off as long as you let us know and that you come back. Been your fan since you started, Love you both, blessings and great things 😍🥰
Awww, thanks Marlene! We love having you with us. If you haven't already, ring the bell. That will give you an alert on the Community page. If we do miss a week, we usually post an announcement there. Thanks so much for being on the A-Team!!!
Hello you two!! I was really wondering what happened to you because of the absence of your weekly videos! Thank you for your transparency- taking time off working on your relationship is time well spent! My husband and I have been retired for 22 years and pretty much are inseparable- we are not in an RV but do drive to hiking trails EVERY morning to walk our dog and get exercise! It’s a blessing that we get along and have so much in common/ but even so, we can get on each other’s nerves 😬. I can’t imagine being in an RV part or most of the time - kudos to you both and so glad you’re back❣️
Awww, thanks so much Rebecca! Sounds like you have something really special. Such good exercise and quality couple time you are getting every morning. It's great to see you again- hugs to you!
Great to see you back & refreshed~ We picked up our "new to us" 2018 Airstream Classic & in Orlando & headed to our home in Charleston. Our first stop was at Flamingo Lake and "wow" were the folks nice. We met a gentleman (Harry) that helped us with our first ever "issue" ( WD40 to the rescue) Hope to see y'all on the road & remember you can "hug dock" near Charleston. Vinnie & Wanda
Yay! So happy to hear you checked out Flamingo Lake. We loved our time there. And congrats on your Airstream. I always daydream about having one of those someday. Alas, their CCC is not high enough for all of our stuff, even when utilizing the back of the truck. They sure are beautiful though - enjoy and hope to see you on the road!
Missed you both. Happy you're back as well. Relationships (any relationship) comes down to expectations and those expectations being met. If you work for someone, the boss expects you to work and you expect to be paid. Then these expectations may change and need to be dealt with, more work, more money, time off etc.. In personal relationships there has to be expectations along with compromise. This takes input and effort from both parties. Life evolves and we need to work on the process diligently. Easier said than done sometimes but can be worth the effort. (just don't do the blame game) Anyway that's my two cents (maybe two bucks if adjusted for inflation) Stay happy, stay safe, work together.
Thanks so much for your words of wisdom. You are so right. We appreciate your love and support, thanks again and we missed you, too. If you haven't already, ring the bell as the next video will come out sooner rather than later. See you then!
Liz If memory serves me correctly, Paul, in his past life was a professional engineer. Oh, my dear, you have my blessings. Engineers are a special breed. Sorry Paul, the voice of experience speaks. They (engineers) have fantastically beautiful minds. Take your time, slow down, smell the pines, and you will be just fine. Kudos to you two and safe travels. Mine was a civil... BJ
Awww, thanks so much! Yes he was a field engineer for Hyundai. I am so lucky to have someone who does such a great job fixing and maintaining our camper. Here's something about the way engineers think. Shortly after we got our rig, Paul just sat staring at the fireplace with a frown on his face. I asked him what was the matter and he said he couldn't figure out how it comes apart. (In my mind, I'm like who CARES how it comes apart?!) After looking closer he figured it out, so he was happy! lol
My girlfriend and traveled for over a year full time. We didn’t make it. Learned a lot about living in a RV full time. One needs ti be able to change, adapt and be understanding of the others needs and wants. Didn’t happen for us. Sold the Grand Design Solitude and I am now in a TC. Thanks for sharing
Thanks Ira. Yes, there are extra relationship challenges in a small space for sure. Glad you gave it a try. Sometimes it's just a roll of the dice. Hope to meet you on the road!
I keep seeing Hunters, Washington in the comments. What? You traveled back to the Pacific Northwest? That can’t be true. Hahahaha. Glad to see your vlog again and totally respect your break in producing the show.
Liz and Paul great to see ya back, we should all learns lesson from you both. Staying relevant not the number one. Self care keeps you health and In touch with the things you value most.
Lake Roosevelt, Washington? But seriously, glad to see another video! My husband and I met in Korea, in the Army, and our dating period was fairly short, because when you're in close proximity almost 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, you figure it out pretty fast!
Good guess but it's the clip at the end. We do have a winner but we will do this again next time. So glad it worked out for you and your husband. And that's a great point, being together in such a small space has its advantages. Trial by fire! We say, if we can keep our relationship strong through this, we can handle anything. Thanks for your comment!
Glad to see y’all back! It is always good to press the pause button and set priorities. We have been RVing from day one of our relationship. and in reality it does not take small spaces to find yourself on the wrong end of and argument or a bad day. We still own our home and we can find ourselves annoyed at the other in our home, but on the road we are at peace and relaxed. But I get it it takes effort and being tuned into the other persons moods. I have found that the first thing you have to put in the order of relationship tools/methods and that is respect. You have to respect their opinions, and the person if you are unable to find the respect then it will always be a struggle. Next is interests, my wife is a quilter, I am not, but I show interest in her hobby and we make time to visit quilt shows and quilt stores, I look at the quilts, examine the workmanship and comment about them but most importantly is when she asks for advice I have to be in tune with what she is talking about in regards to designs, colors, thread etc. I can’t passively say oh yea that looks good or say sure those go together. No I have to be involved, study it and honestly provide input if she asks. Of course there is Love and caring for each other, she has found that even though she is 7 years my junior she can’t keep up with me on bike rides, or hiking or kayaking she is also not as adventurous as I am. So she is loosening the rains and allowing me to go explore on my own, she still worries that I might get hurt but she is trusting my capabilities. On our last trip she said Oh you go and ride the trail I will do some sewing, in the past she thought it was too dangerous and I might get hurt, I also did some off trail hiking up a mountain and she sent me on my way, that was her way of respecting my ability and decision capability and loosening the grip. It has taken close to 18 years but it has been worth every minute of it. Stay safe out there and enjoy the lifestyle, Video creation is difficult and time consuming and can take the fun out of traveling.
I really appreciate you two. I’m 57 and my wife is 56, we want to do more camping, and I really look forward to your videos and advice. Keep having fun and making videos.
Liz, you and Paul had a horrible couple of months with your back. To be on the road with such a crippling injury with the uncertainty of what was going to happen was a very stressful situation. You both survived it. Your relationship survived it. It was time y'all took a break. It appears to have helped as you both look refreshed. God bless and stay aware of your health.
Thanks so much for this Carole! We feel so fortunate to have recognized the need for a break and then to have taken in. We feel great and it feels good to be back. We are so glad to have you with us! See you in the next video, which will be sooner rather than later!
Hello, we have been married 50 years and for me (wife) gosh it was hard learning who my husband was after years of him being at work. I think for us it finding the love is always in our hearts but it is hard staying in best friend status! The most important thing is yes air what is wrong respectfully but then just move on and no sulking!!!! Stay safe love from your Aussie nomad friends 🤗😊
Thank you so much for this Gail. 50 years -wow! Paul and I would love to sit around the campfire with you and soak up some of that relationship wisdom! Big hugs to you across the miles!
It’s the same in team truck driving. My trainer( from 20+ years ago) had the best analogy, “lock you and your partner in a small bathroom for 48 hours. If you don’t kill each other, then you can team drive.” Its the same in FT RVliving. Its always good to take time for self healing.
Oh my gosh, that's a great quote! Thanks for your support and understanding. We are excited about the new videos we have lined up. See you in the next one!
Ah, we dropped some clues in that clip and some folks figured it out. You'll get another shot in the next video. And thanks so much for being with us and taking the time to comment, Ed. We love you!
Relationships can definitely be an issue when traveling in such a small space. We get along fine in the confines of the camper.....its when we are on the road that the issues begin. I get anxiety when we get into traffic, then my poor husband has to watch me hit my imaginary brake and gasp all while he is trying to pay attention to the traffic. I am really going to work on trusting in the fact he is a good driver and knows what he is doing. Excited to hear you are going to Niagara Falls!! Embarrassed to say I live in the State of NY and have never been there. You should come to the 1000 Islands region of NY. It is beautiful in the summer and fall!
Yes, so much to see in all of NY! We will just be doing Niagara this time, will have to plan a return visit. Yes, driving as a couple can be challenging. Wishing you much happy camping this year.
Missed you. And I have to say that keeping a relationship together in a tight space is a challenge. Jerry being on immunosuppressives, we’ve been in pandemic lockdown for the better part of 2 1/2 years now with only occasional vaccinated forays. There are times in the condo when we feel like rats in a cage and start hissing and growling each other. But Summer’s here, we are now quad-vaxxed, Miss Olivia - the new pup - keeps a smile on our faces, and we’re looking forward to busting out - as soon as I get over my broken wrist. Yup. Annoying. So there’s a new pet in your lives! Looking forward to hearing more and following your travels! ❤️
We missed you too! So sorry about your broken wrist, hope you get healed up soon. Olivia sounds like such a sweetie. Our pet is a volunteer and we don't expect her to stay with us for long!
I’m so glad you’re back! I’m also happy you’re visiting the Niagara area! The Friendship Trail in Canada is one of my favorite bike rides! I am so looking forward to cycling in Canada for the first time in two years! Also be sure to do all the touristy things - Cave of the Winds, Maid of the Mist, the speedboat ride, etc. You can’t appreciate the power of the Falls until you’re in a boat at the base of them. Breathtaking. Also Niagara-on-the-Lake (Canadian side) and Lewiston (American side) are charming towns to spend some time in. Best wishes!🙋🏻♀️
Second the Maid of the Mist boat ride idea. Cave of the Winds, is that the walk behind the Falls? I did that back in1970 as a small child and loved it, but didn't they stop it b/c it became dangerous (probably some lawyers sued and regulations kicked in)??
@@janicenunn8525 Yes it was shut down for a while back then. But it was repaired shortly afterward and has been open since. Now, you can zip line over the Niagara. Not doing that ever! But you can…
Yes, it does have a Mayberry feel doesn't it? We left a couple clues in the clip and a few folks figured out it was Hunter, WA. Stay tuned for the next video as that clip to guess is a bit closer to your area.
Hello Paul and Liz! So glad to have you back! I think it is great that you both recognized that you needed to regroup and change your schedule and take a break. Everyone else gets vacation time from their jobs and even though I'm sure some people consider full-time RVing one long vacation, I know how hard you both work putting out videos and filming and editing content. It is a full-time job at least I'm sure. We all get time off from our jobs so you deserve time off as well! I appreciate your insights about how if you aren't in a great place or are having issues in a relationship, setting out on the road in an RV that's 1/10 the size of your home is not going to fix your problems. Although I'm not in a relationship, I can definitely appreciate that and how challenging it can be. Looking forward to seeing all of the videos you will be putting out soon. All the best to you both!
Hi Rosemary! Thanks so much for understanding and your kind words. We are so grateful for the flexibility in this RV life, but also for recognizing we needed to regroup. Now, we are excited about all the videos coming your way!! See you in the next one!
Glad you are back. I can’t imagine how incredibly difficult the full time RV life is with the addition of the you tube channel. One or the other would do most people but added together takes special people not to reach a point of no return. Glad you recognized it before anything happened.
Thanks Marylou. We feel so fortunate in that we can change our travel plans and reprioritize our lives. It's all good now and we have a lot of great videos lined up. See you in the next one!
Never apologize for taking time for yourself. I always thought it had to be challenging to change locations every 2 weeks. My husband and I are only summer travelers and by travelers I mean only the Pacific Northwest. 😉 If it was up to my husband we would stay in one location for an entire week but since we're only doing it for the summer months, I like to change locations. I can't imagine every 2 weeks of your life having to close up shop, put everything away that you put outside, drive to the next location, set up again just to have to do it again. I like the idea of once a month heading to new location and staying there. As long as it's a nice location, I think it will do you two a lot of good. By the way, good job catching that there was something off in a relationship and handling it. I know that's not always easy. Dot during summer… so we can camp with you guys. I feel like I know you two (I'm sure you get that a lot). Travel safe and stay happy! 😁
Hi Gracie! Thanks so much for your kind comment. We would love to camp near you and we love the PNW. After we tour this side of the country we will be back on your side! Yes, we are liking moving just every month. Like you said, as long as it's a good location. Or else it could be not so good! Happy travels to you both!
My husband and I aren't technically full-timers because we usually stay out around 3 months and then spend a few weeks at home regrouping. However, we are on the road for long enough stretches that I am very aware of the challenges presented by spending so much time together. Whenever I am talking with someone who is thinking about going full-time, I always encourage them to give serious consideration to what it will be like to be with their significant other around the clock every single day forever. People look at me like I've grown horns or something, but I really think that it never occurs to people. Also, people who haven't owned an RV before or who only traveled occassional don't get how much work it gets to be and how stressful it becomes. And when nerves become frayed, there is no easy way to take a break or to get away from each other. I think this is one of the reasons most people don't full-time for more than a few years.
So very true! Thanks so much for your great comment! We are grateful that RV life allows us to endlessly readjust as needed. See you in our new video right here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gKS5lM31FLw.html
I am so glad to see both of you! I am going to check out your biking video right now. Relationships?? I've been married 39 yrs +2 dating. We have worked together and been in each other's space for prolonged periods and we learned to STAY OUT OF EACH OTHER'S SPACE OR ELSE! haha~! I totally get it..:)
Thanks Jan! Yes, it takes some time to find out what works. Certainly for us since we never dated. The reset seems to have helped and we know feel on solid ground once more. Congrats on over 40 years together. Big hugs to you both!
Newbie solo with 3 large dogs, and travel trailer. But I love your channel and have been watching since Liz started out. Glad you both found each other on the road. You both know how it was to be solo. Is it better having a partner? 😉
Hi Luann! That's a great question. It certainly is easier having a helper and an extra set of eyes. On the other hand, it has to be the RIGHT partner. The wrong one can make this life hell. They have to share the same temperament and sense of adventure, be responsible, detail and safety oriented. And so much more! I am really glad I didn't sit around waiting for the right partner before going out on the road. Congrats to you on your brand new solo life! We look forward to meeting you out here!!!
I was wondering where you went but glad you took time for yourselves. Everyone needs to be their own best support system and doing yt should never get in the way of self care.
Thanks Patty. We are so glad to have you on our team! Thanks for watching and commenting. We will have another video posting soon so if you haven't already, ring the bell to get a notification. See you soon.
Glad you both are back it’s nice to take that break everyone needs a break from time to time. I would imagine it would get tiring moving every week it’s a lot of work and packing up the rig.
Charlotte and I are going on 3 years. You've been to our world. I find, if I'm away from her for more than 2 hours or can't get back to her on 20 minutes. A big hole is experience. I truly miss being with her. Yeah we got on each others nerves, and if we need a little space. There's the great outdoors. Leash up the Aussies and take a walk, or find something to fix. It may be tight on the inside, but it's wide open outside.
Glad to see you again. I missed you two and I was wondering what happened. I figured you needed to take some time off and take a vacation. I'm looking forward to your bike rides
Thanks Carolyn, we did post a video we were taking a break. If you haven't already, ring the bell so you can get a notification each time we post. We look forward to showing you the bike rides! See you in our latest right here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-y2X9f4M3IfU.html
Glad your back life is way to short to be under stress at are age!! Glad you took a breathier !! What you guys do is like having a job with no vacation !!
Thanks so much for understanding, Tim. We love doing RU-vid but are glad we took a little breather. We are excited about all the videos we have lined up. See you in the next one!
Great to see you back smiling 😊 and ready to give it another go I'm a cyclist so I will go over and check out your other channel. Thanks for all ya do and welcome back we missed ya🙂🙂
That looks a lot lot the Bar Harbor/Acadia area of Maine. I'm pretty sure I've been on that road before. My inlaws retired to Steuben about 25 years ago. We love it up there. In the summertime! LOL Safe travels!
I visited some friends in Winter Harbor back in 1980s when there were only 16 houses on the entire peninsula, has it been built up since then with the wealth effect, or still sparsely populated? It is right across/north of Bar Harbor.
Excited to have you guys back. When you do your ride from Pittsburg to Dc you will ride the CO canal right through my town of Cumberland Md. if you need anything hit me up.
Thanks for the great information, we are planning to go full time RV life in three years . We have decided to do a trial 6 month, before liquidation of all assets.
Yes, that's a great idea. Plus you won't know what to keep and what to toss from your camper. Having a six month trip will help clarify that. There will likely be things you left at home you'll decide you want with you. Happy planning and see you in our next video right here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gKS5lM31FLw.html
Hi, I am a full-time (6 year) RVer and recently got married to a wonderful woman who was not only willing to put up with me but was willing enough to put up with my lifestyle. Now let it be said that my wife had never done this before and she was willing to give it a try. I have to say it may have been a mistake on both of our parts. RV living for me solo is great but not so much for someone who has never done it before and even though my wife was willing to give it a go, it was more like giving it no go. I even went as far as buying a new larger RV for the one I had owned, before I met her, made her feel that it was way too small for both of us and I agreed. It gave her the feeling that it was more mine than hers even though we went out together and found this new one. Bottom line, RV life, as it has been said a million times over, is NOT for everyone. My wife loves the brick and motor lifestyle and I love the RV adventure lifestyle. We even went as far as to take a year off from the RV lifestyle and rented an apartment together to see f that was the answer. She was somewhat happy and I longed for the outdoor adventure that only RV people understand and love. So what's the answer? So far there is no answer and there is no compromise we both know what makes us feel comfortable and happy, both of us love each other very much, but with different ways of living together. I can only say to all of you who are single or are in a relationship that everyone has differences and that you can't force or make your partner love or even like what you like or love. If think there is an answer out there, know that it still may not be the right answer for you. I wish all of you fellow RVers who are traveling together with the very best that even though you can't always agree with each other that as long as you are in love with each other that that's all that matters.
Boy, is this ever a familiar story! We meet lots of couples on the road where one person is loving it and the other is tolerating it...at best. For myself, I am grateful that I was solo for one year and met my partner on the road versus staying in town and waiting to meet a man who *might* share my RV dream. It's a very individual call as to what to do in situations such as yours. It's taken me 26 years to get out here on the road and I honestly am not sure I would stop if Paul said he wanted to stop. I would feel grounded and unhappy, which would negatively impact our relationship. Best of luck to you and yours. Hugs.
Welcome back. I loved your episode on when you ripped the back of your 5th wheel at the gas station. Really learned. What do you do when you get into that situation. Love your videos
I find that I do not enjoy the tearing down and setting up. We stay a month at a time and have a 6 month spot in Michigan. Finding spots in Florida this winter was a struggle. Looking forward to not moving for 6 months starting in May. I agree its like living in an elevator. Must find things to do separately. I enjoy sewing and he enjoys fishing.
We are finding we do like one month at time, three weeks even. That's what's so great about RV life, you can adjust as needed. Endlessly! Happy travels!
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It sure is. There was a clue in there and you've got a sharp eye to see it! Unfortunately someone solved it right away. Thanks for playing and we'll do it again next time. Best of luck!
