For the Baby Daddys who take responsibility and support their Kids kudos 👏🙌, for those deadbeat Daddys know that karma is real and you can't escape God's wrath
As a man that went to court & FAUGHT FOR CUSTODY OR 50/50...I tell you courts favor women waaaay more. I pay $1600 a month for child support, so cannot afford a nice place for my children. So the mom uses that as a reason why more time should be spent with her for the kids. The system doesn't allow for the father to build a home for the children. This is something I talk about and fighting for the rights of good fathers. Just because a marriage went south, no need to punish the father.
@@Bettyaz What men don't understand is that when children are involved especially in a divorce, men can never win. My ex-husband (Kenyan)got the best lawyer for 7k. He left me at 5 months pregnant and an 8 month old, 7 and 8 yr old at the time. Lowest point of my life and it was Covid season too. For leaving me to suffer with no job and 4 kids under 10yrs, the mediator was very angry at him and he left empty handed. We had just bought a house 4 months prior. I kept the house(I was the breadwinner so that didn't change my finances at all). I have to definitely teach my 3 boys to do better in future and not pay child support like their father.
Wachana nahawa wa contraceptives. Sometimes they fail. N also, sometimes you are enjoying the relationship is good. You are hoping it ends in marriage but things change or the person was just deceiving you he wasn't on it for the long-run. This battles are hard for women. Wachana na the holier than thou kind
You went through a lot but it made u very strong. Many women go through the same and you opening up about your life is helping so many young and old , especially the immigrants with no families here or not a lot of friends. Keep going girl God is not gonna stop for u. You are such a bright light to many.
Hi Betty, just to add to this topic. I work for the Child Support office and I can say there are alot of dad's out there taking care of their children with no help from the mom's. There are a lot of "dead-beat" mothers as well. It takes two to make children and it's unfortunate that one parent is normally left "holding the bag".
This is a very valid topic, I’m about to expose the shortfalls of UK child support system. I can’t believe some parents punish their children just coz they couldn’t stand to be with the mother
Once a child is more than 6 yrs old, as a single mother, I would prefer for the father to have custody but here in the U.S especially African men, most cannot do it and so the mom ends up doing it although I prefer the dad staying with the children most of the time
The painful thing is that you will raise the child alone n later on they will start asking for their daddies n there's nothing you can do, thy will go to daddy n he never helped you...i can not leave him alone IL take him to court n pay child support by force by fire. Go ahead n put him on child support, this gender though. I love you Betty
What??? really we are good at judging others,am sorry Betty what we miss or fail to understand is, men are cunning and I think responsibility in the act is a two street thing if one doesn't need a child, should also take precautions not blaming women. Don't forgive a person in Africa and do the same in USA Nooooo!!! Watu Wana mchezo sana
i like yur hair style bety.yu are a strong lady and keep strong each day to see yur children growing may God protect yu and yur family alwyz thanks for sharing this videos i feel yu coz also im single mom of two so im in yur shoes and i know hw it feels to bring up children alone.May God give us strength alwyz and good health to us all.
Speaking from a RESPONSIBLE male perspective, a man should take care of his kids for sure. As long as, the woman doesn't stand in the WAY or cause him additional drama and headaches from taking proper care of his children. But, on the other hand, there are several women that take advantage of the situation and decide to EXPLOIT and OPPRESS a man in the process of taking care of his responsibilities towards his children. Some women tend to use the reminance of anger and discord from their former and past relationship to oppress and exploit the lives of certain men as a way to maintain control, stress, and destroy the man's life, which is very unfortunate And, the CHILDREN end up suffering in this process as well, and it's not a good occurrence for all parties involved. I've heard stories and know people that I've been through these types of ridiculous and life destructive type situations that should be avoided by all means. Unfortunately, this is life sometimes, but people have to take responsibility for their personal choices and behaviors period. SALUTE 👉🏾👍🏾✌🏾💯
Hi B. You have so much energy for life activities. Aki how do you do it? I think you should do a video on time management- just how you manage to do such much considering you are a mom. And Betty, when was the last time you saw your mummy?
Child support, from day one I made up my mind never and never to ask for the father for child support, if he doesn't have sense so be it, I personally grew up with a single mother and she never asked for assistance and here I am all well. A man has got to be a man, if it happens by error then I pick up my pieces and move on. Baby mama drama is too much to deal with emotionally and mentally, where there's a will, there's a way.
@@Bettyaz hi. Wanted to clarify, it is state specific. In some eastern states unless one parent has full custody then yes. But in shared custody if the mum makes more than the father, yes she does pay.
