Hello, I bought it through Amazon just search for Start-X Remote Start Kit for Honda Pilot 2009-2015 || Plug n Play || Lock 3X to Remote Start || Fits 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015 a.co/d/3mpVzOo
There is a green plug on top of the steering column, that is the small one. Go around and down, you will find the white plug, at least mine was white, that is the plug you want. And I am NOT talking about the HUGE white plug. I was a little confused on this too.
No you cannot, as soon as the brake is applied without the key the car will shut off. Plus the car is locked when you start the car because you have to hit the lock button 3 times.