I really love John's advice for heterosexual relationships. A lot of what he says makes sense and some find it hard to accept but our biological sides are active participants in our human experience so ignoring that is bound to cause confusion and problems. I was a little surprised by some of his opinions on homosexuality, but I really can't speak to that as a hetero woman. I totally support the LGBTQ community. But I believe one should never throw the baby out with the bathwater and John has a lot of very valuable wisdom and insights here. That being said, this was not the best interview I have seen with John. It went off the rails because the interviewer was not guiding the talk. She seems sweet, and likely has given some great interviews, but based on the disclaimer, she stopped participating in the interview because she was not in agreement with what John was saying. I feel a strong interviewer could have found a way to participate and guide things even with such polarizing opinions. However, I do feel the same as the interviewer though in that I am not in agreement with everything John thinks.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment Jane! It was certainly a conversation I did lose my way on, not just out of partial disagreement but I am indeed better developing the skill of assertiveness. This was a main factor in starting a podcast and I am grateful that this conversation revealed where there is work still to be done. I have grown and become more confident because of this. Thank you for being here and being part of my own personal To Be Human journey 🤍
Could listen to John all day! He’s absolutely spot on about the state of society today; the porn, perversion, depravity, immorality, irreligiosity, wokeness. Everything is inverted & upside down, it’s awful. John is a breath of honest fresh air!👏👏👏
Every generation has challenged the generation before and if we did not we would not have changed. For instant LGBTQ community is now not illegal to be in a relationship. Black/brown are allowed to vote..........women are encouraged to have careers.
So wish all our young people could be taught all this. Just imagine a lifetime living in bliss. Together forever. This is what our world needs. True Love ❤️ 😍
It’s sad that there was a “need” for a disclaimer before the video. His statements that are unfavorable in modern culture are still facts and facts should trump feelings. He never said to treat a transgender or gay person with disrespect.
I love that the interview is uncensored 💕 The disclaimer seems intense, however I think it’s to protect yourself from those who disagree with John’s view. I actually love that you let John talk it was great listening to what he had to say and hus honesty. Thank you for sharing the interview! 😇
It's refreshing to hear that John Gray is red-pilled about the Agenda and how the world works, at the moment! His wisdom seems to know no bounds, as he is so well-informed on so many areas of life.
This the most animated and real I have seen Dr John be in these relationship discussions. I am beyond myself to hear all the truth b*mbs he has dropped. It’s happening now. The Great Awakening. Keep your hearts open in your male and female sides. Bravo. We need more of this honest talk.
Wow!!!! I didn't know John Gray to be such a no bullshit, tell it like it is, truth warrior....well, sir your common sense have made me a new fan...Amen and thank you!
Really appreciate not cutting out the taboo opinions that are different from our current society! Don’t be afraid to be canceled by different opinions. We need them!
I know John; he and I have worked together several times; I have worked with ALL of the most famous human potential leaders in the world including Marianne Williamson and Wayne Dyer. And John is the most sincere, real, kind, and truthful of them all. I so love and respect this man.
In my world, I really like to yell from the mountain tops for those I know personally who are the real deal! Since I left that comment, I have nearly finished my new book Marriage Magic. John has requested a copy of the pdf so he can endorse it. He’s a very busy guy but makes time for others!
The disclaimer was a bit much. Not necessary. Makes it sound like what he’s saying is wrong. We’re grown up enough to make up our own minds based on what he is saying.
Thank you John Gray. Thank you, host, for facilitating the conversation. I hid my face in my hands when he said, “when a woman pushes her feminine side away and enters her masculine side, she becomes HEARTLESS.” My husband has expressed that he’s seen woman soccer players be absolutely ruthless on the field. He made comparisons and showed me videos. A woman soccer player would knock down another player purposefully and violently and he’d say, if those were two men playing they’d stop the game and give a hand to the other one to get up. When John said that women make the best fighter pilots I felt so embarrassed. I felt embarrassed because I could feel the truth of it within myself. It’s almost my own female interpretation of a man’s experience. Because I believe men are ruthless, because men can idealize ruthlessness, it’s as if I am proving to the rest of the world that I am most ruthless, without exception. That’s the feeling I have, that’s what went through my head when he said that about women fighter pilots. Then when he went on to say about the world’s pedophiles and women and men who don’t love each other, and how that’s the root cause of the world falling apart..yes, I hid my face, as I sat alone listening to this, because I know how true it is. I have erred from the proper path. I am flawed. Every time I listen to an interview with John gray I want to just jump my husband and give him so much love. I am currently working on men are from mars and look forward to investing in his other books to attain an abundance of peace in my marriage, deeper love in my heart and to illuminate and expand upon the truth that this man continues to share. God bless, and to everyone reading this comment, I love you! You’re so brave and you’re so wonderful for wanting to bring deeper peace into your relationships. If you’re married like me, I wish you great sex, deeper levels of connection and many, many happy and healthy years to come with your spouse. Cheers! Great talk.
When John said women can be cold or they make the best pilots. That shook me to the core because women are known for caring more then men but I believe women can be cold as John said
I was being really harsh to a man I’ve been seeing. He said, “please try and refrain from going off on me.” It was a sudden shift within me and I’ve been 100% pleasant since then
This is so incredibly wise and spot on. Thank you so much for having him on your show. And thank you so much for still letting the episode air even if you didn’t agree with everything that was said. It takes a big person to do that. I personally love this man so much, he has helped me beyond words.
loved this! i am a recovering a femi-nazi. i was so far removed from my femininity for so long, and the womens movement suited me just fine while i was so far out of touch. i wished i had gotten to know myself much sooner in life. i wish i had been open to learning from my experiences earlier on. but it took me a long time to evaluate myself and get the tools to heal my childhood issues. for most of my life i was super independent and saw that as a mega strength. being avoidant and in my masculine energy debilitated me in relationships and in finding the masculine partners i truly desired. i am super grateful for john, his wisdom, and his ability to bring in science and literature as well as his experience as a therapist to this topic.
Jennah-Louise, first of all, thumbs up to you! Thank you for short simple introduction and rock and roll! I know other videos when interviewers go on and on and on and on for four-six minutes until they finally allow the person to speak. And regarding John Gray .............there is no more to say 👍
This is hands down the BEST insights I have ever heard regarding relationships and men and women and love and life…..how to be a healthy human being. It’s about life. Bcz life IS all about relationship and LOVE 💗 Wow❤❤❤ wow wow wow. God bless this man ❤❤❤❤😮❤❤🎉 I will be watching this multiple times. soooooooooo good. Thank you, John and thank you for posting this interview ❤❤❤
I'm enjoying this video. It's great in this confused, chaotic place..I do not want to be this independent! I had to start making sure I was ok at a very young age. Ended up w custody of my youngest brother. Chose a bad partner and had kids. Now it's me n the babies. No childcare, not receiving help and it can be stressful. I garden, make soap, work (during school hours) care for my children.. I trust and lean on God. I have been working on not being so rigid, realizing that if I let up a bit the world won't end. God has shown me so much about submission, and the trust I would have to place in a man to submit to him. Learning that letting a man know he's helpful, wanted, and appreciated when he does small and big things is not scary ( I love doing this, but it's been exploited) I've been learning more about femininity..awesome timing.
Thank you for sharing your vulnerable thoughts. It is nice when a man knows he is appreciated, hopefully he will want to continue to do more for you because it sounds like you deserve it.
He is 100% right! Nothing against bisexuality or gay people. Really, everybody should be happy and live the life they want. But these things are really endokrinated by media too much. Everybody wants to be special with their sexuality. Shows it everywhere and feels cool without realizing it's nothing special. I think what he says is really helpful!
# John Gray SPEAKS TRUTH. People in Denial of TRUTH are TRIGGERED!! CHRIST JESUS IS RETURNING IN POWER, GREAT GLORY, & JUDGEMENT. HE is Coming to Receive BELIEVERS Who are Sinners SAVED BY GOD'S GRACE & HE Will Welcome them INTO HIS Eternal Kingdom. Those Who are GOD-HATERS; UNBELIEVERS, DEFIANT, UNREPENTANT , & Loving their SINS Will Receive their REWARD/ Hell Fire Eternal Separation From their CREATOR GOD. # Time to REPENT & LOVE The LORD & Read HIS Holy & Preserved Scriptures/ The Holy BIBLE. John 3:16 Says " For God so Loved the World that HE gave HIS Only begotten SON, that whosoever Believes in HIM will not perish but have Everlasting Life". Praise The LORD !!!
Thank you John, I love your manly courage and passion to speak up for the children especially being sexually brainwashed today! The craziness of depravity and sexual gender confusion being pushed at the moment is madness! I always stood up for homosexual friends decades ago when it was NOT fashionable, so I feel I can say that whats going on now is an attack on our happiness and balance as a yin yang world. There's always meant to be minorities who provide colour and difference, but a lot of born-gay people are disgusted with the brainwashing trends of gayness also.
Great video! John has so many valuable things to say and for us to learn from. Being conscious to how we’re living subconsciously brings about so much healing and joy.
As my understanding, we must avoid to depend ourselves into someone else. We must able to build the Interdependence with ourselves. We will more healthy and more have Me-Time, have great self-esteem and more happy.
Wow! So much information from Mr. John Gray. That was like getting a doctorate in male-female relationships and all manner of sexual issues! So much new and unique information and research in such a short segment! 💝💖
Thank you John Gray so refreshing that you are on the right page on so many things! And you know and are addressing so much that we are not hearing in the main stream media! ha Covid, the Vaccine, which is really not a vaccine at all! Lol So interesting listening to you! Health advise and more!
# NO, You have that wrong. To KNOW & LOVE GOD & HIS LOVE for HIS CREATION (CREATED Human Beings) Will Teach us how to Love Others as we should. Human Beings are born into a Fallen World/sin-filled; so we have a Fallen Nature. would say that most MOTHERS Love their children "unconditionally".
