I met my Japanese wife on Japan Cupid back in 2008. I met her while I was here in the states but the key is to meet the person in real as quickly as possible and not waste a lot of time with only online communication. Unfortunately she passed away a few months ago and now I find myself alone again and I guess I gotta start looking..
Oh ifeel so bad for you hope you will find the one you and for everyone who really wants to meet the one for them good luck butenaaagambarayou okey hhh❤❤❤❤
Ah this was so good! Thank you for having me on love 💕 as usual it’s so fun and easy to have a chat with you 💖😘🎉let’s not wait too long to do it again😂💖💖
I used JapanCupid to meet my girlfriend. It was the only way for me at the time to meet a Japanese woman. I actively pursued a Japanese woman for particular reasons. The apps are simply a tool and it still is up to the individuals to sort through the selections and "decipher the codes" of relationships. My understanding is that Tinder is for people looking for a "quick hit". Which is why I am surprised Asagi met her last bf from that app. (Forgive me if this is incorrect, Asagi) Let's be honest though, if you can meet people in real life, like....while out grocery shopping or something, that would be better. When you do it in real life it's more organic, and you also realize some of your "shopping list" isn't as important.
If any, Hinge is about the only one I've used that I find worth it. It's the only one as a guy that you don't have to keep guessing if you're not paying for subscriptions. If a girl likes you, you can see who it is and respond. Not sure if that's available in Japan, but if it is, I'd say give it a shot.
I recently discovered your channel. I like the DIY aspects and it’s not polished. I also like the fact you are involving other RU-vid channels to participate. Inspiring!
HelloTalk is the best one, although its rules specifically states that you will be banned if you used it for dating, many people still succeeded on meeting new people in there. It's more of like "Dating is not allowed in this app, but if you do it smoothly and in a friendly way that is just barely in the borderline of the rules, you can do it just fine, no problem."
Thanks. I think that was really useful and fun. I'm new to Japan and have been wondering the best way to go about meeting women and dating. Great video.
FWIW as someone in Tokyo...Pairs was legit when looking for an ACTUAL relationship. I actually set it for women over 30, haha. Tinder girls were much more flaky here in my experience. A lot more fake pics too (eg...much older/fatter than profile). Those stupid as fuck dog ears/nose/mouth things from the phone apps are covering the faces of so many girls here too. So annoying.
and in recent years, they all wear masks. i saw so many girls (even in real life) that looked potentially cute, but once they remove the mask, they are ugly.
Having used several dating apps in the past I find too many people don't know themselves as much as they think they do Add as you get older you know more of what you want in life so an older dating range I think is best
Very interesting video. I have never used Dating apps here in my home country Austria and also did not use them during my previous stays in Japan but I might use them during my next stay. My previous stays were rather a short term (just 3 weeks) but next time I am going to stay for 6 months. That's a rather long term stay and enough time to build up a new circle in Japan and maybe meeting some nice woman. Worth a try for sure I think.
@@UzumakiHarutoJP don't now how it is for puma but here in germany there are certain companies that offer a sabbatical. the idea is that you put part of your money earned into a fund/bank account from your employer and save for a certain amount of time. This money is then used as a substitute payment for the time you take off work. maybe that's a way or he's working there for a short amount off time :D. I plan to visit japan in 1,5 years for three weeks and plan to do a sabbatical for 6 months: 3 months in portugal and 3 months in japan
@@anneu3068 i don't mean that, that's no problem i mean the fact that you can only stay for up to 3 months on a tourist visa... i feel like he doesn't know about the limits... if he was able to it would be silly to only go for 6 months because it would probably be for either work or school and 6 months probably wouldn't do much in either case i don't even know what a sabbatical is but we just save our own vacation money (I saved up more than enough) and i'm quitting my job anyway but it doesn't affect the fact that unfortunately there's no way for me to actually stay in japan permanently right now, i'd only be able to go for at most 3 months legally...
Personally no dating app is worth it. They just commercialize humans beings as if they are products. Swipe left or right and if there's anything you don't like to abandon it like a defective product. If you want to date, go out there and meet people in real life
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on dating apps. Not sure if your advice helps though. They can really maximize your opportunity to get a date in Japan (not sure in the west). I'd say keep your mind open 🙂
True, always prefer talking to people face to face to see their expression while they are talking still using dating app is different and a little difficult a bit
@@Sara.S.Alshamsi yeah, that's because you're attractive 😉 😘 everyone standing in front of you is always a happy 😊 face. Gotta give us toads an avenue also. 🥸🤓🐸
@@WatchingUntiltheEnd thank you love 🌷 you r not a toad and can bet my arm on it, I can tell your presence left people spirit to the sky. Simply u made my whole day and night and properly the coming week too 😁😘
And on top of that, there’s always the high chance that you’ll be communicating with someone using a fake profile, especially people who are scammers. That’s one of the main reasons why I stopped using dating apps.
I'm curious if any of these app work if you don't live in Japan? Or it's pretty much like you need to be in Japan or not much of a chance? I guess if there anything for long distance relationships or at least start it. I'm fully able to go visit to deepen the relationship but living there not really an option. Most of the apps do seem to require you to be in Japan it seems. Great video!
Asagi you are my dream woman ❤️ It’s even harder for French guys like me. Not. so many woman speaks English… but nearly none of them speaks French 😢 Quick question: How/where to meet a Japanese woman who speaks (or try to learn) French in Tokyo? I’ll be back there very soon. Many thanks 🙏
It's interesting in the dating culture between America and other places. I find it's more traditional and more serious for looking for long term partners in japan vs here in the U.S. maybe I will try dating abroad lol
One thing i like is people using true photos because there are lots of fake accounts, i don't like much dating apps i didn't had good feedback on those.
Asagi age range is perfect. A young woman AND mature that can have fun but at the same time knows what she wants. (30s to 46 for me). As someone looking for a more serious relationship and actually wanting to get married, sounds like Ok Cupid and Japan Cupid are the apps that would suits me better, but I don’t like the idea to add yet “another bill”to the pool, specially during these trying times where getting a job has been a never ending odisea (us non native English speakers without working visa have it hard, until covid it was a totally different story). So I guess I’ll have to continue trying the “old school way”.
That rule applies only to men, not to girls. Women rate 80% of the men as "non-attractive", hence swipe onle 20% of the men right. Men of course swipe right across the whole spectrum - because they have to. Dating platforms are made for women, not for men.
@@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan Entirely subjective and it's not just about the looks. sehctiB like you also love money, power, confidence, masculinity and other psychological traits.
If you're a guy. Dating apps aren't that great here. As a foreigner I gave up on tinder 2 months after trying it 4 years ago. If you're a girl. It's fine. If you're a guy... you'll have more success doing Nampa lol. And way more success if you go to an event like a club, bar, language exchange event or some group activity for a hobby you like in Japan. If you know Japanese. Your success rate will be much higher. But you'll have an easy enough time just knowing English. Also, I got a lot of girls when I was obese in Japan. Now I'm "macho" which the girls tell me. Now I barely even need to try to get girls. I have female friends always trying to introduce me to their single friends. I get girls pretty much every time I go out and quity of girls are higher. So get your self in decent shape and get out there.
Say no more. I’ll have to go to the gym.(I’m athletic/slim type). My experience differs a lot from yours, every time I got a gf in Japan has been because they reach me, but when I try to go nanpa I fail lol. And s*xfriends has been married women, which I ‘m tired of.
@@dieinfire920 it's always fucking married women and they don't even tell you most of the time until after. It's killing me. My mindset is if they are over 27. They are probably married or in a serious relationship. Hence when I do attempt to date seriously. I go for girls around 21. Although I am mostly just playing the field right now. Since I realized japanese women cheat to much to bother getting married here. Edit: before I get hate for the cheating comment. My Japanese friends say the same thing. So it's not just my experience as a foreigner here. Most of my Japanese guy friends have married セフレ(s×x friend). So sad.
@@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan Yes I am. 4 months is long enough. I've seen enough photos of the back of a girl's head. You're a woman. You will get a lot of attention on any dating app. The game isn't the same for men. Telling men to approach women in real life is amazing advice. Only the top 20% of men will get noticed on dating apps. It's not worth most men's time
@@Oversurge_ As I told on the video I signed up as a man and do my research on some apps. You see many back head shots cause it's Tinder (where many of the users aren't westernized), but it doesn't happen as often on the other apps. Yes, less percentage of the men get noticed but that's because of the men/women ratio (that can happen offline situation too), also you can get noticed more if you go on other apps that have smaller pools. You see, there are ways. It's nice that offline dating works for you. But I just want my viewers to be open minded for online dating too.
Ok cupid isn’t free for men AFAIK. You have to pay a lot to be able to read messages. And you wil get messages from people from other okcupid countries
Maybe they'd be worth it if women actually posted pics of their faces instead of food or just their eyes. It's super weird in Japan that people want to meet people but don't want you to know what they look like lol
ごめん、 ladies, but I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but men of any culture and age prefer younger women. Somewhere in your lives you were never taught this, I am thinking. Women's value is when you're young. Men's value is when they are older and are more successful. The guys that you think you want are going to want the younger ones. Please keep this in mind because it is a universal truth and time is ticking.
I’ve tried using a few apps here in Japan but the closet matches seem to always in Tokyo and I live in the inaka of Ibaraki. So it is hard for me to find the time to get to Tokyo. Do you have any advice for that?
@@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan sounds like a job for Kuro Kouch! Btw I really enjoyed the synergy between you and Corny! Hope you guys have other collabs in the future!
I kinda feel ashamed I met woman of my life with help of social network (Facebook) in 2018. Now sometimes I have weird dreams how I meet her by simply approaching her in some public place, and not over social network.
i don't know much about apps in japan. i did hear about one called mixi or something but it was a long time ago. i don't think it's around anymore. cupid japan sounds funny. but it was a missed opportunity to name it something based on a creature of japanese lore dealing with love. lol
Hey Asagi. I'm in Okinawa, learning Japanese on a student visa, and I'm loving every minute in Okinawa. School is hard as hell, but it's still fun. Have you ever been to Okinawa? I've been on a few dates in the last few months, no vibes. So... I downloaded bumble and deleted it the same day. Waste of time. Mostly nasty gaijin on there (in Okinawa at least). I downloaded tinder... it's a ghost town, but I am not surprised. The only guys that get likes are alpha chads. So, I'm on a self improvement journey. Going to get a six pac and dress better. Increase my SMV. I'll be making videos on RU-vid about my life and adventures. I like your business idea. Good luck. You should get some video testimonials from your clients. That would help your sales. Give you credibility. Final thought. Do a reaction video to your first RU-vid video. I would be interested to see why you're not making dancing videos... Take care. Phil
Well... only from this comment I get some ideas of why your dating journey isn't successful 😅 Thanks for sharing though. Good luck with your self improvement!
Hey Asagi, UPDATE: Good news. I have a super sweet Vietnamese girlfriend, now. Met her at my language school. I deleted the dating apps. We're going to visit Tokyo at the end of the month. Maybe we'll run into you. :) Take care.
@@bro_math Great so you found yourself an Asian g/ friend and she is Vietnamese and Not Japanese . you couldn't get a Japanese woman so you went for the easy option of a Vietnamese g/friend . Seen it many times sorry to say - exactly the same as getting a Thai g/friend !! I bet you that your Viet g/friend has little education and expects you to pay for most things .
Sure dating app is safe but there are so many scammers and they lived far away. Most women, don't feel like long distance relationship, they do want to meet in real person.
Women who are..ahem...32 or 33 (lol)....have no problems in the US. There is no "Christmas Tree" effect , where women over 25 are not considered to be desirable..
Ok lets get one thing straight here , Miss Asagi will not say how old she is , which is pure vainness' . Who would ever want to meet a woman who simply can't easily say thier age ? Something is very wrong if she can't .
Papa katsu behaviour will undermine more the dating demand from men ergo society falling apart more, lonelyness will rise on both sides. When I see that carpentry jobs made partly by women in Japan thats a bad sign.
on bumble women be saying "hi " or sending en emoji too, they are way boring then an avergae guy and looks matter the most on dating apps, so unless you arent a good looking guy you should probably get off dating apps and leave these women be, You can try out some social events or work on yourself, get a dog i dunno just leave them be.
Dang i installed Tinder and that crap bs only goes 10 years difference wich is weird so why the heck that BS APP i can't talk to Younger or older people oh Boy 🤪😂 lol and what i can't meet japanese girls there because it's ONLY near me what a hell ? is that ? Now i am going to uninstalled that now 🤮 done lol 😁
