RETURN TO SEOUL | Davy Chou & Park Ji-Min on Identity and Creating Freddie 

Haha you're copying and pasting this everywhere but i totally agree. The main character was sooo toxic. There is nothing wrong with someone being that toxic if the reason forn why she was this way is told. If there is a resolution. But no. Just an emotional mess of a woman causing other people emotional damage. Including the young person she had sex with early in the film. Her "friend" the family was a bit too intensely religious. I would have tried to escape that if im honest. But ehh soo anying

@@nriab23 I usually do that because I want to know what people think and most of the times I never get a reply

@@Megatron-xs2qe yeah well i agree with you 100% i just don't understand how people are calling this film amazing. I haven't even finished watching it and i gave up..... i just couldn't understand some things.. the time jumps. Did she decide to live in seoul permanently? Who was that weird weapons/tinder hook up guy. Why was she having sex with everyone if she had a friend boyfriend. How was she able to maintain a boyfriend in the first place given her toxic personality. The concept of the film is nice but it could babe been done so much better

As someone who also was adopted, I personally also had similar struggles to the main character. The way I would describe it is… it’s hard for us to connect to other people, because in the beginning we were abandoned (no matter the reason even if it was in our best interests it’s seriously damaging). There is a lot of complicated emotions and self destruction tendencies are common. To be comfortable and to accept love and to have people care for you and to have that intimacy can be scary and uncomfortable and i don’t know fully why but i have this diversion from it too. Perhaps because it’s so unfamiliar, or it’s too good to be true, maybe even I’m not worthy. It’s like there’s a constant battle between wow what would it be like to be loved and to have family and that natural human desire for connection but also the fight or flight response because of your past and the suffocation you feel. There’s a lot of things i still don’t understand about myself or the actions of others. The character is not toxic, we’re not toxic, we’re just lost and wounded people. It’s hard for people who haven’t had these kind of experiences to understand. Perhaps you are one of the many lucky people who have experienced the luxury of family and bonding. Yes she had her family in France but it’s not the same. There will always be a very specific type of pain. Edit: But I get where you’re coming from in the sense that it could’ve been explained better in the film but maybe it’s just up for interpretation and if you get it you get it kind of thing.

We get it, you have absolutely no empathy. You don't need to copy paste that everywhere, that's pathetic.